Boot Camp Moms (and loved ones)

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  • Soccer Mom

    @AnchorsAweigh and @3B'smom...you all are awesome, but we are Man U fans!  Really, only because everyone says my son's style of play is like Rooney's.  We LOVE soccer and watch it too much.  Real Madrid and MLS All-Stars will be playing on Aug 2 at Soldier Field, if anyone is going up early for Aug 4th graduation.  There was a major game being played when we were there, but the game would have gone too late and my son didn't want to spend the money on the tickets if he couldn't stay for the whole game.  

  • raising3247

    My son played soccer from 5th grade all the way through high school, both for his school and travel during the off season. He is hoping whatever base he gets sent to might have a rec league soccer team or something like that. I'm sure his cleats and ball will go with him. He's a Chelsea fan. As far as pros go he really likes Lionel Messi.
  • proudmamaNavystrong

    Is there a way to find out what A School your SR will be going to?

  • Phoenixmom

    you can ask his recruiter what he choose as a trade and he should also know where he will be going to school. hope that helps.

  • ProudNavyMom

    It's crazy... The first couple of weeks I just didn't know what to send. I didn't want to distract my son and make him homesick. People say to "remind him why he's here" to inspire him and make him strong. But his wasn't a noble reason... he didn't have great grades and he didn't want to go to college! I sent "you can do it" messages and reminded him of how tough his football and wrestling coaches were... He did ask for photos of his toddler niece and I sent pics of his dogs. He also said that it was mentally boring because there is so much repetition. So he wanted brain twisters. I ended up sending... Garfield and other comic strips... I bought a copy of a muscle car magazine and sent articles... I looked through his netflix history (he binge watched series) and sent trivia and bloopers from IMDB... I didn't tell him about new episodes of his shows... he wouldn't want spoilers... although I'll be surprised if he hasn't talked about the new GOT! I also went through the day by day list of boot camp and asked him for specifics. Of course he's not a writer so I didn't get answers but I felt that would remind him that we are thinking about him.

  • NickSydmom

    For those ladies who have dealt with my complaints,brace yourselves, I got a letter from my boy. He is division 276. He said he was doing good mostly bored. He said a lot of guys in the division are struggling and he is afraid they might delay their PIR. I'm sure the boys will pull it together.
  • raising3247

    Nicknukemom - My son also says that boot camp is boring. I think it's the repetition.
  • Phoenixmom

    Nicknukemom I understand what you are saying my SR is complaining about being bored also, and I let him know that they all need to be focused on what may be coming up. a lot of them have no clue as to what BST-21 is or anything like that. I really believe that we know more of what is too come than they do. so we need to keep telling them to stay focused and to come together as  Brother Divisions if they know who that may be because they will need to depend on each other when that time comes to be able to help each other. I have to also keep reminding my son why he is there.

  • TAT'sMom

    Proudnavymom, but he did make a noble decision to be a defender of his country. This is huge! Not many will sacrifice their time and freedom to do such a noble and strong thing as joining our military! He is awesome, it is easier to go to college and play sports, my son did for one year. But to give yourself and follow such a routine and a way of life as the Navy, this is no small thing. He has made a very mature and life changing decision, so yes ma'am he did join for a noble reason. Good for him for wanting this. College is not always for everyone and sometimes it's better to go later when you know more what you want to do. Thank him for choosing to serve and God bless him on his new journey!
  • raising3247

    Phoenixmom - My son said that his division is having a hard time working as a team. I told him I hope they get things figured out before Battlestation -21 or they are going to be fighting an uphill battle. I watched the YouTube video and I don't think they realize what they are in for.
  • Phoenixmom

    Yes I feel the same, and it is concerning...But like I said we know more about was is coming up for them than they do, and I don't understand why... but we need to let our SR's know that they are their for a reason, and this is what they chose to do which is great, and I can understand the repetition of doing things over and over can get boring, but practice makes perfect. so I have been speaking and writing to my son and explaining why he shouldn't be feeling this way...and focus , focus, focus! things will change and then when it does you will be so overwhelmed with the things to come....I feel it is important to let them know...thanks raising3247.

  • jennifer

    Tatsmom...that was great! I understand what Proudnavy mom was saying...maybe initially his conviction wasn't as strong as some but he still did it. Awesome kids ladies! My son write me his physical fitness results so that I could spur his friend on at West point. I sent the letter today to get the banter going. Army/ Navy has that anyway. Especially the sports!
  • Lesliepartyof6

    Raising3247- what DIV is your son in?? My son talked alot about his DIV not working together and goofing off alot causing punishments on those who are not playing around and such.
  • KiddGreen1978

    ProudmommaNavyStrong: my oldest son was the same way. It wasn't his first choice, but now he loves it and is doing well after boot camp. So ditto at what TatsMom said!

    Now my second son is there and he's trying to adjust, but he's always wanted this life. He's also concerned about making it thru due to others not wanting to conform to the rules. All I can tell him is remember why you decided to join and know that I'm super proud of your decision!

