Get ready for winter again soon. We had 3" of hail today in AZ and it destroyed all my apricots and peaches in my yard. Tell Hootie to suck it up and get some cheese for his whine. Hope he feels better soon.
Dawn
If you hear from your son first let me know, I will tell you if I hear from Tony I hate not knowing where they are all the time. Old parental habits die hard. Stay strong.
My prayers are with you and your family and a big hug to boot!
Does anyone have any suggestions on hotels near CL? Are there any on base? Looks like son is not getting any leave before his deployment, no time so I will be heading out there in two weeks.
Carol, thanks for the info. I lived overseas for 19 years of my life. You would think I would remember how to fill out a customs form. This memory loss is for the birds.
Late last night, a nurse called to tell me my brother had been admitted to the hospital. When it rains, it pours. Thank God, my little brother gets there tomorrow for the funeral. This is just too much, especially for my brother who has just lost his wife. What is the saying that about God only gives you as much as you can handle? Hey God, me down here. I think you have mistaken me for someone else.
I figured that Sister Teresa was right since I only had one son. I do not think I could have handled more with careers. In fact, it was hard at times doing laundry at midnight and juggling everything. Now, I look back on those days with fond memories with a little boy that was so much fun.....now he is in the U.S Navy, and I miss him a lot.
docsmom-
I am so sorry about your brother being admitted into the hospital. Hopefully, he will turn around so you can have him for more years. It is hard when one part of a longterm marriage dies on the other spouse. I know after my Dad died, my mother just gave up and died about 3 1/2 years later with lots of medical issues.
MW- I posted a bunch of things on FMTB east graduation after my visit last year. If you follow the link above on FMTB info..to FMTB East...and the scroll down to discusiions. Mine was in July 2011. Message me if you can't figure any of it out. Have fun!
Just tell me why........one child can have all the common sense in the world and the other child not so much??? My eldest daughter, who is 35, went to spend the week in Concord, CA. She packed for California.....the land of sunshine. WHAT WAS SHE THINKING??? She took flip-flops to wear and no coat. I asked her if she didn't check the weather, "No, Mom, it is California. It is suppose to be warm here." Really??? Child??? You are in Northern CA, by the bay, and no place in California(but the deserts) are as hot as Texas........Geez!!! She did find an Old Navy. I had to just sit back and laugh.
And, yes, Betty........you, Lorelai and I can shop and I'll get you drinking Margaritas, instead of wine!!! We won't care about anything else.....LOL!
Nice looking Margarita, Lorelai......just needs to be a bigger glass.....LOL!!
Thanks for the coffee, Betty. And, yes, I know.......but, you just once hope that some common sense kicks in.
Talked to cub last night. He seemed kind of in a funk. That roller coaster called new daddy, new mommie and doesn't know what to do with his life. LOL!!! I think his company is pretty sure that the will not be going back to the sandpit this year. But, that is yesterday's news. Not sure about tomorrow. He is talking about trying to become an Instructor at the Corpsman school in San Antonio. This mom would love that!!!
Hope everyone is safe with all this wild and crazy weather. We have had tons of rain, and need every drop. So, it is good.
Awwwwww Lorelia : ) What a handsome group of men ..
Good Morning Everyone ! Well, my son will be home in two days and He and I will be going Alone Friday to ck out where he and Lilia will be getting married : ) Its going to be at the Museum of Arts in Monterey . He found this place while deployed.. I am so excited to just have a few hours alone with him... Also after two months ( or so ) and 20 some odd pounds off I have finally found my dress!!! I think Marcy and Marilyn ( a very close and dear friend of over 20 years ..Poor thing ) Marcy even mailed me a dress to wear ..It was getting that scary .. LOL This Princess loves her Jeans .. LOL Thank goodness for Macy's ( I went to four different ones) LOL and one I went to twice..
"M" is also getting ready for his move to Washington State .. He has found a beautiful apt for he and Lilia 2 bdrm 2 bath : ) You know what that means ! Mom has her own space : )
Anna - Yep it rained this last weekend and was very cold !!! Silly girl you should never trust Cali weather ! : )
Ohhhhhh Betty lol stuck inside are you.. yikes ! My dress is a silver color and I haven't bought the shoes yet ... I'm getting so excited for the wedding. : ) even with the ex in laws. Lol
Wow, what a way to start OUR day ! Always awesome to hear from our Docs : )
My son will be hear tomorrow ( tho he is flying in tonight, but staying at his dads ) he hasn't been home in over a year... Betty thanks for the coffee : )
Good morning friends and happy Friday! So much to catch up on, so in lieu of trying to comment, please know that I peek in when I can and keep you all and your dear ones in my thoughts always.
