FYI - If you didn't know, you can get to someone's profile page by clicking on their Avatar. That is why at times I will tell people to follow my Chipmunk. It depends on what they have their settings at if you can view any information on their page, but it helps me get to know people.
I have had so much time to talk with my son. It has been wonderful. It sounds like because of the stand down, they were able to go and explore the area off base (with a mask and social distancing of course). From what it sounds like now, he will start daily muster, work, and briefings on today. The goober did not read the introduction packet thoroughly so he did not get the necessary watch hours completed to class up and start school. I don't feel so bad about it as it seems like a lot of the new Sailors to GC missed this as well. Hopefully in the next 2-4 weeks at the next INDOC he will have those hours completed and be able to start school.
Shortcake sounds like your son will be in the same class as my friends. Can't remember what his rank is MM or ET? I am glad he got a way and got to enjoy some of the surrounding area. I went to your page because I couldn't remember where you were from and noticed your page said your son is in Boot Camp, you might want to change that to enlisted now. Hope you get a chance to visit SC, I went after my son's A school graduation because they weren't allowed to come home.
Northwoodsmom - His rank is MMN, but he will finish as ELT. Thank you for the heads up, I will update my profile. He opted out of having visitors for his first 10 days there. It allowed him more freedom and he mentioned that there were so many restrictions in place because of COVID, a visit would be difficult. Although I really would like to see him, I want him to settle and feel comfortable in his new surroundings so I am accepting it as is. I hope that he will be able to come home after A School or that there will be an opportunity for me to see him before then. Getting there will be tricky as I am all the way on the West Coast. If he isn't able to come home after A School, I will probably make my way there. I have some vacation time built up from work. He is currently INDOC and will start work and briefs tomorrow. What was your friend's PIR date? (sorry if I am not supposed to ask that). From what I understand, my son got very lucky to have made it over to GC so quickly. A lot of others are still at the THU in GL.
Shortcake and other new moms - welcome to the nuke pipeline. It seems like only yesterday that I was in your shoes; I can't believe that we are almost through the GC pipeline. So take heart and stay strong.
I am in California too so I understand the distance challenges. We drove our son's car to him; two months later flew back to A school grad then the virus hit. Charleston is a wonderful place to visit but keep mind that the nukes are very busy and do like to spend down time with their new mates.
It sounds like your nuke is getting his act together. It will pay off in the long run. Good luck to all in your journeys.
These are our family Christmas stockings. I made the first one when I first started dating my husband after he said he had never had one. I cross-stitched one for me after we married and another when our son came along.
Last month I sent him a large box, of mostly homemade goodies. He said that as his roommates helped open the box, he heard "stocking" and expected to see Snoopy & Woodstock (I send him a different one that was embroidered with his name). I could hear a little disappointment so quickly reassured him that his Snoopy was safely hanging on the mantel here but that he could take it with him when he head to a ship assignment in a few months.
While many people would say that 2020 was a disappointment-and it was in many ways-I don't consider it a lost year when I think about how hard my son has worked and much he accomplished. God Bless the U.S. Navy.
Northwoodsmom - silly question, where is my birthday page lol?
Canuka - Nice to meet you! I may take a road trip in June when the weather is nicer, have to play it by ear. I'm starting school and projects are ramping up at work. I was ready to jump in my car and go on a mission now, but my husband (the one with the more logical head in these situations) convinced me the weather would be brutal to get through...so I wait. He was enjoying the downtime that the stand down gave him, but tomorrow brings around an actual schedule. He has a good head on his shoulders, so I don't worry too much.
Shortcake no question is stupid it just takes a while to learn how to maneuver around. If you go all the way to top of the page your on, to read these post there will be a wide blue ribbon. Right below on the ribbon will be words like main page, your page, forums photos ect... Just push on my page and it will take you to it. Your profile and discussions plus your friends will be on there. I don't have internet so I have to do everything on my phone, the ladies say it is alot easier on your desk top but that can't happen for me. If you don't understand it leave a message to Chipmunk she really helped me out. Good luck.
Canuka - I love the Snoopy stockings!! I like to cross-stitch but never saw that pattern but it likely was after I had to set the cross-stitch aside with little ones and other projects.
Shortcake - Not sure what she means by birthday page.
Northwoodsmom - We thought you had some secret birthday page on here that we didn't know about!! I am sure we could figure out something. I think we would all enjoy some homemade goodies from you for our birthdays!!
Are your kids headed back to school or are you all staying virtual?
Canuka - we are from California too. I just got back from visiting my son for 10 days in Goose Creek!! :) The rest of the family - my husband, my sis, BIL and neice were all there too but for a little less time. We enjoyed our trip immensely. Charleston is so quaint. We were limited to outdoor activities and discovered that there are not many restaurants with outdoor heaters in Charleston but did find some in Folly Beach.
