Boot Camp Moms (and loved ones)

To everyone with a loved one at RTC or soon to be there, we say, "Welcome!"  To those who are sticking around after PIR to help those who are just beginning this awesome journey, we say, "Thank you!"

**BEGINNING OCTOBER 5, 2023, RECRUIT GRADUATIONS WILL BE CONDUCTED EVERY THURSDAY (NO LONGER ON FRIDAY), EXCEPT FOR THE WEEK OF THANKSGIVING, WHEN GRADUATION IS ON WEDNESDAY.

This is a place to talk, ask questions, and share stories. It is our desire that this Group will provide the information, encouragement, and support you need while your loved one is at RTC in Great Lakes. Enjoy your time here and feel free to Comment and join in the Discussions. Be sure to check out the "Pages" to the right, located under the pictures of the Members, especially OPSEC and PERSEC (Making Changes to Your Profile), (Click "View All" to see all of them.)

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  • Phoenixmom

    Can someone with Oct. 1st PIR send the link for her to join Please! Much appreciated.

  • Phoenixmom

    The PIR group for Oct. may not be up and running just yet, once it is just click on it and wait for the invite.

  • Phoenixmom

    Football Mom here is a site you can check out for now.

    PIR Reference Information

  • FootballMom

    Thank you Phoenixmom

  • Phoenixmom

    You are welcome, once you see PIR for Oct. 1st come up click on the site and join, you will receive something back as to wait for invite once you receive that you are good to go and join and you can speak to all moms who have the same PIR as you, you may even find some that are in same div. as your Loved One. I don't see it up just yet but Ellen0502 will tend to it shortly.

  • Phoenixmom

    Have a Good Evening Folks My time to leave.

  • Shanny

    Have a good night PhoenixMom!!!  We will be on phone watch again tomorrow...  

  • partyofseven

    Phoenixmom,

    Be safe on the way home.

    Have a good evening

  • MyKidsMom

    I’m so excited! I got a phone call from my SR this evening. It sounds like he is doing well. He did live fire this week and will be doing damage control soon. He is still on track to PIR October 9. 

  • VintageGal

    Mykidsmom - that’s great! I bet you’re on cloud nine :)

    Pheonixmom- have a good night :) talk to you tomorrow <3
  • FlyEG14

    You are all so awesome!! Thank you so much...I really appreciate your wisdom and encouragement as I WAIT for the call. It didn't come today, so I am praying for one tomorrow. And for all the Mama's waiting for their FL, letters, calls. It' s THE BEST feeling getting a letter. Hang in there! 

  • VintageGal

    FlyEG14- this is a great place to be! I agree, these ladies are an incredible support system. This is an exciting time for you! HOOYAH!
    (((((BNMH)))))
  • Shanny

    MyKidsMom:  that is so awesome!!!  Calls are the best!!  I am so glad he is doing well!  Getting closer!

  • Shanny

    FlyEG14:  tomorrow, you and I are going to celebrate!  Still waiting for my call as well!

  • VintageGal

    Shanny and FlyEG14- tearing up over here! I CAN’T WAIT to be saying these words! I’m so excited for you guys!
  • FlyEG14

    HOOYAH!!! Yeah, we got this!! My husband just came in and saw me crying as I was talking to ya'll. I said "I'm talking to my Navy Mom's!"....this has been such an incredible resource and support system. I've been so busy since school started (I teach 2nd grade), it's been a good distraction in some ways. :) I love coming here and checking what everyone is posting, feeling uplifted, and having connection to other women that understand. Blessings to you all. HOOYAH!! 

    All- THANK YOU!!

    Shanny- we are are going to celebrate!! Fo Sho!!!

  • Chipmunk

    FootballMom & Phoenixmom - I don't believe that Ellen0502 has created an October PIR group yet. Remember if someone else says they have the same PIR, you can send friend requests to each other. 

    If anyone has information on a FB group that might be helpful to FootballMom, please share. Thanks.

    MyKidsMom & Swoosh - Calls and Letters!! Yeah!!

