Please be sure to read the ***NEW MEMBERS*** info at the top of the page. Lots of good info there. Also take a look at the Pages (19) to the right under the member profiles - be sure to hit "view all". And of course, feel free to ask any questions you may have.
Hi Ladies - my Nuke played trombone in band/jazz band. Also was on science team, chess club and a few other random things. He played select baseball until sophomore year.
Hi all ! It's been a long couple months. My son was also involved with lots of stuff in High School and Elementary School. Starting with science fair , 4-H and bass guitar when young moving on to being a three sport athlete, especially Wrestling . He now is in quarantine at his new permanent command, he took his drawing supplies with him for when he is feeling creative.
My kiddos were both athletes growing up. They both played soccer from kindergarten through HS, and both played club (select) soccer, too. In HS, my older kiddo tried track and field and wrestling before settling on lacrosse in addition to soccer. My sailor did track and field (sprints and pole vault), and soccer, but his real focus was on robotics. As with Wink5's nuke, he was a jock/nerd combo. Those were extremely busy times, but I wouldn't trade 'em for anything.
Goofygirl32, my sailor is getting his commission this weekend, and will head to GC at some point. He is in the STA-21 program, so has already completed the nuke pipeline as enlisted, and will go back to do the officers' side. Not sure of the timing at this point. I am heartbroken to not be there with him this weekend to celebrate his graduation and commissioning! Not to mention I would have been there for Mother's Day. I anticipate feeling sad this weekend. Thank goodness for this group who are such a huge support!!
So great to see and read the chatter and find out about all of our wonderful sailors!!
PacNWmom - First congratulations to your sailor!! I feel like I have been on that journey with you as I think he had just started school or was part way through when I first came to this group. Oh man!! I really feel with you on your sadness! I am feeling pretty down myself this evening. My daughter just sent 5 mo. old pictures of my grandbaby and I have not gotten a chance to hug her or hold her since January!! My intention was to see her every other month, since we do have a distance between us.
PacNWmom, I hope you get to have some facetime with your sailor!!
PacNWmom, it was tough not being there. I see all these pictures from past years and i don't have a picture of him and me at his commissioning. In the face of everything that's happening in the world, I know that's a minor complaint, but it still makes me sad. They did a virtual commissioning, so I was able to see him on the TV and we did facetime after. I know we will all get through this, there is a light at the end of the tunnel! Congratulations to you and your son! and also for your new grandbaby!
My son played football so I got to see the band every Friday and his school had a great band they were just as good as watching the game. And I was the crazy mom with a sign and a cow bell because my husband took my air horn
PacNWmom - wow! I can't believe your son is getting his commission this weekend. Seems like just yesterday he was off to college. I'm sorry you won't be able to celebrate the graduation and commission with him in person but I'm sure he knows how proud you are of him - and we are too! Try not to feel sad - we are here to lift you up! Hugs to you momma ;-D
NickSydmom - love the cowbells! They were a staple at cross country meets!
Chipmunk - hopefully you'll get to hold that grandbaby soon.
I am lucky that youngest is home from NE so I'll have one kid at home for Mother's Day....
613mgbmom - did your son just move to his new command and that's why he's in quarantine?
Cheryl S - glad your son made it to GC - now the fun begins!
Wink5 - Hi! I've missed you my friend ;-D
Hi KayCee!
I hope everyone is doing well - almost another week down!
I would of been kidless for the first time on Mother's day but I used the not so nice guilt trip on my daughter( which I should be ashamed of), I think she might surprise me. I will be missing my Sailor though.
Yes, my son just moved to his new command. He will be done with his quarantine this Friday ! He is so excited to get back to work. He was not able to go anywhere on his 30 days of leave, other than 50 miles around G.C. He doesn't consider himself a sailor until he qualifies on his ship. I'm so proud of him for all he has done in these last two years.Still wish his command was on the other side of the U.S.
PacNWmom - that is a huge accomplishment! Congratulations! So so sorry you can’t be there. That kind of thing sort of tears at the heartstrings as a mom.