All is well in my corner of the world, cub happy & doing well, the weather's great, & I'm so happy Spring has sprung.
Looks like another major tube top event is nigh, yay Lorelai! And Mariann, your turn will be coming up, so I'll be "shopping" for a special one to wear to wear to yours, too :)
OMGosh it looks like my BFF got here before I could : ) LOL
I'm almost ready for my date with my favorite guy hmmmm except the make up and the hair ..YIKES!!!! Nobody wants to see me without the makeup ...LOL NOBODY....
Betty the coffee is great and Marcy I'll give you a call : )
Carol - My dear friend always follow your heart and you will never be wrong... Please know most of us that have had our children deployed in harms way have or our going through the same... S#%T ( excuse my french ) I have been even with my baby that hasn't been deployed ! When will this all end : ( Hugs to you from Cali sweetheart...
oh Betty best thing you can do is listen to them they most likely will never be able to talk about all they seen and or did to mom or dad or close family. I hear something about something that happened only now that happened IM like dam where did that come from...now there is combat veterans and veterans that were in Vietnam that didn't go out the field but seen so much right there in camp. the details I will not post. My hubs will carry pain from that war until the day he dies he lives day by day.....some small ideas about your home and making them feel safe and welcome if you like know about placement of sofa ,chairs,ext. I would be happy to give you those. sometimes simple is best. large groups seam to be a problem for some. i have some many ideas.
anger management is great if they find a good person that knows about PTSD.try bike clubs ,American legion, veteran groups,ext carol and betty you can join American legion their are many mothers,wives,grandparents that need support from us!! us need support from them.
Founded in 1919, The American Legion Auxiliary has almost 1 million members from all walks of life. The Auxiliary administers hundreds of volunteer programs, gives tens of thousands of hours to its communities and to veterans, and raises millions of dollars to support its own programs, as well as other worthwhile charities familiar to Americans. It is all accomplished with volunteers.
While originally organized to assist The American Legion, the Auxiliary has achieved its own unique identity while working side-by-side with the veterans who belong to The American Legion. Like the Legion, the Auxiliary’s interests have broadened to encompass the entire community.
The American Legion Auxiliary is the world’s largest women’s patriotic service organization. Through its nearly 10,500 units located in every state and some foreign countries, the Auxiliary embodies the spirit of America that has prevailed through war and peace. Along with The American Legion, it solidly stands behind America and her ideals
Hi Carol, I can relate to what you're going through! My cub just posted this: "I really need to deploy again. Experienced corpsman looking for marine unit ready to get some." I think he's definitely off his rocker!!!!
I don't even know what to say..... omgosh my heart just hurts that our cubs are hurting like this... "M" was very lucky to land his last deployment he and his marines were so board and had some good fun going from port to port.. I don't like how they send our guys right back out.. they don't even have time to heal.. Sirvette big hugs to you ...
Something to add to the arsenal for coping - it's worth printing out and putting in a binder: A TRICARE Guide: Understanding Behavioral Health It covers pre- and post-deployment, and describes all the options available to our sailors via TRICARE for managing deployment-related behavioral health issues (the subtitle is Common Concerns, Helpful Resources, and How Your Benefits Work for You).
From the DoD - www.militarymentalhealth.org/welcome.asp Anonymous self-assessment tools to help you and your family recognize symptoms and get guidance on getting help"
Betty I had such an awesome day with my son : ) We teased each other so much... LOL When we got to the Monterey Museum of Art..I was just blown away with its beauty .. He rented ALL of it every room ! I had the lady take a pic of us but she couldn't on my phone ,, ohhhh but give her a fancy IPHONE and Yes she could.. LOL I only have a smart phone.... LOL so I am waiting for "M" to send it to me so I can post the pic ( even if I look like S@#T ) ...
