Being a Navy wife it's a little rough finding those things that you love about a place until it's time to up and move. My husband will be joining the Bataan around November and I'll be moving to Virginia with my two young children, and our dog a few months after that. For those of you that live in Va, What do you love about Virginia? I'm talking great shops, cute neighborhoods, fantastic restaurants. Please, give me something to look forward to other than the fact that I may have a big comfy bed to myself for a while : )
ok Joro, I know your most likely not a realtor(that would be CRAZY if you were, lol) BUT are there any neighborhoods in particular that you recommend in Norfolk or Virginia Beach or any areas that I should probably stay away from when we are ready to rent or buy?
Stephanie, If you're looking to rent a house there are a few area's in Virginia Beach that are nice and have good schools. I LOVE my neighborhood and the school district is GREAT! I live in a subdivision called Coventry, in the Kempsville area. A few other good subdivisions around here are Salem Woods and Glenwood. The neighborhoods are nice and peaceful and have a lot of kids. We live in walking distance to the Elementary school Rosemont Forest.... I'm not a huge fan of Norfolk, to be honest there are a few nice areas but A lot of bad ones too and the schools aren't the best. This is our third time being stationed here... I work in Chesapeake and I know the Hickory and Great Bridge schools are great and there are a few good neighborhoods that I know of but I'm not that familiar with a lot of that area... I'm not sure what your husbads Rank is but the BAH here isn't that high and a lot of the houses are a bit pricey for rent... We pay $200 more than my hubbys bah in rent plus utilities. But for the neighborhood and schools it's worth it.... 100% possitive we won't retire here LOL Don't get me wrong it's not a bad place but everyone has their idea of "home" and for us this just isn't it.
Joro, i guess i better get busy sending a package then. Would it be to late if i send it Wed. or Thurs? Do you know why they won't be getting packages very often?
Well ladies, my sailor is officially off the USS Bataan. I would just like to thank you all for all the advice and the comfort that I received on this site. I sure have loved having people that know what I am going through to vent, cry, laugh, and chit chat with. I am still praying for a safe and QUICK deployment for you all, and will probably keep checking this site because it is now part of my daily routine.
I have not been reunited with my sailor yet. :( He was delayed a couple times off the ship, had his flight from Spain to Norfolk cancelled and rescheduled for the next day, and is working on getting everything in order for terminal leave. Once that is done we are done with the Navy! He didn't want me to spend the money on the flight to go to VA since he should be home within 2 weeks.
Again thanks all the support and advice! It was a pleasure!
@Sandra AM Mom - the "big meeting" was talking about their return, but you have to talk to your sailor or call the ombudsmen to get the skinny on that. Posting it on here would be an OPSEC violation
Sandra your not alone we really need some cooler weather and rain to go with it. We still have tripple digits here in Mo. Our crops need rain bad!!!
Since we know the date when there comming home when should we start making plans for reservations and such. I herd once they set a date it most likely wont change, but I know there is a possibility. I'm just getting a head start on the party planning of him coming home. Gives me something better to think about.
So how long before they get to take leave when they return? I'm with Sandra, i'm just thinking way ahead, if he gets to come home pretty soon after their return then i may not go to the homecoming, i just gotta save some money if i do go to the homecoming. I don't fly so im trying to figure things out.
My son has never called me, when he left email was all he thought we needed. I think maybe I should get him a calling card. I sure would like to hear his voice.
I did get an email from him. He bought some mufflers for his car that he said was being shiped home. Played some basketball which he loves to play. He said a little more practice would help.lol He never says a whole lot just a couple of lines, so a phone call would be good. But I don't know, he would called his friends instead of me. (i just miss him a lot)
If you have a Masonic Lodge in your community they collect $,s for calling cards. They may have to come from your Masonic state's headquarters. DC is the Grand lodge of all... I received one for our Sailor, it may be worth a try.... Please do not let them say they only send them to troops who are in Iraq etc, not on ships. I stood my ground and told them what our Sailors are doing is just as important. They sent it directly to me and then I sent it on... It maybe worth a try, as it is only a phone call, and many of your relatives may be Mason's... If you need more info,, friend me & I will try and help you.... Our Sailor had ATT with one of those fancy MAC I phones and the wanted $6.00 per minute, so we just suspended it.. Getting it put on hold was like getting an act of Congress tho, and as you all know these days that is not easy!! :-) Take care & God Speed to all !!
Our sailor passed the ESWS a couple of weeks ago.... Later when they had the pinning ceremony, of course there was no one there to take pictures .... Figures!! I do not think I will ever view a photo of our Sailor on this deployment...
Joro, my son e-mailed me sunday and wanted some seasonings for his food, and some microwave stuff, i was gonna send it tomorrow. Is it to late to send it?
Received this from my Nebraska Navy Moms group... Just passing it along...
Hi ladies...Just want to let you know we have a SPAMMER who has joined N4Ms... Her name is Jancie and she has joined other groups that I belong to and is sending mass messages out to them...If you belong to any of those groups and are receiving theses e-mails DO NOT click on the link that she is sending in her e-mails. As far as I know she has not joined this group as I have not recieved any mass e-mails from her in this group. N4M's admin has been told of her.