Reading comments, it sounds like the weather across the country is all over the place. We had much needed rain last night, but also hail, and temps dropped back down again. My hubby would rather been in the heat, but I like the cool, just not the clouds - that is my sailor's favorite - overcast.
Did we have an A school graduation today?? If so, congratulations to all of our Nukes!. BZ - I have lost track on PS and Prototype graduations!
Good morning, all! My son had been waiting on medical clearance so he could leave GL and head to A school in GC. Then his compartment was put in quarantine which extended his delay. He just let us know that he has officially been cleared for transfer and is waiting for orders! Yeah! An answer to prayer for sure!!!
Maestra - I know how relieved you are. The medical clearance is so important and sometimes our Nukes can get held up. Thankful that your sailor is healthy and out of quarantine. Once he arrives at GC, let us know and we will keep you updated on any questions you have.
I got a really nice Mother's Day card from B&C yesterday. They made it on Shutterfly and it has a bunch of pictures of us over the years - it's so sweet - made me cry a little but they were happy tears! I'm a little sad since I was so looking forward to seeing them at the wedding in July but now we have to wait until October. I just really hope everything is ok by then.....
You may or may not hear from your sailor, you may or may not see your sailor, but know in your heart that they are thinking of you. Enjoy your Mother's Day!
Hi Nuke Moms - My kid at Power School has been out of touch for 4 weeks. Cell phone is off whole time. I phoned the Ombudsman 7 days ago to ask for help. She said she could not give me any info but would pass message to commander who might advise him to call home. Does anyone have an idea of how to make contact? Any help is appreciated.
FleetWeekNYC - Have you sent any mail letters to your In four weeks he should have received something. They do receive their mail in class, so don't write anything that would possibly embarrass him if he should open it there.
The only other option would be to reach out to the chaplains, if the Ombudsman is not able to help. I know from things that my sailor told me when at GC, that they were often reminded to call home and not make command have to be fielding calls from concerned parents.
FleetWeekNYC - I am sorry you haven't heard from your sailor. The Ombudsman is your best bet....perhaps you could do a follow up call just to make sure the info was passed on. Remember "no news is good news". I know that's not what you want to hear right now...
FleetWeekNYC - re: phone call restriction, I am not sure. I think recently we had someone mention about phone restriction, but she knew before hand that was happening - I think. Unfortunately, I believe she has stopped following this group so I don't know if she will reply.
I would definitely do a follow up call as B'sNukeMom mentioned and also write the letter. It is hard for our sailors to realize that we never stop being Mom and so even just a simple text "goodnight" or "all is well, just busy" is great on their part and all we ought to expect on our part - as hard as that is. Communicating that desire to your sailor is what you are going to need to do as well as let him know that you understand he is busy and not trying to micromanage, but this chasm of silence is not helpful to you and so how can you come to a compromise. Some people set up time on Saturday or Sunday mornings (later for sleep in) to connect. My two boys skyped so even though I didn't chat, I could stick my head in and wave hi!
It is not easy - the other day I myself was not okay with "No News is Good News" when I could not reach my sailor all day on his day off. Keep us posted and don't hesitate to share your frustrations here. There are plenty of people who can empathize with you in this group.
I believe if they get put on restriction they are allowed to contact you and let you know they will be on restriction and for how long but whether or not they choose to call is up to them. Once on restriction no calls will be made.....
My sister just texted me this picture. It’s so cute I just had to share it. This is our nuke. The picture pretty much depicts what he was like when he was little.
ProudOfK - That is a great picture!! I am glad to know that mine aren't the only "monkeys" around. I honestly don't recall which of mine climbed the walls like that but one of them did! He was practicing way back when to make sure he could get through tight spaces!!!
thesuperm72 - How wonderful to get a face-time call!! It does a mother's heart good to see our kids face and their expressions when we are talking to them, and not just hearing their voice. Glad to hear that she is getting the hang of A school.
