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  • JayDee659

    I just realized that today is the 5th year anniversary of the day my daughter enlisted.  It was 3 years ago today that she got her orders for after prototype.  How that time has flown.

  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

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  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    JayDee - my how time flies, right?!?

    PacNWmom and NonnaB - sorry to hear about the exposure.  Definitely praying it doesn't become something more serious for you.....It's hard not to worry about our loved ones right now :(

    We are still working but I think it's just a matter of time before they shut us down.  We are residential construction and they are slowly starting to shut down construction.  I got my application in for the Payment Protection Program so hopefully we get approved and can continue to pay our employees if/when we do shut down.  

    I'm glad this week is about over - it seems like it has dragged on forever.....I'm actually looking forward to staying in all weekend.....

  • Chipmunk

    Kristen WELCOME!  We are glad you have joined us.

    B'NukeMom, our US Sen, in his Town Hall Telephone meeting yesterday was answering questions and giving information on the Payment Protection Program. I very much appreciate all that he does to keep us informed of what is going on in D.C.

    JayDee659 - I can remember my sailor's swear in and PIR date, but I have no clue what his enlistment date was. I just know it was in the summer.

    PacNWmom and NonnaB - Thanks for sharing. It is tough being in this limbo state, not know if exposure means actual infection or what. Thoughts and prayers for health and healing. 

    KayCee - We had rain and cold, droped back to 33' here!! I have not paid attention to the WA weather, but I hope that you are able to get out and enjoy some beautiful mountain air this weekend!!

  • SubMom

    This has definitely been a week. My company has furloughed all of second shift and half the office. I will be staying on but am fortunate enough that I can do 90% of my job from home. In the 49 years that my employer has been in business this is the first time they have had to do anything like this. My prayers go out to everyone during these uncertain times. I pray for peace for those that have been exposed to COVID-19 and those awaiting results.  NMH to all of you 

  • Tulip

    For those of you with sailors on aircraft carriers, I have a question. My son’s fiancé is getting ready to be deployed. In talking with him last night, we told him we planned to send her a care pkg next month. He said that with everything going on there might be specific limitations on what could and could not be sent and perhaps that nothing was being allowed now. He wasn’t sure how to confirm as her ship is in quarantine before they leave. Does anyone know? Thanks!

    My sailor was deployed on his sub while all this has been going on and said they were told a little bit about COVID but it made it very strange to not know if anyone other than their crew mates was alive. FamilyGrams helped calm the nerves. So eerie!

    Prayers for all of you and your loved ones!
  • 3B'smom

    Tulip - It's hard to say. I would try to get info directly from her. My son's ship received a mail call earlier this week. They are in the middle of a deployment.

  • NNLori

    Hey everyone, just wanted to pop in quick and say hello and thank everyone for their thoughts and prayers for my son and the crew of the TR. It's been a very hard week dealing with all that has happened. I'm just hoping for restored good health to all our Sailors so they can get back to business as usual!! 

    My son remains on the ship and will be one of the last to be taken off tested and quarantined. I've been able to talk to him more often which is comforting. He is keeping a good attitude and keeping his spirits up. He is sad about the loss of Captain Cozier. He was loved and respected by his crew. If you have had the opportunity take a look at the videos of the farewell the crew gave him when he left. It's very heartwarming. At least he knows the crew appreciated him. 

    Hope you are all staying healthy and keeping busy. 

    Tulip: I have not heard any limitations on sending packages. My son just received a box I sent to him on March 10th this past week. And that was on the TR so I would say just send it. She should get it eventually even if it is delayed due the situation. The post office should know if there are any limitations. I haven't heard of any. :) They love those packages. LOL!

  • Tx Mom of Far Away Nuke

    Long time no post but I lurk here a lot...