Good Morning to the best group of Mom's & Dad's in the WORLD!!! Grabbing a cup out of Betty's cabinet for a fresh round of coffee!! Have read back several days and am wishing I was there to give you a big ole' hug, Carol!!! I know it is hard to sit back and feel your hands are tied with C. Nothing more frustrating....gr-r-r-r!!
Look what my cub is doing to get his adrenaline rush these days.....last one on the left.
He is a husband and father and is only thinking of working out/preparing for this race. He could have broken his neck. Luckily, he only lost his shoes.....LOL!! At the start of the race and did the whole think barefoot. What a dork!! I feel pain for his wife because of the roller coaster of "what to do". One day it is getting out, the next day it is putting in an Officer's package. He is, at least, working on his Master's. In Nam the guys all did drugs and came back with that problem. Today, they become RUSH junkies and come back trying to feel pain. Not sure what the answer is. I just say ever day & night......"Dear Lord, watch over my son and keep him out of harm's way. Amen"
so i haven't been on here for ages after i even said that i was going to come on more often. well that was before we found out that he was deploying.... we got 45 days notice of it. so i spent every second i could with him understandably. he is on and IA. he had to go and do training first so i had to say "see you later" to him some weeks back now. I am now only 2 WEEKS away from going to see him!!! i am very excited about that!!!!!!!!!! but being that he is on an IA i don't get to see him off or see him home again. and he will have to stay with the unit for like a month longer after returning so i wont get to see him till he is back at his original base. i also have a lot going on the first few months of the delpoyment so that is helping keep me busy. i now again will be trying to come back on here more. i think that a good support group like this will help alot!! i hope all is well with all of you and yours. i look foward to reading and catching back up with you!
Mama and Jesspoo - Wow, deployment is not easy and just remember this is a great group to belong to... It sure helped me...
Well, we are 9 days and some change before the Big Wedding ! "M" is doing great and some of his Marine and corpsman friends will be coming : ) ... He is all ready to leave CL and truly never look back, and yet he said he will be putting a new tattoo on his arm (the skull 2/2) ... Its been 2 years now and he seems to be doing great with his mind and soul.. ( Guys a watch him like a mother bear )...
M is just leaving CL he will no longer be working with the Marines : ) he will be Navy .... His contract was up and did't want to re up... That was my birthday present from him.. He will be going to Washington ...
Greg-and-Angela
Ruth
Get ready for winter again soon. We had 3" of hail today in AZ and it destroyed all my apricots and peaches in my yard. Tell Hootie to suck it up and get some cheese for his whine. Hope he feels better soon.
Dawn
If you hear from your son first let me know, I will tell you if I hear from Tony I hate not knowing where they are all the time. Old parental habits die hard. Stay strong.
Mar 18, 2012
IDCmom#1
Have to shout it out on all my groups.
My daughter-in-law is Sailor of the Quarter on the USS Sampson (DDG 102). Hurray for her!
Mar 18, 2012
IDCmom#1
Ruth, seems strange that your daffodils are just two weeks after ours in Florida. Strange weather.
Need help filling out customs form. I put the ship's name in the address block. Where do I put the FPO AP 96678-1303 ?
Mar 18, 2012
mamawalrus
Docs mom.. sorry to hear of your loss.
My prayers are with you and your family and a big hug to boot!
Does anyone have any suggestions on hotels near CL? Are there any on base? Looks like son is not getting any leave before his deployment, no time so I will be heading out there in two weeks.
Also anything you suggest seeing out there?
Mar 19, 2012
vettespace
docsmom, congratulations to your DIL!!!!!!!! Outstanding!!!!!!
Mar 19, 2012
IDCmom#1
Carol, thanks for the info. I lived overseas for 19 years of my life. You would think I would remember how to fill out a customs form. This memory loss is for the birds.
Late last night, a nurse called to tell me my brother had been admitted to the hospital. When it rains, it pours. Thank God, my little brother gets there tomorrow for the funeral. This is just too much, especially for my brother who has just lost his wife. What is the saying that about God only gives you as much as you can handle? Hey God, me down here. I think you have mistaken me for someone else.
