Boot Camp Moms (and loved ones)

To everyone with a loved one at RTC or soon to be there, we say, "Welcome!"  To those who are sticking around after PIR to help those who are just beginning this awesome journey, we say, "Thank you!"

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  • Trillsmom

    My Son is on Ship 04 Div 270. I was wondering if anyone knows what the number looks like they call from does it come up as Great Lakes on a cell phone?

  • 3B'smom

    Trillsmom - when my son called it showed up as North Chicago. Others have said "pay phone" or "Waukegan". Hope that helps.
  • tutorlady

    @Trillsmom , Lady Bug, 3B's mom - the area code there is 847.  But since my sailor has been at GL, I have gotten serious about answering any calls.  I can always hang up if it is an unwanted call.  (And believe me, prior to now, I have NEVER answered calls that I didn't recognize the number.  Your whole mindset changes!)  Have a good day, all!!!!

  • Path to greater things

    Me too. I hust got call said illonois and my heart bout flipped! Was telemarketing. Grrr.
  • tutorlady

    @Path to greater things. That has happened to me as well.  What a letdown - but also what a relief.  "No news is good news" but sometimes you feel desperate for ANY news. Hang in there!!!! Prayers for you and your sailor!!!!

  • NickSydmom

    I would love to hear from my guy. I was scouring websites for information and found out they sometimes remove the kids wisdom teeth. I bet they took out my guys. That's one of those things you want to be there so you can baby them. My husband, being a man, said if they did they saved us a bunch of money. Either way I know the kid will tough it out
  • Tffytat

    Tutorlady you are not alone. I was the same exact way! Now I answer EVERYTHING lol
  • jennifer

    Nicknukemom- the wisdom teeth would stress me out
    My husband said the same thing. The moment my son joined...I called the surgeon and 4 were removed in Feb. It was funny...a friend of his had them at the same time. Her mom is deceased. So I felt helpful the 2 of them hung out for the weekend and healed and I waited on them. I only knew about this bc other son had Airforce remove his.
  • librarianmom

    I had an appointment all set up for removing wisdom teeth at home...and then found it was too close to when he shipped.  I was super upset.  Hoping if they remove them now he recovers fast!

  • tutorlady

    @librarianmom - I would be anxious, too.  I took my sailor to the dentist about a month before his ship.  Xrays showed he only had one wisdom tooth - but he DID have 2 cavities that we had cared for here.  I am praying that all is well with your sailor.  "No news is good news"'; but, "no news" can drive you crazy!!!

  • Ack

    The call I received last week from my son said "Vietnam".  It was an 847 area code. So, don't avoid any calls!

  • NickSydmom

    Jennifer did your Air Force guy say how bad it was? Are there dentists brutal?
  • Esti'sMom

    My daughter had two of her wisdom teeth removed in week 2. She wasn't feeling so great, and had 2 SIQ days. And the "no news" definitely holds true. I got a call just about 2 weeks ago... she was moved to RCU due to a stress fracture in her foot:( So now it's the wait and heal game.
  • NickSydmom

    Oh esti's mom that is horrible. Remember us ladies are tough
  • Esti'sMom

    Nicknukemom, I try to remind myself that all the time :)
  • ScooterGirl

    Welcome to all the new members. Because of my crazy work schedule I don't post often, but I do read daily. My sons PIR was on July 7 and he's been safely at his " A" school for just over a week now. Since I'm a " seasoned " Navy mom now lol I thought I'd offer a few pieces of advice to all the new members.
    1: ANSWER EVERY call you get. One of his calls routed through Vietnam and I didn't answer, because who would unless you know someone there. Thankfully he called his dad right after, so we were able to talk. So even if it's not a 847 or Chicago area number answer.

    2: Take SHOUT wipes with you to the PIR. Accidents happen and they need to keep their dress whites clean(ish). He was told TIDE stain pens could turn the white uniform yellow.

    3: If you can have them mail home the photos of them. It will cost more , but you won't be standing in a long line waiting to pick them up. We received ours the Monday after his PIR

    4: Take toiletries with you to the hotel for them , just in case they want to take a long shower. And also some comfortable clothes to wear inside the hotel room. Remember if they leave the room they have to be in full dress uniform.

