Boot Camp Moms (and loved ones)

To everyone with a loved one at RTC or soon to be there, we say, "Welcome!"  To those who are sticking around after PIR to help those who are just beginning this awesome journey, we say, "Thank you!"

**BEGINNING OCTOBER 5, 2023, RECRUIT GRADUATIONS WILL BE CONDUCTED EVERY THURSDAY (NO LONGER ON FRIDAY), EXCEPT FOR THE WEEK OF THANKSGIVING, WHEN GRADUATION IS ON WEDNESDAY.

This is a place to talk, ask questions, and share stories. It is our desire that this Group will provide the information, encouragement, and support you need while your loved one is at RTC in Great Lakes. Enjoy your time here and feel free to Comment and join in the Discussions. Be sure to check out the "Pages" to the right, located under the pictures of the Members, especially OPSEC and PERSEC (Making Changes to Your Profile), (Click "View All" to see all of them.)

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  • ellen0502

    Don't forget to join and post in your PIR group too. There is valuable information to be had in those groups about PIR, hotels, what to wear, what happens in BC by weeks, pictures, coins. It also give you the opportunity to get to know those who have recruits in the same divisions and brother divisions. You can also find out info on A School, C School etc for your recruits rating.

  • lemonelephant

    Everyone, Make it a habit to check your My Page because you may have comments from Members and not even know it if you have the notifications turned off for comments on your My Page. To reply to someone who leaves a comment on your My Page, click on "Comment Back" or "View Thread" below the comment. Also check in the upper left to see if you have Friend requests or any new messages in your Inbox.

  • Alicia In AZ

    Back to square one. Yesterday I received a call from our son that he will not be attending PIR on 9/1 due to illness. My heart is broken for him. Now I sit and wait to hear what Ship/Div he will be reassigned to and a new PIR date once he gets better. I really need help getting through this. :(

  • Anti M

    Alicia, this happens to some recruits.  RTC wants them healthy, as an illness under stress can turn serious so quickly.  While it is disappointing, it is better to take good care of them.  Keep writing, and try to stay positive.  It is perfectly fine to feel upset, but keep your eyes on the end result: a healthy sailor.

    My friend, who I consider an acquired kid, broke his leg in boot camp!  Six weeks delay, but now he is a first class, on great shore duty, with a spouse he met in the Navy, and a pair of adorable twin babies.  Eyes on the prize!

  • Alicia In AZ

    Thank you Anti M. I'm glad they caught it when they did, just not sure how long it will take to recover. Ugh, the not knowing, that's what kills us, haha! I'm just glad they have him where he needs to be and hopefully resting and recovering. I mailed a letter today, sent 13 letters yesterday, but to the old ship. Not sure when he will get those ones now. He did say he received the ones I mailed last week. 

    His recruiter gave me a number to PAO?? Not sure what I should call them for, does anyone have advise on this?

  • Rumace

    Thank goodness for this site and what I have already learned from it.  My son shipped out on July 10.  I have been waiting for that first letter expecting it in the next couple days.  I did sign up for Informed Delivery (as someone here suggested).

    This morning when I was checking on the Informed Delivery, I realized that I could see mail that I should have received over the past week.  I looked back on July 15th and saw a letter from my son that we should have received but didn't.  The letter was postmarked July 12th.  The return address on envelop shows Ship 13, Div 272.  

    From this information, it looks like he graduates September 1.  Is that right?  

  • Boymom

    Rumace, 9/1 is correct! My son shipped out the same day as yours and is in the same division and ship. We got our letter last Saturday and it was postmarked the 12th as well.
  • Rumace

    Thank you!  Do you know if he flies to Goose Creek on September 2nd, if graduation is September 1st? 

  • librarianmom

    I am almost in tears!  I was in shower just now and missed a North Chicago phone call by three minutes.  I am sure it was my son...I didn't think he would call this early and didn't have my phone with me!!!

  • AnchorsAweigh!

    To Librarianmom, I truly feel for you, but hopefully he can call back. Fingers crossed. Now I will take the darn phone in the bathroom because I cannot wait to hear my sons voice, hopefully in 2 more weeks...
  • librarianmom

    Update...my son left a message on his girlfriends phone.  My husband and I both missed the call, and she did as well.  He was calling for business, to let us know his Eagle Work paperwork finally went through (which is great news).  He said he would call in about two weeks.  I just feel really, really sad I missed the call.  That we all did.  I have been carrying my phone everywhere and can't believe he called during the five minutes I was in the shower!  

