To everyone with a loved one at RTC or soon to be there, we say, "Welcome!" To those who are sticking around after PIR to help those who are just beginning this awesome journey, we say, "Thank you!"
This is a place to talk, ask questions, and share stories. It is our desire that this Group will provide the information, encouragement, and support you need while your loved one is at RTC in Great Lakes. Enjoy your time here and feel free to Comment and join in the Discussions. Be sure to check out the "Pages" to the right, located under the pictures of the Members, especially OPSEC and PERSEC (Making Changes to Your Profile), (Click "View All" to see all of them.)
Please, if you no longer want to be a part of N4M's consider NOT deleting your profile as everything you have ever posted will disappear when you delete it . You can leave a group but don't permanently delete your profile!
Soccer Mom
@AnchorsAweigh and @3B'smom...you all are awesome, but we are Man U fans! Really, only because everyone says my son's style of play is like Rooney's. We LOVE soccer and watch it too much. Real Madrid and MLS All-Stars will be playing on Aug 2 at Soldier Field, if anyone is going up early for Aug 4th graduation. There was a major game being played when we were there, but the game would have gone too late and my son didn't want to spend the money on the tickets if he couldn't stay for the whole game.
Jul 28, 2017
raising3247
Jul 28, 2017
proudmamaNavystrong
Is there a way to find out what A School your SR will be going to?
Jul 28, 2017
Phoenixmom
you can ask his recruiter what he choose as a trade and he should also know where he will be going to school. hope that helps.
Jul 28, 2017
ProudNavyMom
It's crazy... The first couple of weeks I just didn't know what to send. I didn't want to distract my son and make him homesick. People say to "remind him why he's here" to inspire him and make him strong. But his wasn't a noble reason... he didn't have great grades and he didn't want to go to college! I sent "you can do it" messages and reminded him of how tough his football and wrestling coaches were... He did ask for photos of his toddler niece and I sent pics of his dogs. He also said that it was mentally boring because there is so much repetition. So he wanted brain twisters. I ended up sending... Garfield and other comic strips... I bought a copy of a muscle car magazine and sent articles... I looked through his netflix history (he binge watched series) and sent trivia and bloopers from IMDB... I didn't tell him about new episodes of his shows... he wouldn't want spoilers... although I'll be surprised if he hasn't talked about the new GOT! I also went through the day by day list of boot camp and asked him for specifics. Of course he's not a writer so I didn't get answers but I felt that would remind him that we are thinking about him.
Jul 28, 2017
NickSydmom
Jul 28, 2017
raising3247
Jul 28, 2017
Phoenixmom
Nicknukemom I understand what you are saying my SR is complaining about being bored also, and I let him know that they all need to be focused on what may be coming up. a lot of them have no clue as to what BST-21 is or anything like that. I really believe that we know more of what is too come than they do. so we need to keep telling them to stay focused and to come together as Brother Divisions if they know who that may be because they will need to depend on each other when that time comes to be able to help each other. I have to also keep reminding my son why he is there.
Jul 28, 2017
TAT'sMom
Jul 28, 2017
raising3247
Jul 28, 2017
Phoenixmom
Yes I feel the same, and it is concerning...But like I said we know more about was is coming up for them than they do, and I don't understand why... but we need to let our SR's know that they are their for a reason, and this is what they chose to do which is great, and I can understand the repetition of doing things over and over can get boring, but practice makes perfect. so I have been speaking and writing to my son and explaining why he shouldn't be feeling this way...and focus , focus, focus! things will change and then when it does you will be so overwhelmed with the things to come....I feel it is important to let them know...thanks raising3247.
Jul 28, 2017
jennifer
Jul 28, 2017
Lesliepartyof6
Jul 28, 2017
KiddGreen1978
Now my second son is there and he's trying to adjust, but he's always wanted this life. He's also concerned about making it thru due to others not wanting to conform to the rules. All I can tell him is remember why you decided to join and know that I'm super proud of your decision!
Go Navy!
Jul 28, 2017
raising3247
Jul 28, 2017
Lesliepartyof6
http://www.navydep.com/forums/showthread.php?t=433
Jul 28, 2017
Mar3n1
Jul 28, 2017
raising3247
Leslie - Thanks for sharing that website. My son said that almost everyone in his division had to have their wisdom teeth pulled but he didn't have to. Hopefully your son can avoid it too.
