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Phoenixmom
It's saying it can be bought at etsy.com
Jan 14, 2021
Shanny
PhoenixMom: I could get into lots of trouble on Etsy!! I always find tons of things I love on there!
Absolutely love this!!! If I had found it when he was in BC I would have bought it
Jan 14, 2021
Shanny
Right now I am obsessed with this bracelet but I keep talking self out of buying it!
Jan 14, 2021
NewMilmom
Welcome to All the New Moms- You have found the Best place to be....Ask questions & the knowledgeable seasoned Navy Mom's will surely help you. It is a lot to take in at 1st & seems overwhelming at times so I am glad you found your way here.
On Friday's you will hear us mention to wear RED. RED meaning: Remember Everyone Deployed. Anything red in support of all our sons and daughters in all military branches serving our Great country. I am always encouraging co-workers and others in our community to wear RED on Fridays and when my son joined the Navy it became much more personal & emotionally charged.
Oh Shanny - your story about your Gma & her gold star made me tear up. Yes, it was only right that she be buried with it on her. God Bless you for doing that for her.
Yes, Amazon is making a lot of $ on us Navy Moms especially since so many of us dare not wander into the crowded stores.
I love the lantern & fairy lights idea too...Maybe I'll put fairy lights in my vases vs. a candle... When I ordered the handmade vases I never ever expected them to be anything but tea light size...Imagine my surprise they are Wonderful large candle vases... Such a happy surprise since they will be a focal point in my house. I am still going to try to do something on smaller scale at my work station as I spend more time here than home... And yes, I will be burning through the batteries myself I am sure. Costco sells batteries in bulk so...all set there.
Have a lovely night all. BHMH to each of you!!!
Jan 14, 2021
Phoenixmom
Shanny I'm with you on that Girlfriend I love Etsy! I Have one of those candles but mine says something different. But I love them! at least we are on the same page. My daughter just bought me this Morracan lantern came in so this weekend I'm picking it up.
Jan 14, 2021
belovedbyHim
Shanny-- It's and easy Braid... You could make one.... Just saying...
Jan 14, 2021
Phoenixmom
I like to light the candle in his room say a prayer and turn the Light on in the other. But My daughter told me she bought me a little something and told me what it was, I love it!
Jan 14, 2021
Shanny
NewMilMom:. My Grams was an angel walking on earth. She was one strong woman. She was always my rock. And my world hasn’t been the same.
PheonixMom: I LOVE that lantern!!! So pretty!
Jan 14, 2021
Shanny
BelovedbyHim: I am so not crafty! I wish I were! I have tried to learn to crochet. Bought everything people told me to. Nope. I couldn’t even get it started. No matter how hard I tried. My mom tried to teach me to knit when I was a kid. After trying for 5 years she finally gave up. I can see on a button. But that’s about it. I can French brain and Dutch braid my own hair. But I can’t on someone else. I’m hopeless
Jan 14, 2021
Phoenixmom
Beloved That is awesome, I'm not a crafty person but my daughter can do about anything. but all these Blue light candles has got me in the mood. she always knows I think about bud so she surprised me with this lantern and lights. I can put in my Kitchen and light it up. one of the boys I raised surprised me after Christmas with some Lights that are on a timer and you put underneath your cabinets to light up the kitchen really nice. I can alternate with the both now.
Jan 14, 2021
belovedbyHim
Jan 14, 2021
Phoenixmom
Well all I am out , I hope you all have a Wonderful Evening. Little one is Hungry so I have to see what I have to eat for him. Thank You all for sharing it's always nice to see the New things and crafty things everyone is doing. With much Love and Respect! Good Night Sweet dreams!
Jan 14, 2021
mom2blondies
Phoenixmom-I almost bought that one too!!! How many blue candles/lanterns would be considered 'excessive'?? Haha!
Shanny, love that bracelet! I was looking at some necklaces on Amazon but nothing really struck my fancy. Now I'm going to browse etsy tomorrow because I'm sure to find something there!
Jan 15, 2021
Chipmunk
Good Morning Everyone!!
