Yes, Katlanta, you will check in. You will not be able to help yourself. Trust me on that. And you will feel a sadness leaving this group that you may not expect. Your son is sure to have mixed feelings too, leaving Japan. He gave some of the best years of his life there and there are friendships and experiences that will stay with him forever. My son is in transition and I'm not sure what the next assignment will be like, neither does he, but I do know that there will be Moms out there who will find each other, and all the Sweethearts who graciously share our sons and daughters with us.
Wow to those of you with sailors coming home soon. Mine has more than a year left in Japan and thinks he wants to extend for another year. We are saving for a visit the end of this year.
sherry 73 thank you so much My son first wrote VFA 195 now I think its 196 but Im not sure I will send another letter out today...he is a man of little words and communication isn't his best trait...
It's so fun to read about all of the adventures your sailors are having. Do you have any suggestions on getting my son to keep in contact with us at home. He called between xmas and new year's and then we heard from him the beginning of may and that's it. Nothing about or while in Australia. We send him letters and packages regularly. He was never a the great communicator but really?
Chris if you look on the George Washington Facebook page and scroll down to June 17 it will have all the addresses and zip codes you need hit the comment icon and it will show you the addresses and zip codes
Starting to get a little worried, we haven't heard from our sailor for 8 days ( I honestly thought it was 3 weeks, lol ) I sent him an email, and he replied saying they were in port and that was it. He's usually good at replying, but hasn't replied to my last 4 emails. We never got any calls emails or Facebook messages while they were at port :-( I understand they are busy, but it's not like him.
Probably just me worrying about nothing but it's driving me crazy !!!
Mattsmom the GW posted on their fb page at Some point and said that the Internet connection was an issue. My son has only been able to fb chat to me twice since they left and no emails
Sethsmom, Mattsmom; I'm right there with ya! He feels no need to keep in touch with mom. I got SO jealous of my husband. He turned 50 this week, and recieved a Happy Birthday email from David, and all I said was "why didn't he write to me?" . I'm so bad!
This moms week has been made...I had a 45 minute FB chat with my son...I told him how all of us moms talk about the communication being tough with the one line emails that pretty much say I love you and miss you... He told me it sucks because they really don't have time to say much more than that... I know it's tough on my son because he loves to talk on the phone and be on Facebook!!! I feel bad because here I am in the comfort of my home with family and friends and having a pity party because I just get one line emails...lol. I can't even imagine how tough it is on our kids!!
Thanks ladies, it helps knowing I'm not the only one.
However I sent him another email yesterday saying I was getting worried. Yesterday our 16 year old daughter answered a call from a strange guy asking for my husband or myself, he wouldn't leave a message, so she panicked and said, "What if something happened to Matt? ", so that made it worse. I woke up this morning checked my IPhone and Matt had said he was really busy and tired, and he was sorry!! Phew!!
My husband is retired AF (22) years, so he gets mad at me, saying give the boy a break, but he's my baby, so its hard, right ladies??
I guess I'm the lucky one my Sailor called while they were in port last week and then yesterday because he wanted to check up on his Dad who was suppose to have knee surgery yesterday. The longest I have went without hearing from him is 3 weeks.
Last week I got a unknown number and I answered thinking this might be my sailor and it was a young male voice asking to speak to me and I was thinking...this is my son being funny and no it was not, it was my tv service calling to offer me something and when I hung up I cried for an hour. I know how silly, but I hate the never knowing when and if they will call.
I had not heard from him in over a week either. I got an email yesterday and he said it has been "crazy busy at work" is why he has not sent me a message lately. I know he must have felt bad because instead of the usual 1 line I got 6, so I guess it evens out :)
Well my son is half way between Houston and Tokyo. I have been stalking this site and am so happy I did. You ladies have prepared me for long periods of silence and I thank you for that. Not sure when I'll see him again. There's always Skype if possible.
