Boot Camp Moms (and loved ones)

To everyone with a loved one at RTC or soon to be there, we say, "Welcome!"  To those who are sticking around after PIR to help those who are just beginning this awesome journey, we say, "Thank you!"

**BEGINNING OCTOBER 5, 2023, RECRUIT GRADUATIONS WILL BE CONDUCTED EVERY THURSDAY (NO LONGER ON FRIDAY), EXCEPT FOR THE WEEK OF THANKSGIVING, WHEN GRADUATION IS ON WEDNESDAY.

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  • NicksMom

    I wasn't expecting it. He sent me an email on the 8th with his address snd said he could only check emails on Sunday.
  • TessaNator⚓️

    dont worry LIbrarianmom, military trained Dentists have an unusual amt. of experience in removing wisdom teeth. I was in Dentistry 30 yrs, worked with several Military trained Dentists, they are great at Wisdom teeth.  If they are partial bony extraction (tooth partially errupted) they will be a piece of cake.

  • raising3247

    Answer every phone call. If your son or daughter is using a phone card it can show up from any state on your caller ID.
  • Butterball

    ScooterGirl, my son will be staying at GL for A school, so when will he be allowed to have his cell phone, computer, etc, items I am bringing to PIR? From what I am gathering, I can give him these items at the Navy Lodge after PIR, during his Liberty? Do I have that right? Thank you in advance for your advice.

  • Sailor mom soon

    When my SR called on Sunday, I asked if he had his wisdom teeth taken out. He said yes, on Thursday. Was SIQ for 2 days, and wad feeling fine on Sunday. I'm sure the dentists in there are very good. They do not want them not feeling well for very long. Like my son told me before he left and I was hoping he would be fed well... "Mom, I'm going to the Navy, not prison." Lol...Miss that kid!
  • NickSydmom

    Sailor mom, what day did your guy go in?
  • Sailor mom soon

    He left June27. PIR date 25/Aug.
  • ScooterGirl

    Butterball - that I don't know since my son traveled for his "A" school. I'm sure someone here will be able to answer that question.

    Mom1997 - when you get your form letter from your SR with the PIR date , there should be a pamphlet in there with a list of hotels in the area. If not I'd be happy to list them for you.
  • Butterball

    Thanks, I will be looking back later for a replay.

  • NickSydmom

    Sailor mom thanks for the info. I'm glad to hear he healed quickly
  • Gundo Girl

    Does every recruit have to have their wisdom teeth out whether they need to come out or not? Mu son had regular dental check ups and our dentist never mentioned that he'd need them removed.
  • Soccer Mom

    Duplicate post from PIR July 21:  I have really enjoyed everyone and their questions and learned a lot...but have mostly stayed quiet.  My son asked what we are going to do  after graduation and I told him that I figured he would want to sleep some, take a good shower, etc and that we could go out to eat.  He does NOT want to sleep when he is with us and waste that time, he wants to be with us.  YIKES...what can we do?  

  • dagem1

    HI  My son did not have his wisdom teeth removed.  he was 18 at BC,  he is 19 now, in Norfolk VA.  his wisdom teeth were FULLY IN and causing no issues apparently, and they did not remove them.

  • dagem1

    Soccer Mom -  we took the train (https://metrarail.com/maps-schedules/train-lines/UP-N/stations/GRTL...)   out of Great Lakes station into downtown Chicago to Navy Pier and then grabbed a local bus to the (free!) Lincoln Park Zoo, and went out for Pizza.

  • librarianmom

    Since we are bringing my son's girlfriend, I think he will want to do something instead of sleep too.  But we will have some "relaxing" time at the hotel too I am guessing.  

  • jennifer

    Gundogirl...no they don't. My son had 2 that we questionable. The surgeon said since he is going to boot camp I will take all 4. Many people don't need them removed.
  • Soccer Mom

    dagem1:  Thank you so much.  That sounds like a great idea!

  • brynne21

    Someone asked about personal effects for their sailor who will be staying at GL for school. You can give them their phone/tablet after they outpricess from RTC and get processed in over at their school. That will be Friday-later in the day. It could be 2 hours, it could be 5. My son's processing took about 2 hours. We didn't get far. I gave him his phone. Make sure your sailor picks all his stuff up from the RTC NEX at that time. It will be a real pain to try to get it at any point beyond that. That includes mail and the picture order.
  • brynne21

    When I say mail, I mean graduation care packages that were ordered for your SR.
  • brynne21

    Last thing, my son mentioned in passing that he had pink eye and his wisdom teeth removed. This was on the phone once while he was in basic. He acted like it was no big deal, so I left it at that. The Navy wants them in the best shape possible. They don't want any medical flare ups while on a ship or on deployment somewhere.
  • CFLMama (ship 3 Div245)

    @TessaNator unfortunately only SRs in ship 03 get a tablet that they can email from

  • TessaNator⚓️

    ShawnMom: good advice.  I'm gonna let my SR son choose what he wants to do, I think he would love to go into Chicago....but we shall see.