NWM - we ate outside at a restaurant one night when it was 27 degrees. It’s probably a good idea to wait for nicer weather!
Canuka - I agree with you about 2020! It was a tough year in many ways (especially because we lost somebody we love to covid) but I’m so happy to see my son loving the Navy. He spent 2 1/2 years in college first and did not love it or apply himself. He found his niche with the Navy. Loves the challenge and his buddies and is a happy sailor so I’m a happy mamma. That’s a big part of what 2020 brought to our family.
Everyone - I wish you and yours a happy and healthy new year. Thanks for being here.
Northwoodsmom - I did not see a comment from you on my profile, but I really appreciate the thought very much :). I didn't realize when I created the profile that everyone could see my birthdate lol. I did change that, but you caught it before I changed it lol. I don't mind so much people knowing my birthdate, I just don't like having the year there as well. More for security purposes. I have had my identity stolen once and it was so hard to come back from it.
Canuka - How long did it take you to drive from West to East Coast? Do you have any advice for the trip? I am patiently impatiently waiting for the time I can hop in my car and go. I know that vaccine is a long way off for me getting so I continue to quarantine (I'm work from home anyway) and stay diligent so that when the time comes I am ready.
I love the Christmas stockings. So cute! I am Jewish, but I I have always loved the holidays and seeing the lights and decorations. I started cross stitching recently, my first couple attempts were not pretty lol, but I think I am getting a better hang of it now.
DsMom2020 - did you drive or fly? My son was similar in the way that he did not have the discipline to start college right out of high school. He was on track for a chance at MIT until the end of his Junior year when he just let all his academics go. We still don't quite know what happened, but the Navy is giving him a second chance to get back to his goal.
Chipmunk - I agree, can we get a birthday page up and have treats delivered lol (just kidding). I need to work the holiday pounds off.
Chipmunk: yes my kiddos are back in school and I am loving my job once again. They were so excited to be back together and with the snow all were itching to get on those sleds. Nothing like a child's excited laughter to fill your hearts with love.
I really don't know what I am doing at times on the computer or phone do it wouldn't surprise me at all if suddenly a Birthday group appeared randomly. I have experienced weirder things happen when I am on the computer at school. The computer tech is down by me enough trying to get me out of a mess wondering how the heck l manage it.
Hi Shortcake - we flew commercial airlines. Honestly, that was the easy part of the trip. They never even asked which airlines we were traveling as they don’t all keep the middle seat open. I think that A school might have had different rules that power school & prototype but I’m not positive. I do think it was a holiday thing and they might not allow family to fly there at other times. We did volunteer to all covid test prior to coming.
The rest of the trip details are what had us nervous that it would not be approved. My son had to clarify the chit and resubmit a few times and was interviewed about it a couple times. They wanted to know what we did for work (my sis and I are nurses that work with patients but not covid patients. Our office screens pts by phone prior to appointment and we reschedule them if they have possible covid). They wanted to know what exactly our covid risk factors were, what precautions we each took, what types of “gatherings” we had attended during covid (we had gone to an outdoor winery for my sister’s birthday and they wanted to know the details), and specifically what our plans were in Charleston. We said sightseeing and outdoor activities, outdoor dining only or home cooking. We were required to rent accommodations where our son had his own room and bathroom. I rented a 4 bedroom Airbnb house (not cheap). We had to socially distance but they did allow us to ride in car with our son as long as we all wore masks. This was a holiday concession as non holiday visits prohibited riding in car with sailor.
My son’s roommate wanted to have his girlfriend visit and planned to share a room. They did not submit plans stating what they planned to do during the visit, like outdoor activities. His chit was denied....
Feel free to ask for any other details if I missed anything. I hope you get to see your soon soon. Ask him if he gets any long weekends for federal holidays and tell him to put in a chit for you to come visit.
Oh - one last thing. My sin did not get approval on his chit until less than 48 hours before we were scheduled to leave. I specifically rented an Airbnb that allowed last minute cancellations, waited to rent car, etc.
Shortcake, every situation is so different for every Sailor. We drove, packed sandwiches and used waysides for bathroom breaks. My son was allowed to ride in our car with mask on but was not allowed to spend the night even though we rented a 3 bedroom 3 bathroom house which he would of had the whole top floor to himself. I don't know how they decide these things but you are do grateful just to see them it really doesn't matter. You take whatever the Navy will give you at the time and are thankful for every second of it. I remember we had to send information about our Covid cases in our county at the time of our trip also and this was our second chit the first was denied. Prayers that things settle down and you will soon be able to visit like before Covid. I would of liked to of seen a little bit of the area but was too scared to ask for sightseeing because we didn't want to be denied again. My son was exhausted from just graduating from A School and most of my sightseeing was watching him sleep which was fine with me, it was a amazing beautiful sight to behold!
