that is so awesome! so glad you gotto hear from him!! i know he will LOVE getting all 18 of thoes letters! and now you can keep them going!! and i know that even if/when it starts getting rough for him he will then have your letters to help get him through!! keep us updated!
Thank you Carol for sharing! Incredible! I am so proud of him and have to admire his courage in choosing to embark on this journey. I am with him all the way...go big or go home! He didn't expect to meet me...had a plan already in the works to commit to this job. I admire his commitment and dedication. Makes me want to do more and be more; for my kids, for myself and for him. He deserves someone who will be loyal, understanding, compassionate, and supportive...lol! He has no idea who he's got! I guess this is a good way to find out...I'll be cheering him on all the way! I'm all excited and inspired now! I'll never sleep!
Oooo!! I got a letter today!!! He is passing & keeping up! He says he's older than 95 percent of his ship mates! I know he can do it! I'm working out at home too! He sounds up beat & is growing as a person while there. Appreciating things he takes for granted everyday. I miss him!
NavyFiancee my son graduated A school last Dec then went straight to Camp Pendleton and worked in the clinic until he started FMTB in Jan. He was able to come home for a couple of weeks after he got to Camp Pendleton.He then was able to spend a couple of days with us before going to his first assignment at a clinic in Nevada.
Good Morning. I've just had my membership approved, and searched out FMTB & Camp Pendleton FMTB. As I enter this first post, I grieve for the families of those lost in Afghanistan. I have two sons in the Navy, and know many military--including SEALS. What a loss.
Hi all, looks like we have a few new members! yay! welcome! glad you all found this forum!
NavyFiancee-the first few weeks of FMTB i think were the hardest. the communication then starts to pick up again. the tests are hard but certainly not impossible, but they must study study study!! they are also def challenged physically of course but it pays off. when they spend the time if the field, communication is shut off again. and even though you spend the time worrying, they spend the time "playing". yeah it doesn't seem like the most fun sometimes when they are there, but certainly afterwards they come away saying that it was so fun! my bf was going though it in jan and it was really cold in the mornings cause they didn't let them wear coats or anything. so they would just huddle up really close. talk about getting to know your neighbor! but it isn't so bad right now temp wise.
anyways, we are here to answer any questions that anyone may have.
i am living here now cause we knew thats where he was gettting stationed after FMTB. but he is talking about trying to deploy now in the middle of feb of next year with some of his friends... boo!!!!!! but only like 18 days now till we get to go on vacation!! yippie! just me and him and the road!
Hey jesspoo do you live on base? My daughter just moved into base housing with her husband who is a Marine, so she doesn't know anyone there except some Marines lol. Yes what I remember about FMTB was the tests and to make sure you pass them as my son failed one and got demoted down to having muster up every night until he passed the makeup test so wasn't much fun when you are exhausted to have to line up then go back to bed. I loved the video that Carol had posted because it showed the things they were doing so when my son would call and talk about things I would know what he was talking about.
Navyfiancee I think the hardest thing about when he was at FMTB was he was so close but so far as too far to drive down there for who knows how much time off he would have. The good thing was they could call when they were not in the field. If you are going to send care packages for the field make sure you send them early as one I sent he almost didn't get it before they went on the big field trip.
What can we send? He loves cookies...of course I'd make some to share :). In his last letter he wrote on the back...PS don't send care packages...they will eat them in front of me!! He's still at BC PIR on 8/26
HvnlySno, don't send care packages until Corps School.The RDCs will eat them in front of your recruit. Send paper items like news stories or print up comics. I sent kids school work, from my class and our own kids. The more you write the better.
Joan F, I live on base, we in Wire Mountain. If she wants my email let me know. My Corpsman leaves for Japan October 1, I need friends.
My husband compared late night muster to being up with our babies at night!
A school is fine. I had to send my husband a box of clothes, when had phase II liberty. Space is pretty limited in A school, FMTB is back to no space. If you really want to send FMTB cookies, let me know and I'll do it for you. They can order pizza, so I can deliver cookies.
I remember sending cookies, jerky, snacks and such to A school. The guys and instructors liked when my son got a package. In FMTB I sent him jolly ranchers, wisp toothbrushes and such when he went out into the field. It seemed like it took longer to get his stuff at CP than A school which was at Great Lakes still and I live in CA.