    I'm hoping I get a list of 'A' school wants I can pack and ship too. Its been 3 weeks since he left.  I have been in Hawaii for 11 days, just got home.  It was easier not to think about his 'as much' there because we were sooo busy, but now I am home and missing him so much today.

    When he comes back to the hotel to visit, I would be happy just watching him sleep or scratching his back (he loves this), or whatever. 

    I know we will only have till about 8 pm to visit because he flies out to GC in SC next day. My time will be cut short.

    I will be visiting SC a couple times this year for sure.

    We miss our kids

  • CathyDB

    Take the Metra. It's about 30 minutes to the middle of downtown. Costs about $6-7. No traffic worries!!
  • Mar3n1

    We let our Sailor do all the planning. Figured he earned it.
  • Butterball

    brynne21 that was me, thank you for your information. My brain is just so overloaded these days. Thank you again for answering my question about when I would be able to give my son his phone. Another question, I am sorry, for being a pest, but are we allowed to give them personal clothing to take back, I heard they can have their boxers back or lounging pants, etc. to sleep in

  • tutorlady

    @CathyDB. You just answered a question of mine. I believe our sailor wants to go to Chicago on Saturday. I was wondering if the schedule is accurate toreal time. He wants to go to Navy Pier. From what I can tell, the best way is to take the Metra to OTC and then take the Blue Line. More concerned about timing for the return trip.
  • brynne21

    @butterball, I get it. I went into a lot of this blind. I suggest sitting at the top for graduation. I suggest capris and a seat cushion! You can send him some lounge clothes but he won't be able to wear anything but issued clothes until he "phases up." I don't know about the sleep clothes. I sent him white boxer briefs and some lounge shorts and tshirt to begin with. When he phased up, I sent more civvie clothes. I don't know if I helped or made it more confusing. My son is on the Missouri and is not allowed snacks from outside.
  • brynne21

    We went to Navy Pier on saturday and had a great time. Also, he sat in chocolate in his white dress uniform. I almost died! We went back to the hotel and he laid down while I scrubbed his pants and hung them dry (and took a hair dryer to them). Good as new. They were very easy to clean.
  • tutorlady

    @brynne21. I am bringing Shout wiped, Dawn dish soap and Tide pens for emergencies. But, I have heard that the Tide pend tend to yellow the white uniforms.
  • tutorlady

    @brynne21. What time did you leave Navy Pier to guarantee your sailor was back at GL in time?
  • CathyDB

    Www.metrarail.com can give you times, stops, and prices. The Great Lakes station has a ticket person inside. Your sailor gets a discount.
  • brynne21

    @tutorlady, I don't recommend the tide pens for the white uniforms. I soaked the affected area in the sink for about 10 min and gently washed it out with regular ole soap and a washcloth. It came right out. We drove to Navy Pier and everywhere in Chicago. We had him back in PLENTY of time for curfew. They muster at 9:30 and we would have him back about 6 so he could rest and visit with friends if he chose to. We did pick him up early Saturday morning-about 8. So we had him all day. We started at Navy Pier and the took the bus tour around Chicago. The hop-on hop-off bus that allows you to hit the hot spots. We did the skydexk at Willis Tower but only do that early (no later than 10am)or the line is COMPLETELY out of control. Let me think, we ate Chicago hotdogs and Chicago pizza. We had a great time. I cannot comment about the rails as we did not use them at all.
  • brynne21

    @tutorlady, it took us about 60 or so minutes to get from Navy Pier back to GL driving on a Saturday afternoon. It can take about an hour and a half. It really depends on how heavy traffic is.
  • lemonelephant

    Here are the current PIR groups:

    PIR: July 21, 2017 TG 37 - 8 Divisions (221-226, 817 & 937) 4 guests

    PIR: July 28, 2017 TG 38 - 9 Divisions (227-234 & 938) 4 guests

    PIR: August 4, 2017 TG 39 - 11 Divisions (235-244 & 939) 4 guests

    PIR: August 11, 2017 TG 40 - 8 Divisions (245-250, 818 & 940) 4 guests

    PIR: August 18, 2017 TG 41 - 7 Divisions (251-256 & 941) 4 guests

    PIR: August 25, 2017 TG 42 - 9 Divisions (257-264 & 942) 4 guests

    PIR: September 1, 2017 TG 43 - 13 Divisions (265-276 & 943) 3 guests (This is Labor Day Weekend. If your recruit will be staying in GL for “A” School or training, s/he will also have Liberty on Monday. The holiday weekend will not affect those flying out.)