  • raising3247

    Librarianmom- That is my biggest fear that the one time I don't have my phone on me is when my son will call. I'm sorry you missed your son's call.
  • Path to greater things

    Hugs to moms who missed calls. To moms who Didnt get calls and to the ones that got calls. Its all incredibly emotional, No matter which is happening. Have a safe weekend !
  • AnchorsAweigh!

    Joeysmum, my son has been in Boot for a week now and I did exactly that, put addresses on a piece of paper and folded it up In his wallet. That he was allowed to keep. It wasn't sent back in the box. Good luck to your son.
  • AnchorsAweigh!

    Oh sorry I just saw you posted this yesterday. Sorry
  • NickSydmom

    Librarian mom I want to cry just hearing about it. I thought I was the only one stuff like that happened to.
  • jennifer

    It happened to me last weekend. I had no service for about 10 minutes. He left me a quick message. So I listened to that this week...silly. Keep busy it will go fast. One of the other mom's stated she learned to be patient and not plan on anything. She is right. I was cuckoo the first time around 8 yrs ago. This time...I forced myself to squash the anxiousness. Easier said than done. But we know they are safe and well looked after. Deployment was the hardest for me. I wish I had a network like this back then. Boot camp puts our life in a new state of mind.Happy Friday everyone.
  • Nicole

    My son is in boot camp and graduation date is 8/25/2017. Miss him and didn't get the letter yet
  • TessaNator⚓️

    Rumace- sadly, yes they fly out on saturday

  • TessaNator⚓️

    librarianmom, they will probably let him try again

  • Christie_Okie

    Nicole....oh man, I'd be going nuts. I am sure you are about there. A month and no form letter!!!
  • Rumace

    Thanks TessaNator.  It will be a short time but at least we'll have it.

  • jennifer

    Rumance- you can meet them at the airport for more time also.
  • Nicole

    Ya I am miss him terribly
  • JEL4812

    I'm new to the group. My son arrived at RTC July 17. Does anyone know how long it takes for a new PIR group to form? My son's recruiter told me his anticipated PIR is Sept. 15.

  • Gundo Girl

    How often do the SR's receive mail? I have sent several letters and just sent one through Sandboxx. Just curious if they receive their mail every day, once a week, etc?
  • NickSydmom

    What is sandboxx?
  • Gundo Girl

    Sandboxx is an app that sends your letter for you. It's strictly for military. You can attach a picture and they will print it out and deliver to your recruit. It cost $1 per letter but I believe the recruit receives it quicker than regular mail?! Waiting on clarification of mail delivery.
  • Proud Parent of 3 Sailors

    Mail is delivered daily to recruits except Sunday. SR can only send out mail on Sunday, which I assume goes in Monday's mail batch.
  • TessaNator⚓️

    My son confirmed he received his Sandboxx letter first.  I was in Hawaii when I got his address....so the paper letters probably took forever being channeled thru Honolulu

  • K4jscal,JCAL's mom

    Hey ladies, do they ever post any pics or videos of our SR bous
  • Anti M

    Sandboxx might get a letter to the Great Lakes mailroom faster, but after it hits there, those letters are handled just the same as the others.  It does mean you don't have to buy stamps or wait to get your letter in the mail.  So maybe saves a day or two.  

  • TessaNator⚓️

    I'm happy to save a day or 2. Sandboxx also supplies the SR W/a stamped envelope and paper, making returning a letter to mom more convienent.
  • TAT'sMom

    I used sandbox once. My letters are getting to my son within 3-4 days, the one I sent with pic thru sandbox took 2 weeks. I'll send them myself it's cheaper and I put extra stamps inside for him to use.
  • Wisconsinmom

    If you can send moleskin instead of bandaids. My son had big blisters on his heals from the shoes. He just graduated July 14th. 

  • TessaNator⚓️

  • badgermom

    My SR told me that they are holding letters.  She had only received one of the letters I've sent through Sandboxx, so there's probably 8 or more letters from friends and family that were held back.

  • NickSydmom

    I keep telling myself my son is having a great adventure. I know he is ok, but I miss him so much. I just want to here his voice. If no news is good news than everything must be outstanding because I haven't heard squat.
  • NicksMom

    NickNukeMom, I feel the same. It's been a quiet week.
  • JoeysMom98

    Same here. My son left on Thursday. It has been so quiet without him. I can't wait to hear from him. It will make it easier on me, I think.
  • Camsproudmom

    I was feeling the EXACT same way!!!! Too quite at times.
  • Camsproudmom

    My son left Wednesday. Does anyone know when his package and form letter come? Should I expect it this week or no?
  • lemonelephant

    Camsproudmom, The Form Letter arrives an average of ten days after the recruit's arrival at the RTC. Some will have it 7 days after arrival (a few earlier than that, but not many) and most will have it by 14 days after arrival. It will tell you your recruit's address and PIR date and other important information. Keep it in a safe place.