Ok, I just got an email from my son and he started a conversation with one of the guys in his squadron last night. Come to find out my son was a senior in hs the same year this sailor was a freshman at the same school! They had a good evening talking about their ROTC classes and instructors. They also shared memories of local hangouts, neighborhoods, and restaurants. I think it was one of the best times he's had since he has been in Japan! His email was so upbeat. If the other sailor is the son of a mom here, I just want to say thank you for sharing your sailor with mine. It makes him realize that no matter where in the world he goes, thought the world it huge, "it's a small world after all." :-)
I just tried to reply to my sons email address and it came back undeliverable. He and I have had no trouble emailing until today. Anyone else get a bounce back email?
I've emailed my son a couple of times this evening and none have come back yet, but his job requires him to be on the computer so that might have something to do with it. Or it might be that I got mine to him just in time. Good luck getting through Teresa, I know how frustrating it is to have to wait to send a string of emails.
My son's email rejected a couple months ago and cause us to panic because we hadn't heard from him for 4 months. come to find out his mailbox was full and that's why it bounced. Maybe that's what happened with your son too.
I had some emails bounce back about a month ago. I just re-sent them the next day and they went thru. I just figured that when they're out at sea the internet connection goes in & out.
Willsmom - hang in there! Yeah it's tough when they go overseas...the lack of communication really sucks but it makes those precious emails & phone calls sooooo exciting. I hope you hear from him soon.
Mary (Chris' mom) - cool story! Hope you can connect with that other Sailors mom that would be awesome.
Hope everyone is having a great weekend and {{{{{{hugs}}}}} to all!
Joshmom- thanks, I missed his call this morning, 29 hours after his flight left Pensacola. What a flight. He sounded tired but safe. I have to remember, this is like boot camp, phone on AT ALL times. :-)
New to this type of correspondence so bear with me. Miss my son, haven't heard from him in a few weeks. I know that's normal but it is tough to get used to
ccrred50, You are right, it is an adjustment. I thought it was bad when my son went to his first overseas duty station and we could talk for 4 or 5 days in a row for hours and then suddenly I would not hear from him for a couple of weeks other than a fast email. Now, he is overseas and his wife is too so he does not feel the need to call mom so often, he calls his wife when he is in a port. :-( I know however that there are Navy personnel in other areas of the world where they are likely to see combat so I remind myself...it could be worse, it could be worse.
Mary (Chris' mom) My son had the same thing happen to him in talking to a fellow sailor. Only they find out not only are they from the same State but they went to the same church together. It is a 'Big' but 'Small' world.
Haven't heard from him for awhile other than he is busy and on night duty. With the time difference I guess I will settle for a quick one liner email until they hit land somewhere.
My son is so awesome...I got a package today with stuff from Australia...2 t-shirts, hoodie, hat, shot glasses and a cup...the craziest part was the stuff smelt so good like his cologne!!! Love and miss him so much but hey I get some amazing things...
I talked to him this morning and he has strep throat...poor baby!!!
Ladies hope you guys are doing good!!! Have an awesome week!!!
JPeder, How awesome! I know how that must make them feel to know that not only are there folks with them from their area but who they can connect directly with! It must be a real comfort and pass a lot of time to be able to go back through memories with someone else.
Sherry, My son will not send anything home until near Christmas, but he did say he had bought enough stuffed koalas and 'roos for each and every kid on his side of the family and his wife's side too. When I asked about sending him a box of stuff he refused it. He said his seabag is soooo full, he is going to have a hard time getting off the ship and onto the shuttle back to Atsugi as it is!
Hi Robin, yes I'm going to family and friends. Hello to EVERYONE it's been a while. I follow and nod my head. Everyone is extremely helpful and hopeful. What a WONDERFUL FAMILY OF SUPPORT AND LOVE.
Hey there robin and CBC! I will be leaving DFW three days before the event and I'm staying at hotel new Yokosuka the day of arrival. I'm excited omg! I will be taking the train that is approx $52 USD, might I add,. That should be fun and quite interesting. Where are you ladies staying and what's your mode of transportation.
Have fun on the family cruise whenever it is! :) So jealous!
For those who may not know, we cannot say when or where they will be. That includes when they well be back in Japan, its for their safety.