    PIR: September 8, 2017 TG 44 (Keep checking and join when it is up.)

    Click on the date of your recruit’s PIR and join the group to connect with others with loved ones training with your recruit.

  • Soccer Mom

    Thanks to everyone who helped with what to do while on liberty after graduation!  Wonderful ideas....and cautionary words.  I appreciate it all!  I will put some thoughts together and let him decide.  He may change his mind after we eat lunch!

  • Soccer Mom

    During the I'm a Sailor phone call, my son asked if his grandparents could come.  I mentioned that only four could be on the list and he stressed about the chapel.  I can't find anywhere much information about the chapel, except that it may not be available...but he seemed confident it was. 

  • Path to greater things

    I read effect july 2017 chapel will not be available. Lemon elephant. Can you send soccor mom that lin you sent me about pir weekend. Way down toward bottom it mentions the chapel.
  • JoeysMom98

    My son leaves today for BC.  I am worrying about what he needs to have with him.  He has a small thin black wallet, will he be able to keep this with him or will he send it home?  Will he need phone cards?  I understand that he can keep a small bible and possibly a small address book (which I am having a lot of trouble finding).  I was thinking that maybe we could write some addresses on a small piece of paper to keep in his wallet if he is able to keep it.  Any advice is welcome. 

  • Phoenixmom

    My son left with just his wallet and a small phone book Bank Information. whatever can fit in a wallet is what he took. His Recruiter had told him not to take anything but what fitted in a wallet.

  • 3B'smom

    I wrote down some numbers on a small slip of paper for my SR's wallet (they do keep the wallet). When he called home last weekend he said that they have a small notebook to write address and phone info. We didn't send him with a phone card. His recruitor didn't think he needed one. He bought one at the NEX.
  • Anti M

    I have seen mini address books on Amazon.  Also, if the pocket bible has blank note taking pages, you can write numbers and addresses there.  To test the size, put it in a standard tube sock!  That's what they do at RTC.

  • Anti M

    If you search for mini address books, you can find one which is slim and fits inside a wallet.

    https://www.amazon.com/Magnetic-Wallet-Address-Book-Contact/dp/B01E...

  • Tffytat

    My son left with just his thin black wallet, a calling card and a small handheld composition book I'd found in the Dollar Tree. It came 3 in a pack. We went that route because I also had trouble finding a small address book. I got his box yesterday and it wasn't in there so I assume that he was able to keep it. Also, I started not to purchase a calling card prior to him leaving, however, the night before he left at the hotel check in- one of the Petty Officers mentioned he would need one. I ran out and got a $20 card from a nearby gas station.

  • Phoenixmom

    I found my son a real nice mini address book at Wal-Mart or you can get them at Walgreens or CVS.

  • Gundo Girl

    I know this question and been asked and answered but, can our SR's only make calls on specific days?
  • ellen0502

    If you have extra guests, I would highly recommend they stay at the hotel and watch the live stream from there.

    Extra guests may or may not be able to view the ceremony on base. If they can not view the ceremony on base they will be asked to leave base and return to the hotel. 

    Many of the hotels have the ceremony live streamed at the hotel. Some in their lobby, and others in adjoining rooms. Check with your hotel (I know the Navy Lodge streams it).

  • raising3247

    They are allowed to keep a Bible with them in boot camp. We wrote addresses and phone numbers in there. My son doesn't know anyone's phone number by heart thanks to speed dial on his cell phone so I made sure to write down my cell phone number in there. Also his recruiter recommended a phone card unless you want them to call you collect.
  • ellen0502

    Gundo Girl, Calls can come on any day of the week, but some will find the day of the week for their recruit is constant.

    Look forward to a call at anytime, but never expect one. Call privileges can be given, and taken away at the drop of a hat.

  • Gundo Girl

    Thank you, ellen0502! My son left June 27th and I haven't received a phone call yet! It's killing me! He's in Division 260. Has anyone else from that division received a call?
  • tutorlady

    @JoeysMom98 - Be sure to put bandaids in the wallet if you still have time.   I did for my sailor and it saved a trip to medical.