Still in my pj's but I love Friday because I always know what I am wearing - my RED - Remember Everyone Deployed!
I am so excited to hear that some of you saw your SRs!! Yeah.
mom2blondies - did you post that blue star!! I love it!
Welcome to our new members: Sally and galina - We are glad you are here, please stop by and introduce yourself.
Manycolors and Missing my #1 - Are we in the final stretch??
Jan 15, 2021
partyofseven
Good Morning to all of our new moms and dads we are glad you are here.
My computer was messing up this morning so I am a little late.
Sally and galena- We are so glad you are here. No question is ever dumb and someone will answer.
Start writing your letters now and the key is to stay busy while you are waiting for that first contact. This is an emotional roller coaster ride but we are here along the way offering support, encouragement, laughter and even tears with you. :)
It is ok this is what this group is all about. You will learn to be strong as your son or daughter is learning to be strong.
Another day closer to PIR ladies. The home stretch is so wonderful to be in!!!
REMEMBER TO WEAR YOUR RED TODAY- REMEMBER EVERYONE DEPLOYED!!!
God Bless and have a great day everyone!!!
Jan 15, 2021
partyofseven
Jan 15, 2021
partyofseven
Anti M- Good Morning, How have you been? We have had some very very chilly mornings here in the valley. Actually it has been wonderful. I love the cold since it's so hot here for so long. Lol
How have you been? How are you feeling? I hope everything has been going well.
My son's first week at his new place has been an eye opener for him that's for sure. I give him another week and he will be good to go. Lol
Jan 15, 2021
Anti M
Party, I'm alright, thanks for asking. Arthritis is a bother, I tried mood boosting gummies and discovered they aggravate my inflammation. Not mood boosting. It has been a bot warm, we really need a good storm to clear out our valley air and add to the snowpack. The snowpack is our summer irrigation/yard water.
I have some color changing LED bulbs in small lamps, and some CCLED candles. The tea lights cycle through colors, but the taper candles can be set to whichever color you like.
A word about Etsy, if the item is not handmade, or you have doubts, search Amazon for the same thing. One clue is the same thing offered by several sellers. I wanted some cute chimes, and they ran $15 to $18 on Etsy, plus shipping. I found them on Amazon Prime for under $10. Shop around!
Jan 15, 2021
Phoenixmom
Good Morning all Happy Friday! YAY! hope everyone is doing well.
Mrs. Anti M good Morning, Hoping you start to feeling good soon, I know that arthritis can be a bother. Thanks for the heads up about Etsy.
Mom2Blondies I switch mine out every now and then, the Blue candle things, I had at one time 5 . A couple I had for show. So your right how many is too much? HAHAHA! But they look so Nice.
Welcome to the New Comers, glad to have you here. There is much info to read on it may make your head spin! (understatement).
Jan 15, 2021
NewMilmom
Good Morning Everyone!!
Wearing my RED of course...Remember Everyone Deployed!
1 Day closer to PIR for each of the SR's & families. BNMH to each ...
belovedbyHim - I am envious of your ability to French braid and Dutch braid your hair... I for the life of me can't manage it. I can French braid someone else's but, mine is just a mangled mess when I try doing it with mine.
Phonixmom- Yes, Etsy & Amazon are making a killing off of me... It is soooo addictive on Etsy...and so many ideas. Some I could probably do if I bought the supplies but...then again it might just be another project I didn't get to...I have TONS of 1/2 started things (mostly knitting & crochet). LOVE your daughter sooo sweet to order you the lantern. What a wonderful gal!!!
Shanny - The hemp anchor bracelet is nice. I was thinking of ordering something similar in red to wear on RED Fridays too.
Yes, my Maternal Grandmother sounds like yours. As the oldest grandchild she and I had a special bond & relationship. And I spent a lot more time over the years with her than the other grandchildren. She used to giggle as she became a Great Grandmother with the birth of my 1st & her sister who was 1 yr younger didn't get her first & only grandchild until the following year.
