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  • colormecrazy

    Congrats cpursley!! That is wonderful news!! :)

  • colormecrazy

    If it works out for my husband in that same time frame...maybe he will be home Christmas eve.....HA. wishful thinking.

  • TxNavyDad

    @CP... See? I told ya!! That's awesome news!!! We are waiting now for our call from our son telling when he is coming home.
  • cpursley

    I'm like a child waiting for Christmas morning. I can't sleep. I hope everyone else gets home soon! !!
  • cpursley

    Me too! I can't wait. I'm going to be so excited at work tomorrow that I bet my students send me to time out.
  • JeanneT

    Cpursley.......so very happy to hear the good news. Can not wait until all of our kids are home. Congratulations. Hug him for all of us please. So very proud. Enjoy every moment. Keep us posted how he is doing. Thanksfor sharing y our thoughts and kind words.
  • Melissa (ship 5 SEP)

    Congrats Cpursley, today, wow. You just never know do ya.
  • Z's Mom

    My son called yesterday and said he was in ship 5 and coming home. Ironically, I got his box about 15 minutes before that call came.We are so sad and disappointed. He said much the same thing as the rest of you have said about the conditions, however, The person I spoke with because I just did NOT understand was very very kind though. She said the CO wanted to TRY to get everyone out before Christmas, but not to count on it. THEN I read that some of you have had loved ones in there for MONTHS!!!!!!! This is just awful.

  • Thetwoj

    Z's mom, sorry to hear about your SR. We've all been exactly where you are and know how you feel. The Christmas thing is really hard. Maybe they will get him home in time, but if not don't worry, he's going to be okay and they will take care of him. There are many wonderful families in the Chicagoland area that take many of those boys home for the day and those who don't have a great day with hundreds of volunteers at local churches and schools who's only goal is to give them a great Christmas. Hang in there.

  • Z's Mom

    I got the "kid in the box" yesterday- 15 minutes later I get the call my son is in ship five and is separated!!! What a day. I have cried for the last two days. End of a dream and I don't know how to put a positive spin on it.

  • JeanneT

    Zs mom.....hi. Good morning. My sone went to ship 5 on the 7th. Can not figure out a positive spin on it myself. I think it is going to be a "different" spin. I have a great kid and I have to believe that he is going to have a great future even if it is not the Navy. it is for sure a devastating phone call to receive. I am so sorry you have to experience it. Ask lots of questions and I have found alot of support here on this site. If you need anything just give a shout out.
  • Erika

    Got a all on the 11th that my boyfriend was moved to ship 5 for anxiety and depression?? Seems like the total opposite of him. Anyways, he says that they're "trying" to get everyone out before Christmas. He sounds really down and says he feels like a failure. I do get to talk to him more often but it only makes me more sad to hear him say those things.
  • Erika

    True. How long did it take your son to get home since he was sent to S5??
  • colormecrazy

    Hey everybody. Such a gloomy day. Hoping my husband gets to see legal today. Maybe i'll even get to hear from him! Did yall hear about the CT shooting? I am seriously in tears right now. Praying for everyone involved :(

  • TxNavyDad

    ::::LATE BREAKING NEWS::::::::LATE BREAKING NEWS::::

    Ladies... Just heard briefly from our son thru a phone call. Travel contacted him and advised he was flying home on Tuesday, possibly Monday if an early flight was available. 

    This is excellent news for everyone as they are trying to get as many sent home by Christmas if not before.

    For the questions that will follow:

    Sent to S5 on Dec. 3rd.

    Was legaled on Dec. 11th

    We are so pumped up it is unbelievable. Everyone's prayers have worked wonderfully and we cannot thank you enough.

    For those who still have not heard, hold on and breathe deep. The end of the storm is around the corner. We will continue to pray for everyone's SR and families.

