Boot Camp Moms (and loved ones)

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Welcome Jennie and newkmomma!  Glad to have you in the group!

ellen0502, gosh it's been a long time. Love the voluntold comment, I have to send it to my son. Nice hearing from you!

I must second what Chipmunk said. This is where it all started for me. At first I was very timid and quiet but read all the post. A little afraid to post anything mainly because I didn't want everyone to know what kind of a basket case I was. This became my lifeline to a grueling 3 years so far. Chipmunk, belovedbyHim, partofseven and a few others took me under their wing and made sure I made it. Like belovedbyHim would always say "we haven't lost a Mom to boot camp yet, and we aren't going to start with you". As you all learn to be more confident and trusting please fire away, remember no question is a stupid question. Believe me I asked some pretty goofy ones myself. 

You will build amazing friendships here that will carry you forward to the next group Beyond. I went through this journey during Covid when everything was turned upside down and I can honestly say that experience brought us closer as a group. We al understand what you all are going through but knowing your not alone is so comforting. My son has been in over 3 years now, I haven't experienced a deployment yet but I know when I do these compassionate knowledgeable Ladies will walk me through whatever is ahead. 

Prayers for all your recruits and fir you new Navy Moms, it is a incredible journey!!!

 B'sNukeMoM - love the blanket!  And I might be dating myself with this comment, but when I was in college, one of my closest friends was Sterling Sharpe.  (When he was being recruited, I asked him where he wanted to play, and he said, "I have no preference -- as long as it isn't cold!"  LOL)

That's awesome, MomofJoseph! We love Sterling Sharpe up here in Packerland. Still so sad that his career was cut short. Are you still in touch with him?

joe-mom - Sadly, no.  We graduated in '88, and the last time I talked to him was right before I got engaged in 1995.

It IS sad that his career got cut short.  I can't even imagine how good he would have been.  (I loved when Shannon got inducted into the Hall of Fame, he said, "I'm the only player in the Hall of Fame who is the second best player in my own family.")

MomofJoseph -- Well, For what it's worth we Loved having Shannon here in Denver!! Back when they had a team that actually PLAYED football.  (They seem to have forgotten that a game last 4 full Quarters!! not 10 minutes her or there....)  Maybe this year, they'll not stink up the west!!

When you Ladies mention Sharpe, I got a sickening feeling because I remember my niece dating a Packer with a similar name. Thank the Lord my husband remembered it was Darren Sharper and not Sterling Sharpe. Two very different Packers. Sterling Sharpe was amazing and I remember they pass in the end zone from Farve. Them teaming up together brought a lot of special moments for us Packer fans.

Today's PIR happening live right now.  425 brand new Sailors!

Here's the link:

LIVE PIR APRIL 28, 2023

Chipmunk, Family is good! My son, a Navy "lifer," is now stationed on a Carrier and loving it, except for the constant noise coming from the flight deck, which can be 24/7. LOL

He is currently in the process of making the jump from enlisted to commissioned officer. One of his CO's told him he "has" to go commissioned not WO. Another voluntold moment. Lots of studying, etc on my son's horizon.

ellen0502 - I am glad that your son is enjoying his carrier. One benefit of Officer is the retirement pay is higher, so if you are going to be a "lifer" it is worth it. My DIL is looking into that option as well. 

Ellen.... what are the odds of getting someone to tell that to MY sailor?? He's more than able but he has a bit of a lazy streak!!

July PIR group is posted.  Here's the link:

JULY 2023 PIR

Good Morning Everyone!! Have a wonderful weekend!

Please join me in welcoming Rebecca to our group!

Welcome Rebecca, we are so happy to have you join us here. These Ladies are filled with knowledge and compassion. I know it will bring comfort to you knowing your feelings, worries and just the unknown was shared by many of us. 

Please come and share where your recruit is at in their journey!

Good morning!! I hope some of you got phone calls!! ?

Did you write letters? Did you receive any letters?  Is anyone currently in using the Sandboxx APP? How is it going with the new notifications?  If you are not familiar with Sandboxx here is some information.

Sandboxx App for BC

I am looking forward to chatting with more of our new members and updates from the rest of you. 

Morning! My sailor has been at gone for 2 weeks. I used Sanboxx once, just to send her a quick message that we had received her mailing address. I like it for the weekly updates! 3 days ago we received the graduation flyer but in my sailors handwritten envelope. No phone call yet. 

