Norfolk Sailors - Family & Friends

For families and friends of Sailors who are stationed at Norfolk; for either Sea Duty or Shore Duty Sailors. Just make sure to keep OPSEC issues in mind and not disclose ship movements in advance.

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  • CatMom509

    CO-Twin,

    Glad your Sailor is on land sleeping in a real bed--he must be very appreciative of that!  But YIKES that duty schedule!!  Blessings to him~~

  • John and Yvonne

    CatMom509,

    That is the Best Valentine we could have-Jesus! :)

  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    Hey, I thought WE were the Navy's cheerleaders…then I found this!  Seems we have two things in common, we're not perfect and we have a lot of enthusiasm for the NAVY!   Here's the USNA Cheerleading Team ~  

  • Ellenelle

    Hi Group, need some advice, suggestions or direction.  My sons car is broke down on base, he thought it was the battery so he took it up to the local auto zone and it is not the battery so it looks like were gonna need to get it towed off the base.  A simple diagnoses would kinda tell us what direction to go in.  I don't want to see him spend unnecessary money that he does not have.  Is there anywhere or anyone local that we can trust to do that?  He just moved off base so he is having to bum a ride to get back and forth to the ship.  I'm trying to help him but it is very hard living in another state.  I appreciate any input that anyone has.

  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    Hi Lori - I've asked two Navy wives who live in the area, and they're checking with their friends for a recommendation to a good auto mechanic.  Just fyi, we had a bad experience with Auto Port at Little Creek base (charged $325 for a repair that they didn't do, as shown by a subsequent inspection at Firestone) and I would NOT recommend them.

  • Ellenelle

    Thanks Marcy!
  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    We have successfully used the Pep Boys on Military Blvd next to the Wal-Mart if that helps :)

  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    OK Lori, I posted your request in this group Sailor Rescue List and here's what I got!  One more thought, could it be a loose connection at the battery terminal?  That happened to my son not long ago, it was a $20 fix to replace.

    OK, here are the responses - Good luck!

    Reply by adm402 1 hour ago

    I would have him check the alternator and starter before doing anything drastic. If it starts with a jump then it is likely the alternator.

    Reply by navymom3 39 minutes ago

    My son's friend Freddie Riner knows about cars and is stationed there in Norfolk. He should be able to look him up on Facebook. Here is a link to his page. https://www.facebook.com/freddie.riner?fref=ts  He is a Chief and a really nice guy.

  • Ellenelle

    Gosh Marcy thank you so much, I will pass this on to my son and we'll go from there, I'll keep you posted. Thanks again!
  • Soccer Mom of 3

    Lori, My daughter took her car to Lee's Auto Service on 837 W 44th st in norfolk. There phone number is 757-440-1053. They were reasonable and didn't fix any thing until she approved it. Hope he gets his car fixed soon and doesn't cost to much.  

  • Britt<3Corpsman Wife

    I am looking for anyone who is PCS'ing from San Diego or Seal Beach to Virginia. Please send me a private message.
  • beenerjoan

    Hi all..My son just said he was heading to Norfolk and joining the USS Harry Truman.. any words of wisdom anyone?
  • momofc.r.15

    Hi  John and Yvonne. Thank you for the invite to My Son to your home. I will relay the message to him.

    Have a good day. S.

  • Jmae12

    Beenerjoan-

    Hi! My husband is also on the Truman. He works as a Diesel Engineer with the Reactor department. What department will your son be joining? Although my husband hasn't been with the Truman long, he seems to be enjoying his time out to sea and with the crew. :) 

  • John and Yvonne

    momofc.r.15,

    Let us know if he wants to come over. Then we can give you our phone number so he can call us. :)

    Yvonne

  • John and Yvonne

    to mmofc.r.15,

    Let us know if your son would like to come over . We can give you our phone number so he can call or text us. :)

    Yvonne

    If this message appears twice, it's because I didn't see it up here after the first time I commented. :)

  • CO-TwinSalorsMom

    John and Yovonne. I just remembered I have your phone number from when I was out there, I can give it to Steve. Or he may have it on your flier.
  • CO-TwinSalorsMom

    There was an accident last night I heard about. Two sailors slammed a dodge charger into a barrack. A friends son was sleeping right where they hit. Lucky he was not badly hurt. Anyone hear about this?
  • Ellenelle

    Thank you Soccer mom, I will check them out .

  • John and Yvonne

    Tracy,

    I gave Steve our cell number on Saturday....