Mar3n1 - I am hoping that Div 253 and their brother division (254) pull it together soon.
Jul 28, 2017
Phoenixmom
iMar3n1 I am hoping for the same. that they come together as a Team.... although my son hasn't mentioned anything about his Div. not working together or losing any privileges. I guess we shall see.... I hope you Ladies have a Good night and Great weekend.....
Jul 28, 2017
tutorlady
Jul 28, 2017
Lesliepartyof6
I believe most of the divisions are trying to figure out how to work together. They'll figure it out. I told my son to remember the mud runs he did...you can't finish those unless you have ALL of your team members, even though you are an hour ahead of them waiting at the finish line. You can't cross until the remaining of your team gets to you. Team work makes the dream work!
Jul 28, 2017
NickSydmom
Jul 28, 2017
NickSydmom
Jul 28, 2017
Anti M
Every division takes at least three or four weeks to come together. I experienced this back when I was in boot camp, when we had one in Orlando. Completely normal. They'll be so proud when they begin achieving goals and earning privileges!
Jul 29, 2017
Lesliepartyof6
He did say his military ID pic looked like he just been "delivered" because he was bald and had been up for 36 hours at that point...lol That was the extent of his jokes. He also said his butt was sore from his peanut butter shot.
Anti M - thanks for the encouragement!
Jul 29, 2017
Lesliepartyof6
Jul 29, 2017
AnchorsAweigh!
Jul 29, 2017
jennifer
Jul 29, 2017
jacquiesboys
O.K. so I am catching up this morning. Couple questions.......what week did your son's/daughter's have their wisdom teeth out, and why? Also, I sent out stamps and calling cards, but did I need to also send stationary and envelopes? I have this "mother guilt" I call it, don't want my son to be the only one standing there when everyone else gets mail from home......and they were sent envelopes and stationary. I probably sound nuts, but I have not received a call or a letter yet.......getting anxious as to why not?
Jul 29, 2017
AnchorsAweigh!
Jul 29, 2017
AnchorsAweigh!
Jul 29, 2017
Lesliepartyof6
http://www.navydep.com/forums/showthread.php?t=433
Jul 29, 2017
jennifer
Jul 29, 2017
AnchorsAweigh!
Jul 29, 2017
Sailor mom soon
Jul 29, 2017
Lesliepartyof6
Jul 29, 2017
AnchorsAweigh!
Jul 29, 2017
Anti M
If their wisdom teeth are not an easy straight out pull and need oral surgery, they may wait until A school, when they are on hold, to remove them. Some are just left in.
Jul 29, 2017
jacquiesboys
thanks for all the responses regarding stationary/stamps/wisdom teeth. Yesterday was week 2, day 5.....so he probably had his out then too! Oh boy, He kept telling me for months, "Mom, I should have my wisdom teeth out before boot camp". BTW, he left on July 13th, and is Ship 13, Div 281.
Jul 29, 2017
librarianmom
Jul 29, 2017
raising3247
Jul 29, 2017
NickSydmom
Jul 29, 2017
Miigwanikwe
Jul 29, 2017
mygod5
So do they have to remove their wisdom teeth, my daughter just had her braces removed and the ortho was keeping an eye on them. I got her letter yesterday and she mentioned she might have to get them removed but she's not ready for that pain. What is the policy for wisdom teeth how do I find out.
Jul 29, 2017
Proud Navy Mom 2017
Hello! My son left on the 20th and I yet to receive "The Box". I know he's out of processing because I got a call from his recruiter a few days ago. Also, I saw on previous comments something about a Challenge Coin?? What is this? Also, my son's recruiter said his PIR date should be September 15th. Anyone else's recruit set for this date?
Jul 29, 2017
Proud Navy Mom 2017
BTW- we found out about the wisdom teeth while he was in DEP and I said let's just do it now so you can recover comfortably at home. My son said he couldn't have any medical interventions as that may have set his ship date back.
Jul 29, 2017
3B'smom
Jul 29, 2017
SCSunshine777
Jul 29, 2017
NickSydmom
Jul 29, 2017
SCSunshine777
Jul 29, 2017