Good morning ladies. We just celebrated our last Christmas in our current home with all of our children present! It was kind of bittersweet but now we are on to a new adventure. My husband has taken a job in Florida, our house has a contract on it and we need to be out by Jan 15. My days are filled with packing, sorting and filling a dumpster - along with doing my full time job. Come on Jan 15.
Here's a couple pics from Christmas. Dr & Dr and MMN2 & MMN2. Matching titles for the couples, how cute!
JayDee659 but how are you going to get your skiing in living in Florida? You may have to take lots of ski trips in the north or something. Good luck on the move. Hope all goes well.
JayDee659 - Thanks for sharing!! All the best on your move!
Northwoodsmom - I am glad that you are back in school and able to see the kiddos. I am sure they are enjoying the snow when they can. As for the computer- no big deal ! I do things on mine as well that my husband just shakes his head and and tells me to figure it out myself. (He knows I need to learn but I don't usually have time to, I just need it fixed!)
Shortcake - do not hesitate to post pictures or memes from your holiday celebrations on here. We are a community and we learn and grow from each other and our unique backgrounds as well.
I usually stay fairly quiet about my entire opinions on the COVID situation, but I do hope that our sailors are going to be able to see their families sooner rather than later. It definitely depends on the timing, each command, and the ability to do a 14 day ROM afterwards as to whether or not leave is approved.
One of the neat things about being in private conversations with many different people on this site, is I don't just know what is going on GC or even my sailor's ship, but I hear what is happening elsewhere and this much I can say - None of it is the same as to the details but what is the same - our sailors miss us and we miss them and everyone needs a hug or high five a lot more than is happening!! So keep up the face time, keep up the encouragement.
I guess I will say this and I apologize but we have lost more sailors this last year to accidents and unnecessary life decisions than we have to COVID. It is hard and we miss our kids - but it is hard on them and Nukes especially work long hard hours in the fleet and in school so break time, down time for them is important as well. Keep up the encouragement and let them know how much you appreciate them.
JayDee, congratulations! On the new house, new life in FL, and seeing your children getting settled. What a nice family. God is good!
So glad some of you were able to see your sailors over the holidays. Covid lockdown won't last forever but it makes the present very challenging. We were only able to FaceTime but I'm so grateful for that! I'm old enough to remember when communication with military loved ones was very sparse. This is much better. Happy New Year Mamas!
JayDee - it certainly sounds like you will be crazy busy packing up the house by mid January while working full time. I hope you have good helpers!! May you make many happy memories in your new Florida home!
NancyJo - it is nice of you to put things in perspective. You are sooo right. FaceTime is a blessing!! Our parents and their parents really had it rough (my dad joined Navy at age 17), comparatively with much less communication. It’s always helpful if we are able to count our blessings. I never really understood the sacrifices of those in the military, and their families until now.... I know that my son really appreciates it when strangers thank him for his service.
I can hardly wait to visit my son again!! He did explain to me how important it is to keep the Nukes progressing through the pipeline to replace those leaving the service and said they really try to prevent extra ROMs. I plan to get the covid vaccine as soon as it is available to me so that that can be added to future chits - anything that increases my chances of getting to visit with him.
Incidentally, the two doctors I work with got their covid vaccinations last week. No side effects. Unfortunately, Orange County is slow to make the vaccine available to non-hospital employed healthcare workers. Although I don’t work with covid patients, much of our patient base is elderly and we want to keep them safe. Interesting that LA County is offering appointments for non-hospital HCW now. Every place is different.
Hi all - I've enjoyed catching up reading all the posts from over the holidays. It was good to hear so many of you were able to see your sailors and I hope things improve so that everyone can see them soon!
I am now back to a quiet house but was lucky to have all four of my kids home including my nuke who will be finishing A school (if all goes as planned of course!) this month. I didn't dare post when he was approved as I was sure I would jinx it!
It was so nice to have him home even if we did have to stay in the whole time per his SLPO's orders. I would say it was quiet but my oldest daughter brought her two huge dogs and our beagle is not a fan of any dogs so it was a loud couple of weeks (including a visit for antibiotics for both my husband and beagle for puncture wounds - will have to rethink them coming next time for sure)...
I was surprised at how many moms and dads were posting publicly on Facebook about their sons driving 10+ hours the day before they were due back. My son was horrified as they had definite limits and if they were stretching them why post it to ask for trouble? The more I see on there the more I hope those sailors are not on a ship or sub with my son!