    Shanny & FlyEG14 - Hopeful for your call to come soon!

    Redrover0628 & StarryNights - so glad you have communication now!!

    Northwoodsmom - Add me to the list of hellos to NOLAMom!!

    Katharine - thinking about you!!

    I think everyone's questions got answered today, so I will just say Good night and may you all have a restful evening. 

  • Shanny

    Have a good night CHIPMUNK!!!  THANK YOU for always being so helpful!

  • VintageGal

    Chipmunk- good night and sweet dreams :) 

    FlyEG14 - ditto!! 

  • Kristel2400

    Good evening ladies.....I received letter #3 today. He is going crazy in Q but the good news is he’s made friends!! THANK GOD!!! I’m so relieved for that. Now he’s not sure about his test. He’s about as confused as I am. I’m going to assume he has t gotten any of my letters yet which is concerning. I just don’t want him to think we’re not writing. Ughhhh!! He’s disappointed that he’s as low as pay grades go (he said it’s dumba$ level) which kinda made me sad. I mean at least he got in and HES THERE!!! He has hopes now that things will be fun when all is said & done with boot camp. (Positive is good) Also he mentioned finding a place to go away once he can come home....why does he think he will have time like that? I don’t get it. Then he couldn’t remember if he already told me but (YES HE TOLD ME) he wants me to ship him his Xbox when he’s allowed at A school possibly. SMH. I really hope he gets away from that eventually. School is school....he should concentrate on his studies but free time ok. I just know how he was here. Sometimes the only way I knew he was home or awake was bc he was yelling at his game. Lol I know some of you know what I’m talkin about!! I’m sure my neighbors don’t miss it. LOL!!!

  • Kristel2400

    P.S. According to my calculation is today would be his last day in Q. I wonder why he thinks it’s going to be so much longer. Idk can they keep him in there longer than 2 weeks? 

  • unicornlily05

    Holy moly... I've been swamped with work (high school counselor) and virtual schooling with my 5 year old and all the things - I'm like 30 pages behind! I don't think I'll be able to catch up! I hope everyone is doing well and hearing from their SRs!!!! 

  • VintageGal

    Unicornlily- I understand! I can’t imagine how tough your job is right now! We are navy mom’s over here supporting each other and here welcome to you anytime. Tomorrow is Friday! Woohoo!! 

  • Havsmannen♡

    Hi ladies! My son left for bootcamp on September 8th. We got the call from him saying he made it, but nothing since. Is this to be expected? I read other moms have got letters or calls, but I havent. 

  • VintageGal

    Jen - Hi welcome! There will be so much information from our veteran moms to fill you in Boot camp. I can personally say that I didn’t get a form letter that my SR filled out, after quarantine - during P days, until 28 days after he arrived. That is some what of a very rough timeline. (Nothing is certain) Although, not every mom got a FL but did get a personal letter. And then there’s a mother on here who hasn’t gotten a letter or a call and I believe when she gets her hands on him... um...  anywho.

    I hope you’re feeling a bit better today Katharine!

    I got my first phone call from my SR 38 days after he arrived and he said he had to work really hard for his phone call. 

    So what I’m trying to say is nothing is typical but there is a wait on these things. They definitely take time. And as another mother on here knows if your SR’s division is a little rambunctious shall we say... sometimes the phone calls take longer to come your way. Everything‘s done as a team. 

    I hope this helps, but rest assured we will be here every day for you to talk to. To cry with and to laugh with. 

    ((((((BNMH (Big Navy Mom Hugs) )))))))

  • Northwoodsmom

    Kristel, I totally get it. My son's room was underneath ours,I could hear his gaming half the night. The silence was really hard after he left. We took his play station down to him after A School, I just yelled at him because he hasn't text me since. Got a text from him right away. I was hesitant on bringing it to him but he probably would of bought  one himself anyway wasting money.  He needs to learn to prioritize, study comes first or he can kiss his dreams goodbye.