I pretty much taught myself to knit & crochet...lots and lots of videos (play, pause, repeat, rewind over and over and over). Between all the free help/teaching video's online and some really good instructional books I do both now. Granted I am never going to be as good as my Grandmother (she was a pro)...she always said I was a lefty so she wouldn't be able to teach me ... and I didn't pick it up until after she died too. But here is the funny part... I do both Right handed not left....
My tension is not the best at consistency but, with dish cloths and baby blankets it is good enough and works out.
Start with something small like a basic dishcloth then branch out... Just keep with it. It is easy enough to "frog" it back and start again. Sometimes that is as therapeutic as making it...sort of like a redo button that we don't get in life. At least for me anyhow.
I have tons of projects I started & life got in the way so they sit .... all my kids give me grief about that too...hahahahaha!! but life got way too complicated for way to long so I haven't even had 1/2 a chance to do any of it. Plus now my hands give me issues so I can't do to much at a time.
Have a Wonderful Day & Prayers for calls & letters for each of you. But always remember, "No news is Good news" .
Jan 15, 2021
Shanny
RTC has posted more pictures on their Facebook page!! I can read a couple division flags.. 077, 098, 083 but there are other pictures as well!
Jan 15, 2021
Phoenixmom
Thank You Shanny!
Jan 15, 2021
Phoenixmom
Jan 15, 2021
Shanny
And for your special day!!!
Jan 15, 2021
Phoenixmom
HOOYAH! whoop whoop!
Jan 15, 2021
mom2blondies
The wind is WILD here today!! I'm guessing around a steady 40 mph with regular gusts up to 80mph. Half our fence blew down and I didn't realize it until AFTER I had let the dogs out and they came back in....good dogs!!! The neighbor helped me prop it back up and secure it since hubby is at work. Because we live in a high wind area our fence posts are steel. The neighbor drains his pool pump or whatever he does that floods that side every week and it is obvious that the pool chemicals corroded the post and it just snapped. He acknowledged that was likely the cause so he is going to call someone to come fix it. Me and hubby already replaced that fence ourselves and it was a good, solid fence. He is also going to get some quotes for a block wall (actually he tried to get me to do it but I ended the conversation with, "Well, just let us know what kind of quotes you come up with and we'll talk about paying half."). So that fiasco was my entire morning. I did plan on going out to run some errands today but not in this wind, it isn't safe as this is the kind of wind that has semi trucks flipping over on the freeway and playing 'dodge the tumbleweed'. I guess etsy browsing it is today, haha!!
Jan 15, 2021
VintageGal
Good afternoon ladies!
I’ve loved seeing the Navy mom swag and candles! Super fun! Today I’m wearing my RED Navy Mom t-shirt. :) HOOYAH!! not only does it support our sailors but it also makes me feel like I have a piece of my boy close to me.
I’ve bought a lot of fun Navy stuff off of eBay but the last time I purchased something my credit card information got stolen. They spent almost $4000!! I don’t shop at Saks!! Lol luckily we got it taken care of. The same thing happened to my Sailor the week before, when he bought a Disney pin! Be safe out there and online!
mom2blondies ~ Sounds like you’ve had quite a morning!! Sorry to hear about all of the mess the wind has caused. Stay safe! Enjoy your shopping!
Jan 15, 2021
Phoenixmom
YIKES, MomofBlondies sounds dangerous with the wind, sorry about the fence ordeal, hope the neighbor can fix soon for the dogs. Stay safe!
Jan 15, 2021
Phoenixmom
.. First Things First-- The Quarantine Edition
Informed Delivery®
This is another good link as you can sign up and see what mail is coming every day!!
Jan 15, 2021
Phoenixmom
These sites will give much needed info as well please read.
This site will give info as to what is needed to pass and what happens if the PFA isn't passed, and how the form letter is sent and when.
See Physical Fitness Assessment (PFA) and Fitness Improvement Training (FIT).