Mar 19, 2012
velvetlace
kathy (auddreysmema)
I figured that Sister Teresa was right since I only had one son. I do not think I could have handled more with careers. In fact, it was hard at times doing laundry at midnight and juggling everything. Now, I look back on those days with fond memories with a little boy that was so much fun.....now he is in the U.S Navy, and I miss him a lot.
docsmom-
I am so sorry about your brother being admitted into the hospital. Hopefully, he will turn around so you can have him for more years. It is hard when one part of a longterm marriage dies on the other spouse. I know after my Dad died, my mother just gave up and died about 3 1/2 years later with lots of medical issues.
I will pray for you and your family.
Mary
Mar 19, 2012
MEsailormom
MW- I posted a bunch of things on FMTB east graduation after my visit last year. If you follow the link above on FMTB info..to FMTB East...and the scroll down to discusiions. Mine was in July 2011. Message me if you can't figure any of it out. Have fun!
Mar 19, 2012
Anna
Just tell me why........one child can have all the common sense in the world and the other child not so much??? My eldest daughter, who is 35, went to spend the week in Concord, CA. She packed for California.....the land of sunshine. WHAT WAS SHE THINKING??? She took flip-flops to wear and no coat. I asked her if she didn't check the weather, "No, Mom, it is California. It is suppose to be warm here." Really??? Child??? You are in Northern CA, by the bay, and no place in California(but the deserts) are as hot as Texas........Geez!!! She did find an Old Navy. I had to just sit back and laugh.
And, yes, Betty........you, Lorelai and I can shop and I'll get you drinking Margaritas, instead of wine!!! We won't care about anything else.....LOL!
Mar 19, 2012
Anna
Nice looking Margarita, Lorelai......just needs to be a bigger glass.....LOL!!
Thanks for the coffee, Betty. And, yes, I know.......but, you just once hope that some common sense kicks in.
Talked to cub last night. He seemed kind of in a funk. That roller coaster called new daddy, new mommie and doesn't know what to do with his life. LOL!!! I think his company is pretty sure that the will not be going back to the sandpit this year. But, that is yesterday's news. Not sure about tomorrow. He is talking about trying to become an Instructor at the Corpsman school in San Antonio. This mom would love that!!!
Hope everyone is safe with all this wild and crazy weather. We have had tons of rain, and need every drop. So, it is good.
Has anyone heard from Bugsy????
Mar 20, 2012
mikes mom
Awwwwww Lorelia : ) What a handsome group of men ..
Good Morning Everyone ! Well, my son will be home in two days and He and I will be going Alone Friday to ck out where he and Lilia will be getting married : ) Its going to be at the Museum of Arts in Monterey . He found this place while deployed.. I am so excited to just have a few hours alone with him... Also after two months ( or so ) and 20 some odd pounds off I have finally found my dress!!! I think Marcy and Marilyn ( a very close and dear friend of over 20 years ..Poor thing ) Marcy even mailed me a dress to wear ..It was getting that scary .. LOL This Princess loves her Jeans .. LOL Thank goodness for Macy's ( I went to four different ones) LOL and one I went to twice..
"M" is also getting ready for his move to Washington State .. He has found a beautiful apt for he and Lilia 2 bdrm 2 bath : ) You know what that means ! Mom has her own space : )
Anna - Yep it rained this last weekend and was very cold !!! Silly girl you should never trust Cali weather ! : )
Mar 21, 2012
mikes mom
Mar 21, 2012
velvetlace
Lorelai-
Great picture of your cub and the other good looking men!
Good morning, everyone. Coffee is on!!!
Mary
Mar 21, 2012
NanZam
@ Lorelai very handsome...Blessings...
@ Mikesmom enjoy your time with your son...and congratulations...Blessings
Mar 21, 2012
mikes mom
Hmmmmm new phone so I have a hard time putting it on the computer.. LOL Ohhhhhhhhhhh Marcy !!!!!! LOL She is my teacher : )
Mar 21, 2012
velvetlace
Kat-
Very romantic picture!!!
Mar 21, 2012
Greg-and-Angela
Got a call from the sand box and cub is good. Thank you Lord!
Mar 22, 2012
mikes mom
Wow, what a way to start OUR day ! Always awesome to hear from our Docs : )
My son will be hear tomorrow ( tho he is flying in tonight, but staying at his dads ) he hasn't been home in over a year... Betty thanks for the coffee : )
Ruthella I sure miss you...
Mar 22, 2012
abbyblue
My sailors are coming for a visit.............. HAPPY HAPPY .............
