This site is for mothers of kids in the U.S. Navy and for Moms who have questions about Navy life for their kids.



Choose your Username.  For the privacy and safety of you and/or your sailor, NO LAST NAMES ARE ALLOWED, even if your last name differs from that of your sailor (please make sure your URL address does not include your last name either).  Also, please do not include your email address in your user name. Go to "Settings" above to set your Username.  While there, complete your Profile so you can post and share photos and videos of your Sailor and share stories with other moms!

Make sure to read our Community Guidelines and this Navy Operations Security (OPSEC) checklist - loose lips sink ships!

Join groups!  Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself!  Start making friends that can last a lifetime.

Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit - America's Navy and also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:



**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  


RTC Graduation

**UPDATE 8/25/2022 - MASK MANDATE IS LIFTED.  Vaccinations still required.

**UPDATE 11/10/22 PIR - Vaccinations no longer required.


Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

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Operation "Stand by your man"!


Operation "Stand by your man"!

For any woman waiting for the return of her sailor, be it from boot camp, A school, or a deployment!

Location: Good Old Red White & Blue!
Members: 350
Latest Activity: Jul 31, 2015


Discussion Forum

In need of advise

Started by Jasmine<3. Last reply by Jo (Wife of an ET Radioman) Dec 14, 2011. 1 Reply

Ship 11 Division 040 :)

Started by NorfolkNavyWife Nov 28, 2011. 0 Replies

Missing THE phone call

Started by SAwife11. Last reply by frogmansgirl Oct 7, 2011. 2 Replies

Where to start

Started by HoldFast86 (Ship 12 Div 325). Last reply by Mrs Eubank Aug 14, 2011. 1 Reply

Comment Wall


You need to be a member of Operation "Stand by your man"! to add comments!

Comment by ButterflyEyes on January 31, 2013 at 1:30pm

Hi.. Im new and my boyfriend just left for BC a few days ago.. and I am really down in the dumps.. His mom hates me and I doubt she will be much help..

Comment by ouranchorsaway(ship9-div341) on September 4, 2012 at 6:50pm
Hi.. im a. newbie to the group
Comment by Tiffany51908 on February 25, 2012 at 8:40pm

Hello ladies!! My sailor is currently in A school in meridian. We've been together for almost 4 years. A lot of his friends have gotten "dear john letters' and i really hate that he is stressing out about us. Any advice on how i can reassure him that i'm not going anywhere? Has anyone else had this issue? 

Comment by Kristina Marie on October 6, 2011 at 12:32pm
i know how it feels, my husbands in reactor and when he emails its just the couple sentances and i'll get the occasional phone calls. send packages when you can and make sure you send him pictures, it helps a lot. when he pulls into port hopefully you'll get a call.
Comment by HvnlySno (S11, DIV 276) on August 9, 2011 at 10:15pm

This is the group I need!  My SR is at GL...PIR 8/26!  Standing by and cheering him on! 

Comment by HoldFast86 (Ship 12 Div 325) on August 7, 2011 at 6:53pm
Standing by my Sailor who just left for boot camp on the 4th, I got the 22 second phone call....god how I had never wish more for a 2 minute one before in my life but it was better then nothing. By the time he graduates I will be around 30ish weeks pregnant...
Comment by KLP0824 on July 1, 2011 at 11:20am
Hey ladies how is everyone doing I have great news Hubby is coming home tomorrow on leave and I cant wait to see him and I will be moving to San Diego on the 10th I thought these days would never come and now am so excited I can't control myself HOOYAH
Comment by Janae' *My Love is HOME :)* on May 27, 2011 at 9:04pm
Standing by my man who is currently on deployment with the bush... Hoping these next few months go by quickly cuz I'm missing him like crazy.
Comment by KLP0824 on May 22, 2011 at 2:15pm

Standing by my sailor while he is currently on deployment cant wait for him to come home in july

Comment by NavySweetheart11 on May 14, 2011 at 1:33pm
Standing by my man as he was deployed this week. I cannot wait until it's overrrrr! :)

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