Jan 15, 2021
Phoenixmom
PIR: January 2021
January 07, 2021 No Graduation
January 14, 2021 No Graduation
January 21, 2021 TG 09 14 Divisions (065-078)
January 28, 2021 TG 10 14 Divisions (079-092)
PIR: February 2021
February 04, 2021 TG 11 6 Divisions (095-102)
February 11, 2021 TG 12 13 Divisions (105-116, 807)
February 18, 2021 TG 13 14 Divisions (117-130)
February 25, 2021 TG 14 12 Divisions (131- 144)
Please note: Your recruits original graduation date may change due to additional quarantine during training. Your recruit will let you know if this happens.
Jan 15, 2021
Phoenixmom
Jan 15, 2021
Phoenixmom
Graduation ceremonies take place on Thursdays and guests cannot attend nor access the base. The ceremony is recorded and the video, along with photos, will be posted by 4 p.m. CT Friday on our Facebook page at: https://www.facebook.com/NavyRecruitTrainingCommand and our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/c/RTCPublicAffairs/community.
Jan 15, 2021
Phoenixmom
Jan 15, 2021
Phoenixmom
If you click on each topic it will take you to that page, there is some good info for those that started. please click and read. also good info in case you need to get a hold of red cross.
Jan 15, 2021
Northwoodsmom
Vintage I am always afraid of getting my identity stolen. My daughter actually does all my shopping for me, I send her a check signed and we keep a rounding account going. Gives her extra points on her card and I get the security of not having to use my card. She also checks out and makes sure that any donations I want to make are actually what they say they are. I am so blessed to have her and I know it. I am old enough that computers were not a part of our lives so I am not comfortable using them but I am trying, heck my 90 year old Dad just got his first IPad, just saying I need to get out of the stone age! Have a wonderful night. What month is that wedding?
Jan 15, 2021
Shanny
VintageGal: I need to know where you bought your Navy mom stuff! I am so paranoid of the sites that come up in my FB feeds but they have some cool looking shirts! I did just buy this bracelet on Etsy though! I’ve been looking at it for 2 months lol I hate spending money
Jan 15, 2021
mom2blondies
Shanny, let me know if the cord is soft or scratchy. I was looking at those today and love all the color combos you can choose from. I was thinking 'gunmetal' anchor with navy blue bracelet.
I see another letter coming from my SR. I plan to go to the post office tomorrow but I don't think it will be there yet as it has been taking 3 days from when I see it to when I get it. Next opportunity I'll have to get to the post office will be Wednesday and it should be there by then. I have his birthday cards ready to mail out just trying to figure out the timing on when to send them so they show up close to his birthday.
Jan 15, 2021
Anti M
I am leery of the FB ads, so many just use pictures from Etsy or private sites and send you garbage or nothing. I have learned to do google reverse image search to figure out what is real. Etsy tends to be okay. I have shopped online for years and never had a problem with card theft, just a couple rip off sales. My card is good about fixing those.
I'm more concerned about identity theft from all those online quizzes which are just farming information.
Jan 15, 2021
Shanny
mom2blondies: i ordered the royal blue and gunmetal. I will definitely let you know! I always second guess myself when I order things like this lol
Jan 15, 2021
VintageGal
Good evening and TGIF!!
Shanny ~ hello! Funny enough I bought all of my shirts off of eBay. I’ve actually had great luck with my purchases. I like the bracelet and I think you should get it or make it!
Northwoodsmom ~ So the credit card mishap was literally last week! The person had a great time shopping at Saks and then bought over $100 worth of pizza and a couple of Asian parlor massages! My husband was alerted of it and a lot of it was denied. Thankfully we got it all shut down. My Sailor was alerted of the fraud as well and got it all straightened out.
Jan 15, 2021
VintageGal
Mom2blondies ~ Did you have any luck with your shopping today?
Northwoodsmom ~ so the wedding is in one month! It’s going to be here before we know it. I was at his fiancé’s house this evening with her mother going through pictures for a slideshow. So I’ll be working on it this weekend while my dh and day are out on a quad ride.