Mom2Boss - How are you holding up?  For me, the time before the first "real" letter was the most difficult.  It was nice seeing my son's handwriting on the envelope, but it just isn't the same as getting a real letter.  I hope you get a letter and phone call SOON!  (FYI, my first call came on a Saturday about 3 weeks in.  And the caller ID was "Waukegan, IL".  But other moms received phone calls from different IDs.)

Rebecca - Welcome to the Navy! 

Ellen0502 - Best of luck to your son! he sounds very motivated and driven. Kudos to him.

Mom2Boss - I think it was about 4 weeks in when we received our first letter. I agree with MomofJoseph - reading a full-page letter (especially from a kid who NEVER wrote letters!) in their handwriting was amazing. I probably read all of his letters at least 50 times. Our first phone call showed up as just the phone number with the "847" area code. Sandboxx was a very helpful tool for us.

welcome welcome.. my sailor was in boot camp late summer/fall of 2021. We dealt with few letters, 1 phone call because he got washed back two weeks and one other call plus the I'm a sailor call, which like most kids didn't start with that, kinda annoying as that was all we needed to hear..

Trey - Ha, that's so true! Our son never said "I'm a sailor" in that call, so I had to outright ask him. He sounded completely beat and ready for a good nap.

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joe-mom - Ditto for us with the "I'm a Sailor" call.  We also had to ask him.  (Maybe us moms call it that, but they don't?)  We got our phone call just as we arrived in GL.  I guess now there's a two week delay between battlestations and graduation, but for him, it was only one day later.

MomofJoseph - Good thing he passed battlestations, right?? Yes, they added the extra two weeks in January of 2022, I think. 

Awesome.. There are several Nuke moms and I'm sure they are just full of helpful advice.. Maybe some of the newer moms could answer the graduation question as that started just a month or two after mine passed BC.

I think the blue candle is something us moms and family keep lit when our sailors are out at sea or a big test/achievement is going on.. and a light for them to find their way home. I have several LED candles on amazon that I am looking at. Mine is graduation C school in July, he is in San Diego and will be stationed there as well. 

Good Evening Rebecca - 

I am not exactly sure on the Asthma but your son is going to need to make sure there are medical waivers, etc. And be sure to investigate more. With being a Nuke, there were extra delays when my son was to leave PIR and head to Nuke school, because they were scrutinizing his medical records. 

You might ask in the Nuke Mom group, if anyone else had a sailor that dealt with Asthma. 

As for Blue Candles, can you see the discussion directly above this that is labeled Blue Candles? If you click on that and read through the examples, you should also see a note with the Blue Candle Poem / Prayer. As Trey mentioned some of the families leave their Blue Candles on all the time, ore when their sailor is out to sea, or getting ready for BST. 

Battle stations now take place prior to the final physical fitness test and so they may call and let you know they finished BST, but they won't necessarily say they are a sailor. And now, they actually can't complete PIR unless they pass their final PT test. You hopefully will know at least a couple of days prior to your son's PIR, but not necessarily, which is why we recommend buying refundable tickets. 

We drove 1.5 days so that we could have more flexibility than we would have had if we had flown. 

Diahn -- Are you excited??? It's your week!! Safe travels and enjoy that amazing Sailor hug!!

Mom2Boss -- It sounds like you are right on track!! I know the great silence is hard but you are not alone!

Rebecca -- Welcome!!! It is late and I am needing to get to bed but I have a blog that has some information that may be useful for you in this next 2 months (ish). 
https://navyformoms.ning.com/profiles/blogs/welcome-to-the-navy-eve...

It's not all up to date but close enough to get you started.
Take a Deep breath!! You are not alone and you don't have to eat this elephant by yourself!!! Do one thing then the next.  Ask the Questions. Yes we have the answers here but it takes time, You will get there.  You are NOT alone here!!  Please check the dates on the pages you are reading.  There have been a TON of changes since COVID and some of the info is out of date.  Don't panic if you read conflicting info just come here and ask and we will be happy to point you to the correct information.