One thing that was surprising on his return was that he was given a new roommate. In non-covid times that sounds reasonable as that was the way we've heard it used to be. Now they are only allowed to room with people in their specific class and he and his suitemate were both given new guys straight from boot camp who were not even the same rate. Hopefully that means they are safe from covid. There are only 12 left out of the original 30 in his class - most set back with ROM for covid or contact with someone who may have been exposed - so they are very serious about making it to the end! Not to mention they are the last class that will be in the next power school class so extra incentive to be safe and make it three more weeks or so.
Curious if any of you had sailors able to come home that went back to similar situations?
4kidsforfun, I think social media is often a dangerous thing. I would think twice before putting anything on any social media platform. The Navy tells us about OPSEC precautions and we should be diligent about that. Not everyone who reads these posts are friendly. It's enough to know our sailors go from A to B without all the details. Thanks for bringing it up because it bears repeating. The old saying "loose lips sink ships" is still true. Besides that, too many folks disregarding precautions might make it difficult when the next holiday rolls around.
4kidsforfun, we had a discussion before on the roommate situation. I thought they were putting the newer ones with the older ones to kind of mentor them. I remember my son had 3 different roommates before he started Power School. For a minute I was thinking are you that hard to get along with and never figure out all the switching at the end of A school and T-track. I am happy you enjoyed your time with him. Hoping your hubby and beagle heal quickly, my daughter always bring her dogs too but all of ours get along. The oldest one though has her limits and will snarl if you cross them. I also am a big rule follower. There are things just not worth breaking any rules for and protection of my kids are one of them.
4kids - so funny you had to stay indoors during your son’s visit. My son felt that they wanted us to spend more time outdoors in the fresh air. He also made sure to follow SLPO orders. Said it was an integrity thing and wasnt worth getting caught breaking rules. It is amazing that others would break rules then talk about it on Facebook...
I’m surprised about the roommate situation. Navy won’t allow them to spend time with anyone outside their circle of classmates but then they put new arrivals with them. Really does not make sense. Gotta go with it but I hope your son stays healthy and does not get an ROM when he is so close to finishing A school.
Bummer on the puncture wounds. I hope those are healing ok with the antibiotics. If having a problem with infection, might be good to really wash well and then spray with a wound antiseptic like levicyn or puracyn on 4 times a day. Good luck with it.
Hi all - just a quick check in. Had a big surprise - B&C surprised me and showed up on Friday! Hubby and youngest son were in on it. It's been wonderful having them here and now they leave at o'dark early tomorrow. And youngest heads back to NE on Friday (after a month at home). We went by the Chapel where they will be holding their vow renewal and they've moved the date now to 5/22/22. Also took a walk along the beach which was beautiful. They are sure enjoying our CA weather. I'll be back on later....Happy New Year to All!
B'sNuke Mom - Oh how fun!! I am glad you had a surprise visit!!
Hello everyone, it has been a busy day and still more. Just an interjection on the FB posts. - I agree, there is a lot posted that should not be and I am appalled when I see some things. Mostly, though, we recognize it, because we are reminded on here to watch OPSEC and PERSEC and not all military families are as informed. We help each other out here and we learn and grow here. I am thankful for this group!
I know yesterday was a tough day for our nation, and I just want to let you all know that it's during tough times us mothers need to bond together to keep our families and our nation together. I pray that our sailors remain safe and unified and know we're behind them. God Bless America and God Bless our Navy.
B'sNukeMom - such a nice surprise for you - glad you got to have them home even for a short visit!
Northwoodsmom - Before covid they did put the new guys with more establish nukes but since my son got to GC in July they have slowly changed to only rooming with sailors in their immediate class. He thinks that over the stand-down things got a bit messed up with where they were assigning the new arrivals.
NancyJo - I completely agree with the danger of social media posts and that those breaking the rules so blatantly could affect future liberties. The ombudsman is part of the group so I don't know how they are so oblivious. My son said every SLPO had different rules and opinions regarding the stand down and trusted his class to do the right thing as they had come so far.
DsMom2020 & SuzyPWarrior - It wasn't the sailors talking and posting on facebook but their parents. My son was not completely surprised when I told him about it - he said he got the feeling that many sailors do not tell their parents "the rules" or stress the importance of following them. We have the added bonus of this group to teach us all that right out of the gate! I'm thankful for his recruiter to give me the Navy4Moms information before he left for bootcamp!
(and DsMom20020 we could go outdoors while he was here - he was just supposed to stay home and it is cold here in NH!)
JayDee - congrats and good luck on your new adventure! We may be doing the same soon - husband lost his job in November after they moved us to NH from NC just over a year ago. Fingers crossed something comes up soon now that the holidays are over.
4kidsforfun - That is great that your son's recruiter even knew about Navy4Moms and recommended it to you as well. It would be great if more recruiters knew about the site. I agree, most of the postings I see on FB are from family members. Our ship FB is fairly strict but I have noticed that especially among the Nukes - the wives are fairly silent. They might imply something that if you are more "in the know" you can decipher, but they do not openly state - my husband is a specific Nuke on the ship. I have seen that more from other family members.
