Boot Camp Moms (and loved ones)

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  • DragonMom

    I expect to hear from him soon. Hopefully before midnight, but if not I will be awake.

  • Sunspots

    Just got word that my daughter has gotten very little mail since she arrived. A bunch of people have sent her letters and cards, any reason they would hold them back? We use the address she gave in her form letter, which I presume she got from her superiors and is correct. Any info appreciated!!

  • herNavymom

    @ Jennifer ---- thank you for the song. Totally binge watching Sully now.   Making my heart smile.  4 weeks and no word from my daughter. Not sure if the snail mail is really that slower overseas......29 days and counting! 

  • jennifer

    @hernavymom- glad you liked the song. I crank it! He isn't so bad in the eyes either! 29 days is so long I bet it is for her too.I hope you hear something soon. Music helps! Have a good day.
  • tina0327

    Well....getting ready to leave for Meps for the final goodbye....It is an honor to watch him take the first step of the rest of his life :)

  • Butterball

    DragonMom now worries about silver/gray hair. People are actually paying good money to have that color. I am thankful I am totally gray, saved lots of money.

  • NicksMom

    LOL! I have totally white hair and I'm only 54. Not much more my boys can do to it now!
  • soccermom19

    DragonMom - My son texted me "I'm here" at 8:30pm.  Not sure if that meant at the base or at the airport.  Got The Call at 11:40pm that night. 

    Box came yesterday- 7 days later by FEDEX, but there was the 4th of July holiday in between.  No letter yet.  Very anxious about the letter but keeping myself as busy as I can.  But, how busy can I be now that the "baby" (last of 3) has left the nest.  Talk about lost!!!!

  • Leslie mom of 2 sailors

    Sarge's meet and greet. Look up those words exactly and it has all the information. No you will not see your sailor till the PIR
  • DragonMom

    @Soccermom19 & @ ShawnMom - Oh yeah I know what you mean. My baby is the one who joined. I received the official call at 11:30 last night. Now the wait for the rest to arrive. Today stinks as I am home from work until Monday as I begin a new path with my company just as my son is beginning a new path in his life. I am planning on being at PIR come hell or high water. Started the planning now as I have 2 dogs that need boarded and hotel to get. I know about the meet and greet as well so once I have a PIR date I will begin the hardcore planning.

  • tutorlady

    @Soccermom19 & @ ShawnMom & @DragonMom - I too know the feeling of sending off the "baby".  My sailor is the youngest of 4.  So, I am used to kids leaving - but he is the first of his siblings to join the military - so this adjustment had a different set of challenges.  It is SO hard to remember that "No News is Good News" ......Hope you all have a good day.  I have my reservations for PIR but need to get serious about making final plans....

  • soccermom19

    tutorlady - exactly.  The baby is the first military and yes, the no news is good news is hard.  I did not get my letter yet.  Not sure how that will work, but yes I am definitely going. 

    Shawnmom - I cleaned out all the cabinets and the fridge and starting on the closets.  I didn't want to leave the house for fear of not being home when the box arrived. It was like he was coming home  :-)  I even hugged the box when it arrived. 

    Dragonmom - Just like me!!   I have been home and babying the baby for the past 6 weeks before he went and I am starting a new job this coming Monday but I told them I absolutely had to have 2 days off for PIR because I wasn't going to miss it.  My sailor says, it's no big deal - just means I passed the physical fitness test.  He has no idea what being a mom is al about!

    Going to go to the Sarge Meet & Greet.  Don't know what that's all about but I want to be a part of everything there is. 

    Just love this site.  I don't know what I would do without all those folks out there who pass on this info.  We are in it together!!!

  • jennifer

    Ladies...you just wait when they see us at PIR they will be thrilled. My son also said no big deal. We are not military either. 8 yrs ago my son graduated from AF boot camp and I almost didn't make it. It was amazing. The marching and pomp and circumstance. If I had advice to anyone..I would say make sure you get there. It was sad to see some of them without family. They had to stand there at attention while families flocked all around them to their graduates. I wanted to take them all with us for the day! But understabdable, bc some families can't get there for so many reasons.I bet that experience somehow shaped this SR son. We need to talk after our PIRs and compare experiences!
  • Marchella

    anyone else child leave on the 28th and got their letter, I am thinking PIR will be Aug 25 but still no letter, just the box yesterday. I am anxious to get good deals on flights

  • soccermom19

    NancyJo - Ooooo!!!  would love that mani-pedi with wine!!!  Don't know of any near me.

    Marchella.  My SR left on 6/28.  Got the box 7/5.  No letter yet.  Not sure about PIR date.  Am anxious to jump on that air fare too!!  My son left out of Philly - how about your SR?