    5: My son choose to take a 3 hour nap after seeing the big comfy bed and sheets. I missed out on talking to him for 3 hours , but it was completely worth it knowing he was getting some much needed rest.

    6: If you will be going to the airport to see them off , be prepared for a possibly VERY long day.

    And lastly take a deep breath and enjoy this crazy roller coaster ride called Boot Camp.
  • jennifer

    Nukemom...he only had 1. Said it was ok. But I'm a nurse...so I am particular about certain things. What made me take Wes was a Marine friend had 4 out. It was tough for him. Many families don't know about this so they don't think about a dressing it prior to leaving. I had New dental insurance so that helped. It was costly. My feeling is surgery no matter what type is scary. Navy will be more like Airforce- they will take care of them. They want them to heal quickly and get back inline. With 4 out...he was good by day 3 just to let you know. By day 7 stitches were healed.
  • Tffytat

    ScooterGirl thank you for the advice. Congratulations to you and your family!
  • Mar3n1

    One other thing to be prepared for. My son just graduated on July 7th as well and 8 weeks without electronics for kids this day and age is a long time. His order of business was phone and social media catch up then a hot shower for an hour then Xbox with his brother. Luckily he stayed in GL so we got Saturday and Sunday to visit and talk.
  • Path to greater things

    Scootergirl. Thank you. All the posts are so helpful in processing this journey.
  • Phoenixmom

    Scootergirl thank you for the update, so basically your saying everywhere beside the hotel he has to wear his uniform? so inside the hotel he can lounge correct. say if we were to BBQ outside the hotel will he still be able to wear his lounge clothes or would he have to be in uniform? just want to make sure I know what to take for him. Now once the Guys/Girls go to their A school will they be able to take anything back with them? I want to make sure before I leave that he Has what he needs. so is their a list of what can be taken back with him to his A school there in Great lakes? Thank you any advise would help!

  • Mar3n1

    I can help clarify one part of that. Outside of your hotel room they have to be in uniform. So if he runs out to the car he must be in uniform.
  • Soccer Mom

    I concur with the others about the phone calls.  My calls said "goverment" or a shortened version.  

  • Phoenixmom

    ok thanks for the update, but I thought I read that they can go swimming also, and most hotels have those outside does he need permission? Don't want my Bud to get into trouble so that is why I am asking silly questions, just want to make sure he can enjoy himself with his family and relax. Thanks!

  • ScooterGirl

    Okay to answer a few questions. If they step foot outside the hotel room the MUST be in full Dress Uniform They can swim but they must wear their Navy issues swim trunks that they were given at BC.
    No they can't take anything back with them. Anything you want to send with them ( cell phone , etc) will have to be given to them at the airport. But remember they have their seabag, garment bag and a backpack already , so make sure it's small enough to fit in their backpack. Anything else can be mailed to them once they are at "A" school. As a side note THEY have to carry all their bags , so don't even offer to help them. If I missed anything I do apologize, today is my first day off since getting back from PIR so I'm a tad sleepy
  • TessaNator⚓️

    NicksMom,

    I didn't know they can send emails at all from BC?

  • NicksMom

    I wasn't expecting it. He sent me an email on the 8th with his address snd said he could only check emails on Sunday.
  • TessaNator⚓️

    dont worry LIbrarianmom, military trained Dentists have an unusual amt. of experience in removing wisdom teeth. I was in Dentistry 30 yrs, worked with several Military trained Dentists, they are great at Wisdom teeth.  If they are partial bony extraction (tooth partially errupted) they will be a piece of cake.

  • raising3247

    Answer every phone call. If your son or daughter is using a phone card it can show up from any state on your caller ID.
  • Butterball

    ScooterGirl, my son will be staying at GL for A school, so when will he be allowed to have his cell phone, computer, etc, items I am bringing to PIR? From what I am gathering, I can give him these items at the Navy Lodge after PIR, during his Liberty? Do I have that right? Thank you in advance for your advice.