    2 1/2 weeks ago I had a fever and a cough.  Being the only one in my company who was being pro-active about what was happening in the world, on my doctor's advice, I worked from home in quarantine.  My boss thought I was being a drama queen.  My Dr was scared of what I had and wouldn't let me come into her office (I had co-workers that had just returned from a Convention in Las Vegas where a lot of people were getting sick).  My symptoms were mild so that I was unable to get tested for Coronavirus.  After a week of being at home with a low-grade fever, my Dr sent me to a Care Now clinic to have tests to rule out Strep, Flu & Pneumonia.  Strep & Flu were negative.  I was developing Pneumonia in my right lung.  STILL, I cannot get tested.  I was put on antibiotics and told to rest and drink lots of water.  I haven't had my followup yet but I think I'm almost in the clear.

    Whatever I had was mild compared to some Flu's I've had in the past.  But even as I felt reasonably ok, it was developing into something serious.  The number of sick in our nation is only the tip of the iceberg because of the lack of testing.  

    On the flip side, 82% of the sick will only have a mild case.  Prayers to everyone's families as there are two threats:  sickness & economic destruction.  

    My boss from the start wanted a Release before I could get back to work.  My Dr wouldn't give me a release for something she couldn't get me tested for.  Luckily, the Care Now gave me a release for the Pneumonia which also fell under the same guidelines the CDC recommended on returning to work after Coronavirus (had to have 72 hours fever free prior to returning to work).

    I wanted to share the challenges and how I made it through.  Blessings to everyone.

  • NancyJo (NNPTC)

    Tx Mom, I appreciate you sharing your experience. I'm thankful you have come through ok. My niece thought she had it (nurse practitioner) but has had 2 negative tests so life goes on. But she had a fever for about 10 days with a sore throat. Scary stuff. Mostly I pray people stay healthy. For most people with no underlying health conditions it will turn out fine. It's the people who are already vulnerable in some way that are at risk. My oncologist said my radiation ended 6 wks ago so my immune system should be pretty much back to normal but I'm still being hyper-vigilant. I sure do miss by g-babies. 

    Prayers for all of you with family on or going to the TR. Tough situation all around. A captain who is loved is like the father on a ship so the crew will suffer the loss. I guess there will be a lot of discussion about this in the months to come which will all be for the good. We have never experienced anything like this before and our only clear point of view will be in the rearview mirror.

    I fear for our economy and am thankful my school district continues to pay all the employees even though the kids are all at home for the rest of the year. 

    My sailor is only working 3-day weeks. At least he's still working. Keeping busy is good. Talking about how times flies, he will be 10 yrs in the Navy on May 12. Stay safe, Sea Sisters!

  • Chipmunk

    Tulip - I sent a care package to my son, but afterwards found out it would take 2 - 3 weeks to get there. The PO told me that it would be tracked by them, until it was handed off to the military. As of yet, he has not received it.  For those that were able to drop off boxes, they were told to make sure and wipe down (disinfect) all plastics due to the virus being able survive on it for said hours. Those boxes were then isolated for said hours. As far as restrictions, I know the USPS says not to send hand sanitizer and wipes with alcohol. 

    I am sorry to hear that the crew on your sailor's boat had inaccurate or no information that caused greater concern than was necessary. 

    SubMom - Even though my husband's job is considered "essential", his biggest concern throughout all of this has been the economic impact, especially on small business. I am sorry to hear about your company's struggles.

  • Chipmunk

    This is a link to one of my US Senator's pages with information on economic relief for workers and businesses. I realize it is directed to Oklahomans, but I thought it might be helpful, if you are having difficulty finding answers to your own questions. The page is laid out well with further links to specific information. 

    https://www.lankford.senate.gov/news/press-releases/lankford-releas...

  • JayDee659

    Chipmunk I only remember because it was Good Friday. My brakes went out on the way to the recruiting office and my daughter left some papers at home. Maddening day. 

  • Chipmunk

    Oh my JayDee - I can picture that one in my head!!! Brakes going out though can be scary business. That happened to my daughter when she had taken her brother to one of his activities for me. She was calling me on the phone driving around in circles in the parking lot trying to find out what she should do! - The really scary thing was we almost took that car on the road to our sailor's prototype graduation. 

    I am sure your daughter's pets are enjoying having her home!!

  • Chipmunk

    TX Mom of Faraway Nuke - So good to hear from you! Not glad to hear that you went through all that you did but glad to hear you are healing. I was reading your post to my husband and he got indignant that you were not able to get a test once the pneumonia showed up!!