Posers and Lurkers are always on this site and this is good expamle of why following OPSEC is soooooo very important!!
Does anyone know if the USS Bataan, caps are available to sailor's families, or are they just strictly part of their uniform? I would like to purchase one for my husband, as he always has a hat on his head.... I have seen sailors wearing them in the Bataan FB page photos... Thank- you!
As a mother I'm missing my son horrible but can't immagine being gone from my husband that long. You are one special wife, and your husband is one special sailor to have you as his wife. Very understanding and caring energetic person you are. You can tell LOVE is there!!! Early return would be awesome but not getting my hopes up!
I need some advice, my son is undesignated/ deck department. He is really discouraged right now and even thinking about changing over to army when he returns to Norfolk.He said the navy is very overmanned and he don't think he will be able to go anywhere in the navy. I don't like the idea and told him to be patient. He said he don't feel like hes doing anything but cleaning and painting, he feels thats nothing to proud of. Any help in what to tell him would be greatly appreciated. I don't want him to go to the army, it scares me to think he would be on the ground somewhere being shot at.
SisCarrie. My husband was in deck dept also. He said the same things. He didn't feel like he was doing anything useful and it wasn't what he had signed up for. But he just cross rated to OS this test cycle. I would tell your son to stick with it and try to test into a rate he wants. We bought a study guide off the Internet and I forced him to study a lot. He didn't like me for forcing him to study but he's thankful now that he passed and got a rate.
SISCARRIE, I asked my husband what he thought (he's a YN that is currently doing recruiting, but going out to the Bataan later this year). Because your son has not chosen a job he is "undesignated" and pretty much has to do whatever job(painting and cleaning), and he most likely gets talked down to and yelled at alot. My guess is, he has only be in 6 months to a year. If he would chose a job and start doing on the job training things will get much better for him. IN SHORT: stick with it, choose a job and get paid. It would be easy for him to move from Navy to Army but he would just be going into the same situation only more likely on land.
siscarrie
Jul 25, 2011
Viola Ney garcia
Thank- you all for responding so quickly.
At least now i have an idea how long it takes.
Thanks
Viola
Jul 25, 2011
Stephanie
Jul 25, 2011
Stephanie
Jul 25, 2011
tinamarie
Stephanie, If you're looking to rent a house there are a few area's in Virginia Beach that are nice and have good schools. I LOVE my neighborhood and the school district is GREAT! I live in a subdivision called Coventry, in the Kempsville area. A few other good subdivisions around here are Salem Woods and Glenwood. The neighborhoods are nice and peaceful and have a lot of kids. We live in walking distance to the Elementary school Rosemont Forest.... I'm not a huge fan of Norfolk, to be honest there are a few nice areas but A lot of bad ones too and the schools aren't the best. This is our third time being stationed here... I work in Chesapeake and I know the Hickory and Great Bridge schools are great and there are a few good neighborhoods that I know of but I'm not that familiar with a lot of that area... I'm not sure what your husbads Rank is but the BAH here isn't that high and a lot of the houses are a bit pricey for rent... We pay $200 more than my hubbys bah in rent plus utilities. But for the neighborhood and schools it's worth it.... 100% possitive we won't retire here LOL Don't get me wrong it's not a bad place but everyone has their idea of "home" and for us this just isn't it.
Jul 26, 2011
siscarrie
Joro, i guess i better get busy sending a package then. Would it be to late if i send it Wed. or Thurs? Do you know why they won't be getting packages very often?
Jul 26, 2011
siscarrie
Jul 26, 2011
JillG
Well ladies, my sailor is officially off the USS Bataan. I would just like to thank you all for all the advice and the comfort that I received on this site. I sure have loved having people that know what I am going through to vent, cry, laugh, and chit chat with. I am still praying for a safe and QUICK deployment for you all, and will probably keep checking this site because it is now part of my daily routine.
I have not been reunited with my sailor yet. :( He was delayed a couple times off the ship, had his flight from Spain to Norfolk cancelled and rescheduled for the next day, and is working on getting everything in order for terminal leave. Once that is done we are done with the Navy! He didn't want me to spend the money on the flight to go to VA since he should be home within 2 weeks.
Again thanks all the support and advice! It was a pleasure!
Jul 26, 2011
ckmom
Good Luck Jill and wish you 2 happiness in the life ahead of you. Thank your sailor for serving our country!!
Barb
Jul 27, 2011
siscarrie
Jul 27, 2011
JillG
Jul 28, 2011
milwife2
@Sandra AM Mom - the "big meeting" was talking about their return, but you have to talk to your sailor or call the ombudsmen to get the skinny on that. Posting it on here would be an OPSEC violation
Jul 28, 2011
ckmom
Do you know how hard it is to get anything out of my son. LOL
I hope we get a letter or do we need to call?
Jul 28, 2011
ckmom
Jul 28, 2011
ckmom
Jul 28, 2011
ckmom
Jul 28, 2011
ckmom
Sandra your not alone we really need some cooler weather and rain to go with it. We still have tripple digits here in Mo. Our crops need rain bad!!!
