Boot Camp Moms (and loved ones)

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  • Phoenixmom

    Prayer for scripture below:

    Heavenly Father, thank You for Your amazing goodness and grace, which stooped down in Your mercy and kindness to rescue us from eternal separation from You, and from becoming ever more entrenched in the callous sensuality, impurity and greed that has saturated the sin nature of fallen humanity. Thank You, that in Christthat we are part of a new creation, and have passed from darkness to light, and have been positioned in Christ and am seated, together with Him, in heavenly places. May we live and work to Your praise and glory, in Jesus name I pray, AMEN.

  • LadyBluefire

    Oh my! I sat up in bed, picked up my phone to see what Informed Delivery had to say to me today and my phone rang - area code 847. I answered "uh oh" and he said "no uh oh". 

    LONG story short they only had 1 hit during drill inspection. They did so amazing at the half step walking by the Pearl Harbor without any cadence. Their Chief was so proud of them that he rewarded them with their 3rd call home in 8 days. There is mention of them learning how to counter march.

    Also they have earned the right to torpedo and grenade other divisions and Chief has ordered them to do so and to keep track of their kills.

    Their RPOC broke his insignia during PT so the Chief took off his and gave it to the RPOC = very ceremonial and a high honor.

    He also mentioned the yellow pennant and I can;t recall what that means. I was still waking up and hadn;t had my coffee. I was also still dumbstruck that he was calling again!

    I will get back to everyone else's post when I have had a chance to calm down. I seriously can't even focus on anything right now. 

    Good morning everyone! 

    PS Vintage - I HOPE your son gets put in my son's - they are amazeballs!

  • Shanny

    LadyBluefire:  that is awesome!!!  So happy for you that you got another call!  Sounds like your SR and his group are doing amazing!  

  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    Good Morning All!

    ASMO'd means "Assignment Memorandum Order".  It's an administrative decision to set them back in training.  Usually means they need help in one or more areas.

    And yes, Semper Gumby - always flexible!

  • Phoenixmom

    Great News LadyBluefire!

    Thank You B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN didn't see that question but then didn't go back to read all the post.

  • Phoenixmom

    October 8, 2020
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    October 15, 2020
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  • VintageGal

    LadyBlueFire- that is amazing! What wonderful news all the way around! I am beaming for you and for your SR!! 
    oh heck yeah I hope he was put into your sons division!!  :) woohoo!! 

  • VintageGal

    LBF - What was your sons division again? 

  • partyofseven

    Chipmunk- No worries and I saw my boo boo. I'm just glad I didn't type something else. Lol

    VintageGal- Good Morning, right I have a few of them at my place to. There is always a blessing from God when we least expect it. :) 

    Anyways, your SR won't call when he goes back into training well that's what they've been doing. They will call when they are going into quarantine. So yes, No news is good news and I pray that he has gone into boot camp training as scheduled. Don't fret and keep telling yourself no news is good news.

    Big Hugs to you!!!

    Mmm both of those sound good, cookies and Carmel apples can't beat it!!!  Lol

    Shanny- Good Morning, Hopefully you'll get a text soon telling about how his first day of classes went.  :)

    LadyblueFire- That is awesome!! They are doing great things and it is so exciting. So you keep on enjoying that feeling we get when they call and tell us things!!! Big hugs!!!

    B'sNukeMoM MMN- Good Morning and thanks for posting that. I knew what it meant but not what the letters stood for. I couldn't remember.  :)

    Phoenixmom- Good Morning, Amen!! on the scripture and thank you. It's good to see you here. 

    Hoping your weekend was well.  The games last night were good. 

  • Phoenixmom

    October 22, 2020
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    October 29, 2020
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  • Phoenixmom

    November 5, 2020
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    November 12, 2020
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  • Phoenixmom

    Hi PartyofSeven I watched Sunday Football but yesterday I fell asleep so early I wasn't feeling good. Don't know what is going on with them Cardinals, UGH!

  • LadyBluefire

    Welcome new moms = you have come to the right place!

    Henry’s mom - thanks for sharing your undes son’s experience - sounds like he has quite the story to tell!

    I had a bear by my door to go outside - I opened the door and yelled at it, then closed the door and asked myself what  the heck was I doing?! Many a night we have had to shoot near them to scare them away...We have neighbors who would feed them on purpose and some who are careless about their trash and they KNOW when it is garbage day.