    NancyJo - Glad your niece is doing a lot better! Fevers are nothing to mess around with.  I hear you on missing the grandbabies!!!

  • PacNWmom

    Wanted to let y'all know my kiddo's COVID test came back negative. My heart is gleeful for our family, yet still grieves for all those families who have not been as lucky.

  • Chipmunk

    PacNWmom - That is great news!!  

  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    Yes PacNWmom - great news indeed!

  • The Hammer

    PacNWmom - So happy to hear that!!!

    My sailor found out that his girlfriend is sick when he got off shift yesterday. She has taken the test and is awaiting results. She does have underlying health issues. We are just beside ourselves with worry!

  • Chipmunk

    The Hammer! - Prayers and hugs! Please keep us posted.  

  • momterp

    The Hammer: I am so sorry to hear that! We will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers!

  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    Hi all - another Monday almost over and I'm just getting on here to say good morning lol! 

    I hope everyone had a good weekend.  I spent the weekend at home - only ventured out once to do a  drive by my moms to drop off some groceries on her porch.  Luckily my husband did some grocery shopping and got a few items for her too. As of yesterday everyone in our county is now required to wear a mask when you leave the house.  I spent yesterday putting together some makeshift masks out of old t-shirts because of course you can't find masks anywhere!

    The Hammer - I too am sorry to hear the news.  I'm hoping she gets a negative result.  Please let her know that us Navy moms are praying for her!

    N was supposed to fly back to NE on Thursday but that's not happening now - everything is just sort of up in the air.....not really sure when he'll be able to go back.  His lease is up in July so something will have to be done by then - really hoping we might be back to some sort of normalcy by then.  And was talking to B&C yesterday and they are starting to wonder about the wedding - also in July.  We're just taking everything one day at a time ~ that's about all we can do for now.

    I pray everyone is staying safe.....

  • CSW

    To try and calm fears I'll share the story of my workplace.  , My coworker tested positive and was ill at home. She's on the mend, but said the fevers are not fun and the coughing exhausting. She can't say enough about drinking hot liquids and trying to keep up and moving as much as you can. She said that helps and Ofcourse prayer.  Her episode lasted five hard days and about 5 mild days. She's been without fever for 4 days now, but still coughing.  She has had underlying health issues with her lungs so this is a blessing, but most of the stories printed and posted are HORRIBLE, and I wanted to share one that shared a version of endurable and survivable.  God Bless our Sailors and grant our leaders wisdom to make good choices.  May God grant comfort and support for those hurting and frightened.

  • Chipmunk

    CSW - Amen to your prayer! Thank you for sharing the information from your friend. I honestly haven't researched much on the virus and how people are reacting to it, so hearing what it is like from someone that has been through it is very helpful to have an idea of how to deal with it yourself, if faced with the same situation. I have wondered if staying hydrated was important and it sounds like she used prior knowledge of staying hydrated, warm liquids, moving around to keep the lungs working. 

  • Chipmunk

    I intended to post this yesterday - but well just stuff happened.

    https://media.defense.gov/2020/Apr/05/2002275059/-1/-1/1/DOD-GUIDAN...  

    I don't know if the DoD guidelines are going into effect at NNPTC or not but I know personally it is at military instillations across the world. If you read closely, it is a "recommendation" if you can't maintain 6' but each command can enforce that as they wish to my knowledge. My husband did send me an image yesterday but I can't find a link and he didn't think to share it, that says when in uniform they have to wear certain colors. I will post more as I have time, but I have to see if my ombudsmen has that information first and then I will try to post back here.

    Keep in mind, all accessories with our sailors when they are in uniform is black!  If any veteran mom knows differently feel free to correct me. I was initially told by someone who should know that I could recycle my sailor's retired "blueberry" NWU's and make masks as well as the black ones I am making from a pair of black dress pants. The image my husband shared, did not allow for use of the retired NWU's!!