Since we know the date when there comming home when should we start making plans for reservations and such. I herd once they set a date it most likely wont change, but I know there is a possibility. I'm just getting a head start on the party planning of him coming home. Gives me something better to think about.
Aug 1, 2011
siscarrie
So how long before they get to take leave when they return? I'm with Sandra, i'm just thinking way ahead, if he gets to come home pretty soon after their return then i may not go to the homecoming, i just gotta save some money if i do go to the homecoming. I don't fly so im trying to figure things out.
Aug 2, 2011
siscarrie
Aug 2, 2011
ckmom
My son has never called me, when he left email was all he thought we needed. I think maybe I should get him a calling card. I sure would like to hear his voice.
I did get an email from him. He bought some mufflers for his car that he said was being shiped home. Played some basketball which he loves to play. He said a little more practice would help.lol He never says a whole lot just a couple of lines, so a phone call would be good. But I don't know, he would called his friends instead of me. (i just miss him a lot)
Aug 2, 2011
ckmom
Aug 2, 2011
Sailor's Mom
Dear Navy Friends,
If you have a Masonic Lodge in your community they collect $,s for calling cards. They may have to come from your Masonic state's headquarters. DC is the Grand lodge of all... I received one for our Sailor, it may be worth a try.... Please do not let them say they only send them to troops who are in Iraq etc, not on ships. I stood my ground and told them what our Sailors are doing is just as important. They sent it directly to me and then I sent it on... It maybe worth a try, as it is only a phone call, and many of your relatives may be Mason's... If you need more info,, friend me & I will try and help you.... Our Sailor had ATT with one of those fancy MAC I phones and the wanted $6.00 per minute, so we just suspended it.. Getting it put on hold was like getting an act of Congress tho, and as you all know these days that is not easy!! :-) Take care & God Speed to all !!
Aug 2, 2011
ckmom
Thanks to all that responded back to me about the phones. That was very helpful!!
He has his i phone just to listen to music and play games on it right now.
Aug 2, 2011
ckmom
Aug 6, 2011
Sailor's Mom
Aug 6, 2011
siscarrie
Aug 7, 2011
ckmom
So letters they get more often, I thought they recieved letters the same time as boxes. Then I'll start writing more, he likes that.
No I haven't herd anything from my son lately either.
Aug 7, 2011
ckmom
Aug 7, 2011
ckmom
Aug 7, 2011
ckmom
Aug 7, 2011
siscarrie
Aug 8, 2011
ckmom
Good looking son Sandra. So I hope some day I will see a picture of my son.
Thanks for sharing!
Aug 8, 2011
siscarrie
Aug 11, 2011
siscarrie
Aug 11, 2011
jpk USS Bataan
Aug 11, 2011
ckmom
Aug 11, 2011
Sailor's Mom
Kellie,
How did you get image from Face Book to NFM page?
Thanks...
Aug 11, 2011
Sailor's Mom
Aug 11, 2011
Sailor's Mom
Aug 11, 2011
Sailor's Mom
Aug 11, 2011
Sailor's Mom
Yes on the left, with a Marine Captain, waiting in line for the bathroom. LOL ....
First we have seen of him since last Christmas, and he is even smiling!!!
Aug 11, 2011
Sailor's Mom
Aug 11, 2011
Sailor's Mom
Received this from my Nebraska Navy Moms group... Just passing it along...
Hi ladies...Just want to let you know we have a SPAMMER who has joined N4Ms... Her name is Jancie and she has joined other groups that I belong to and is sending mass messages out to them...If you belong to any of those groups and are receiving theses e-mails DO NOT click on the link that she is sending in her e-mails. As far as I know she has not joined this group as I have not recieved any mass e-mails from her in this group. N4M's admin has been told of her.
Posers and Lurkers are always on this site and this is good expamle of why following OPSEC is soooooo very important!!
Aug 13, 2011
Sailor's Mom
Hello all!
Does anyone know if the USS Bataan, caps are available to sailor's families, or are they just strictly part of their uniform? I would like to purchase one for my husband, as he always has a hat on his head.... I have seen sailors wearing them in the Bataan FB page photos... Thank- you!
Aug 14, 2011
ckmom
Aug 14, 2011
Sailor's Mom
Thanks for the info. Will ask sailor...
Aug 14, 2011
ckmom
As a mother I'm missing my son horrible but can't immagine being gone from my husband that long. You are one special wife, and your husband is one special sailor to have you as his wife. Very understanding and caring energetic person you are. You can tell LOVE is there!!! Early return would be awesome but not getting my hopes up!
Aug 15, 2011
siscarrie
I need some advice, my son is undesignated/ deck department. He is really discouraged right now and even thinking about changing over to army when he returns to Norfolk.He said the navy is very overmanned and he don't think he will be able to go anywhere in the navy. I don't like the idea and told him to be patient. He said he don't feel like hes doing anything but cleaning and painting, he feels thats nothing to proud of. Any help in what to tell him would be greatly appreciated. I don't want him to go to the army, it scares me to think he would be on the ground somewhere being shot at.
Aug 19, 2011
Miranda Nicole
Aug 19, 2011
Stephanie
Aug 19, 2011