I hear you MrsS those late nites with babies is something else. He really paid for his not passing that one test as it was hard for him to lay down then get up to muster then back to bed and then up early.
I told him before he left I'd send him sone North Pole coffee when he got to
A school, but in his last letter he said he hasn't had a cup if coffee since he got to BC! I said, uh oh...are we switching to tea??
In BC they really arent allowed to have stuff like that. they may have decaffe possibly, but know my bf said that they had sugar free jello even, and diet soda. so not sure how well coffee would go over.
joanF-I don't live on base cause i am only his gf, and the day we get married he will move into my apt, which is right next to base. but it really would be great to meet some more women around here!! if your daughter want to chat you can give her my email or find me on FB. just ask me and i will send you it.
I remember them not having coffee just instant stuff and when a couple of the guys got a real cup of coffee they were like out of control with the caffeine lol. Yes packages did take a long time to get to FMTB, and have to send off a care package to my daughter so hope it doesn't take forever. At least it is things that won't go bad.
Great advice! I'm trying to kick a diet coke habit that itn't going too well! I'm sure things will take twice as long to ship from Alaska!! Oh, well...he's worth it!
so sadly on thursday i got into a pretty nasty car accident. i am alright for the most part. sore and have a little cut on my hand from the air bag. but alright. it was the other persons fault and i am almost positive my car is totaled! i just hope it all works out really soon, so i can put this whole thing behind me. and we are going on our vacation in 6 days. i am happy for that. and it shouldn't mess up any of our vacation plans so it is good. i can't wait for it even more now!! it will give us time together and get to see family and friends and time for me to recover a little better. thought i would share. i was sooooo gald to be near my bf and that he is not deployed right now!!!
thanks. and yeah he was at work. he had to come and pick me up from my work. it happened only 2 blocks from work so i walked back there to wait. and yes cars can be replaced!!
Glad to hear you are ok. Have a great time on your vacation. My daughter now has furniture in her house, told her better have another bed as want to go down to see her soon. Now praying that the interview she went to will lead to a job as they could use the money.
Enjoy that vacation Jess! Sounds like you need a break. I've had my airbags deploy on me before and it's not the nicest feeling at all. I remember my knuckles were red (burned) from the dust/powder that comes out of them. My car at the time was a 2003, so they might have had the "old" type of bags. But still, glad your ok.
Question: if my sailor graduates A school around the first week in December, he most likely will not go to CP until 1/2012 or later. It looks like they have a 2 month rotation cycle. We were tenativly planning a vacation in february. Maybe we need to look at moving it up during Christmas break? Does anyone have an idea?
Ruth - does this apply for reserves corpsmen as well? I would imagin they are trained the same...if not, he might be able to go back to his civilian job inbetween A school and going on to C school at CP. FMTB is only 40 days right? I'm still trying to get used to all the terminology! I am just trying to get a sense of it all. My Sailor has been told several different things and asked me to research this for him.
He at least (I think) knows what he's supposed to be doing...just the time frames and what his deployment status is going to be. We know he has to be top 10 in his class for FMF. But I'm not sure why. I understand why as active duty...but for a reservist my understanding is that you know where your going and have already made your choices. So a little confused on that point.
He should have just arrived at SA for A school, I know they have to class up and that might take a while. So when I was projecting the december graduation...it was just an estimate. The last CP C school class is already underway as far as I can tell (aug 1) so it's all so hard to sort out! I feel like I'm talking in circles now! LOL!
Thank you all for bearing with me and thanks Ruth for your experience and sharing it with me! Maybe if I break it down into small chunks I'll get a better understanding of what goes on! So, let's start with A school....I'll do my research and be back with better questions later! ;)
Ruth- he asked me to research it because he wasn't getting any info (or different answers) from his recruiter. So, I called my Navy friend. But she was active duty 20 yrs ago. She said if she could take a look at his orders she could tell us...so I'll have to see if he can get them to me.
If I read the site right the last class of the year began 8/1 ...
I don't expect he'll start FMTB until the end of January. A school classes are thought to start on the 8th so that makes for a December graduation. I'm just not sure if they send him on leave between a school & FMTB...there in lies our dilemma! That break would work out well for our vacation with my kids...but makes the planning so hard when you don't know what to expect or if the powers that be decide differently!