    @Erika... I know things look VERY dark, gloomy and your emotions are running rampant. trust me when I say we have ALL been there and most still are. You are in the right place at the right time for support, guidance and answers to ALL questions you have. Confusion? Yup... you're already dealing with that.

    Bottom line is this Erika... put your feelings in here. We all are here to support each other as we ALL are family. Family takes care of family.

    There are plenty of shoulders to cry on, ears ready to listen, prayers to be offered up for you and your SR. Don't be shy or embarrassed about anything.

    When this happened to our son, I fell apart like a cheap suit. My macho attitude? GONE!! My manly, tough guy outward appearance? GONE! Ask anyone in here and they will testify to that I came unglued in many different ways.

    We are here for you, your SR and ALL the others whom I'm sure have an SR in ship 5 (S5 for short) and have not come here yet.

    So, let it out lady. We all understand and will support you like a true family, since that what we are.

  • colormecrazy

    That is incredible news!!!!! I'm so happy for y'all!! This makes me soooo optimistic!! Thank you for updating!

  • colormecrazy

    Time for my good news!!!!!!

    My husband was sent to ship 5 Dec. 6

    Legalized YESTERDAY. and will be home late next week!!!!

    Counting my blessings. :)

  • TxNavyDad

    UPDATE... Just talked to my son on FB and said he will call Monday night with his flight info!!!

    YEEEEE HAAAWWWWWWWWW!!!

    Excited?? MMmmmmm Could beeeeeeeee!!!

  • TxNavyDad

    Just chatted with our son on FB. He will Monday night with his flight info!!
    Thank you Jesus!!

    @sixft... LOL!!! I agree lady!!! I'm sure a group of somebodies are about 10lbs lighter cuz they be missin some tush meat!!! :D
  • TxNavyDad

    @colorme... Thank you. I figured that my sons info just might lift some spirits and give a little reassurance. We will keep praying your hubby will be...
    "Leavin on a jet plane! Can't wait to get agane!!!"
  • Erika

    Just talked to my SR on the phone! He says its soooo boring and like a zoo in there! He says he's never read so many books in his life. Lol

    He also says that if he sees legal by Wednesday he'll be home by Christmas!!
  • cpursley

    Finally have my son home. He looks great. His 1st stop was to game stop. I think someone monitors the private messages. A lot of people have problems with them.
  • TxNavyDad

    @CP... That is such awesome news!!  Soon our son will be home next week as well. We are waiting on his call Monday evening for flight info.

    The bestest Christmas present EVA!!!

    Please keep us updated on how he's adjusting. Sounds like he's right at home going to gamestop... Enjoy your holidays CP!!

    We are praying that everyone gets there hubby's, sons and daughters home for Christmas.

  • cpursley

    So far he seems the same as always. He has 2 of his best friends over, 1 which leaves for the navy in March and 1 leaves for the army in January. They are getting ready for a full night of video games. He said he first wanted to take a LONG shower. I hope everyone gets their loved ones home soon.
  • TxNavyDad

    @CP.. The phrase "Business as usual" never sounded so good and never was so welcomed in your home now that your son is home, huh??

    So glad for you. We are counting the days until we hear from our son on Monday night with his flight info, then will be counting the hours until his arrival.

    My daughter had a really great idea... my son and daughter usually go over to my mom's and help her bake cookies this time of year.

    SO she came up with the idea of calling Mamaw (My kid's childhood name for Grandma) and asking her if my daughter and her could make cookies on a certain day (the day after my son comes home). She would tell her that my son isn't going to make it home until the week after, then show up on her doorstep on the cookie baking day with my son standing at the door when she opens it! (CUE: Pass out the Kleenex). Pretty sharp daughter huh?

    I had come up with idea of going to my in-laws house the night my son comes in from GL (providing it's not to late) and surprising my son's grandparents. Keep in mind that his Grandfather (wife's side) is retired Navy. So this will be quite a visit for sure!! (pass out the Kleenex)

    Anyway, I'm praying extra hard (if you can do that) for EVERYONE'S SR's, be it hubby, son, daughter, BF, GF, brother or sister, make it home for Christmas, safe and sound.