For all our new moms... They don't know it's called the "I'm a Sailor" call.  That is our term to distinguish between the various phone calls.  There is the "I'm here" call that usually comes when they arrive at BootCamp, the "I'm still alive" or "Proof of life" call that usually comes around week 4. and the "I'm a Sailor" call that comes after BS21.  All other calls are either earned calls or calls for information, but these are the 3 you should expect.  There are many, many, many reasons why they may not make one of these calls that are not reason to worry so if you don't get one don't panic.  No News is Good News.  If there is BAD news they will keep calling until they reach someone at home.

Rebecca - Welcome to the group!  Some of the newer moms can update about the time frame between Battlestations and PIR.  In our experience, we got the call that he passed Battlestations just as we drove past one of the gates to BC.  (I told my son I was going to crash the gate so I could find him and hug him!  LOL)  But that was 1.5 years ago when BC was 8 weeks instead of 10.

Like Chipmunk, we drove 1.5 days (from NC) to have more flexibility.  My son graduated the day before Thanksgiving, and we went up there knowing that he would not ship out until Friday at the earliest.  He ended up flying out on Tuesday.  We were able to be there with him from Wednesday to Sunday, which was amazing!  (But some of his buddies left early Friday a.m.)  Flexibility is the key to Navy mom life.  (And as a massive PLANNER, this has been a difficult endeavor for me.)

Be sure to ask lots of questions.  This group of ladies was my lifeline in BC (and now I'm in the Nuke mom group and they are amazing, also!)

Rebecca - My son started BC last August, so he had to do the extra two weeks after Battlestations. He said they didn't do much during that two-week period, but they did have to pass their final PT a few days before PIR. If I remember right, we had at least two days' notice. We live in SE Wisconsin (about an hour from GL), so our travel plans wouldn't have been affected much if his PIR date changed for any reason. We did drive down the day before PIR to attend Sarge's Meet & Greet (fantastic!), so we made sure we booked a hotel with the free-refund option - just in case. My son is also a Nuke. His PIR was the week of Veterans Day, so they held it on Thursday instead of Friday (Friday was Veterans Day). I guess because of the holiday, he didn't fly out to Goose Creek till Saturday evening. We drove back down to O'Hare Saturday to spend the day with him. O'Hare has a nice little USO room where they can chill out for a while before flying out, and families are welcomed there, too. I hope this helps a bit. Please reach out if you have any other questions!

Diahn - Have a wonderful time! Still one of my favorite days ever.

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Stephanie I see your comment right now. Whatever you did the second time is correct. Just redo your comment and resend it here, this is where most of us read the post.

Stephanie - I see your comment as well here on the BC Moms group page. 

You should also be receiving these messages in an email feed to your personal email. When you are logged in online, it is generally a lot easier to navigate this site if you are on a computer because then you can see what pages you are on easier. If you are only able to log in on a mobile device, in the past we have recommended that you put it into "desktop mode". 

You may also scroll all the way to the top and find the blue ribbon under the Navy for Moms Logo.  Click on your My Profile and that will take you to your profile page. Then when you are there, you may click on any of your groups that are shown in the middle of your profile page, to the left of the comment wall on your profile page. 

If you post a comment there on your profile page, unless you "reply" to someone you will just post the comment on your page instead of on the group page. This site is sort of "old school" but there are lots of groups on here and lots of information to glean, so please keep posting and asking questions. We are here to help you as best as we can. And if we don't reply immediately, it is because we all volunteer our time on here and answer as we are able, so be sure to come back and check the comments. 

*** The Link at the top says MY PAGE  for where you need to click to go to your profile page. Or you may also click on your little avatar (profile picture) as well. 

Diahn-- Savor every second!! (there are NEVER enough!)  And then once you are home come share the news with us all!! I remember that whole weekend like it was yesterday (even though it's been nearly 10 years!)

oh yes indeed Diahn... treasure every second.. I will never forget the emotions and hugs..

Stephanie -- Welcome. How are you doing hon. I know it can feel a bit overwhelming at times but your posts are showing up.  Just make sure you scroll down till you see the chat box with the text options above it. Right below the comment wall.  I find it's easier to navigate on my computer instead of my phone so you may want to give that a try.  You can message anyone by clicking on the icon next to their name and sending a "Friend request" or posting a comment to them.  The comments are NOT private by default but if they have locked down their page then they can decide what can be seen or not.  We are here for you so take a deep breath and try again.  We won't abandon you as long as we know you are needing help.

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Diahn - All the BEST!!!!