Boot Camp Moms (and loved ones)

To everyone with a loved one at RTC or soon to be there, we say, "Welcome!"  To those who are sticking around after PIR to help those who are just beginning this awesome journey, we say, "Thank you!"

**BEGINNING OCTOBER 5, 2023, RECRUIT GRADUATIONS WILL BE CONDUCTED EVERY THURSDAY (NO LONGER ON FRIDAY), EXCEPT FOR THE WEEK OF THANKSGIVING, WHEN GRADUATION IS ON WEDNESDAY.

This is a place to talk, ask questions, and share stories. It is our desire that this Group will provide the information, encouragement, and support you need while your loved one is at RTC in Great Lakes. Enjoy your time here and feel free to Comment and join in the Discussions. Be sure to check out the "Pages" to the right, located under the pictures of the Members, especially OPSEC and PERSEC (Making Changes to Your Profile), (Click "View All" to see all of them.)

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  • Ro'sMom

    C'sProudMomma My SR is also going to Pensacola after PIR on 03/20

    Different Ship and Division though~ we'll see you in GL!

  • Tiff S

    My son is in boot camp now for past 5wks. They took his cell & gave him no option to keep
  • FireTeamLeaderWife aka FTLW

    Don't believe the rumors...the cell phone will come home.

    Don't let your Recruits get "tricked" into the idea of it either.

    Many of you are not aware of this yet as you are not at that point but, It's the equivalent of contraband to bring one onboard after PIR when they return from Liberty.

    That being the case, you can see why they are not allowed to keep them.

    Send/mail your Recruits with a good phone card with plenty of minutes on them. Most take off minutes with each use just for using them. That is why you can get one for like 600-700 minutes for twenty bucks or so.

    Plus, most will share theirs with those that don't have one. We here about that kindness over and over on the PIR groups.

    Cell phones may come home in parts, battery removed (if it can be). Make sure you search pants pockets and shoes for it.

    If they don't send anything home BUT the phone then it should come in a manila type padded envelope.

  • FireTeamLeaderWife aka FTLW

  • lemonelephant

    Here are the current PIR groups:

    PIR: 02/06/2015 TG 13 - 13 Divisions (085-094, 806, 913 and 914) 3 guests

    No PIR 02/13/2015

    No PIR 02/20/2015

    PIR: 02/27/2015 TG 16 - 8 Divisions (095-100, 915 and 916) 4 guests

    PIR: 03/06/2015 TG 17 - 7 Divisions (101-106 and 917) 4 guests

    PIR: 03/13/2015 TG 18 - 7 Divisions (107-112 and 918) 4 guests

    PIR: 03/20/2015 TG 19 - 9 Divisions (113-118, 807, 808 and 919) 4 guests

    PIR: 03/27/2015 TG 20 - 11 Divisions (119-128 and 920) 4 guests

    Click on the date and join to connect with others with loved ones training with your recruit.

  • lemonelephant

    Thanks, FTLW.

  • lemonelephant

    Air Force recruits and SOME Army recruits have the option to keep their cell phones for use for calls, but Navy recruits MUST send the cell phones home. Yes, there are some Sailors who are doing RAP duty who will pass on bad info, especially about being permitted to keep cell phones. I don't know why they would do that, but some do.

  • diannep

    In the past, I have occasionally seen a post by someone on here who says that their SR kept their cell phone.  A HUGE no no if they did and are caught with it!  And they WILL be caught eventually....they are always being watched, not only by their RDCs, but by the recruit leaders who will get in big trouble themselves if they know about a situation with a SR and don't report it.  So I agree with what FTLW and lemonelephant are saying here....they should NOT do it.

  • Renee

    Heck, according to my neighbor his nephew, who is in the Army ,was able to go home for Christmas this year in the MIDDLE of basic and then go back to finish it off. The Navy is def. on a different page than the other branches lol 

  • lemonelephant

    Yep, very different.

  • FLNavymom

    Walgreens does carry phone cards. I got my SR one with 350 min for $20.
  • TexasmomShip13

    My son is Ship 13 Division 116. Can't wait to see y'all at PIR!
  • Anti M

    You will see people asking about Family Day, the Army does a day to visit with the new graduate, with a picnic and games.  Navy doesn't do that.  You can tell which recruits have family members familiar with other branches!

  • TJ Proudnavymom

    My son has a friend that recently graduated Army BC. While it's true they get cell phones, Face Time and holidays/weekends they are there much longer than our future sailors.

  • diannep

    I understand that the Navy used to have a Family Night the night before PIR but they haven't done that in a long time....it was before my son was there in 2009/2010.  Of course, now families cannot see their sailors until PIR.

  • CatMom509

    Happy Friday!

         "O Lord, I will honor and praise Your name,

          for You are my God.  You do such wonderful things!"

                                                                        Isaiah 25:1

  • vbmom26

    Just a quick pass on for those not on fb div919 may get to call sunday...crossing fingers i need a real call
  • ConcernedMom

    Thanks CatMom509 for your Scriptures bright way to start the day!!   

  • Christal

    Thank you CatMom509. I enjoy your daily scripture. 

  • Stef

    I'm so excited! Hubby told me I have another letter at the house!

    We got a call from Chicago last night, around 11, no one was on the other end. I was up for hours after worrying... hopefully it was just a wrong number, they are all in bed at that time, right?

  • lemonelephant

    boyscoutmomtoo, sometimes a recruit will be permitted to make a call from the RDC's office outside of normal hours for some reason, but yes, unless he was on Watch, your recruit should have been in his rack at that time since you are in the same time zone.