    Go Navy!
  • raising3247

    Leslie - My son is in Div 253. He said they lost their phone calls because of it.
  • Lesliepartyof6

    Raising3247- oh no!! My son is DIV 276 . I hope they start working together as a team. Also I wanted to share this site i stumbled on trying to figure things out... its awesome!! I didnt realize that their forst week was considered a dead week due tono days. So even though mine has been there for 3 weeks hes actuallt on 2-5 (week2 day 5) He more tham likely had his wisdom teeth extracted today. This site made me feel better knowing his almost exact daily events. That's IF they aren't in a push DIV I believe.
    http://www.navydep.com/forums/showthread.php?t=433
  • Mar3n1

    My son said much of the same thing at first but his division pulled together in the end and even placed first at some stuff. They learn to work together as a team.
  • raising3247

    Leslie - Thanks for sharing that website.  My son said that almost everyone in his division had to have their wisdom teeth pulled but he didn't have to.  Hopefully your son can avoid it too.  

    Mar3n1 - I am hoping that Div 253 and their brother division (254) pull it together soon.  

  • Phoenixmom

    iMar3n1 I am hoping for the same. that they come together as a Team.... although my son hasn't mentioned anything about his Div. not working together or losing any privileges. I guess we shall see.... I hope you Ladies have a Good night and Great weekend.....

  • tutorlady

    @raising3247. My sailor recently graduated RTC. I think it's not uncommon for the division to have challenges working together at first. They have had huge changes and adjustments. I think you will see that they come together as a team soon.
  • Lesliepartyof6

    3247- you're very welcome! His were definitely impacted on the lower. He did mention that it would happen in one of his letters...he wasn't too exited about it.
    I believe most of the divisions are trying to figure out how to work together. They'll figure it out. I told my son to remember the mud runs he did...you can't finish those unless you have ALL of your team members, even though you are an hour ahead of them waiting at the finish line. You can't cross until the remaining of your team gets to you. Team work makes the dream work!
  • NickSydmom

    Nick didn't complain much. He said marching is fun and since he is one of the tallest he gets to wear an orange vest and direct traffic. I didn't mean to sound negative. Most of his letter was upbeat. He was even cracking jokes.
  • NickSydmom

    Leslie party of six my son is in 276 also.
  • Anti M

    Every division takes at least three or four weeks to come together.  I experienced this back when I was in boot camp, when we had one in Orlando.  Completely normal.  They'll be so proud when they begin achieving goals and earning privileges!

  • Lesliepartyof6

    Nicknukemom- Glad your son was upbeat! I'm hoping my next letters sound that way!
    He did say his military ID pic looked like he just been "delivered" because he was bald and had been up for 36 hours at that point...lol That was the extent of his jokes. He also said his butt was sore from his peanut butter shot.
    Anti M - thanks for the encouragement!
  • Lesliepartyof6

    Thanks tutorlady! Next week should be better. Hooyah!
  • AnchorsAweigh!

    @Soccermom, Man bloody United?!?! Enough said! Haga My husband and son rolled their eyes! Haha so your son plays like 'Shrek' (Rooney) good for him. Love the game, keeps you very fit. But all I want in this world is to hear my sons voice, nothing more nothing less. A letter would b great but to hear his voice would lift my heart. Went out this morning after work and bought another phone card (that I will activate for him to save him time) and stationary just incase..
  • jennifer

    AnchorsAweigh....I sent smaller stamped envelopes in a bigger white one...2 at a time. I said give them away if you don't want to write. I sent 2 small lined pieces of paper with each. The 2 letters I revived were Naval line paper. So I assume he has to use that stationary. Since I have only receive 2 letters I hope he gave the envelopes to other SRs to use.
  • jacquiesboys

    O.K. so I am catching up this morning. Couple questions.......what week did your son's/daughter's have their wisdom teeth out, and why? Also, I sent out stamps and calling cards, but did I need to also send stationary and envelopes? I have this "mother guilt" I call it, don't want my son to be the only one standing there when everyone else gets mail from home......and they were sent envelopes and stationary. I probably sound nuts, but I have not received a call or a letter yet.......getting anxious as to why not?

  • AnchorsAweigh!

    @Jennifer, thank you for your comment. I won't send the stationary. I sent stamps with my first letter, so.... hopefully will have time to write just a few lines. I signed up for the informed delivery from USPS but think I get more disappointed when I don't see a letter on my computer then looking in the bloody mailbox!! Haha So going to let mister postman surprise me for a while.. I know sound like a raving looney.. haha must be too much coffee!
  • AnchorsAweigh!