    Chipmunk - picking on poor party, lol. I had to go back and read her “pist” several times before I noticed it.


    Shanny - it is about time ONE kid got a good division. He has had a role reversal in his luck! Can you freeze your apple dip in small batches?

    Vintage - he has had tons of ASMOd SRs put in his div and 5 more are getting kicked out of his div.  (leaving room for yours I hope!) I would not be surprised if they were separated. Talking to the girls through the bulkheads. Anyway, the ASMOd SRs who come into his div are telling them how much better their div 414 is than their old divs. The cleanest they have ever seen a compartment etc. I have  a scuttle about div 414 but am afraid to say it as I may jynx it, lol. Plus I am not sure if it is 100% or just a possibility.

    Party - things are a bit diff from what I am seeing when they are placed into a 14 day ROM and their PIR and Div change they get a call when they are out of ROM to give their new address to their loved ones. My #2 never called to say he was out of ROM but then his div did not change...

  • Chipmunk

    Just a quick check in -

    Shanny did you see my msg?

    VintageGal - did you figure out Party's slip up? 

    LBF - I know, I should be nicer to Partyofseven, she does a wonderful job on here - but it made me laugh and I couldn't stop and it reminded me of something my father said once, so, I just laughed and cried more. 

    Partyofseven - I wasn't sure if you noticed it after you posted your question or not, so I was just trying to help you out.

    Okay - back to work, that was my quick perusal I will read in more detail later!

  • VintageGal

    Chipmunk - HA! I didn’t- I’ll look back! :)
  • partyofseven

    LadyBlueFire- Lol I know I was laughing to after I saw it. I'm just glad it didn't spell something else. lol

    Thanks LBF, I had forgotten to put that in there. :)

    Isn't that crazy on how some of these divisions are at this time. If they don't want to be there and don't take their training seriously then maybe they don't need to be Sailor's if they can't follow the rules now. Or maybe their just to immature at this point. It's so cray cray. I'm sure the Navy wants to give them chances as well. 

    Chipmunk- I did. I just haven't made it over to my page yet. It's easier to post on here real quick. Lol 

    It is all ok I can take a good joke. Lol I am laughing to so it is good.  

    Thank you for saying that. I appreciate it as you an awesome job on here as well.  :)

    Phoenixmom- I know. I don't know what's going on with them either. Ugh!!!

  • partyofseven

    VintageGal-

    You can't miss it!!!  Lol

  • Katharine

    Got a letter!!! He spent the first paragraph telling me how awful he felt that we were not getting his letters. That boy .... always thinking about me. He said he was sure I was cursing the post office. Hahaha. I guess I shouldn't tell him that I was considering giving them poisoned apples. 

    He also said he sent his Dad a birthday present and apologized that it would be late. Can they do that from BC? I know his Dad would love anything that said Navy, but I am really curious about what on earth he would send and how that would work. Sending letters seems complicated enough.

    All of you talking about cookies and caramel .... uggghhh. I managed to figure out the keto baking over the last 5 years, but carnivore caramel? Can anyone help?

  • VintageGal

    Chipmunk - I think I got it ;) lol

    partyofseven- I love reading your “posts” ;) I was voice texting my coworker this morning and the F word made its way into the text and I’m so glad I double checked it! could you imagine LOL 

    New moms are like what the hecknBob is going on in here?! 

    Sometimes we like to lighten the mood :) 

  • belovedbyHim

    C'sMom2020--Glad you got your answer. 

    LadyBluefire-- WOW!!!! What an AMAZING Wake up call!!!! That is so awesome.... See you in a few days when you come down into a lower orbit!!

    Brenda402, hugabugs, Jill, Mandy, MyKidsMom, Okie Mom-- Thinking of you all this week! I’m hoping that your SR’s are all still on track and doing well.