Mar 22, 2012
mikes mom
Awesome news Abby
Mar 22, 2012
Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom
Good morning friends and happy Friday! So much to catch up on, so in lieu of trying to comment, please know that I peek in when I can and keep you all and your dear ones in my thoughts always.
All is well in my corner of the world, cub happy & doing well, the weather's great, & I'm so happy Spring has sprung.
Looks like another major tube top event is nigh, yay Lorelai! And Mariann, your turn will be coming up, so I'll be "shopping" for a special one to wear to wear to yours, too :)
Thanks for the good coffee Betty!
Mar 23, 2012
mikes mom
OMGosh it looks like my BFF got here before I could : ) LOL
I'm almost ready for my date with my favorite guy hmmmm except the make up and the hair ..YIKES!!!! Nobody wants to see me without the makeup ...LOL NOBODY....
Betty the coffee is great and Marcy I'll give you a call : )
Mar 23, 2012
abbyblue
questions about PTSD I have lived with it for 35 years
Mar 23, 2012
mikes mom
Carol - My dear friend always follow your heart and you will never be wrong... Please know most of us that have had our children deployed in harms way have or our going through the same... S#%T ( excuse my french ) I have been even with my baby that hasn't been deployed ! When will this all end : ( Hugs to you from Cali sweetheart...
Mar 23, 2012
mikes mom
I already had Marcy say PICTURES!!!! LOL
Carol - I hope I hurt your feelings : ( I wanted it to read we all know what your feeling and realize how hard it is for parents.. Hugs
Mar 23, 2012
mikes mom
Good : ) One thing they don't teach our cubs is how to control their anger ... and thats from Melissa : )
Mar 23, 2012
mikes mom
Mar 23, 2012
abbyblue
oh Betty best thing you can do is listen to them they most likely will never be able to talk about all they seen and or did to mom or dad or close family. I hear something about something that happened only now that happened IM like dam where did that come from...now there is combat veterans and veterans that were in Vietnam that didn't go out the field but seen so much right there in camp. the details I will not post. My hubs will carry pain from that war until the day he dies he lives day by day.....some small ideas about your home and making them feel safe and welcome if you like know about placement of sofa ,chairs,ext. I would be happy to give you those. sometimes simple is best. large groups seam to be a problem for some. i have some many ideas.
abby.
Mar 23, 2012
abbyblue
anger management is great if they find a good person that knows about PTSD.try bike clubs ,American legion, veteran groups,ext carol and betty you can join American legion their are many mothers,wives,grandparents that need support from us!! us need support from them.
Mar 23, 2012
abbyblue
American Legion Auxiliary
Founded in 1919, The American Legion Auxiliary has almost 1 million members from all walks of life. The Auxiliary administers hundreds of volunteer programs, gives tens of thousands of hours to its communities and to veterans, and raises millions of dollars to support its own programs, as well as other worthwhile charities familiar to Americans. It is all accomplished with volunteers.
While originally organized to assist The American Legion, the Auxiliary has achieved its own unique identity while working side-by-side with the veterans who belong to The American Legion. Like the Legion, the Auxiliary’s interests have broadened to encompass the entire community.
The American Legion Auxiliary is the world’s largest women’s patriotic service organization. Through its nearly 10,500 units located in every state and some foreign countries, the Auxiliary embodies the spirit of America that has prevailed through war and peace. Along with The American Legion, it solidly stands behind America and her ideals
Mar 23, 2012
abbyblue
http://www.alaforveterans.org/join_now/eligibility/Pages/default.aspx
Mar 23, 2012
abbyblue
http://www.afterdeployment. Have you seen this web site ?
Mar 23, 2012
abbyblue
great to hear he is in contact with other vets .that is super good for these guys. so many of the vets from Vietnam are loners.
Mar 23, 2012
mikes mom
Awesome idea Lorelai : ) I love the Patriots
Mar 24, 2012
vettespace
Hi Carol, I can relate to what you're going through! My cub just posted this: "
Mar 24, 2012
mikes mom
Mar 24, 2012
Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom
Something to add to the arsenal for coping - it's worth printing out and putting in a binder: A TRICARE Guide: Understanding Behavioral Health It covers pre- and post-deployment, and describes all the options available to our sailors via TRICARE for managing deployment-related behavioral health issues (the subtitle is Common Concerns, Helpful Resources, and How Your Benefits Work for You).