FleetWeekNYC - it is very hard when there is little communication. We would go a few weeks sometimes with no response to texts, voicemail, etc. other times we would get calls daily. Praying for peace of mind for you.
ProudOfK - that is a very familiar pose! My so. Did that many times - mostly after watching Spider-Man!
thesuperm72 - so very happy that got to talk to you daughter. It’s amazing how the sound of our kids voice can put us on cloud nine!
i have to add that when my husband gave me the flowers I cried. He is the most thoughtful and loving man ever!!
My son left right after Easter last year for BC and he had bought a BAB teddy bear with camouflauge uniform for me and recorded a message for me along with a basket full of numbered camouflage eggs with messages from him to open each day he was at bootcamp. It was special even to hear that recording, but it made me cry, so didn't listen too often.
I don't comment or ask questions here a lot but today is different. I wanted to make sure each of you that have posted all these years before know that this Navy Mom (and I"m sure many others in here, too) watch you and learn. We scroll, we smile at the remarks, we relate with so many here, we weep together, find solace and comfort and truly find joy in each others joys. As a brand new Navy Mom civilian, I remember having this page up on my computer 24/7, frantically trying to learn the code lingo and desperately trying to see if there was some sort of secret meaning behind each post. As the years went on, so grew my confidence and my pride in the group and in all our sailors. I comfortably scrolled every now and then and found the initial panic had settled and enjoyed the conversations popping up. And now it leads me to today, I sort of feel like I need a graduation cap and gown - I'm so pro!!! ;) So now my question is... am I a Navy mom for life or does it end when they finish their duty?
For all of my sea sisters - Mothers, Grandmothers and even Wives with little ones - but especially for those of you with sailors on radio silence or lack of signal & ability to call / text.
Chipmunk - thank you for mentioning those who won’t be hearing from our sailors. My emotions are a bit fragile today because I won’t be hearing from my son to hear his “Happy Mother’s Day” voice, but I won’t be able to wish him a Happy Birthday either.
KayCee - HUGS! It may not be on time, but even sending a text or email message on the day of - so that when they are able to read it, helps me a little bit more.
Happy Mother’s Day!!! My daughter called me today. She is still in quarantine.. day 5. She is able to keep her phone while in quarantine so it’s nice to be able to talk to her.
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Welcome to our newest member ~ Joey!
Please be sure to read the ***NEW MEMBERS*** info at the top of the page. Lots of good info there. Also take a look at the Pages (19) to the right under the member profiles - be sure to hit "view all". And of course, feel free to ask any questions you may have.
May 6, 2020
Joey
May 6, 2020
KayCee
Hi Ladies - my Nuke played trombone in band/jazz band. Also was on science team, chess club and a few other random things. He played select baseball until sophomore year.
May 6, 2020
613mgbmom
Hi all ! It's been a long couple months. My son was also involved with lots of stuff in High School and Elementary School. Starting with science fair , 4-H and bass guitar when young moving on to being a three sport athlete, especially Wrestling . He now is in quarantine at his new permanent command, he took his drawing supplies with him for when he is feeling creative.
May 6, 2020
PacNWmom
My kiddos were both athletes growing up. They both played soccer from kindergarten through HS, and both played club (select) soccer, too. In HS, my older kiddo tried track and field and wrestling before settling on lacrosse in addition to soccer. My sailor did track and field (sprints and pole vault), and soccer, but his real focus was on robotics. As with Wink5's nuke, he was a jock/nerd combo. Those were extremely busy times, but I wouldn't trade 'em for anything.
Goofygirl32, my sailor is getting his commission this weekend, and will head to GC at some point. He is in the STA-21 program, so has already completed the nuke pipeline as enlisted, and will go back to do the officers' side. Not sure of the timing at this point. I am heartbroken to not be there with him this weekend to celebrate his graduation and commissioning! Not to mention I would have been there for Mother's Day. I anticipate feeling sad this weekend. Thank goodness for this group who are such a huge support!!