  • Marchella

    Soccermom19- If you get the letter can you let me know what the date is. Everywhere I am seeing that the kids that got there the week before are on Aug 18, however I hear sometimes when kids get there mid week they have to wait for more SR to arrive so I am hoping its not after the 25th. My son left out of Albuquerque NM- so anxious! Its hard he is my youngest, he is far more mature than his older brother who is 22 and has moved back home. I miss having him around the house-

  • Michele75

    @Dragonmom - I am right there with you!  I watched mine son swear in a few hours ago and he is on his way.  While I have been crying here and there over the past few weeks, I didn't cry this morning.  And I think it is because I know he is in the right place and he will do well there.  So excited for him to start this next chapter in his life.  

  • kingsxbaby

    There are photos of our SR's on Facebook!!!!! Armed Services Blood Drive, Great Lakes, IL.
  • kingsxbaby

    Correction--- It's Armed Forces Blood Program , Great Lakes, IL.

  • tina0327

    Thanks ShawnMom, it was very mixed emotions.  He is my baby of four and the first to follow me in the Military.  I am so proud of him, but so sad to see him go. This is the first time in 29 years that I have an empty nest...it is such a weird feeling 

  • MontanaNavyMom

    I looked for Sarge's Meet and Greet for Thursday, Aug 24 - looks like the Event is not set up yet?    Does anyone know?

  • soccermom19

    kingsxbaby -  I found my son!!!!  I found him!!!  YAH!!!

    OMG - I feel like the kid at Christmas who just got the one thing they have been asking to get for years!!!!  :-)

  • soccermom19

    Kingsxbaby - Thanks so much for letting everyone know that there were pics out there of the blood drive.  It was awesome.  Took some doing to find him.  Naturally he is in the back as he doesn't like to be upfront.  - he's perfect for covert ops :-)  

    But I went through all of the pics and finally found him

  • CONAVYMOM

    Soccermom19 I have been stalking the page and notice they seem to be going in DIV order is your son in one earlier then 224? Thats the latest photos I see. Thanks

  • Proudmama82

    Hi ladies! I'm new to Navy for Moms...my son left today for boot camp. Today has been rough! Hope it gets better:(
  • MaryH

    This is a great venue Proudmama82 I'm sure you will find it helpful and comforting at times

  • soccermom19

    CONAVYMOM - I don't see any numbers at all.  Where are they?

  • CONAVYMOM

    Scroll down on the page. They say as they post them
  • SSseaman

    Thanks for that kingsbaby!
  • Math teacher

    Soccer mom, how did you get to the pics and what division is pictured?
  • lemonelephant

    It is too early for pics of those who arrived last week.

    Check out https://www.facebook.com/NavyRecruitTrainingCommand. The PAO posts random photos randomly. There is no guarantee that your recruit will be photoed, but it is fun to look at the photos and get an idea of what is happening at the RTC. They do not have pages that follow a particular division.

    https://www.facebook.com/ASBPGreatLakes has pics of some of the recruits who give blood while at the RTC. Those donations occur about 2 weeks (10 to 16 days depending on the division) before PIR.

  • lemonelephant

    The recruits (and later Sailors) really do look alike. Many of us have stories of recognizing the wrong recruit or Sailor.

  • lemonelephant

    Here are the current PIR groups:

    PIR: July 7, 2017 TG 35 - 7 Divisions (209-214 & 935) 4 guests

    PIR: July 14, 2017 TG 36 - 9 Divisions (215-220, 815, 816 & 936) 4 guests

    PIR: July 21, 2017 TG 37 - 8 Divisions (221-226, 817 & 937) 4 guests

    PIR: July 28, 2017 TG 38 - 9 Divisions (227-234 & 938) 4 guests

    PIR: August 4, 2017 TG 39 - 11 Divisions (235-244 & 939) 4 guests

    PIR: August 11, 2017 TG 40 - 8 Divisions (245-250, 818 & 940) 4 guests

    PIR: August 18, 2017 TG 41 - 7 Divisions (251-256 & 941) 4 guests

    PIR: August 25, 2017 TG 42 - 9 Divisions (257-264 & 942) 4 guests

    Click on the date of your recruit’s PIR and join the group to connect with others with loved ones training with your recruit.

  • Sam's mom

    HI everyone. We just got back from Sarge's meet and greet and I definitely think all should attend. He has so much information and the food was great! We are staying in Libertyville but I would recommend staying in Waukegan. Also use Sarge's taxi service it may be a little expensive but well worth it. PIR tomorrow! So excited!
  • Sam's mom

    Thanks! I am having trouble falling asleep! I think I got 2 hours the night before!
  • Marchella

    If my son got to BC on wed the 28 th this sund will be his second Sundayntuere so is it possible that we may get a phone call next Sat or Sun the 15 th hat will be his third sat and Sunday- do I have that right?
  • lemonelephant

    Marchella, Calls are totally up to the RDC. Don't expect a call, but have your phone available at all times (especially from 8 am to 8 pm Central Time M-Th and Sat and from 1 pm to 8 pm Central Time on Fridays and Sundays--calls at other times are possible, but generally indicate a problem or a need for information) and be pleasantly surprised when you get a call. See Phone Cards and Phone Calls. (I left more on that on your My Page.)