I'm new and I just added this group as the next train stop on this ride. I dropped my son off yesterday at CPNH and he will start FMTB in October. He graduated from A school 2 weeks ago and he was home for leave until yesterday : ( But I think he will be able to come home for the long weekend. He will be at CP til December. So I'm on this ride....any other newbies along with me?
Hi Cali-Mom! I thought the last class started already! Boy, when you think you have the Navy figured out...bam! I guess we won't really! I'm trying to figure this all out since we are trying to fit in a vacation! We have decided on visiting Cali with my Sailor....but from the sound of it...they may get leave before heading to FMTB? Any details would be most welcome!
Thanks and yes you never can figure it out...I believe he starts the second week of October and ends mid December. He is on hold at the hospital until then. My son did get leave after A school graduation and has been home until yesterday. He also went in to his original recruiter station to put in a few days to get back some leave. Hopefully he will use them for Dec (but who knows if that will work).
Ruth VH-December 15 I believe is the date.
Gloria-I'm a participant...I'll be on this adventure with you.lol
I've been on vacation from work since 8/24 and will return on Tuesday (yuck) and haven't missed it at all. I could get used to this only if I hit the lotto though. It was great having him home (actually he was more with his frenz) but still having him home was great. It was nice to see his frenz come back around.
Corpsman mom, he's my best friend/boyfriend! I do have a son, but he's 15! Lol! I hope that we will be able to have time together after he graduates from A school. We were planning on February, but I think he'll be in FMTB by that time.
Yes he is for sure. I just got off the phone with him...finally! He doesn't want me coming down to TX. He would rather me spend the money to come with my kids when he's all done with training, so depending on when C school starts & ends...that's when I'll get to see him.
I hope everyone had a wonderful Labor Day weekend. I was on vacation from work and when you are driven by the public school calendar, Labor Day means the end of summer and back to the routine of when kids are in school. I have one left in HS (10th grade). It sure will be different when there will not be a kid in my house. That's why I've adopted pets. It helps the transition, at least for me it does. But for now...1st day of school is on Wednesday Yeah!!!
going to f.m.t.b graduation sept. 30th. anyone know if military families get any type of discount on motel, airfare, rental car, for these types of events?
so i will try and read to catch back up. but just wanted to come and say a quick hi. my bf and i got back from our wonderful vacation. it was soooo nice!! but went wayyyy too fast!!! oh well.. it was much needed! and i was able to do some research on cars while we were gone. and on wed night i bought a 2010 pontiac g6. hope all is well with you all!!!
ok caught up on the posts. not tons of chatter when i was gone... just a comment... not sure if any of it would apply to any of your corpsman but when my bf graduated from a-school there were a few guys that were supposed to grad that day too but since their c-school started at a certain time they graduated them a week early from a-school to either push them through to either the c-school or to FMTB. the last weeks of the a-school is clinicals anyways. but just thought i would put that out there....
Hi, Stevensmom--I will also be at FMTB grad at end of month. I've looked up info for other families. Some of the hotel "brands" do give military discounts, but reservation must be made by the person in the military. There are also several really good deals. You need to decide if you want to stay close to Pendleton (i.e., Oceanside), or closer to San Diego. Lots of sites / options. Also, how long is your stay planned for?
thanks zstratmom..appreciate your help. We been looking on priceline.com..and those types of sights. Think we will get it through them..for all 3 plane. rental car and motel...have a great day and thanks again!
Does anybody understand the food choices at Camp Pendleton? Are the Sailors paying for it themselves or is there some kind of reimbursement? Also it seems there are tons of fast food options but do they pay for that and not traditional mess hall? Not big on fast food for good nutrition... also trying to pinch pennies. Any feeback would be great. Note: done with BC and FMTB. He is stationed at a clinic for 2 years.
Thanks DebbieG..that's good info. It's so hard as I see nothing but have been asked for help on finances. I told him I would help figure it out at N4Ms.
jesspoo05
Jul 30, 2011
HvnlySno (S11, DIV 276)
Jul 30, 2011
HvnlySno (S11, DIV 276)
Aug 4, 2011
HvnlySno (S11, DIV 276)
Aug 5, 2011
MrsS
Aug 5, 2011
HvnlySno (S11, DIV 276)
Aug 5, 2011
MrsS
Aug 5, 2011
HvnlySno (S11, DIV 276)
Aug 5, 2011
Joan F
Aug 6, 2011
zStratMom
Aug 7, 2011
LesCorpsmanmama
Aug 7, 2011
LesCorpsmanmama
Aug 7, 2011
jesspoo05
Hi all, looks like we have a few new members! yay! welcome! glad you all found this forum!