May 6, 2020
Chipmunk
Cheryl S - So glad your sailor made it to GC!
Welcome to our new members!!
So great to see and read the chatter and find out about all of our wonderful sailors!!
PacNWmom - First congratulations to your sailor!! I feel like I have been on that journey with you as I think he had just started school or was part way through when I first came to this group. Oh man!! I really feel with you on your sadness! I am feeling pretty down myself this evening. My daughter just sent 5 mo. old pictures of my grandbaby and I have not gotten a chance to hug her or hold her since January!! My intention was to see her every other month, since we do have a distance between us.
PacNWmom, I hope you get to have some facetime with your sailor!!
May 7, 2020
goofygirl32
PacNWmom, it was tough not being there. I see all these pictures from past years and i don't have a picture of him and me at his commissioning. In the face of everything that's happening in the world, I know that's a minor complaint, but it still makes me sad. They did a virtual commissioning, so I was able to see him on the TV and we did facetime after. I know we will all get through this, there is a light at the end of the tunnel! Congratulations to you and your son! and also for your new grandbaby!
May 7, 2020
NickSydmom
My son played football so I got to see the band every Friday and his school had a great band they were just as good as watching the game. And I was the crazy mom with a sign and a cow bell because my husband took my air horn
May 7, 2020
Chipmunk
NickSydmom - LOL!! Cowbells are great!!
goofygirl32 - Thank you!!
May 7, 2020
NickSydmom
PacNWmom I will also be without a kid this Mother’s Day and already told my husband to prepare for tears.
May 7, 2020
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
May 7, 2020
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
PacNWmom - wow! I can't believe your son is getting his commission this weekend. Seems like just yesterday he was off to college. I'm sorry you won't be able to celebrate the graduation and commission with him in person but I'm sure he knows how proud you are of him - and we are too! Try not to feel sad - we are here to lift you up! Hugs to you momma ;-D
NickSydmom - love the cowbells! They were a staple at cross country meets!
Chipmunk - hopefully you'll get to hold that grandbaby soon.
I am lucky that youngest is home from NE so I'll have one kid at home for Mother's Day....
613mgbmom - did your son just move to his new command and that's why he's in quarantine?
Cheryl S - glad your son made it to GC - now the fun begins!
Wink5 - Hi! I've missed you my friend ;-D
Hi KayCee!
I hope everyone is doing well - almost another week down!
May 7, 2020
Northwoodsmom
I would of been kidless for the first time on Mother's day but I used the not so nice guilt trip on my daughter( which I should be ashamed of), I think she might surprise me. I will be missing my Sailor though.
May 7, 2020
613mgbmom
Yes, my son just moved to his new command. He will be done with his quarantine this Friday ! He is so excited to get back to work. He was not able to go anywhere on his 30 days of leave, other than 50 miles around G.C. He doesn't consider himself a sailor until he qualifies on his ship. I'm so proud of him for all he has done in these last two years.Still wish his command was on the other side of the U.S.
May 7, 2020
Chipmunk
I can't complain, I still have two children that are living at home with me, but pictures of my grandbaby last night started the tears rolling.
May 7, 2020
ProudOfK
PacNWmom - that is a huge accomplishment! Congratulations! So so sorry you can’t be there. That kind of thing sort of tears at the heartstrings as a mom.
May 7, 2020
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Today is National Prayer Day.
May 7, 2020
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Don't forget RED shirt Friday tomorrow!
May 7, 2020
Chipmunk
Good Morning Everyone!! I have my RED on today!
Reading comments, it sounds like the weather across the country is all over the place. We had much needed rain last night, but also hail, and temps dropped back down again. My hubby would rather been in the heat, but I like the cool, just not the clouds - that is my sailor's favorite - overcast.
Did we have an A school graduation today?? If so, congratulations to all of our Nukes!. BZ - I have lost track on PS and Prototype graduations!