  • Stef

    Well hopefully that means it was a wrong number. Crossing my fingers. Thanks lemonelephant!

  • mtnestr

    I thought I would let everyone know we stayed at Navy Lodge this weekend for PIR.  Our sailor is flying out for A school......had no problems with him coming to the hotel with us today.

  • C'sProudMomma

    ibkrissi, what you're going through is absolutely natural and normal.  My one and only son is currently at RTC.  He left 1/21.  The week leading up to his departure was absolute torture.  (and the first couple days after he left too.)  But I promise...it will be SO much better in a couple weeks. Once they get settled and you get a phone call and a letter or two all will be good!  Be brave for him...be proud.  They're doing great things. Hugs.

  • Caroline

    Hi everyone! My daughter just shipped for RTC on 2/3. My son, her twin, had PIR on 9/12/14. Here we go again! Waiting for that letter with her address and PIR date :)
  • lemonelephant

    Everyone, if you haven't done so lately, check your My Page. You may have comments and not even know it if notifications for comments are turned off for your My Page.

  • Anna

    Thank you Catmom509 for the scriptures!!

  • Jettsmom

    What a wonderful PIR. It was so good to see our son. He stays in Great Lakes for A school. The first thing he asked when we picked him was where are you staying because there are two I can't go to. One was Navy Lodge and Im assuming the other was Gateway. I'll post more next week about our experience when I get back home.
  • CatMom509

    Welcome new and returning Mommas!!

  • CatMom509

    Anna,

    You're so welcome!

  • CatMom509

    Jettsmom,

    Thanks for that tidbit!!  It just reinforces what us N4M veterans have been advising on all the future PIR groups~~

  • CatMom509

    ConcernedMom & Christal,

    You both are welcome too!!

  • Navywife_Nuke

    If the recruits are able to call home, would they do it on a Saturday or Sunday?
  • lemonelephant

    Navywife_Nuke, yes, recruits sometimes call on the weekend. See Phone Cards and Phone Calls. That Page gives more info on calls and even gives some times that you can relax and know that you most likely will not receive a call from your recruit.

  • BearsFan731

    Got my first call and it broke me! I know what he is going through because his father went through it, but that my son so I am feeling emotional right now. I pray that you all have A GREAT DAY!

  • lemonelephant

    Here are the current PIR groups:

    No PIR 02/13/2015

    No PIR 02/20/2015

    PIR: 02/27/2015 TG 16 - 8 Divisions (095-100, 915 and 916) 4 guests

    PIR: 03/06/2015 TG 17 - 7 Divisions (101-106 and 917) 4 guests

    PIR: 03/13/2015 TG 18 - 7 Divisions (107-112 and 918) 4 guests

    PIR: 03/20/2015 TG 19 - 9 Divisions (113-118, 807, 808 and 919) 4 guests

    PIR: 03/27/2015 TG 20 - 11 Divisions (119-128 and 920) 4 guests

    Click on the date and join to connect with others with loved ones training with your recruit.

  • FLNavymom

    Letting go is so hard! Having to trust someone else with your child is asking a lot of a mother. I am starting to switch that trust to the one who deserves it. My son. I am trusting his ability to draw on what I and his father have taught him throughout his life. Honesty, integrity, courage and faith in God and himself. N4M's, our children have these attributes or the Navy would not have accepted them. It's what the Navy teaches. We all can make it through this and be better for it. What doesn't break is makes us stronger.
  • CatMom509

    Hello All!

         "For You are my hope, O Lord God;

          You are my trust from my youth."

                                              Psalm 71:5

  • Navywife_Nuke

    What do they do at boot camp on Saturdays?
  • CatMom509

    FLNavymom,

    Yep, and the Navy Core Values of "Honor, Courage, & Commitment" are a strong part of a majority of our Sailors.  Just have to be aware to know why you are there and don't become distracted by things that don't matter.  The Navy is an awesome career and a proud legacy to uphold!  God guides and directs those on this path~~

  • RPSMother

    Catmom509

    Yes, Thank you for your daily scriptures.  It not only helps me, but I sometimes include them in the letters to my SR.

  • BearsFan731

    Thanks DsMom. I just have to continue to pray and thank God for all of his mercy. I know that he will be ok. :)

  • C'sProudMomma

    YAY!  Another call from my son!  Div 116!  I wasn't expecting that at all!  Is that unusual to get two calls withing the first 3 wks of boot camp?

  • RPSMother

    C'sProudMomma

    Great for you.  I am sure you are a proud mom! 

  • mommyof4

    Yes, just received another phone call from my son too! Div 116.. he sound so much better today. ..but I think he has a cold...
  • lemonelephant

    Navywife_Nuke, there is no new training on Saturdays, but recruits do have 5-6 hours of training to review the things that they have learned that week.

  • TexasmomShip13

    My son called his girlfriend tonight. I guess we'll have to wait if there is another phone opportunity.
  • FireTeamLeaderWife aka FTLW

    C'sProudMomma - Nope :-D Congrats!

  • CatMom509

    TexasmomShip13,

    It really depends on how much time the SRs are given on whether they can split the call time up.  Yep, let's hope the next opportunity goes to Mom!!

  • Vickie360

    C'sProudMamma - our calls were interesting. Arrived on Dec 3rd. He called on 20th, 25th, and 27th (all within one week). Then only received one other call which was Jan. 15th. He graduated on the 30th.