Robyn & Punkinsmom -- I'll be arriving the latter part of the week. I'm actually staying at Atsugi my 1st night. Then head to Navy Lodge where the 2 special events will be then head back to Atsugi. My son bought a car so I'm assuming he'll be driving me around. Although I'd love to ride the train.
I'm told its hot and humid right now and to possibly bring a small umbrella.
Hi all, What is Family Cruise Day? We haven't heard from our son since May. Figure he's working hard and having fun. He's not very communicative. Does any one know what "got my rating and points" means.
Sethsmom: Did your son go in as undesignated (or the PAC-apprentice program)? If yes, then my guess is he put in a "strike for a rate" and got it. Which means he applied for a certain job and got it. I'm not sure about the points thing. I am still knew to this too, and my son went in as undesignated and hasn't been there long enough yet to apply for a rate. That's why I'm guessing!
Thanks so much for the info. I have no idea if he was undesignated. I don't think so but not sure. He is an Airman and went to school in Pensacola after bootcamp and before he went to the ship. He said he was designated for engine training but had to wait. Maybe that's what his comment was in regard to.
How do you know about the Friends and Family cruise? My husband and I would absolutely love to do this with our son. We would finally get to see him. We miss him so very much!!! As you all miss you sailors too!
Thanks Katlanta! All of the moms on this site are so helpful. If I ever get to talk to my son, I will be sure to ask him about it. Happy for you that your son will be a little closer to home soon. It's so hard not being able to talk to him unless he calls. We just keep sending letters and packages and hope he will eventually have a desire to make contact.
Thanks for the full address. been sending letters but have not heard if he has received them yet....also never heard about the family cruise deal!!! I couldn't have made it anyway this year but it would have been nice to know about it...boy it is a communication thing that "stinks"...
Mine is back at Atsugi now. :-) He says he will Skype tomorrow after he and his wife have some time together. Woohoo! katlanta, I know you are super pumped this time. Sorry you didn't get up here for the 'ritas this summer but our weather has been just miserable. I've been dumping chemicals into the pool and draining out rain water but I bet I've only been in the water about 4 times. The water can't even get warm this year, but... Anyway, I will send you a pm sometime so you can call me and maybe come up next summer. You can tell me from the mom view what Japan is like. :-)
...I'm doing the happy dance aling with another navy mom. She and i met in Narita ar the NEX to ourchase train tickets. I'm in Japan with my sailor. For a chance to see CVN 73 pull in. What an overwhelming experience. I stood there in awe.
Talked to my son tonite also. I was lucky because the rest of the household was sleeping so I didn't have to share the phone call what so ever.!!!! He will call again so he can talk to his dad and brothers. Have a fun time all you moms etc that are in Japan right now
Punkinsmom...gave me chills and tears when I read your text... I can't imagine how exciting that would be to see our babies ship pull in!!! Definitely coming next year!!! Have an awesome time moms in Japan!!!
...Sherry, talk about chills. Robyn and I kept saying how surreal being here is. Meeting our young adults in Japan. To see the Ship, well boat as Punkin calls it come in. I stood around the corner on a ledge crying, dripping with perspiration, telling God thank you for an awesome opportunity, shaking, trying to take pictures. LOL. Seeing our men and women manning the rails, then the ship proceeds to turn around and back into the dock. WOW, our engineers are doing their thang. But check this out, it's nothing like and officer and a gentlemen, the movies had me fooled, lol. It took about three hours before my sailor came off. I still screamed, popped up, told my mom and Robyn, excuse me there is my baby. I have a picture of Robyn when she saw her son up new the vessel. PRICELESS. Amazing how we can spot our gift when they are wearing the assortment of navy uniforms.
As for pictures, joshmom, I need some assistance. How do i upload from the IPAD.
J Pedar, selfish we are and we understand. I had to share Punkin with my mom, but it was after I kept sniffing and touching her. Lol. It's all good.
I'm grateful for this sight. To meet Robyn in the airport and navigate to Yokosuka, wonderful.
