Norfolk Sailors - Family & Friends

For families and friends of Sailors who are stationed at Norfolk; for either Sea Duty or Shore Duty Sailors. Just make sure to keep OPSEC issues in mind and not disclose ship movements in advance.

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  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    This may not exactly apply to homecoming but it's good for you and your sailors to know about!  

    MWR at Little Creek and  Oceana/Dam Neck rents campers from 16' (sleeps four) to 31' (sleeps eight), kayaks, and more for very reasonable rates -http://www.discovermwr.com/thingstodo/equipmentrental.html 

    also recreational lodging:  vacation rentals from cabins to cottages to town homes; RV spots and tent camping sites - http://www.discovermwr.com/thingstodo/navygetaways.html

  • CountryGirl

    MarianneKT's Mom  I friend requested you about possibly helping you out tomorrow with a ride.  Sorry so late but just saw this.

  • Ken-55 (OS Dad)

    Cindy D, FWIW . . . here's where we stayed a couple of years ago for my son's homecoming. It was December so the pool wasn't open and we didn't spend a lot of time at the beach but it looked nice.

  • MarianneKT's Mom

    Thank you Donna Lassiter Collins for asking your son Stephen to help us out with a ride. It was so nice to finally meet him after he and Katie were in BootCamp together 5+ years ago!

  • TLC72

    I don't have to worry about this for awhile, but since homecomings are being discussed, how do we get notification of date changes? If they change a date with short notice and mail takes several weeks, how do you know since nothing can be discussed via email or phone? This is my son's first deployment, so I'm yet to figure it all out.

  • Cindy D

    Thanks for all of the good tips on where to stay. I will check them out. Tracy, I would suggest to be sure to be in contact with your ship FRG or Ombudsman..

  • abuon18

    Tracy, make sure your son adds you to the ombudsman & FRG mailing lists. They will send out an official email from the Captain. It won't have the new date but it will let you know homecoming has been changed and then you will have to get the new date from your son.
  • CO-TwinSalorsMom

    The ships ombudsman sent us emails when to come as well as providing gate clearance to meet the ship
  • abuon18

    CO-Twin SalorsMom, in the event of an extension they are not allowed to provide the new date via email or phone, just the news that there has been an extension. If there is an extension you need to get the new date from your Sailor if you're unable to attend the FRG meetings to hear it in person. Then as it gets closer & the information becomes released publicly (usually about a week in advance) the ombudsman & FRG are able to send that informati
  • TLC72

    We are on those lists. However, they said the only information will be face to face at FRG meetings in Norfolk (which are impossible for us to attend). My question is if there would happen to be a change in the date, how do we get that information from my son when mail takes several weeks?

  • abuon18

    Information via email & phone, all the specifics like what time to arrive & gate clearance, what pier etc.
  • abuon18

    Tracy, I'm in San Diego & my husband's FRG is in Norfolk so I understand. His deployment for extended with less than a month to go so I just went through this. You will have to figured out a code, for example my FRG recommends selecting a date that is special to you and going off that for example "homecoming is now 2 months and 13 days before my little brothers birthday".
  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    Tracy, are you in touch with your Ombudsman?  Email them and explain your concerns, they'll explain how you'll be updated.  I live in AZ and attended a Norfolk homecoming, and the Ombudsman Team was great about everything.

  • TLC72

    I have a question for those who have been through a deployment. I know it's quite aways off but the family was talking today about who all plans to drive out there and the question came up. Is there a limit to the number of people who can get on the pier for the homecoming?

  • CO-TwinSalorsMom

    I did not go out for the leaving but did for homecoming. My son gave a list to the ombudsman for the ship and we got one gate pass to get to the pier. We had three but there were whole families there. 

  • Calirose

    Can someone give me info on how early to arrive on base for homecoming. Ombudsman for my son's ship is not getting back to me. I heard they are having some kind of night before homecoming event but haven't been able to find out where it is at yet. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks
  • abuon18

    Calirose what ship is your son on?
  • Calirose

    USS Bulkeley
  • abuon18

    Oh my husband is on the Ramage... Your ombudsman sounds like mine so I thought they might be on the same ship! I have been told by other family members to get there around 7 am but I don't know what time the ship pulls in....
  • CO-TwinSalorsMom

    When my son arrived back from deployment in January, we arrived at 8 am and spent hours waiting in the rain. There was a tent with food but it was very crowded. I think it came in around 11am
  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    Calirose, when I went to Norfolk for the USS Iwo Jima homecoming they came in about an hour earlier than they'd estimated (10 rather than 11) so yes, it's good to be early!  The FB page at https://www.facebook.com/UssBulkeleyddg84/timeline says several ships are coming in the same day, so I'd err on the early side and be there at least two hours earlier than the estimated arrival time.  There's a McDonald's near the piers so you can get a coffee or whatever  :)  It's pretty cool mingling with the other families and checking out the creative banners so you won't be bored!  Have you made a banner or bringing a pre-made one?

  • Calirose

    Thanks everyone for the info. No I didn't make a banner, flew in from Seattle WA area and it was such a scramble to get to airport on time i didn't get one made. Wish I had one tho.
  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    Most people I saw just made theirs from poster board and markers and they were the most fun :)  I have always wondered what happened to the marriage proposal!  