    Arrival and What Happens at the RTC will let you know what is happening and what to expect.

  • lemonelephant

    Here are the current PIR groups:

    PIR: July 28, 2017 TG 38 - 9 Divisions (227-234 & 938) 4 guests

    PIR: August 4, 2017 TG 39 - 11 Divisions (235-244 & 939) 4 guests

    PIR: August 11, 2017 TG 40 - 8 Divisions (245-250, 818 & 940) 4 guests

    PIR: August 18, 2017 TG 41 - 7 Divisions (251-256 & 941) 4 guests

    PIR: August 25, 2017 TG 42 - 9 Divisions (257-264 & 942) 4 guests

    PIR: September 1, 2017 TG 43 - 13 Divisions (265-276 & 943) 3 guests (This is Labor Day Weekend. If your recruit will be staying in GL for “A” School or training, s/he will also have Liberty on Monday. The holiday weekend will not affect those flying out.)

    PIR: September 8, 2017 TG 44 TG 44 - 14 Divisions (277-286, 819-821 & 944) 3 guests

    Click on the date of your recruit’s PIR and join the group to connect with others with loved ones training with your recruit.

  • Momof4gkids

    My daughter left on Tuesday I received her box on Friday. No form letter yet. Hoping that will arrive in the next week or so. I wrote her a little note kept it light and up beat I will send it when I get her address.
  • Camsproudmom

    I just got my son's box and it made me really emotional opening it up. :(
  • Marchella

    Camsproudmom I know the feeling I got my sons box on July 5th and I cried- time is going by semi faster now but hang in there I knows it's the hardest thing I have ever done but this site has been a life saver
  • Camsproudmom

    Thank you marchella:) it's harder than I thought it would be. This ranks side by side with losing my mom as fdar as tough. And you are right this site has been a saver for me and so informative to this newbie!!!
  • tutorlady

    Just wanted to post about our PIR experience to help others planning:

    1. Lodging - I strongly recommend Navy Lodge.  It is close to base, clean, safe, affordable - though not luxurious.  The staff is friendly and very knowledgeable.  They can answer your questions.

    2.  Meet and Greet - Go. Just GO!  Sarge will give you some info that will HELP you.  Follow his directions and you will be fine.  He is very helpful.  I messaged him at 5 a.m. on Friday and he graciously answered my questions.  Do as he says.  You won't be sorry!

    3.  Meals - we ate several meals in our room as we had a room with a kitchenette.  We ate Friday night at Jimmy's Charhouse in Libertyville - they gave our sailor his meal free. (I would call and make a reservation.  They are on Trip-Advisor).

    If you want pizza in a unique setting with other menu items, try the SIlo in Lake Bluff.  If you have a large party, I would try to get a reservation. They are also on Trip-Advisor.

    3.  Shopping/things to do:

    There is a nice Walmart in Waukegan and a nice Targe in Lake Bluff (both are less than 15 minutes away from base).

    Gurnee Mills is a very nice mall.

    We couldn't go to Chicago as we had planned due to weather constraints.  I had downloaded the VENTRA app to use to buy tickets and did a "trial run".  It is very easy to use.  The METRA station at Great Lakes is literally just outside the gate to RTC.

    If you want to see Lake Michigan in a less crowded setting, consider the Waukegan Harbor Light.  It is very pretty with a little ice cream shop, a nice walk on the pier (no side rails but it is wide enough that is not a problem) and a public beach right up the road.

    BE SURE that you get the handout as you check in to attend PIR - it gives specific instructions on returning your sailor on Friday night.

    GET THERE EARLY!!!!!  We were seated by 7:15 and there were already many people there.  We sat towards the top of the lower deck of bleachers to be able to get out easily and had good viewing.

    TAKE stadium seats.  I got some with backs at our local Academy Sporting Goods.  I do not regret that decision.

    We drove onto the base.  Some people prefer the shuttle.  We like the flexibility of our own transportation.

    BE SURE to have your sailor make arrangements to have their portraits mailed to you.  The line outside the NEX to pick up pictures after graduation is ridiculous!!!

    I know this is long.  Just wanted to pass along from our experience.

    THE CEREMONY IS AMAZING!!!!!! All your planning, praying, researching what to do will be WORTH it when the ceremony begins.

    Now.... for me.....it's on to questions about "A" School  :-)

    HOOYAH!  And, God Bless America!!!!

  • NicksMom

    Tutorlady, we are staying 7 miles from base. What time do you recommend leaving? How long did it take to get on base? We will have a rental car. Thanks!