It's 0135, I'm up tapping on the iPad, my body doesn't know I'm in another time zone. So here we go....
Have a splendid weekend. Don't forget I need help to upload pictures
lmnadelady
WOW and Whoppee!
Aug 2, 2013
Kimberly P
Yeah for you Katlanta, but Boo for me...I will miss you and all your knowledge :-)
Aug 2, 2013
Navy Mom
Yes, Katlanta, you will check in. You will not be able to help yourself. Trust me on that. And you will feel a sadness leaving this group that you may not expect. Your son is sure to have mixed feelings too, leaving Japan. He gave some of the best years of his life there and there are friendships and experiences that will stay with him forever. My son is in transition and I'm not sure what the next assignment will be like, neither does he, but I do know that there will be Moms out there who will find each other, and all the Sweethearts who graciously share our sons and daughters with us.
Aug 2, 2013
sam
Aug 4, 2013
Chris Catlin
sherry 73 thank you so much My son first wrote VFA 195 now I think its 196 but Im not sure I will send another letter out today...he is a man of little words and communication isn't his best trait...
Aug 8, 2013
sethsmom
It's so fun to read about all of the adventures your sailors are having. Do you have any suggestions on getting my son to keep in contact with us at home. He called between xmas and new year's and then we heard from him the beginning of may and that's it. Nothing about or while in Australia. We send him letters and packages regularly. He was never a the great communicator but really?
Aug 8, 2013
Crystals31
Aug 8, 2013
Navymommaria
Aug 8, 2013
Navymommaria
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Aug 8, 2013
Navymommaria
Aug 8, 2013
Navymommaria
Aug 8, 2013
mattsmom
Starting to get a little worried, we haven't heard from our sailor for 8 days ( I honestly thought it was 3 weeks, lol ) I sent him an email, and he replied saying they were in port and that was it. He's usually good at replying, but hasn't replied to my last 4 emails. We never got any calls emails or Facebook messages while they were at port :-( I understand they are busy, but it's not like him.
Probably just me worrying about nothing but it's driving me crazy !!!
Aug 8, 2013
NavyMomandNavyChiefsWife
Aug 9, 2013
Mrs. David's mom
Sethsmom, Mattsmom; I'm right there with ya! He feels no need to keep in touch with mom. I got SO jealous of my husband. He turned 50 this week, and recieved a Happy Birthday email from David, and all I said was "why didn't he write to me?" . I'm so bad!
Aug 9, 2013
Sherry
Aug 9, 2013
mattsmom
Thanks ladies, it helps knowing I'm not the only one.
However I sent him another email yesterday saying I was getting worried. Yesterday our 16 year old daughter answered a call from a strange guy asking for my husband or myself, he wouldn't leave a message, so she panicked and said, "What if something happened to Matt? ", so that made it worse. I woke up this morning checked my IPhone and Matt had said he was really busy and tired, and he was sorry!! Phew!!
My husband is retired AF (22) years, so he gets mad at me, saying give the boy a break, but he's my baby, so its hard, right ladies??
Hope you all hear something soon, take care, Sue
Aug 9, 2013
dawny64
I guess I'm the lucky one my Sailor called while they were in port last week and then yesterday because he wanted to check up on his Dad who was suppose to have knee surgery yesterday. The longest I have went without hearing from him is 3 weeks.
Aug 9, 2013
Kimberly P
Last week I got a unknown number and I answered thinking this might be my sailor and it was a young male voice asking to speak to me and I was thinking...this is my son being funny and no it was not, it was my tv service calling to offer me something and when I hung up I cried for an hour. I know how silly, but I hate the never knowing when and if they will call.