I am sorry to hear about your husband's job. Staying hopeful with you for new opportunities.
Hi all - well my kids have all left - B&C returned to MI yesterday and N is in the air right now heading back to NE. It was sure nice having everyone home together.
JayDee - I can't believe you are moving to FL! Wow. Will you be anywhere near mommamac?
B'sNukeMom, yeah, Florida isn't really me, is it? We are 3 hours from her, across the state. Funny story, my husband bought a safe from someone in her town in November. We've been there and back but unfortunately didn't have time to spare or I'd have looked her up.
B'sNukeMom, I saw my ortho today and it is time for a knee replacement so skiing is off the table for a while. Guess the Divine plan has stepped in. All things will work out as they should.
Chipmunk
FYI - If you didn't know, you can get to someone's profile page by clicking on their Avatar. That is why at times I will tell people to follow my Chipmunk. It depends on what they have their settings at if you can view any information on their page, but it helps me get to know people.
Jan 2, 2021
Shortcake
Happy New Year everyone!!!
I have had so much time to talk with my son. It has been wonderful. It sounds like because of the stand down, they were able to go and explore the area off base (with a mask and social distancing of course). From what it sounds like now, he will start daily muster, work, and briefings on today. The goober did not read the introduction packet thoroughly so he did not get the necessary watch hours completed to class up and start school. I don't feel so bad about it as it seems like a lot of the new Sailors to GC missed this as well. Hopefully in the next 2-4 weeks at the next INDOC he will have those hours completed and be able to start school.
I hope everyone has a wonderful day!
Jan 3, 2021
Northwoodsmom
Shortcake sounds like your son will be in the same class as my friends. Can't remember what his rank is MM or ET? I am glad he got a way and got to enjoy some of the surrounding area. I went to your page because I couldn't remember where you were from and noticed your page said your son is in Boot Camp, you might want to change that to enlisted now. Hope you get a chance to visit SC, I went after my son's A school graduation because they weren't allowed to come home.
Jan 3, 2021
Shortcake
Northwoodsmom - His rank is MMN, but he will finish as ELT. Thank you for the heads up, I will update my profile. He opted out of having visitors for his first 10 days there. It allowed him more freedom and he mentioned that there were so many restrictions in place because of COVID, a visit would be difficult. Although I really would like to see him, I want him to settle and feel comfortable in his new surroundings so I am accepting it as is. I hope that he will be able to come home after A School or that there will be an opportunity for me to see him before then. Getting there will be tricky as I am all the way on the West Coast. If he isn't able to come home after A School, I will probably make my way there. I have some vacation time built up from work. He is currently INDOC and will start work and briefs tomorrow. What was your friend's PIR date? (sorry if I am not supposed to ask that). From what I understand, my son got very lucky to have made it over to GC so quickly. A lot of others are still at the THU in GL.
Jan 3, 2021
Northwoodsmom
Shortcake left a message for you on your birthday page.
Jan 3, 2021
CanukaVet
I am in California too so I understand the distance challenges. We drove our son's car to him; two months later flew back to A school grad then the virus hit. Charleston is a wonderful place to visit but keep mind that the nukes are very busy and do like to spend down time with their new mates.
It sounds like your nuke is getting his act together. It will pay off in the long run. Good luck to all in your journeys.
Jan 3, 2021
CanukaVet
These are our family Christmas stockings. I made the first one when I first started dating my husband after he said he had never had one. I cross-stitched one for me after we married and another when our son came along.
Last month I sent him a large box, of mostly homemade goodies. He said that as his roommates helped open the box, he heard "stocking" and expected to see Snoopy & Woodstock (I send him a different one that was embroidered with his name). I could hear a little disappointment so quickly reassured him that his Snoopy was safely hanging on the mantel here but that he could take it with him when he head to a ship assignment in a few months.
While many people would say that 2020 was a disappointment-and it was in many ways-I don't consider it a lost year when I think about how hard my son has worked and much he accomplished. God Bless the U.S. Navy.
Jan 3, 2021
Shortcake
Northwoodsmom - silly question, where is my birthday page lol?
Canuka - Nice to meet you! I may take a road trip in June when the weather is nicer, have to play it by ear. I'm starting school and projects are ramping up at work. I was ready to jump in my car and go on a mission now, but my husband (the one with the more logical head in these situations) convinced me the weather would be brutal to get through...so I wait. He was enjoying the downtime that the stand down gave him, but tomorrow brings around an actual schedule. He has a good head on his shoulders, so I don't worry too much.