    Yvonne

  • CO-TwinSalorsMom

    Oh great Yovonne. He sounds a little better. Please pray that God gives me an answer to what de is ion I need to do for my 18 year old kitty. Had her since boys were two. She just diagnosed with diabetes and waiting on blood work on state of her other organs. I need to know if it is time to put her to sleep. If her kidneys are effected she will be put down. So I am actually praying god gives me that answer so there s no doubt.
  • John and Yvonne

    I will be praying. I hate to see animals suffer and hopefully she won't. :) It sounds like the outcome will be whether or not her kidneys are affected..Or whether she suffers with the diabetes. The Lord will make it clear...

    Yvonne

  • Josh'smom

    Need help. My son has been told that his enlistment paperwork is incomplete. His DIEMS (date of initial enlistment to military service?) form DD 4 is missing from his file. He has called MEPS to see if they have a copy but no help there. He doesn't know where to go now. Any ideas?
  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    I'd call his recruiter in the morning if he has it, or see what he recommends.

  • Dad of Sailor

    Josh'smom,

    He has an admin department to assist him with this and they should be sending a message off to get this resolved. Has he spoken to them? RTC (Boot Camp) was responsible for making sure all that information was complete so the command is probably going to have to interface with RTC or Navy Personnel Command to get this resolved. This isn't a problem that he can or needs to solve as they are going to need something official to correct a DIEMS date, not just your Sailor telling them what it is. Did someone tell him to work on this or did they just tell him there was a problem and maybe they are working on it?

  • Josh'smom

    Dad of Sailor - from what I gathered he was told to hunt down the paperwork. I believe he was able to find it on BUPRS but have forward your comments to him if he wasn't able to locate it or has any issues. Also he is having to deal with the issue that he now owes $1,800 back because they have not been taking out for food allowance but got paid for it. Not to mention that his medical records show him with one blood type but his dog tags show another. He is really frustrated and not enjoying his experience with the Navy.
  • Dad of Sailor

    Wow, that sounds like a mess. Which has his correct blook type, his medical record or his dog tag? Does he even know? He needs to go to medical and have them redo his blood type and get the correct one in his medical record if it isn't already in there. This early in his career I would think the results from the blood type they did in bootcamp would be in his medical record.

    His dog tags are not that important as I never wore them after leaving boot camp. If he ever needs them for anything he can order a new set of them from whatever command says he needs them for his assignment. Most assignments in the Navy don't require Sailors to wear dog tags.

    Is he normally proactive in his everyday life or does he just let stuff happen around him? The Navy requires you be proactive and address things early yourself because in most cases there isn't anyone looking at the little details of each Sailors life as they are adults and expected to somewhat take care of themselves. If they wait for someone else to notify them of an issue it's normally too late and when they owe $1800. Most Sailors assigned to ships know they do not get BAS while assigned to a ship so if he knew this (have no idea if he actually did) he should have addressed it right away before it got to $1800. Just something to think about and maybe mention to him unless you think it would make it worse.

    There is a waiver process he can request to forgive the indebtedness to the Navy, however, without knowing all the specifics I don't know if he would have a realistic shot at a waiver. He could inquire with his Chief and personnel department about a waiver and see what they say.

    If his enlistment contract in his service record doesn't have his DIEMS date I don't know what they can expect him to "hunt down" as the enlistment contract is the document that goes with him from MEPS to RTC which would have that information. Does he have a copy of his enlistment contract that he got when he joined? My son kept a copy of all his paperwork, if he has that maybe they would accept that? Definitely not the right way to address this problem but if it will satisfy them and solve the issue then it would be worth a try.

  • Josh'smom

    Dad of Sailor - not sure which blood type is correct but I have told him to get it corrected. He is not very proactive but hope by having to deal with all this he has learned to be more aware. Thanks for all the advice.
  • lorriemi navy mom x2

    Hi everyone .... it's been a long time since I've been on Navy for Moms I hope everyone is well My Oldest son was just deployed from ORF to Afghanistan on Feb 13 this is my first experience with deployment..  any advice suggestions would be helpful.    

  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    Hi lorriemi!  I have a fantastic NavyforMoms group for you - http://navyformoms.com/group/momswithkidsiniraq ("Moms with kids in Iraq/Afghanistan").  They will greet you with open arms and provide a ton of support.  I will keep your son in my thoughts, and look forward to your posting all the info about his homecoming!

  • ktrsb CVN-75

    Help! I've been on navymoms since my sailor was in Boot Camp.  Well, now he is headed to the USS Harry S. Truman, driving his car from prototype in NY to Norfolk.  He left it for 3 weeks to come home, but it started up just fine last night.  He spent the night with a buddy in Saratoga Springs, and left this morning. 