    Jen, my son was never a writer, I did get 2 letters but had to write half of it myself. He told me he was helping other recruits with their studies and memorizing things. Proud of him for that. I guess I could for go letters to have him help others to keep the division on track. Prayers you hear something soon.

  • Kristel2400

    @FlyEG14 and @Shanny:  praying you have peace while you wait for your calls!!

    @Katharine: Praying for your headache to disappear quickly and you recover quickly from your concussion. Hope you get to see this once you come back to the electronics.

    @vintage, @lady, @party, @phoenix ...hello ladies. When are we ordering our Navy Mom Posse shirts?!! Lol that cracked me up and @shanny I’d sooooo be in. That’s some crazy shiz.


    WELCOME NEW MOMS!!!!

    @jen......here’s how the veteran moms here broke it  for me and I saved it. Adjust to your dates. Sorry! It’s hard to calculate on an iPhone.

    Here is how to Count your days.

    Aug 18-- Travel Day,

    Aug 19-- ROM Day 1.

    Aug 20- Sept 1- ROM,

    Sept 2 On Board RTC & P1.

    So Today starts Processing Days.

    Sept 2-4 P-days,

    Sept 5-7 P-hold,

    Sept 8 & 9- P-days,

    Sept 10 Training day 1.

    Look for your form letter around Sept 17ish.  Maybe sooner may be a little later.  (Postal issues that I won't discuss on here)

    Sending you all LOVE & LIGHT

  • VintageGal

    Ooooh Kristel2400 - you name the t-shirt site guuuurl!!!!
  • Chipmunk

    Shanny and VintageGal - thanks!! I will rest peacefully when I finally close my eyes!

    Shanny - I forgot to say, I love Pansies.

    Jen - The gals are steering you straight. Our estimate is around the 4 week mark before you will receive the form letter with your SR (seaman Recruit)'s address and PIR date. 

    PIR = Pass in Review otherwise known as graduation!!

  • VintageGal

    BTW anyone wondering... The Navy Mom posse is the group who’s going to get Shanny’s clothes back... long story! We joined forces (imaginary but don’t test us) but it’s an open ended force! LOL HAHAHA

    Having some fun while we wait... and wait... lol :)
  • Chipmunk

    Jen and our other new members!! I don't know if we have had a chance to welcome everyone yet today - Here is reading material to get you started! Welcome Aboard to the BC rollercoaster ride!! Semper Gumby is your new way of life and "No News is Good News!!" 

    First Things First-- The Quarantine Edition

    And - Arrival and What Happens at RTC

  • Havsmannen♡

    Thanks ladies! I feel better now! I appreciate the response!

  • Shanny

    VintageGal:  the posse must ride at dawn!  But not tomorrow. I have to wait for my phone call lol  (don’t mind me I am sitting here watching Dr Pimple Popper.)

  • Chipmunk

    When your emotions can handle it, there are also videos posted in the top left of this page, BC Making a Sailor and behind the scenes. On the upper right is a list of lots of pages of information that Lemonelephant put together. 

    If you are viewing this site on a mobile device be sure to put it into desktop mode. I can read my email feed messages on my phone but I only type and do my replying on my computer, because it is just easier for me. 

  • Shanny

    Kristel:  I swear I can’t even make this crap up!  He somehow finds the crazy ones and I always find the broken ones!  I’m down for the shirts. We may need them. NAVY MOMS POSSE!  

  • Chipmunk

    Kristel2400 and Unicornlily05 - It is good to hear from you!!

    Kristel2400 - I don't think they are keeping them longer than 2 weeks, but there could be reasons for changing that possibly, if they should happen to present with an infection. Hard to tell. From what I was reading on the RTC website this morning in the FAQ, if they have a change in their PIR status they should be calling you. So, again, "No News is Good News." 

    It is so great to see everyone welcoming, encouraging and answering questions!! 

  • VintageGal

    HAHAHA
    NAVY MOM POSSE
    (On the back)
    Here to get Shanny’s clothes back
    Find lost SR puppies
    Pour ice water on the ring of fire!!