    My wife (glorann1978) and I will keep y'all updated on his arrival and any pertinent news. It really does look like legal is trying to get everyone out for the holidays.

    We are almost there everyone... almost there...

  • JeanneT

    Yay sweetie. That is super news. So happy to hear. Keep us all posted. Have a great rest of the weekend.
  • stephrn66

    That is great news! Home for Christmas, I'm so glad for you!!
  • Melissa (ship 5 SEP)

    Talked to our SR today. Says wont be home for Christmas. His CO has had a family emergency and won't be back till January. Boy do I hope he's wrong. Happy for everyone but having a hard time reading all the happy posts. We had our hopes up.
    Ship 5. Nov 27th. :(
  • stephrn66

    Melissa, I think rumors abound in there. My SR had also been told somewhere along the line that there was a break for legal from Dec 19 until after Jan 1. That obviously is not the case. I will hope he has misinformation about that!
  • JeanneT

    Melissa.....what ship was he on before S5?
  • TxNavyDad

    @Aloha... That's awesome!! Our son was legaled the same day as your son.

    Our son said he will call Monday night with his flight info, so we are hoping he will be flying home Tuesday as well.

    It's a very good sign that our SR's are being processed very quickly (all things considered). I don't believe that legal is closing down on the Dec.19th as we were lead to believe, at least not by the way so many are being processed. 

  • TxNavyDad

    @Melissa... Oh man.. That's such terrible news! I sure hope your SR is incorrect.

    Possibly your SR's CO's exec can step in and sign off on the waiting SR's to finish processing. Usually the exec can follow up in place of the CO. On board, when the CO leaves the ship, the XO (exec) takes over command in the CO's place and the CO's responsibilities and authority.

    Lets hope his XO follows thru with this.

    Please keep us all updated OK? We will be praying as always..

  • sdcel

    Hello - my son arrived on 12/5 and we just got our first letter from him saying he'd been assigned to Ship 5.   I'm not sure if he even knows what this means, because his letter was quite upbeat.   The 'Boot Camp Moms' group told me this means  he's being discharged!    I don't understand what is happening.  It is Saturday night now, so I can't even call his recruiter, but I plan to at the first opportunity.   I am worried sick and don't know what to do.

  • glorann1978

    @scdel he could have been sent for a variety of reasons. Our son was sent there for admin reasons (paperwork) he has been there almost 2 weeks. He let us know yesterday that he should be home next week. We have been able to periodically communicate thru facebook by sending a private message. You can still write to him while he is on ship 5.

    SR LAST NAME, FIRST NAME MIDDLE INITIAL

    SHIP 05 MALE SEPS

    3610 ILLINOIS STREET

    GREAT LAKES IL 60088-3118

  • Deanna

    scdel  my sons recruiter was of no help when I called him to find out about my son.  My son had actually left a message on his brothers phone that he was separated so I got on this site and found Ship 5 and called the number to seperations administration listed above and they confirmed my son was there and had him call me back. 

  • Melissa (ship 5 SEP)

    Ship 12 div 054
  • SelenaNM

    Sorry I am not on here much, but I see many are getting their kiddos back and soon too... So happy for you all and on to a new chapter for them. May god and the holidays bring you all much happiness and the new year a new beginning. Lots of love you guys :)
  • sdcel

    Thank you to everyone who has responded to my post with kind thoughts and information.  I hope to know more today or tomorrow.   My first concern is for my son, and helping him get through this.   I truly appreciate everyone's help.

  • AE

    My fiancé is being medically discharged from bootcamp with an injured shoulder and depression. He went to legal Friday now what happens?? He usually calls every other day do thy get to call on the weekends?
  • Z's Mom

    Just wanted to say Thank you again so much for the support from persons on this site. I was so shell shocked when I got the call my son was being separated a short 15 minutes after I got "the box". My son has been allowed to call almost daily, they have asiisted him with future plans now that this dream has ended. Thank you again so very very much - caring, kind and loving people do exist, and you'll find them here at ship 5.