    Soo, his car's broken down.  It's stalled on him about 3 times, each time restarting, but each time running for less time, and taking longer to restart. Finally not wanting to chance it overnight, he stopped in Georgetown, Delaware and is spending the night.

    Anyone by any chance know anyone in that area, or who is passing through that area?

    I'm really at a loss as to what to do.  Any he's only 20, so not sure he could even rent a car.

  • mommaross CVN77

    If you or a family member has AAA they will tow him and his car to his home - but not sure if there's a limit on how many miles they'll tow.  I think you can call and join on the spot and they'll tow you.  Our local meineke garages are open on Sunday but not sure if they are in Delaware.  Sorry I know you must be worried sick for him

  • Dad of Sailor

    ktrsb,

    Don't know anyone in that area but he can rent a car through USAA's agreement with the major car rental agencies. Some of them won't even charge him a surcharge for being so young. Is he a USAA member?

  • ktrsb CVN-75

    Dad of Sailor - yes, he is, and that is good advice. I will pass it along.  I also got in touch with the Delaware USO, another good resource. 

    Mommaross, thanks, I am kicking myself because I meant to sign him up for AAA. But I think the USAA towing is pretty generous.  Nothing seems to be open on Sunday in that part of DE, not even an Enterprise rental, nor U-haul (for renting a tow dolly and truck).

  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    ktrsb - I just posted your situation in the group Sailor Rescue List - http://navyformoms.com/group/sailorrescuelist.  Please come join us there too.  Hopefully a member is nearby and can help your son ASAP!  :)  

  • gabbyplus3

    my son will be arriving to Norfolk next month I'm feeling nervous  

  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    Welcome gabbyplus3!  What an exciting time for your son, and for you.  It's a great area to be stationed.  Hopefully you can plan a visit to see him :)  We're here to answer your questions and calm your nerves!

  • Dad of Sailor

    ktrsb,

    Did you son get taken care of? Hope he is at his destination safe and sound.

  • ktrsb CVN-75

    DOS, he finally made it late Sunday. Got as far as VA with the car, but two hours short. Called a wrecker and rode into Norfolk.  Now we're trying to figure out if he is going to cool his heels to until the HST gets home, or fly out to join her.  Thanks, everyone, for concerns, prayers, etc. 

  • Dad of Sailor

    Glad to hear and I hope the rest of his journey to the HST is less eventful.

  • John and Yvonne

    ktrsb CVN-75,

    Glad to hear that your son made it here safely.  We just wanted you to know that we open our home on the weekends for the sailors to come over and eat, play board games, cook if they want to, :), or just hang out. We have several sailors coming over and would love to invite your son-whether he is waiting for the HST to come home or even if he joins her. Let us know if he would be interested in coming over and have some home cooked meals. :)

    Yvonne and John Wagner

  • Jmae12

    Hey everyone! I'm hoping you all will be able to help me out. I have a friend who's homecoming photographer backed out on her recently! Her husband will be coming off the Truman (also my husband's ship) and will be meeting his son who was born a week after the ship left on deployment. Does anyone have any photographer contacts or friends in the Norfolk/Virginia Beach area that may be available for hire?

    Thanks in advance!!
  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    Contact Wendy, aka Cmyhero, at  http://navyformoms.com/profile/Cmyhero - she had a great photographer at her homecoming!  :)

  • CO-TwinSalorsMom

    Do you know Jon and Ynonne Wagner. He is a chaplain and maybe they would come help you out with homecoming photos. 

  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    Jmae12, Wendy's photographer is Erika Ritschard, and her site is https://www.facebook.com/E.RaePhotography.  She's on maternity leave, but she can recommend someone good i'm sure :)  Good luck!

  • Jmae12

    Marcy- thanks so much for the information!!! :)
  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    A plea from Naval Medical Center Portsmouth today -  PLATELETS NEEDED -- In support of a critically ill pediatric patient, the NMCP Blood Bank Department is in desperate need of platelet donors with the Type B blood type. Platelets have a total shelf life of only 5 days, which makes the need for donors even more important. For more information and to schedule an appointment, please call 757-953-1717 or 953-1730. You must have base access to donate.

  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    I have donated platelets there before - it's a different process than just donating blood, as the platelets are removed and the rest of the blood components are returned to you, all in one procedure.  Pretty cool in fact.  

  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    And you get a free coffee mug!  ;)

  • beachmom76

    @ Marcy-Thanks for posting this. I just called and booked a slot for 24 March; they are looking for two donors per day for several months to come. They have a pediatric patient who will be at the hospital for an extended period and are trying to keep a ready supply of platelets on hand for the duration. If you call, the next available appointment is mid-March.  The corpsman who answered the phone said to thank everyone for their overwhelming response!