May 8, 2020
Maestra
Good morning, all! My son had been waiting on medical clearance so he could leave GL and head to A school in GC. Then his compartment was put in quarantine which extended his delay. He just let us know that he has officially been cleared for transfer and is waiting for orders! Yeah! An answer to prayer for sure!!!
May 8, 2020
Chipmunk
Maestra - I know how relieved you are. The medical clearance is so important and sometimes our Nukes can get held up. Thankful that your sailor is healthy and out of quarantine. Once he arrives at GC, let us know and we will keep you updated on any questions you have.
May 8, 2020
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
May 8, 2020
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Hi everyone - Happy Friday! We made it another week ;-D
I've got my RED on too!
May 8, 2020
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
I got a really nice Mother's Day card from B&C yesterday. They made it on Shutterfly and it has a bunch of pictures of us over the years - it's so sweet - made me cry a little but they were happy tears! I'm a little sad since I was so looking forward to seeing them at the wedding in July but now we have to wait until October. I just really hope everything is ok by then.....
May 8, 2020
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
It's National Military Spouse Appreciation Day!
May 8, 2020
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
I want to wish everyone a Happy Mother's Day.
You may or may not hear from your sailor, you may or may not see your sailor, but know in your heart that they are thinking of you. Enjoy your Mother's Day!
May 8, 2020
SubMom
PacnWoman - congrats to you sailor!!! I’m sorry you can’t be there to celebrate. Big hugs!!
May 8, 2020
SubMom
Maestra- so very glad that your sailor got an all clear. Now the adventure begins
May 8, 2020
SubMom
My husband surprised me yesterday with and early Mother’s Day gift and I wanted to shear the beauty with all of you
May 8, 2020
Chipmunk
SubMom - They are beautiful!! Thanks for sharing!!
May 8, 2020
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Beautiful SubMom!
May 8, 2020
FleetWeekNYC
Hi Nuke Moms - My kid at Power School has been out of touch for 4 weeks. Cell phone is off whole time. I phoned the Ombudsman 7 days ago to ask for help. She said she could not give me any info but would pass message to commander who might advise him to call home. Does anyone have an idea of how to make contact? Any help is appreciated.
May 8, 2020
Chipmunk
FleetWeekNYC - Have you sent any mail letters to your In four weeks he should have received something. They do receive their mail in class, so don't write anything that would possibly embarrass him if he should open it there.
The only other option would be to reach out to the chaplains, if the Ombudsman is not able to help. I know from things that my sailor told me when at GC, that they were often reminded to call home and not make command have to be fielding calls from concerned parents.
May 8, 2020
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
FleetWeekNYC - I am sorry you haven't heard from your sailor. The Ombudsman is your best bet....perhaps you could do a follow up call just to make sure the info was passed on. Remember "no news is good news". I know that's not what you want to hear right now...
May 8, 2020
FleetWeekNYC
Thanks, Chipmunk. I had sent a box in April. Tracking says it arrived at NNPTC. I will send a letter tomorrow.
B’sNukeMom - I will phone Ombudsman again on Monday, thx.
Does anyone know, if he is in restriction would he be able to make a call out at sometime?
May 8, 2020
Chipmunk
FleetWeekNYC - re: phone call restriction, I am not sure. I think recently we had someone mention about phone restriction, but she knew before hand that was happening - I think. Unfortunately, I believe she has stopped following this group so I don't know if she will reply.
I would definitely do a follow up call as B'sNukeMom mentioned and also write the letter. It is hard for our sailors to realize that we never stop being Mom and so even just a simple text "goodnight" or "all is well, just busy" is great on their part and all we ought to expect on our part - as hard as that is. Communicating that desire to your sailor is what you are going to need to do as well as let him know that you understand he is busy and not trying to micromanage, but this chasm of silence is not helpful to you and so how can you come to a compromise. Some people set up time on Saturday or Sunday mornings (later for sleep in) to connect. My two boys skyped so even though I didn't chat, I could stick my head in and wave hi!