Jan 3, 2021
Northwoodsmom
Shortcake no question is stupid it just takes a while to learn how to maneuver around. If you go all the way to top of the page your on, to read these post there will be a wide blue ribbon. Right below on the ribbon will be words like main page, your page, forums photos ect... Just push on my page and it will take you to it. Your profile and discussions plus your friends will be on there. I don't have internet so I have to do everything on my phone, the ladies say it is alot easier on your desk top but that can't happen for me. If you don't understand it leave a message to Chipmunk she really helped me out. Good luck.
Jan 3, 2021
Chipmunk
Canuka - I love the Snoopy stockings!! I like to cross-stitch but never saw that pattern but it likely was after I had to set the cross-stitch aside with little ones and other projects.
Shortcake - Not sure what she means by birthday page.
Jan 3, 2021
Northwoodsmom
Sorry Shortcake I went back to read my post it was suppose to say profile page, dah, my mistake.
Jan 3, 2021
Chipmunk
Northwoodsmom - We thought you had some secret birthday page on here that we didn't know about!! I am sure we could figure out something. I think we would all enjoy some homemade goodies from you for our birthdays!!
Are your kids headed back to school or are you all staying virtual?
Jan 3, 2021
DsMom2020
Canuka - we are from California too. I just got back from visiting my son for 10 days in Goose Creek!! :) The rest of the family - my husband, my sis, BIL and neice were all there too but for a little less time. We enjoyed our trip immensely. Charleston is so quaint. We were limited to outdoor activities and discovered that there are not many restaurants with outdoor heaters in Charleston but did find some in Folly Beach.
NWM - we ate outside at a restaurant one night when it was 27 degrees. It’s probably a good idea to wait for nicer weather!
Canuka - I agree with you about 2020! It was a tough year in many ways (especially because we lost somebody we love to covid) but I’m so happy to see my son loving the Navy. He spent 2 1/2 years in college first and did not love it or apply himself. He found his niche with the Navy. Loves the challenge and his buddies and is a happy sailor so I’m a happy mamma. That’s a big part of what 2020 brought to our family.
Everyone - I wish you and yours a happy and healthy new year. Thanks for being here.
Jan 3, 2021
Shortcake
Northwoodsmom - I did not see a comment from you on my profile, but I really appreciate the thought very much :). I didn't realize when I created the profile that everyone could see my birthdate lol. I did change that, but you caught it before I changed it lol. I don't mind so much people knowing my birthdate, I just don't like having the year there as well. More for security purposes. I have had my identity stolen once and it was so hard to come back from it.
Canuka - How long did it take you to drive from West to East Coast? Do you have any advice for the trip? I am patiently impatiently waiting for the time I can hop in my car and go. I know that vaccine is a long way off for me getting so I continue to quarantine (I'm work from home anyway) and stay diligent so that when the time comes I am ready.
I love the Christmas stockings. So cute! I am Jewish, but I I have always loved the holidays and seeing the lights and decorations. I started cross stitching recently, my first couple attempts were not pretty lol, but I think I am getting a better hang of it now.
DsMom2020 - did you drive or fly? My son was similar in the way that he did not have the discipline to start college right out of high school. He was on track for a chance at MIT until the end of his Junior year when he just let all his academics go. We still don't quite know what happened, but the Navy is giving him a second chance to get back to his goal.
Chipmunk - I agree, can we get a birthday page up and have treats delivered lol (just kidding). I need to work the holiday pounds off.
Jan 4, 2021
Northwoodsmom
Chipmunk: yes my kiddos are back in school and I am loving my job once again. They were so excited to be back together and with the snow all were itching to get on those sleds. Nothing like a child's excited laughter to fill your hearts with love.
I really don't know what I am doing at times on the computer or phone do it wouldn't surprise me at all if suddenly a Birthday group appeared randomly. I have experienced weirder things happen when I am on the computer at school. The computer tech is down by me enough trying to get me out of a mess wondering how the heck l manage it.
You have a peaceful evening.
Jan 4, 2021
DsMom2020
Hi Shortcake - we flew commercial airlines. Honestly, that was the easy part of the trip. They never even asked which airlines we were traveling as they don’t all keep the middle seat open. I think that A school might have had different rules that power school & prototype but I’m not positive. I do think it was a holiday thing and they might not allow family to fly there at other times. We did volunteer to all covid test prior to coming.
The rest of the trip details are what had us nervous that it would not be approved. My son had to clarify the chit and resubmit a few times and was interviewed about it a couple times. They wanted to know what we did for work (my sis and I are nurses that work with patients but not covid patients. Our office screens pts by phone prior to appointment and we reschedule them if they have possible covid). They wanted to know what exactly our covid risk factors were, what precautions we each took, what types of “gatherings” we had attended during covid (we had gone to an outdoor winery for my sister’s birthday and they wanted to know the details), and specifically what our plans were in Charleston. We said sightseeing and outdoor activities, outdoor dining only or home cooking. We were required to rent accommodations where our son had his own room and bathroom. I rented a 4 bedroom Airbnb house (not cheap). We had to socially distance but they did allow us to ride in car with our son as long as we all wore masks. This was a holiday concession as non holiday visits prohibited riding in car with sailor.