    Katharine-- A LETTER managed to sneak past your post office!!! That is AWESOME!!!!! I’m just so glad you finally have an address and PIR and we didn’t need to activate the Posse to hunt down a lost puppy!!!(SR for those joining late.... or blonde ;) )

  • VintageGal

    Katharine- how exciting that you FINALLY got your letter!! Awwwe, sweet boy! I think they have a gift shop that has those items. I didn’t know they could access it during BC! Nice!!!
  • Shanny

    The Navy Moms Posse is always on stand by!!!  So I totally love you ladies but..  there I am in the grocery store because I now MUST have caramel dip and apples and my phone keeps going off with notifications of new posts...  so there I am thinking I’m missing huge news and must hurry up so I can catch up...  (I really think I need a life lol) pay for my stuff, get home and I forgot EVERYTHING I needed for apple dip!  It’s ok. You can laugh because I did.   Even forgot the apples!

    guess I better catch up!!!

    oh on a positive here...  I finally received my sailor’s corrected high school diploma! (He legally changed his name but the school put his old name on the diploma). I wonder if the Navy still needs this?  I’m thinking no since he is in either that or really really lost 

  • partyofseven

    VintageGal- Oh my gosh you had me rolling. Lol 

    It is good to have a light day sometimes and just laugh it out. It is good for our soul!!

    Katharine- whoo hoo a letter!!! I am so glad you finally got your letter. You and your SR will have so many stories to share when it is time. I am so happy for you.

    Shanny- Yay at least you got it. You made me laugh to. I swear I hate it when I do that. Lol

    Another day closer ladies for the ones that have PIR this week. How are you doing? 

  • Phoenixmom

    Katherine Great News!

     I have no idea what y'all are talking about? inside Joke i'm guessing.

  • Shanny

    PhoenixMom:  are you talking about Navy Mom Posse?  The ladies were going to form a posse to get my son’s clothes back from his cheating GF. (Yes, he found out she started cheating on him about 3 weeks after he left for BC). When he got out of BC he texted her and told her she had 24 hours to return all of his belongings to me or he would send his friends to come get them.  Took about 2 hours after his text and she stuck them on my back porch.  So then the Posse was going to go and find Katharine’s missing SR. As soon as someone threatened to storm the gates at RTC, she heard from him lol so the Posse has magical powers!  

  • VintageGal

    Pheonixmom- Yesterday partyofseven had a grammar glitch and she said pist instead of post Lol :) if not the Navy mom posse that Shanny told you about

  • Shanny

    Caramel Apple Dip for anyone who was curious...

  • Phoenixmom

    Oh My Shanny, I cant believe this girl! well it's her that will be missing out on a Good thing! I'm so sorry for your Son, but doesn't seem he's losing sleep over it! GOOD THING!

    VintageGal thanks for that, that is funny! PartyofSeven you are too funny!

  • Phoenixmom

    I spoke to my Bud this weekend He seemed pretty busy moving more things from one Apt. to the next so I didn't want to interrupt. said he likes the fact that I am getting out more. But that will be coming to a halt as I get ready for my Kitchen makeover.

  • Phoenixmom

    Shanny sounds delicious! my Grandson and grandkids would love this!

  • VintageGal

    Pheonixmom- that’s great news - the adventure continues :) kitchen makeover?! Jealous party of one!
  • Shanny

    PhoenixMom:  I wish I were closer  We could hang out together. I don’t ever go out or see friends. I always decline when people ask me to do things. They have stopped asking. Sadly, I feel alone but I also want to go anywhere or do anything. 
    my sailor seems to be doing ok I’ve rather break up stuff. I think he is hurt but being with the guys in the barracks and hanging out at night has kept him distracted

  • VintageGal

    Shanny - not to be petty but we have a GREAT song for that young lady ;) I Hope! So Farewell!
  • partyofseven

    Shanny- I know I am the same. I hardly ever go out but I am trying to do more. 

    The recipe sounds delicous. I will be making it this weekend. He probably is feeling hurt and it will take him some time but he will get thru it. 

    That's her loss.

    Phoenixmom- I glad I was able to make you laugh.  :)

    Where did he get an apt at? Is he with the same guys that brought him home last time? Did he ever live in the barracks for long?

    I am glad he is doing well and keeping busy.

    Whoo hoo kitchen makeover that's awesome!!!

  • Shanny

    PhoenixMom:  if you don’t like toffee or don’t think they would, you could use nuts like they do on caramel apples 

  • Shanny

    VintageGal:  I think I need to have that song on full blast every day!  

  • Phoenixmom

    Hi PartyofSeven yes his Buddies girlfriend is on same carrier as Him, they lived in Ramona but got a bigger and closer apt to Coronado base. when you go out on deployment you have to move out of the Barracks so his friend allowed him to put his stuff at his place and then when he had came back he moved in with both of them. Yes his friend is so awesome they bring Bud Home and come and pick him up, this last time another guy came with as he had never been to AZ before and wanted to see what it looked like, sure he wasn't impressed as it is all desert! HAHAHA!