It is not easy - the other day I myself was not okay with "No News is Good News" when I could not reach my sailor all day on his day off. Keep us posted and don't hesitate to share your frustrations here. There are plenty of people who can empathize with you in this group.
May 9, 2020
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
I believe if they get put on restriction they are allowed to contact you and let you know they will be on restriction and for how long but whether or not they choose to call is up to them. Once on restriction no calls will be made.....
May 9, 2020
ProudOfK
May 9, 2020
Chipmunk
ProudOfK - That is a great picture!! I am glad to know that mine aren't the only "monkeys" around. I honestly don't recall which of mine climbed the walls like that but one of them did! He was practicing way back when to make sure he could get through tight spaces!!!
thesuperm72 - How wonderful to get a face-time call!! It does a mother's heart good to see our kids face and their expressions when we are talking to them, and not just hearing their voice. Glad to hear that she is getting the hang of A school.
May 9, 2020
SubMom
FleetWeekNYC - it is very hard when there is little communication. We would go a few weeks sometimes with no response to texts, voicemail, etc. other times we would get calls daily. Praying for peace of mind for you.
ProudOfK - that is a very familiar pose! My so. Did that many times - mostly after watching Spider-Man!
thesuperm72 - so very happy that got to talk to you daughter. It’s amazing how the sound of our kids voice can put us on cloud nine!
i have to add that when my husband gave me the flowers I cried. He is the most thoughtful and loving man ever!!
May 9, 2020
helena2000
My son left right after Easter last year for BC and he had bought a BAB teddy bear with camouflauge uniform for me and recorded a message for me along with a basket full of numbered camouflage eggs with messages from him to open each day he was at bootcamp. It was special even to hear that recording, but it made me cry, so didn't listen too often.
May 9, 2020
missmyssie
I don't comment or ask questions here a lot but today is different. I wanted to make sure each of you that have posted all these years before know that this Navy Mom (and I"m sure many others in here, too) watch you and learn. We scroll, we smile at the remarks, we relate with so many here, we weep together, find solace and comfort and truly find joy in each others joys. As a brand new Navy Mom civilian, I remember having this page up on my computer 24/7, frantically trying to learn the code lingo and desperately trying to see if there was some sort of secret meaning behind each post. As the years went on, so grew my confidence and my pride in the group and in all our sailors. I comfortably scrolled every now and then and found the initial panic had settled and enjoyed the conversations popping up. And now it leads me to today, I sort of feel like I need a graduation cap and gown - I'm so pro!!! ;) So now my question is... am I a Navy mom for life or does it end when they finish their duty?
May 9, 2020
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
missmyssie - Once a Navy mom, always a Navy mom!
May 10, 2020
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
ProudofK - love the picture! That gave me a chuckle ;-D
May 10, 2020
The Hammer
Happy Mother's Day to all the Navy Moms who are missing their sailors today!!! Stay strong... we got this Momma's!
May 10, 2020
Chipmunk
helena2000 - What a creative idea!! Those are the special things that we cherish, even when they make the tears flow!
misssyssie - thanks for sharing! I am sure I will consider myself a Navymom always, even after my sailor leaves.
The Hammer - Happy Mother's Day!
May 10, 2020
Chipmunk
For all of my sea sisters - Mothers, Grandmothers and even Wives with little ones - but especially for those of you with sailors on radio silence or lack of signal & ability to call / text.
A gift to me years ago from one of my daughters.
Happy Mother's Day!
May 10, 2020
KayCee
Happy Mother’s Day to all you wonderful Ladies!
Chipmunk - thank you for mentioning those who won’t be hearing from our sailors. My emotions are a bit fragile today because I won’t be hearing from my son to hear his “Happy Mother’s Day” voice, but I won’t be able to wish him a Happy Birthday either.
May 10, 2020
Chipmunk
KayCee - HUGS! It may not be on time, but even sending a text or email message on the day of - so that when they are able to read it, helps me a little bit more.
May 10, 2020
Haley’sMoM
May 10, 2020