  • MyLAS (My Lips are SEALed)

    Heads up, Moms.  Please tell your sailor that when (NOT IF) their car is towed in Norfolk, to please make sure they check their bank account.  My sailor's roomie had car towed and two days later had fraudulent charges on bank account.  Last week, my sailor had car towed and guess what.....fraudulent charges.   Just sharing this to remind our sailors to watch their accounts.  Navy Federal is good about calling for suspicious activity.

  • CO-TwinSalorsMom

    Hey MyLAS. It has been a long tome since I saw you post, how are you and your sailor doing? .
  • tatmom4rc(Ship12, Div. 204)

    I can't go into any details.  But if anyone one could put out prayers for my sailor and his wife I would appreciate the support.

  • donnab

    Prayers for your sailor and his wife.

  • Coach Shelia

    Happy Blessed Easter Everyone! I haven't posted in a very long time! I hope you and your Navy Loved Ones are safe, healthy and happy! We in Norfolk celebrating since his deployment homecoming with the USS Harry S. Truman! Take care!
  • Coach Shelia

    We're in Norfolk LOL I need to proofread before I post!
  • CatMom509

    May all of you have a Blessed Easter!!!

       "I Love My Jesus--today, tomorrow, forever!!!

  • tatmom4rc(Ship12, Div. 204)

    BReady thanks for the support

  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    To the USS Truman folks here - Norfolk photographer Laura Enright is trying to locate this family so she can share with them this wonderful family portrait she caught during homecoming on April 18.  Here's her heartwarming blog post about it:  http://www.lauraenrightphotography.com/truman-homecoming-help-me-fi...

    And here's the photo - hopefully someone here recognizes them!  Thanks :)

  • DARmom

    HELP - Can anyone recommend or suggest roads / routes to take or avoid going east to Norfolk from Michigan / Ohio area? My son flew home and will be driving his truck back for the first time. This Navy mom is a bit nervous... Thanks

  • DARmom

    Singingbird - thank you so much for all this detailed info on the route! I also posted this question on my FB page and several have suggested this route but the detail if very helpful. Have a great day!

  • NonnaB

    Last night, I had a patient who was a Navy vet; she was an artist who illustrated instruction manuals. It never occurred to me that this was a field the the Navy uses. What a wonderful employer of varied talents our military is!
  • TLC72

    For those who are in Norfolk or familiar with the area, how close is the Portsmouth area to base? I've been looking at hotels for homecoming time (even though it's quite awhile from now), and there seems to be hotels in so many different areas when you do a search. And of course every travel site gives different mileage from each hotel to base. What would be the best area to stay in without having to drive so far every time we go to the base?

  • allie1928

    We always stay at navy lodge when we visit our sailor.
  • CO-TwinSalorsMom

    NonnaB That is awesome, I had no idea. I am an artist myself and that would be a fainting nitch.

  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    Tracy, my son has been based in both Portsmouth and Norfolk.  For homecoming, you really can't beat the Navy Lodge for location, plus it's the most reasonably priced around and it's very nice!  I've stayed at the Sheraton Waterside in Norfolk and I went back to the Navy Lodge.  Handy to have the kitchenette too, whether just the microwave and fridge in the smallest rooms, or full kitchen as you go up in size.

    If you stay in Portsmouth (and I like Olde Towne!), you have a choice of two routes to the base that can get quite clogged with commuter traffic:  one route is a tunnel and surface streets through a part of Norfolk, the other involves a drawbridge, a tunnel and freeways.  My recommendation:  do take the paddlewheel ferry from Norfolk' Waterside to visit Olde Towne, but stay at Navy Lodge :)   Link - Navy Lodge Norfolk info, photos

  • TLC72

    So how does that work as far as it being a homecoming so obviously our sailor would not be there at check-in to show ID?

    How far is Portsmouth from the base?

  • Calirose

    Just got back from homecoming for my son and we stayed at the Hampton Inn which was very close to base..closer than the navy lodge but that is pretty close to. My recommendation is to stay close. A lot of the sailors who don't have family coming in will get a hotel room for the weekend so my son was able to stay with us at the hotel but be within walking distance of the hotel where his shipmates spent the weekend so he got to hang out with his friends on Saturday Night and could walk back to the hotel and I didn't have to worry about him.
  • beachmom76

    Portsmouth is maybe 10 miles from the base but it is all downtown Norfolk traffic, a drawbridge and a tunnel to get there. The tunnel is a toll and traffic can be a challenge. I would not recommend staying in Portsmouth unless your sailor is in the hospital. When we lived on the naval station our zip code was 23511...try googling hotels near that zip code to get an idea of what is closest. There are a lot of hotels in the area so you should be able to find something close. Good luck!
  • Laurie

    How many have family on the Mesa Verde from KY?
  • TLC72

    Thanks for all your info. It's just so overwhelming.

  • abuon18

    Hello, I've seen that a few of you have stayed at the Navy Lodge near the Norfolk base. Would anyone be able to tell me if they have laundry facilities onsite? I checked the website but wasn't able to find any information regarding laundry. Thank you!

  • JackieD

    abuon18, Yes, the Navy Lodge does have laundry facilities on site.  I don't remember what the cost was for the washer or dryer.

  • abuon18

    Thank you JackieD! I thought they must, since they require Sailors to stay there when PCSing. But I didn't see it on the website & didn't want to assume!
  • JackieD

    You're welcome :)

  • abuon18

    Thank you B-Ready! How is your son doing?
  • MMNavyMom

    I am looking forward to being part of this group. Everyone was really helpful when I was part of the boot camp group and I am looking forward to sharing stories. My son has been there in Norfolk for about 2 weeks and is so happy to be there.