  • Phoenixmom

    Shanny that would be nice, you living closer! My daughter wants to take me to the chili festival this weekend and pumpkin Patch out in Queen creek this weekend, May take her up on it. I would like to do the corn maze with my Grandkids.

  • Velvetenor

    Wow - you guys have been busy posting again! Congrats to those that received letters and phone calls this week! I remember how much I craved those little moments of communication when mine was in BC. But, if you are one of those who hasn't heard anything this week then "no news is good news" applies, and your SR is doing great, so hang in there!!

    Since there was some discussion about bears earlier, I figured I'd add a pic and story. Yes, even in NJ there are PLENTY of bears, and they are not afraid to come visiting. Here is one checking out my empty garbage can at about 10 am a few months ago. He was a big boy! 

  • Kristel2400

    You ladies are killin me!!! I have to catch up but I LAUGHED OUT LOUD about Shannys grocery trip for caramel gone-ary and Katharine .... the poisoned apples. OMG!!!!!! I was dyin laughing. Then there’s the Navy mom POSSE on standby. Damn Vel, that’s one big bear!! I’ll try to attach a video I got Sunday across from my house. 

  • Phoenixmom

    OMG! He's Huge! I would completely freak out! and them not being afraid how do you shew them off? do they get close enough to the doors as to come inside your Home? That is Crazy! Here we have snakes, spiders, Scorpions in the mountains maybe coyotes, bears, a pack of elk which my cousin seen this past weekend as they went camping in payson. he asked the rangers about the screaming  and ranger said it was a mate call.......Too funny!

  • Velvetenor

    Yeah, there are plenty of stories and pictures of bears in our area coming right up on porches and decks looking for food, so we really need to be careful here. It's also crucial to not put your garbage out until the morning right before the garbage man comes to pick up, or else the bears will knock over the can and the garbage will be pawed through and strewn all over your lawn by morning. I took this picture from the safety of my office window, but if you are outside and see a bear then the best thing to do is just calmly turn and walk inside (do not run), If you want the bear to go away just get some pots to bang together and yell to make noise, and they generally leave, but they usually don't run away. They just sort of look annoyed and slowly mosey away, like "I guess I'll go, since you put it that way, but I COULD stay, if I wanted to." LOL!

  • LadyBluefire

    Aw Velvet he's cute!

    Bear.jpg

    This little guy was the first bear we had seen when we moved into our neighborhood. We bought air horns for the kids. Most of them run away but some just don't care. We treed a mama and her cubs one time. Good thing she went for safety vs defense.

    We have video of a bear attacking our MacGuyver bear can aka toolbox. That thing lasted 2 years before it finally broke.

    Not sure I can link it....

    Shanny, awww you need the Navy Mom Posse to kidnap you for some girl fun!! Yay for fixed diploma! I would send a copy to his recruiter (via e mail) and you can say you did your due diligence. 


    Apparently you can;t go to other pages while typing in this box. 

  • LadyBluefire

    Velvet - yeah we can be fined if we put our garbage out before 6 am. Our garbage men come from 6 am til 6 pm and one never knows when, usually they come early if we oversleep. They come late if we do not. We do not have a garage so my husband built this to keep our trash bear proof during the week.
    Bear Proof

  • Kristel2400

    WOW!! Yeah so I want to share bear safety tips that I learned last week ... if it’s brown, lie down; if it’s black, fight back and if it’s white, say goodnight! I guess there’s no recovering from polar bears but hopefully none of you will need that one!

  • Phoenixmom

    WOW! I learn something everyday, thanks for sharing about the bears. that would be a good call in for work! LOL!

  • Velvetenor

    Oooh, LBF, that is a nice bear-proof trash area!! We do have a garage, so we keep the garbage in there, and the doors closed, unless we are entering or exiting. We have also seen many raccoons and squirrels going into our neighbor's garages when their doors were left open - again looking for food.

    But really, it's still a pretty rare thing to actually see bears out like this during the day, and we are certainly able to spend time in our yard without any issues.

  • Kristel2400

  • Velvetenor

    OMG, Kristel, what a great pic!! So cute (from a distance, of course)!

  • Phoenixmom

    wow Kristel2400 a group of bears do they usually all come out like this? Crazy, I must say!