  • sdcel

    Dear Z's Mom - I am glad to hear this, thank you for sharing.  Emotionally, I'm about 2 days behind where you are now, so very glad to hear that things can get better.  Especially glad they are assisting your son with future plans.   I have yet to speak with my son directly (I keep missing his calls), and am waiting for SAO to open this morning so I can call them and try to get some information.   This Ship 5 site is the only place I can find comfort right now.

  • TxNavyDad

    sixft... lots of our MEN are on their way homes.. ;D

  • TxNavyDad

    sixft... I know, I know... just messin with ya... ;D

  • TxNavyDad

    <SIGH> Just got done chatting with my son on FB and he's going to call between 8-9 tonight after chow to give his departure info.

    YAAA!!! Our son's gonna be home in a couple days if not one. Hope you all are getting related info such as this.

  • colormecrazy

    I hope its tomorrow txnavydad!! My husband just called me saying he will be home Wednesday. So hopefully, I will get the departure call tomorrow night. People who are legalling today will be going home Friday. I'm too excited to have him home. :)

  • Melissa (ship 5 SEP)

    Nope TX, talked to mine this morning. Said January 7th. I just don't understand why. Still hope he'd just misinformed about something.
  • TxNavyDad

    @Melissa... I sure hope he's wrong. My son seems to very sure he's leaving tomorrow. Matter of fact, his parting words on FB were, I love you too. Call you tonight, see you tomorrow. Nice words to hear. I just hope they are correct. If all goes according to the way others have, he should...

    (arms, legs, fingers, eyes and toes crossed) be home this week. Tomorrow preferably.

    BUT... as always, I will update tonight after talking with him and getting his departure info. I'll make it REAL easy for y'all... if he's coming home THIS week... I'll start out the post with, YEEEEE HAWWWWW!!!

    You know, like I have on others? LOL. Melissa, I really hope your son was misinformed. Seems like there is allot of that going on lately.

    Confusion? Ya buddy....

    @colorme... Awesome news fer sher!!! Let us know the details as soon as you get them.!

  • Melissa (ship 5 SEP)

    Well TX, I was right all along.  After putting all the information from Ship 5 moms and dads, along with the intervals of phone calls and other stuff that just didn't add up.......  I questioned our SR today during an 'unexpected' phone call  about everything I knew and my suspicions.  "If your lying and plan on surprising us- you will die!!!"  His reply.... "There is no way I'd do that,  Are you crazy.  How could a joke about something like that."   Like I said I was correct.  Had his dad pick him up from airport and 'SURPRISE'.  Might I just say he's just lucky he is still alive at this very moment.  Same ole' kid.  Less hair and ugly glasses.

    Ship 5- Nov 27th

    Legal- Dec 7th

    Home- Dec 17th

  • Melissa (ship 5 SEP)

    Bridgett- did you find out why he is coming home?

  • TxNavyDad

    YEEEE HAAAWWWWW!!!

    Yup, its official!! Our son is "Leavin' on a jet plane!" "He's comin' home agane..."

    Just got off the phone with our son and they are leaving for the airport at 10am tomorrow morning to come home. I told him about what Melissa's son did and he confessed that he had actually thought about doing that! The TURD!!

    But, hey, he will be home and that's what counts. He said he will call from the airport before he boards.

    @Melissa... Well there lady... some son you have there... I love his covert operations! He's all Navy, thru and thru!! That was an awesome trick to pull. LOL

    I'm guessin you have not let go of huggin him yet... Totally understandable.

    By the way... did you run out of Kleenex yet?

    @Bridgett... Has your fiance been legaled yet? They usually give them a pretty accurate time frame of when they are leaving. How is he doing btw?