From the DoD - www.militarymentalhealth.org/welcome.asp Anonymous self-assessment tools to help you and your family recognize symptoms and get guidance on getting help"
www.mentalhealthscreening.org/military has programs and this video: A Different Kind of Courage"
The DoD has more resources at http://warriorcare.dodlive.mil/
Mar 24, 2012
Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom
I've loved pigs-in-blankets since I was little, Betty, thanks! :)
Mar 24, 2012
mikes mom
Betty I had such an awesome day with my son : ) We teased each other so much... LOL When we got to the Monterey Museum of Art..I was just blown away with its beauty .. He rented ALL of it every room ! I had the lady take a pic of us but she couldn't on my phone ,, ohhhh but give her a fancy IPHONE and Yes she could.. LOL I only have a smart phone.... LOL so I am waiting for "M" to send it to me so I can post the pic ( even if I look like S@#T ) ...
Mar 24, 2012
mikes mom
Ohhhh Betty you are to sweet ... : )
Mar 24, 2012
mikes mom
Mar 24, 2012
Anna
Good Morning to the best group of Mom's & Dad's in the WORLD!!! Grabbing a cup out of Betty's cabinet for a fresh round of coffee!! Have read back several days and am wishing I was there to give you a big ole' hug, Carol!!! I know it is hard to sit back and feel your hands are tied with C. Nothing more frustrating....gr-r-r-r!!
Look what my cub is doing to get his adrenaline rush these days.....last one on the left.
He is a husband and father and is only thinking of working out/preparing for this race. He could have broken his neck. Luckily, he only lost his shoes.....LOL!! At the start of the race and did the whole think barefoot. What a dork!! I feel pain for his wife because of the roller coaster of "what to do". One day it is getting out, the next day it is putting in an Officer's package. He is, at least, working on his Master's. In Nam the guys all did drugs and came back with that problem. Today, they become RUSH junkies and come back trying to feel pain. Not sure what the answer is. I just say ever day & night......"Dear Lord, watch over my son and keep him out of harm's way. Amen"
Mar 26, 2012
mamawalrus
Great pictures! thank you for sharing them.
I am leaving Thursday morning to see my son in CL before his deployment.
His date as of yesterday got moved back a few weeks so this weekend will give us some time to just hang out! Cant wait!
Mar 28, 2012
jesspoo05
so i haven't been on here for ages after i even said that i was going to come on more often. well that was before we found out that he was deploying.... we got 45 days notice of it. so i spent every second i could with him understandably. he is on and IA. he had to go and do training first so i had to say "see you later" to him some weeks back now. I am now only 2 WEEKS away from going to see him!!! i am very excited about that!!!!!!!!!! but being that he is on an IA i don't get to see him off or see him home again. and he will have to stay with the unit for like a month longer after returning so i wont get to see him till he is back at his original base. i also have a lot going on the first few months of the delpoyment so that is helping keep me busy. i now again will be trying to come back on here more. i think that a good support group like this will help alot!! i hope all is well with all of you and yours. i look foward to reading and catching back up with you!
Mar 28, 2012
jesspoo05
mamawalrus- i will be in CL about a week after you. sounds like our loved ones might be around the same deployment.
Mar 28, 2012
mikes mom
Mama and Jesspoo - Wow, deployment is not easy and just remember this is a great group to belong to... It sure helped me...
Well, we are 9 days and some change before the Big Wedding ! "M" is doing great and some of his Marine and corpsman friends will be coming : ) ... He is all ready to leave CL and truly never look back, and yet he said he will be putting a new tattoo on his arm (the skull 2/2) ... Its been 2 years now and he seems to be doing great with his mind and soul.. ( Guys a watch him like a mother bear )...
Mar 28, 2012
mamawalrus
Mikes mom...M is leaving CL as in leaving the Military or just CL?
I love weddings and wishing the best to them both!
Mar 29, 2012
mikes mom
Mar 29, 2012
Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom
He's always been "Navy" lol Even with the Marines! No more greenside, welcome to the Blue side of life Mike!
Mar 29, 2012
Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom
(and enjoy all that Washington state rain...heehee
Mar 29, 2012