My sailor just text me and said that him and his fiancé are watching double Jeopardy with Ashley Judd. Of course she’s here and he’s at school but they watch them together. It melts my heart when my son shows her my favorite movies. Him and I are major movie and music buffs. He’s always asking me for recommendations <3 I LOVE THIS BOY!!
Hello Anti M! I hope you’re starting to feel better. :)
Welcome to our new moms!
Jan 15, 2021
mom2blondies
VintageGal-I actually didn't purchase anything today! Yay me! I browsed etsy for a bit then finished my housework that I was putting off because I thought my oldest was bringing his dogs so was going to do floors after they left but he didn't end up bringing them. The wedding will be here in the blink of an eye!! Have fun with the slide show!!
Jan 16, 2021
mom2blondies
Hello??? Is this thing on??? Everyone must be having a busy Saturday. Got another letter from my kiddo today. And here I didn't think he'd be writing to me at all. He's doing good. Things are not as he expected at all and he said he still doesn't really feel like he's in the military. I'm not sure what he expected and what is different but he said that he thinks working in the EMS/Fire service prepared him well as the thing most of the kids are struggling with his the sleep deprivation (which he said is not even sleep deprivation as they get 5-8 hours of uninterrupted sleep a night). He made me laugh because he said he isn't used to his hair getting so long, ha ha! He would normally cut his hair every couple of weeks and they are just now getting their 2nd haircut 5 weeks later.
Jan 16, 2021
Shanny
I am here now! I am in car shopping hell. My sailor found the car he wants. The dealership is going to ship it to him. But he didn’t think or listen to me when I told him he had to have insurance and all of that lined up. And he didn’t listen when I told him if they require it insured in Michigan even though the vehicle will not be in Michigan, he will have to have full coverage on it with a loan. So he has been doing quotes for plpd (that’s probably a no fault state thing). So his quotes are off by hundreds of dollars. And nothing I can do about it on a Saturday!
Jan 16, 2021
Chipmunk
Hi Mom2blondies- Yes, sometimes Saturdays are actually quiet. I have been busy with family things so not on. Another letter, whoohoo!!! That is interesting about your son's perspective on sleep deprivation!!
Shanny - Oh my!!
Jan 16, 2021
Anti M
I don't post much anyway ... my thrilling day has included custom painting an action figure and making a steak for lunch. I put the new shower wand on, and it's missing one of the washers, so I had to take it apart to measure the one included so I could order a pack. Whoot.
Jan 16, 2021
partyofseven
mom2blondies- Hey another letter whoo hoo. That's awesome. I love how he describes about the kids saying that about loss of sleep and that he's not used to his blhair being that long. Lol
I was busy this morning so I didn't do my usual post. But I'm glad you got another letter.
shanny- I feel ya. Was there a couple of months ago when my son was buying his. Good luck. :)
Anti M- Hey, that sounds fun. What was the action figure?
And mmmm steak for lunch is good anytime!! Lol
Glad you were able to figure the shower wand part out. Now u don't have to buy another one.
Chipmunk - How are you? Hope your having a good day with your family. It's been a nice 75 here.
LBF- Hey, just checking in to see how things are going? Hopefully things are good.
Another day closer to some of our ladies for PIR. Enjoy the rest of the day and don't hesitate to post if you have any questions someone will answer!!!
Jan 16, 2021
belovedbyHim
Shanny-- Have him Check with USAA. Not the cheapest but they are the best!!
Anti M -- Bummer that parts were missing!! What Action figure were you painting and how?? (Fellow weirdling here)
Jan 16, 2021
AgnesB
My son said the same thing about fire/ems. When on shift they had long days and lots of sleep interruption so this didn't seem so abnormal. He was my kid that never needed much sleep anyway. Hard for a mom from a family of good sleepers. We had a deal he couldn't wake us until the he heard the alarm. Sometimes I'd wake up and he'd be sitting on the floor by the side of the bed looking at a book waiting. I bet right now they are tired enough he's not laying in his bunk wide awake waiting for everyone else to wake up :) I love Etsy! I'm not crafty at all so admire & appreciate all those that are.
Jan 16, 2021