  • Sailor mom soon

    When my SR called on Sunday, I asked if he had his wisdom teeth taken out. He said yes, on Thursday. Was SIQ for 2 days, and wad feeling fine on Sunday. I'm sure the dentists in there are very good. They do not want them not feeling well for very long. Like my son told me before he left and I was hoping he would be fed well... "Mom, I'm going to the Navy, not prison." Lol...Miss that kid!
  • NickSydmom

    Sailor mom, what day did your guy go in?
  • Sailor mom soon

    He left June27. PIR date 25/Aug.
  • ScooterGirl

    Butterball - that I don't know since my son traveled for his "A" school. I'm sure someone here will be able to answer that question.

    Mom1997 - when you get your form letter from your SR with the PIR date , there should be a pamphlet in there with a list of hotels in the area. If not I'd be happy to list them for you.
  • Butterball

    Thanks, I will be looking back later for a replay.

  • NickSydmom

    Sailor mom thanks for the info. I'm glad to hear he healed quickly
  • Gundo Girl

    Does every recruit have to have their wisdom teeth out whether they need to come out or not? Mu son had regular dental check ups and our dentist never mentioned that he'd need them removed.
  • Soccer Mom

    Duplicate post from PIR July 21:  I have really enjoyed everyone and their questions and learned a lot...but have mostly stayed quiet.  My son asked what we are going to do  after graduation and I told him that I figured he would want to sleep some, take a good shower, etc and that we could go out to eat.  He does NOT want to sleep when he is with us and waste that time, he wants to be with us.  YIKES...what can we do?  

  • dagem1

    HI  My son did not have his wisdom teeth removed.  he was 18 at BC,  he is 19 now, in Norfolk VA.  his wisdom teeth were FULLY IN and causing no issues apparently, and they did not remove them.

  • dagem1

    Soccer Mom -  we took the train (https://metrarail.com/maps-schedules/train-lines/UP-N/stations/GRTL...)   out of Great Lakes station into downtown Chicago to Navy Pier and then grabbed a local bus to the (free!) Lincoln Park Zoo, and went out for Pizza.

  • librarianmom

    Since we are bringing my son's girlfriend, I think he will want to do something instead of sleep too.  But we will have some "relaxing" time at the hotel too I am guessing.  

  • jennifer

    Gundogirl...no they don't. My son had 2 that we questionable. The surgeon said since he is going to boot camp I will take all 4. Many people don't need them removed.
  • Soccer Mom

    dagem1:  Thank you so much.  That sounds like a great idea!

  • brynne21

    Someone asked about personal effects for their sailor who will be staying at GL for school. You can give them their phone/tablet after they outpricess from RTC and get processed in over at their school. That will be Friday-later in the day. It could be 2 hours, it could be 5. My son's processing took about 2 hours. We didn't get far. I gave him his phone. Make sure your sailor picks all his stuff up from the RTC NEX at that time. It will be a real pain to try to get it at any point beyond that. That includes mail and the picture order.
  • brynne21

    When I say mail, I mean graduation care packages that were ordered for your SR.
  • brynne21

    Last thing, my son mentioned in passing that he had pink eye and his wisdom teeth removed. This was on the phone once while he was in basic. He acted like it was no big deal, so I left it at that. The Navy wants them in the best shape possible. They don't want any medical flare ups while on a ship or on deployment somewhere.
  • CFLMama (ship 3 Div245)

    @TessaNator unfortunately only SRs in ship 03 get a tablet that they can email from

  • TessaNator⚓️

    ShawnMom: good advice.  I'm gonna let my SR son choose what he wants to do, I think he would love to go into Chicago....but we shall see.

    I'm hoping I get a list of 'A' school wants I can pack and ship too. Its been 3 weeks since he left.  I have been in Hawaii for 11 days, just got home.  It was easier not to think about his 'as much' there because we were sooo busy, but now I am home and missing him so much today.

    When he comes back to the hotel to visit, I would be happy just watching him sleep or scratching his back (he loves this), or whatever. 

    I know we will only have till about 8 pm to visit because he flies out to GC in SC next day. My time will be cut short.

    I will be visiting SC a couple times this year for sure.

    We miss our kids

  • CathyDB

    Take the Metra. It's about 30 minutes to the middle of downtown. Costs about $6-7. No traffic worries!!
  • Mar3n1

    We let our Sailor do all the planning. Figured he earned it.