NavyFiancee-the first few weeks of FMTB i think were the hardest. the communication then starts to pick up again. the tests are hard but certainly not impossible, but they must study study study!! they are also def challenged physically of course but it pays off. when they spend the time if the field, communication is shut off again. and even though you spend the time worrying, they spend the time "playing". yeah it doesn't seem like the most fun sometimes when they are there, but certainly afterwards they come away saying that it was so fun! my bf was going though it in jan and it was really cold in the mornings cause they didn't let them wear coats or anything. so they would just huddle up really close. talk about getting to know your neighbor! but it isn't so bad right now temp wise.
anyways, we are here to answer any questions that anyone may have.
i am living here now cause we knew thats where he was gettting stationed after FMTB. but he is talking about trying to deploy now in the middle of feb of next year with some of his friends... boo!!!!!! but only like 18 days now till we get to go on vacation!! yippie! just me and him and the road!
Aug 8, 2011
Joan F
Hey jesspoo do you live on base? My daughter just moved into base housing with her husband who is a Marine, so she doesn't know anyone there except some Marines lol. Yes what I remember about FMTB was the tests and to make sure you pass them as my son failed one and got demoted down to having muster up every night until he passed the makeup test so wasn't much fun when you are exhausted to have to line up then go back to bed. I loved the video that Carol had posted because it showed the things they were doing so when my son would call and talk about things I would know what he was talking about.
Navyfiancee I think the hardest thing about when he was at FMTB was he was so close but so far as too far to drive down there for who knows how much time off he would have. The good thing was they could call when they were not in the field. If you are going to send care packages for the field make sure you send them early as one I sent he almost didn't get it before they went on the big field trip.
Aug 9, 2011
HvnlySno (S11, DIV 276)
Aug 9, 2011
MrsS
HvnlySno, don't send care packages until Corps School.The RDCs will eat them in front of your recruit. Send paper items like news stories or print up comics. I sent kids school work, from my class and our own kids. The more you write the better.
Joan F, I live on base, we in Wire Mountain. If she wants my email let me know. My Corpsman leaves for Japan October 1, I need friends.
My husband compared late night muster to being up with our babies at night!
Aug 9, 2011
HvnlySno (S11, DIV 276)
Aug 9, 2011
MrsS
Aug 9, 2011
HvnlySno (S11, DIV 276)
Aug 9, 2011
Joan F
I remember sending cookies, jerky, snacks and such to A school. The guys and instructors liked when my son got a package. In FMTB I sent him jolly ranchers, wisp toothbrushes and such when he went out into the field. It seemed like it took longer to get his stuff at CP than A school which was at Great Lakes still and I live in CA.
I hear you MrsS those late nites with babies is something else. He really paid for his not passing that one test as it was hard for him to lay down then get up to muster then back to bed and then up early.
Aug 10, 2011
HvnlySno (S11, DIV 276)
A school, but in his last letter he said he hasn't had a cup if coffee since he got to BC! I said, uh oh...are we switching to tea??
Aug 10, 2011
jesspoo05
In BC they really arent allowed to have stuff like that. they may have decaffe possibly, but know my bf said that they had sugar free jello even, and diet soda. so not sure how well coffee would go over.
joanF-I don't live on base cause i am only his gf, and the day we get married he will move into my apt, which is right next to base. but it really would be great to meet some more women around here!! if your daughter want to chat you can give her my email or find me on FB. just ask me and i will send you it.
Aug 11, 2011
Joan F
Aug 12, 2011
HvnlySno (S11, DIV 276)
Aug 13, 2011
jesspoo05
Aug 20, 2011
vettespace
Aug 20, 2011
jesspoo05
Aug 20, 2011
Joan F
Aug 22, 2011
MrsS
Aug 22, 2011
Pam
Enjoy that vacation Jess! Sounds like you need a break. I've had my airbags deploy on me before and it's not the nicest feeling at all. I remember my knuckles were red (burned) from the dust/powder that comes out of them. My car at the time was a 2003, so they might have had the "old" type of bags. But still, glad your ok.