My son’s roommate wanted to have his girlfriend visit and planned to share a room. They did not submit plans stating what they planned to do during the visit, like outdoor activities. His chit was denied....
Feel free to ask for any other details if I missed anything. I hope you get to see your soon soon. Ask him if he gets any long weekends for federal holidays and tell him to put in a chit for you to come visit.
Jan 5, 2021
DsMom2020
Oh - one last thing. My sin did not get approval on his chit until less than 48 hours before we were scheduled to leave. I specifically rented an Airbnb that allowed last minute cancellations, waited to rent car, etc.
Jan 5, 2021
DsMom2020
Sorry for typos. Should have proof read it. Dang autocorrect.
Jan 5, 2021
Northwoodsmom
Shortcake, every situation is so different for every Sailor. We drove, packed sandwiches and used waysides for bathroom breaks. My son was allowed to ride in our car with mask on but was not allowed to spend the night even though we rented a 3 bedroom 3 bathroom house which he would of had the whole top floor to himself. I don't know how they decide these things but you are do grateful just to see them it really doesn't matter. You take whatever the Navy will give you at the time and are thankful for every second of it. I remember we had to send information about our Covid cases in our county at the time of our trip also and this was our second chit the first was denied. Prayers that things settle down and you will soon be able to visit like before Covid. I would of liked to of seen a little bit of the area but was too scared to ask for sightseeing because we didn't want to be denied again. My son was exhausted from just graduating from A School and most of my sightseeing was watching him sleep which was fine with me, it was a amazing beautiful sight to behold!
Jan 5, 2021
JayDee659
Good morning ladies. We just celebrated our last Christmas in our current home with all of our children present! It was kind of bittersweet but now we are on to a new adventure. My husband has taken a job in Florida, our house has a contract on it and we need to be out by Jan 15. My days are filled with packing, sorting and filling a dumpster - along with doing my full time job. Come on Jan 15.
Here's a couple pics from Christmas. Dr & Dr and MMN2 & MMN2. Matching titles for the couples, how cute!
Jan 5, 2021
Northwoodsmom
JayDee659, what a beautiful family! Prayers that your move goes smoothly and the New Year is filled with abundant Blessings to all of you.
Jan 5, 2021
JayDee659
Thank you NorthwoodsMom. Never thought I would ever live in Florida but here we go!
Jan 5, 2021
ProudOfK
JayDee659 but how are you going to get your skiing in living in Florida? You may have to take lots of ski trips in the north or something. Good luck on the move. Hope all goes well.
Jan 5, 2021
Chipmunk
JayDee659 - Thanks for sharing!! All the best on your move!
Northwoodsmom - I am glad that you are back in school and able to see the kiddos. I am sure they are enjoying the snow when they can. As for the computer- no big deal ! I do things on mine as well that my husband just shakes his head and and tells me to figure it out myself. (He knows I need to learn but I don't usually have time to, I just need it fixed!)
Shortcake - do not hesitate to post pictures or memes from your holiday celebrations on here. We are a community and we learn and grow from each other and our unique backgrounds as well.
I usually stay fairly quiet about my entire opinions on the COVID situation, but I do hope that our sailors are going to be able to see their families sooner rather than later. It definitely depends on the timing, each command, and the ability to do a 14 day ROM afterwards as to whether or not leave is approved.
One of the neat things about being in private conversations with many different people on this site, is I don't just know what is going on GC or even my sailor's ship, but I hear what is happening elsewhere and this much I can say - None of it is the same as to the details but what is the same - our sailors miss us and we miss them and everyone needs a hug or high five a lot more than is happening!! So keep up the face time, keep up the encouragement.
I guess I will say this and I apologize but we have lost more sailors this last year to accidents and unnecessary life decisions than we have to COVID. It is hard and we miss our kids - but it is hard on them and Nukes especially work long hard hours in the fleet and in school so break time, down time for them is important as well. Keep up the encouragement and let them know how much you appreciate them.
Jan 5, 2021
NancyJo (NNPTC)
JayDee, congratulations! On the new house, new life in FL, and seeing your children getting settled. What a nice family. God is good!
So glad some of you were able to see your sailors over the holidays. Covid lockdown won't last forever but it makes the present very challenging. We were only able to FaceTime but I'm so grateful for that! I'm old enough to remember when communication with military loved ones was very sparse. This is much better. Happy New Year Mamas!