I had not heard from him in over a week either. I got an email yesterday and he said it has been "crazy busy at work" is why he has not sent me a message lately. I know he must have felt bad because instead of the usual 1 line I got 6, so I guess it evens out :)
Aug 10, 2013
willsmom
Aug 10, 2013
Mary (Chris' mom)
Ok, I just got an email from my son and he started a conversation with one of the guys in his squadron last night. Come to find out my son was a senior in hs the same year this sailor was a freshman at the same school! They had a good evening talking about their ROTC classes and instructors. They also shared memories of local hangouts, neighborhoods, and restaurants. I think it was one of the best times he's had since he has been in Japan! His email was so upbeat. If the other sailor is the son of a mom here, I just want to say thank you for sharing your sailor with mine. It makes him realize that no matter where in the world he goes, thought the world it huge, "it's a small world after all." :-)
Navy Hugs to All
Aug 10, 2013
Teresa(Ryan's mom)
I just tried to reply to my sons email address and it came back undeliverable. He and I have had no trouble emailing until today. Anyone else get a bounce back email?
Aug 10, 2013
Mary (Chris' mom)
I've emailed my son a couple of times this evening and none have come back yet, but his job requires him to be on the computer so that might have something to do with it. Or it might be that I got mine to him just in time. Good luck getting through Teresa, I know how frustrating it is to have to wait to send a string of emails.
Aug 10, 2013
sethsmom
My son's email rejected a couple months ago and cause us to panic because we hadn't heard from him for 4 months. come to find out his mailbox was full and that's why it bounced. Maybe that's what happened with your son too.
Aug 11, 2013
MaggieMay
Hello ladies!
I had some emails bounce back about a month ago. I just re-sent them the next day and they went thru. I just figured that when they're out at sea the internet connection goes in & out.
Willsmom - hang in there! Yeah it's tough when they go overseas...the lack of communication really sucks but it makes those precious emails & phone calls sooooo exciting. I hope you hear from him soon.
Mary (Chris' mom) - cool story! Hope you can connect with that other Sailors mom that would be awesome.
Hope everyone is having a great weekend and {{{{{{hugs}}}}} to all!
Aug 11, 2013
willsmom
Aug 11, 2013
ccrred50
Hey all,
New to this type of correspondence so bear with me. Miss my son, haven't heard from him in a few weeks. I know that's normal but it is tough to get used to
Aug 11, 2013
Mary (Chris' mom)
ccrred50, You are right, it is an adjustment. I thought it was bad when my son went to his first overseas duty station and we could talk for 4 or 5 days in a row for hours and then suddenly I would not hear from him for a couple of weeks other than a fast email. Now, he is overseas and his wife is too so he does not feel the need to call mom so often, he calls his wife when he is in a port. :-( I know however that there are Navy personnel in other areas of the world where they are likely to see combat so I remind myself...it could be worse, it could be worse.
Aug 11, 2013
J Peder
Mary (Chris' mom)
My son had the same thing happen to him in talking to a fellow sailor. Only they find out not only are they from the same State but they went to the same church together. It is a 'Big' but 'Small' world.
Haven't heard from him for awhile other than he is busy and on night duty. With the time difference I guess I will settle for a quick one liner email until they hit land somewhere.
Aug 11, 2013
Sherry
I talked to him this morning and he has strep throat...poor baby!!!
Ladies hope you guys are doing good!!! Have an awesome week!!!
Aug 12, 2013
Mary (Chris' mom)
JPeder, How awesome! I know how that must make them feel to know that not only are there folks with them from their area but who they can connect directly with! It must be a real comfort and pass a lot of time to be able to go back through memories with someone else.
Sherry, My son will not send anything home until near Christmas, but he did say he had bought enough stuffed koalas and 'roos for each and every kid on his side of the family and his wife's side too. When I asked about sending him a box of stuff he refused it. He said his seabag is soooo full, he is going to have a hard time getting off the ship and onto the shuttle back to Atsugi as it is!
Aug 13, 2013
punkinsmom
Aug 14, 2013
cbc mom
Robin & Punkinsmom -- I'll be there as well. Flying in from California!!!!!
Aug 14, 2013
MaggieMay
Happy Day Ladies!
Well I'm jealous of those going to Family Cruise Day!!!! Oh but I wish you all a great trip and please share pics and stories. Happy Happy Times!