  • Chipmunk

    CORRECTION:

    Okay I just checked my Ombudsman FB page, there is an official statement posted that I am not allowed to copy but it seems they are currently allowing various colors on face masks, until "official ones" can be issued.- Still not entirely sure. The best thing is for you to get direct information from your sailor, for those of you that have current communication with them. 

    I have also seen a video of how to make a mask out of the short sleeves of a T-shirt that you then insert a coffee filter behind. The T-shirt itself may still be worn as a sleeveless the way it is shown. I will see if I can post that later.

  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    Good Morning and Happy Tuesday!

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    CSW - thank you for sharing about your coworker - and glad to hear she's on the mend!

    Chipmunk - thanks for posting the info on the masks for the sailors.  There's a company out there - NineLine Apparel that is selling a simple black face mask.  It's a veteran owned company.  I don't know anything about them and am not promoting them in any way - just a suggestion to check them out.....

    Have a great Tuesday!

  • CSW

    Confirmed with my sailor black is best and I've found some local people who are off work sewing at home. They've posted on Facebook chats.

  • Chipmunk

    CSW - Thanks!! I just posted the discussion above with links to patterns, ideas, and my personal comments. Now, I have to start cutting and sewing! Everyone have a great day!!

  • Chipmunk

    B'sNuke Mom - I will look at the company you shared. One of the biggest issues people are facing is lack of supplies to be able to make things with and I just found out yesterday that Hobby Lobby (our preferred craft store locally) just closed their doors last Friday for the safety of their employees! 

    I have my own stash plus I think I have a lot of older elastic and other sewing notions that I took to storage a month ago till I could deal with it, that I had inherited from my aunt!! So I am making these from stuff I currently have on hand. No out of pocket expense, just my time.

  • Chipmunk

    Here is the link to those masks - https://www.ninelineapparel.com/collections/masks/products/nine-lin...

    It looks to be made from stretchable material (which I just washed some remnants of black dance material yesterday!).

    But NOTE: The mask should not be used ... or (3) in the presence of a high intensity heat source or flammable gas.

    My concern and what I don't know until I can talk with my sailor, is are they going to be expected to wear this on the ship and for our Nukes, are they going to need something that is more appropriate for their work environment? For the moment, the only thing I can gather is that the DoD directive is for anyone on the installations to wear masks if they can't maintain 6 ft distance, not sure about on the ship - I am clueless on that one. Good price on the masks and a neat design, not sure of S/H costs.

  • Chipmunk

    CSW - I notice that you are not a member on BC Mom group. But they are quarantining a lot of the recruits at RTC. I don't know if your friend's experience would be helpful to them or just make that Momma heart ache for them all the more.

  • CSW

    Chipmunk. She was just cleared by the CDC today so this is a good story for all to share.  Please feel free to share with others. She was confirmed March 24 but started to feel ill March 16 and was finally tested on the 19th. The week of the 24th was tough and by 4/3 her fever had subsided and now today she was confirmed recovered/clear by the CDC.  She wasn't feeling well for a few days before the 19th and the fever came in waves.

  • Johanna

    My brother had it for about 3 weeks.  He is a semi pro athlete, like me, very healthy, etc.  Got it from a neighbor that had taken his elderly father to the Dr in Boston.  Turns out the Dr had it.  That same night, he and his wife had dinner at my brothers house.  Glenn became symptomatic 48 hours later, my brother became symptomatic 72 hours later.  My brother had the fever, aches, loss of appetite, severe fatigue and lingering cough.  He was diligent with fluids, foods with protein, made sure he moved  around each day, and most importantly, has not pushed himself.  One day at a time.  It does not seem to discriminate, healthy, unhealthy, young, old.  Please stay safe.

  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    Johanna - thanks for sharing about your brother and so very glad to hear that he is mending.

    Chipmunk - your discussion on the masks is very informative.  Thank you for posting that!

  • Chipmunk

    Johanna, I also appreciate you sharing your brother's experience. Early on, our news did a piece on a local, healthy, < 50, lawyer who had contracted the virus. Yes, no descrimination.

    CSW - Thanks for letting me share your friend's experience. 