Aug 22, 2011
HvnlySno (S11, DIV 276)
Thanks Ruth for the shipping advice! My mother always sent cookies to our teachers...RDCs are no different!
Jess, glad to hear you are ok! Enjoy, relax, re-group on vacation. All will be well! I'm glad you bf was there for you!
Aug 24, 2011
HvnlySno (S11, DIV 276)
Aug 25, 2011
HvnlySno (S11, DIV 276)
Ruth - does this apply for reserves corpsmen as well? I would imagin they are trained the same...if not, he might be able to go back to his civilian job inbetween A school and going on to C school at CP. FMTB is only 40 days right? I'm still trying to get used to all the terminology! I am just trying to get a sense of it all. My Sailor has been told several different things and asked me to research this for him.
He at least (I think) knows what he's supposed to be doing...just the time frames and what his deployment status is going to be. We know he has to be top 10 in his class for FMF. But I'm not sure why. I understand why as active duty...but for a reservist my understanding is that you know where your going and have already made your choices. So a little confused on that point.
He should have just arrived at SA for A school, I know they have to class up and that might take a while. So when I was projecting the december graduation...it was just an estimate. The last CP C school class is already underway as far as I can tell (aug 1) so it's all so hard to sort out! I feel like I'm talking in circles now! LOL!
Thank you all for bearing with me and thanks Ruth for your experience and sharing it with me! Maybe if I break it down into small chunks I'll get a better understanding of what goes on! So, let's start with A school....I'll do my research and be back with better questions later! ;)
Aug 28, 2011
HvnlySno (S11, DIV 276)
If I read the site right the last class of the year began 8/1 ...
Sep 1, 2011
Pam
My son went through FMTB from October of last year until mid-December. Can't believe it's been almost an entire year! Crazy!
Good luck to your son Gloria and hopefully you'll get a few more classmates.
Sep 1, 2011
HvnlySno (S11, DIV 276)
Sep 1, 2011
Cali-Mom (Beagles)
Sep 2, 2011
HvnlySno (S11, DIV 276)
Hi Cali-Mom! I thought the last class started already! Boy, when you think you have the Navy figured out...bam! I guess we won't really! I'm trying to figure this all out since we are trying to fit in a vacation! We have decided on visiting Cali with my Sailor....but from the sound of it...they may get leave before heading to FMTB? Any details would be most welcome!
Congrats to your son on his accomplishment!!
Sep 2, 2011
Cali-Mom (Beagles)
Thanks and yes you never can figure it out...I believe he starts the second week of October and ends mid December. He is on hold at the hospital until then. My son did get leave after A school graduation and has been home until yesterday. He also went in to his original recruiter station to put in a few days to get back some leave. Hopefully he will use them for Dec (but who knows if that will work).
Ruth VH-December 15 I believe is the date.
Gloria-I'm a participant...I'll be on this adventure with you.lol
I've been on vacation from work since 8/24 and will return on Tuesday (yuck) and haven't missed it at all. I could get used to this only if I hit the lotto though. It was great having him home (actually he was more with his frenz) but still having him home was great. It was nice to see his frenz come back around.
Sep 2, 2011
Cali-Mom (Beagles)
Sep 2, 2011
HvnlySno (S11, DIV 276)
Sep 3, 2011
HvnlySno (S11, DIV 276)
Sep 3, 2011
Cali-Mom (Beagles)
Sep 5, 2011
stevensmom
Sep 10, 2011
jesspoo05
Sep 10, 2011
jesspoo05
Sep 11, 2011
zStratMom
Sep 12, 2011
stevensmom
Sep 12, 2011
MEsailormom
Does anybody understand the food choices at Camp Pendleton? Are the Sailors paying for it themselves or is there some kind of reimbursement? Also it seems there are tons of fast food options but do they pay for that and not traditional mess hall? Not big on fast food for good nutrition... also trying to pinch pennies. Any feeback would be great. Note: done with BC and FMTB. He is stationed at a clinic for 2 years.
Sep 12, 2011
MEsailormom
Sep 12, 2011