    You should be able to have a "real" letter next week since he will have holiday routine for the first time on Sunday. See Letter Writing & Fun Stuff/Questionnaires to send to your Recruit.

  • soccermom19

    Good Morning Navy Moms!! 

    So, I think PIR for us is going to be August 28th.  Have not yet received the letter, but hopefully soon.  My SR went in on 6/28.  He is a future Nuke.  6/28 arrival & (tentatively thinking) 8/25 PIR dates. 

    Anyone online with similar dates?  Just booked hotel for the 8/25 date with free cancellation.  So excited!!! 

    Definitely doing the Sarge's Meet and Greet the night before.  Sounds like a great time and informative too.  Hope I meet many of you moms there.  It sure has been great reading the comments online.

    Have a great day!!! 

  • herNavymom

    If you are waiting on the letter to determine PIR - while you are waiting for the official letter, contact your Sailor's recruiter and they should have a PIR date and sometimes they may also know if they will leave that Friday after graduation (Grad 'n Go) or be there for the weekend. Some leave on Saturday and others leave on Sunday.  Happy Friday!! 

  • Marchella

    soccermom19 I am there with you, my son left on 6/28- I am hoping for the form letter today but I did book at Navylodge with free cancellation for the 25th of Aug. I am so excited also, I feel like a little kid going to Disney World- myson is a grad and go so we will be going to Pensacola FL to spend more time with him. I cant wait. What about you

  • Marchella

    I signed up for the infromed delivery and still no letter today ;(,

    If anyones child that left on the 28th gets the form letter can you let me know- I really want to plan for the 25th. I am trying to be patient.....but Im like a little kid on Christmas morning

  • Sam's mom

    FYI...graduation was awesome today! However it was hot! Wear light weight clothing but take a jacket just in case. Take a some sort of bleacher cushion and sit at the end of an of a row. I hope this helps it can be the little things that make a difference. The sailors looked so sharp today and Rear Admiral Faller speech was wonderful. I'm so proud to be a navy mom!
  • jennifer

    Sam's mom, great info. Thank you. I bet it was amazing. Hope you are with your sailor now! Congratulations!
  • soccermom19

    Marchella, mail has come and gone for today.  No letter. :-(  And I feel exactly the same as you.  Did book the hotel assuming 8/25.  I'm at Marriott Chicago/Waukega.  Booked to come in the night before so I can attend Sarge's Meet & Greet as well as PIR.  Will you be at both?

  • hope4answers

    I agree, Sam's mom. PIR IS Amazing, but these tidbits of info for the "had I known .." situations are jewels indeed. In looking back over the past year (my son's PIR was 8-12-16) End seats, either floor or top (if you're short like me, you may have to stand on the top bleacher to see with binoculars) Get there early to find a good seat, the bleacher cushion with a back would have been a great help as well. Comfortable walking shoes as the PIR hall is quite a ways from parking or where the shuttle buses drop off/pick up. Your sailor may say it's not a big deal to be there, but you'll be so glad if you can make the trip. This site has been so helpful & encouraging. Thank you, thank you, thank you, Ladies!

  • tutorlady

    @ Sam's mom and @hope4answers - I know this sounds totally vain - but how do you suggest dressing?  We have a dad, mom, brother and girlfriend that will be attending PIR in a few weeks. We also have one extra brother.  Would you suggest him going on base to try to watch from the chapel; or, staying at the hotel to watch?  We are staying at Navy Lodge.

  • Marchella

    soocermom19- yes we are going to both I wouldnt miss it for the world. Did you say your son left on Monday the 26th? Mine was the 28th- Got his box on Wednesday the 5th- Hopefully it will be the 25th, I did book at the Navy lodge cuz it was cheap- hopefully that was a good decision- His recruiter is the one that told me to book it there- have you heard anything on the navy lodge

  • soccermom19

    Marchella,  I checked out the Navy Lodge,  Yes better price.  Looks good!!!  Son left on 6/28 same as your son.  I will be looking out for you so we can connect and talk.

  • Sam's mom

    Tutorlady-yesterday at the meet and greet, Sarge said they were not allowing anyone in the chapel. Whether that actually happened I don't know. The hotel will live stream PIR so you may want to make your decision after the meet and greet. Most people dressed nice like business casual but there were some in jeans or shorts. So I would say nice but comfortable because you will do,a lot of walking afterwards,so especially comfortable shoes like hope4answers stated.
  • Marchella

    Soccermom19 did you get your letter?