  • Chipmunk

    The following link my husband sent me earlier today and we watched together this evening. It is an interview with a former Navy Seal, Rep. Crenshaw from TX. I am not endorsing his book or a political party, I just wanted to share his comments and ideas on how we as Americans should be going through our current state of things. It is not long, but you will need to listen all the way through to hear the main points of what I wanted to share.

    http://video.foxnews.com/v/6147812977001

  • Chipmunk

    Good morning,!! I feel like I am the last one to bed and the first one up! - I posted my escapade to get black thread in my  "mask" discussion. If not a laugh maybe it will make you smile. I am doing my duty!! And yes, gloves on the ground, Yuk! as bad as dirty diapers in parking lots! (Watch the video, you will understand.) 

  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    Hi all - Happy Wednesday! 

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  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    Revisiting some old nuke humor for some of the newbies....

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  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    I got a message from B&C yesterday - the wedding venue has asked them to come up with a back up date for the wedding in case the 7/19/2020 date can't happen.  They went with 10/4/2020.  They will have to make a final decision on 6/1 as to whether or not the 7/19 date is a go....As of now CA is on lockdown until 4/30 and then a decision will be made then as to whether or not it's extended. So......who knows?!?

  • JayDee659

    B'sNukeMom, it's nice that they offered you a back up date for the wedding.  My oldest is getting married 8/29 and we're just hoping that things will be normalized by then.  There aren't any cases where she is, so we're keeping our fingers crossed.  Her ex boyfriend had to cancel his wedding, they ended up going to the court house.  My daughter is friends with his now wife and has really been feeling bad for her.

  • NancyJo (NNPTC)

    A friend of mine shared wedding pictures of her son's wedding with only 10 people there from a week ago. She said the ceremony was moving and beautiful, and they will have a reception at some later date. The couple looked so happy. Life goes on.

    Lots of good info sharing. I loved listening to Rep. Crenshaw. Thanks Chipmunk. Very common sense. Emotions are high for everybody. If we can take a deep breath and step back a bit, we'll get through this together. It's hard when we worry about our sailors because we are always mothers first, but there is so much beyond our control. My mantra these days is "Faith & Trust." My sailor goes to work every day and wears a mask. It's a new normal but it won't be forever.

    B'sNuke, thanks for the cartoons. Love them!

  • Chipmunk

    NancyJo - Thanks for sharing your mantra and watching the video!! Keeping my "MamaBear" emotions in check is my new habit I am working on.

    JayDee659 & B'sNukeMom - I feel for you. I am on the other end of the wedding spectrum. My youngest daughter had just received her LLC to start her own wedding coordinator business and was also working on the side with a florist as well, who had a corporate function and 5 weddings cancel in one day! We ourselves were to attend a wedding, but bowed out so that just their immediate family could attend (50 max at that time). They as well plan to do a reception later.

    My hope, all of those who went to the court house but really want a ceremony will be able to celebrate at a later time!

  • CSW

    Chipmunk,

    Thanks for posting that link. What we forget perhaps that the enemy our sailors face could just as easily be a virus as it could be a weapon, and anything that takes our defenses down is a threat against our country.

    An update from my co-worked who tested positive. The CDC released her from having to report daily, but she is still under quarantine for another two weeks. Her spouse who has been in close contact with her during this event has experienced no symptoms.  Praise the Lord.

    We need to continue to remain calm and pray. God tells us that during times of hardship we should remain joyful in the Lord.

    You all are a huge blessing! Thank you!

  • ProudOfK

    NancyJo - my niece’s wedding was last Saturday. It was not the wedding they had initially been planning and most of us were there only by watching the live stream of it. But it actually was beautiful, they are just as married as if they had their original plan and they too figure they will do something complete with the full wedding garments at some later date. 

  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    Welcome to our newest member ~Cheryl S! I see you've already jumped in and introduced yourself - thank you!

    Please be sure to read the ***NEW MEMBERS*** info at the top of the page.  Lots of good info there.  Also take a look at the Pages (19) to the right under the member profiles - be sure to hit "view all".  And of course, feel free to ask any questions you may have.

  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

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  • Maestra

    Cheryl, Welcome! I'm also in FL and have a son headed to Charleston whenever they can get him out of GL. :)