Aug 15, 2013
Navymommaria
Aug 15, 2013
punkinsmom
Aug 16, 2013
TexasSailorMom
For those who may not know, we cannot say when or where they will be. That includes when they well be back in Japan, its for their safety.
Aug 17, 2013
cbc mom
Robyn & Punkinsmom -- I'll be arriving the latter part of the week. I'm actually staying at Atsugi my 1st night. Then head to Navy Lodge where the 2 special events will be then head back to Atsugi. My son bought a car so I'm assuming he'll be driving me around. Although I'd love to ride the train.
I'm told its hot and humid right now and to possibly bring a small umbrella.
Aug 18, 2013
sethsmom
Hi all, What is Family Cruise Day? We haven't heard from our son since May. Figure he's working hard and having fun. He's not very communicative. Does any one know what "got my rating and points" means.
Aug 18, 2013
bsb
Sethsmom: Did your son go in as undesignated (or the PAC-apprentice program)? If yes, then my guess is he put in a "strike for a rate" and got it. Which means he applied for a certain job and got it. I'm not sure about the points thing. I am still knew to this too, and my son went in as undesignated and hasn't been there long enough yet to apply for a rate. That's why I'm guessing!
Aug 19, 2013
sethsmom
Thanks so much for the info. I have no idea if he was undesignated. I don't think so but not sure. He is an Airman and went to school in Pensacola after bootcamp and before he went to the ship. He said he was designated for engine training but had to wait. Maybe that's what his comment was in regard to.
How do you know about the Friends and Family cruise? My husband and I would absolutely love to do this with our son. We would finally get to see him. We miss him so very much!!! As you all miss you sailors too!
Aug 21, 2013
sethsmom
Thanks Katlanta! All of the moms on this site are so helpful. If I ever get to talk to my son, I will be sure to ask him about it. Happy for you that your son will be a little closer to home soon. It's so hard not being able to talk to him unless he calls. We just keep sending letters and packages and hope he will eventually have a desire to make contact.
Aug 21, 2013
Chris Catlin
Thanks for the full address. been sending letters but have not heard if he has received them yet....also never heard about the family cruise deal!!! I couldn't have made it anyway this year but it would have been nice to know about it...boy it is a communication thing that "stinks"...
Aug 22, 2013
MaggieMay
I agree it's so hard not being able to talk to our Sailors. Fingers crossed we all start getting phone calls soon.
Have a Great Day Ladies and Stay Strong!
Aug 22, 2013
Sherry
Aug 22, 2013
Mary (Chris' mom)
Mine is back at Atsugi now. :-) He says he will Skype tomorrow after he and his wife have some time together. Woohoo! katlanta, I know you are super pumped this time. Sorry you didn't get up here for the 'ritas this summer but our weather has been just miserable. I've been dumping chemicals into the pool and draining out rain water but I bet I've only been in the water about 4 times. The water can't even get warm this year, but... Anyway, I will send you a pm sometime so you can call me and maybe come up next summer. You can tell me from the mom view what Japan is like. :-)
Aug 22, 2013
punkinsmom
Aug 23, 2013
J Peder
Talked to my son tonite also. I was lucky because the rest of the household was sleeping so I didn't have to share the phone call what so ever.!!!! He will call again so he can talk to his dad and brothers.
Have a fun time all you moms etc that are in Japan right now
Aug 23, 2013
Sherry
Aug 23, 2013
MaggieMay
Happy Momma here - I got a call from my Sailor this morning! YEAH
Robyn & Punkinsmom - How exciting for you and all the families who are over there. We definitely want pictures!!! Have a great time.
Aug 23, 2013
punkinsmom
As for pictures, joshmom, I need some assistance. How do i upload from the IPAD.
J Pedar, selfish we are and we understand. I had to share Punkin with my mom, but it was after I kept sniffing and touching her. Lol. It's all good.
I'm grateful for this sight. To meet Robyn in the airport and navigate to Yokosuka, wonderful.
It's 0135, I'm up tapping on the iPad, my body doesn't know I'm in another time zone. So here we go....
Have a splendid weekend. Don't forget I need help to upload pictures
Aug 23, 2013