    @jennifer, forgot to say, soo glad you received letters, it truly is the small things that make us smile or in this case keep our hearts beating the right beat!
  • Lesliepartyof6

    Jacquiesboys - I believe my son had his taken out yesterday...he mentioned it would happen in a letter. I had to figure out what days he was on. So 2-5 (week 2 day5) that would have been yesterday. Check out this day per day bootcamo forum.Its pretty neat! My son arrived on July 11th at RTC. I just received my first letter on July 27th if this helps.
    http://www.navydep.com/forums/showthread.php?t=433
  • jennifer

    AnchorsAweigh...you make me look normal! I have 2 more Fridays...I can't wait. My husband has been running since our guy left. I've been doing this protein nonsense. So once over we each are getting a treat. I want a vodka sunrise. Not sure what the hubby will want. I know someone out there will identify with me. Lol...have a great weekend. Keep your phones close. You never know. My first call was at 10:45 pm. And the second one..to his grandparents was at 8:30 am. Both were brief. you just never know....
  • AnchorsAweigh!

    @jacquiesboys, I read here somewhere to send stationary and because I too haven't received a letter was thinking, oh no my kid doesn't have anything to write on. But Jennifer said she sent stAtionary but received letters written onNaval lined paper.. I think my son is thinking let's see how long mums hair takes to go grey!!!
  • Sailor mom soon

    @jacquiesboys - RTC provides them with $150 NEX card that they use to purchase necessary items with. If course, it is taken out of their paychecks later. Mine used his to purchase some envelopes, stamps, and a small composition notebook for writing home. He since requested that I send pre-addressed envelopes (which I have). Most likely just to save him some time. They removed his wisdom teeth end of week 2. If the Navy feels they will give them trouble in the future, they will remove them. Hope this helps!
  • Lesliepartyof6

    I also sent stamps and stationary and received letters on lined paper with RTC seal in the upper left hand corner, the envelope was different also.
  • AnchorsAweigh!

    @Jennifer, I did feel normal until my kid left for boot, now I don't know? Ha Saw a friend yest that said u look great, what diet are you on? Me, oh it's called my kid is in Boot camp diet! I am pretty much sending him everything people have said to send even moleskin for blisters. I said that I would send a flying monkey if need be. The whole wisdom teeth thing is giving me the he be ge be's!! As mine were impacted and had to be taken out but that might just be instore for his little brother. Bless! I am with you on your treat, by that point (and my son has only been there for 2 weeks), I think anything alcoholic would suffice!! My phone is stuffed in/down/on my person at all times. You too have a lovely weekend and good luck with the protein thing.
  • Anti M

    If their wisdom teeth are not an easy straight out pull and need oral surgery, they may wait until A school, when they are on hold, to remove them.  Some are just left in.  

  • jacquiesboys

    thanks for all the responses regarding stationary/stamps/wisdom teeth. Yesterday was week 2, day 5.....so he probably had his out then too! Oh boy, He kept telling me for months, "Mom, I should have my wisdom teeth out before boot camp". BTW, he left on July 13th, and is Ship 13, Div 281.

  • librarianmom

    I think my son would not be an easy out. Probably at A school then...
  • raising3247

    Jaquiesboys- I didn't send stationary to my son and I have gotten letters from him. They can buy it at the NEX. I did send stamps in my first letter to him so that he wouldn't have to buy them.
  • NickSydmom

    I wasn't aware of the wisdom teeth removal policy until I heard about it here. I bet my son had his out yesterday. I hate that I can't baby him. I wish I had known I would have had them out before he went.
  • Miigwanikwe

    My son told me when he wrote that he was able to keep the top part of his hair, so he's not completely bald
  • mygod5

    So do they have to remove their wisdom teeth, my daughter just had her braces removed and the ortho was keeping an eye on them.  I got her letter yesterday and she mentioned she might have to get them removed but she's not ready for that pain. What is the policy for wisdom teeth how do I find out.

  • Proud Navy Mom 2017

    Hello!  My son left on the 20th and I yet to receive "The Box".  I know he's out of processing because I got a call from his recruiter a few days ago.  Also, I saw on previous comments something about a Challenge Coin??  What is this?  Also, my son's recruiter said his PIR date should be September 15th.  Anyone else's recruit set for this date?

  • Proud Navy Mom 2017

    BTW- we found out about the wisdom teeth while he was in DEP and I said let's just do it now so you can recover comfortably at home.  My son said he couldn't have any medical interventions as that may have set his ship date back.

  • 3B'smom

    @AnchorsAweigh! My son left Jun27th and we didn't receive a letter until July 20. He had extra P time (12 days) so that delayed when he was able to mail something. We actually received a phone call before the letters. Hoping we will get another call this weekend or next.
  • SCSunshine777

    My daughter's wisdom teeth were straight on her last xrays as opposed to my other daughter's being sideways. I hope for her they don't take them out for now being away from home. Feel bad for the other kids having theirs done. If it needs to be done I guess it is better now of they have someone that knows what they are doing than some random dentist. Feel bad that they have one they don't know doing it.
  • NickSydmom

    I got my first phone call today. I loved hearing his voice. They didn't pull his wisdom teeth, they must be coming in straight. Before he left he kept joking about his dad having to take out the trash now. His job at basic is taking out the trash ha ha .
  • SCSunshine777

    Lol, my husband said he hoped they have my daughter washing dishing AND taking out the trash @Nicknukemom