    ... you can add to the other things that need to get handled from this group onto the back of this t-shirt...
  • LadyBluefire

    Sneaking on while hubby is blending up cabbage juice - so I may have missed something , lol


    FlyEG14 - glad this group was here for you! It sure helps with our sanity!

    Unicorn - yeah just jump in. The biggest thing right now is Katharine hasn’t received her FL and is dealing with a concussion, Shanny’s SR is about to PIR and Vintage’s SR went into another ROM.

    Kristel - at least he got in the Navy. A friend of my son’s got an 8 on the ASVAB. LIke how does one get an 8?

    Jen - my son left 8/27 and this is the week I should get my form letter and next weekend the call home.

    Shanny - I LOVE Dr Pimple Popper!!!!

    Vintage - love the shirt ideas!

  • LadyBluefire

    MyKidsMom - yay for a call home! So nice to hear their voice after so long.

  • Shanny

    Jen:  welcome!!!  Can I just say, when you get your form letter or letter from your son, if he is really not a letter writer this is what I told my son:  I know you will be busy and probably not have a lot of time to write. But PLEASE let me know you are ok or even if you are not ok. Even a one line...  hi mom. Boot camp sucks but I am ok. Is enough. I will keep writing no matter what. But just let me know you are ok. 

    And be prepared. The first letter can be rough for us to read. That’s normal. I almost went psycho on someone after the first letter. I wanted to find a way to go get him and save him. He graduated, sort of, today. And in his next letter he had made friends and was loving it. He has been happy since then.

    again, welcome to the group!  I am just hoping they don’t chase me out now...  

  • Shanny

    VintageGal:  my SR would say better food in quarantine. No more MREs and gross sandwiches!

  • Chipmunk

    Shanny - I was just going to say, we need some of you to keep sticking around!! The more input the better in my opinion!! 

    LBF - I guess that cabbage is still cooking!! Since you are still up. 

    If we aren't careful, we might have a pajama party on here tonight!! I love the Navy Mom Posse shirt idea!

  • Shanny

    LadyBluefire:  my son got talked into going in to talk to an Army recruiter with a friend and they asked him to take a practice ASVAB. He said he didn’t even read the questions just chose random answers. He had already chosen Navy but his friend was afraid to go alone. Not reading questions, he scored a 17 lol

  • Havsmannen♡

    Thanks Shanny! Im hoping everything is going good for him. We kept in contact on his way there between flights, he had 4 other kids going with him and said they were already buddies. Thats the one thing I cling to is he makes friends super easy and hoping hes at least feeling better knowing he has someone to connect with there. I pray every night him and all the other kids there are hanging in there and havin a bit of a laugh together when possible! 

  • Shanny

    Chipmunk:  I don’t even know where to go from here. I found this group and all of you were so welcoming and helpful so I never ventured out to check around for other places on here lol

  • VintageGal

    Good night Mamas! It was a chatty day - good stuff. Lots of laugh and some tears :) until tomorrow!

    Shanny- I agree <3
  • partyofseven

    Good Night VintageGal,

    It was a good day. Sweet dreams.

  • partyofseven

    Welcome Jen- To our group it is good to have you on here. You have come to the right place. It is a roller coaster ride but we are all here for you. 

    Welcome again.

  • VintageGal

    Partyofseven - Good night and sweet dreams to you too. 

    Came in here to read the rest of the chatter because my husband and son left the room to ride their bikes to the park to catch a pokemon. Sorry, I wouldn’t know how to explain that one. Lol

    Shanny -  my son has said that the food is actually pretty good. And as I’ve told you before he’s unofficially a food critic. :)

  • Chipmunk

    Jen, those prayers and connection will help hold you close to your SR while you have no communication! I am glad you were able to talk to him and it sounded like he was making friends already. 

    Welcome also to Khawk1290 & Momof4 - Be sure to come here and introduce yourselves. 

    Shanny - Did you get my friend request? I haven't even had a chance to check yet?