Jan 5, 2021
DsMom2020
JayDee - it certainly sounds like you will be crazy busy packing up the house by mid January while working full time. I hope you have good helpers!! May you make many happy memories in your new Florida home!
NancyJo - it is nice of you to put things in perspective. You are sooo right. FaceTime is a blessing!! Our parents and their parents really had it rough (my dad joined Navy at age 17), comparatively with much less communication. It’s always helpful if we are able to count our blessings. I never really understood the sacrifices of those in the military, and their families until now.... I know that my son really appreciates it when strangers thank him for his service.
I can hardly wait to visit my son again!! He did explain to me how important it is to keep the Nukes progressing through the pipeline to replace those leaving the service and said they really try to prevent extra ROMs. I plan to get the covid vaccine as soon as it is available to me so that that can be added to future chits - anything that increases my chances of getting to visit with him.
Incidentally, the two doctors I work with got their covid vaccinations last week. No side effects. Unfortunately, Orange County is slow to make the vaccine available to non-hospital employed healthcare workers. Although I don’t work with covid patients, much of our patient base is elderly and we want to keep them safe. Interesting that LA County is offering appointments for non-hospital HCW now. Every place is different.
Jan 5, 2021
4kidsforfun
Hi all - I've enjoyed catching up reading all the posts from over the holidays. It was good to hear so many of you were able to see your sailors and I hope things improve so that everyone can see them soon!
I am now back to a quiet house but was lucky to have all four of my kids home including my nuke who will be finishing A school (if all goes as planned of course!) this month. I didn't dare post when he was approved as I was sure I would jinx it!
It was so nice to have him home even if we did have to stay in the whole time per his SLPO's orders. I would say it was quiet but my oldest daughter brought her two huge dogs and our beagle is not a fan of any dogs so it was a loud couple of weeks (including a visit for antibiotics for both my husband and beagle for puncture wounds - will have to rethink them coming next time for sure)...
I was surprised at how many moms and dads were posting publicly on Facebook about their sons driving 10+ hours the day before they were due back. My son was horrified as they had definite limits and if they were stretching them why post it to ask for trouble? The more I see on there the more I hope those sailors are not on a ship or sub with my son!
One thing that was surprising on his return was that he was given a new roommate. In non-covid times that sounds reasonable as that was the way we've heard it used to be. Now they are only allowed to room with people in their specific class and he and his suitemate were both given new guys straight from boot camp who were not even the same rate. Hopefully that means they are safe from covid. There are only 12 left out of the original 30 in his class - most set back with ROM for covid or contact with someone who may have been exposed - so they are very serious about making it to the end! Not to mention they are the last class that will be in the next power school class so extra incentive to be safe and make it three more weeks or so.
Curious if any of you had sailors able to come home that went back to similar situations?
Jan 5, 2021
NancyJo (NNPTC)
4kidsforfun, I think social media is often a dangerous thing. I would think twice before putting anything on any social media platform. The Navy tells us about OPSEC precautions and we should be diligent about that. Not everyone who reads these posts are friendly. It's enough to know our sailors go from A to B without all the details. Thanks for bringing it up because it bears repeating. The old saying "loose lips sink ships" is still true. Besides that, too many folks disregarding precautions might make it difficult when the next holiday rolls around.
Jan 5, 2021
Northwoodsmom
4kidsforfun, we had a discussion before on the roommate situation. I thought they were putting the newer ones with the older ones to kind of mentor them. I remember my son had 3 different roommates before he started Power School. For a minute I was thinking are you that hard to get along with and never figure out all the switching at the end of A school and T-track. I am happy you enjoyed your time with him. Hoping your hubby and beagle heal quickly, my daughter always bring her dogs too but all of ours get along. The oldest one though has her limits and will snarl if you cross them. I also am a big rule follower. There are things just not worth breaking any rules for and protection of my kids are one of them.
Jan 5, 2021
DsMom2020
4kids - so funny you had to stay indoors during your son’s visit. My son felt that they wanted us to spend more time outdoors in the fresh air. He also made sure to follow SLPO orders. Said it was an integrity thing and wasnt worth getting caught breaking rules. It is amazing that others would break rules then talk about it on Facebook...
I’m surprised about the roommate situation. Navy won’t allow them to spend time with anyone outside their circle of classmates but then they put new arrivals with them. Really does not make sense. Gotta go with it but I hope your son stays healthy and does not get an ROM when he is so close to finishing A school.
Bummer on the puncture wounds. I hope those are healing ok with the antibiotics. If having a problem with infection, might be good to really wash well and then spray with a wound antiseptic like levicyn or puracyn on 4 times a day. Good luck with it.
Jan 6, 2021
DsMom2020
Well said SuzyP
Jan 6, 2021
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Hi all - just a quick check in. Had a big surprise - B&C surprised me and showed up on Friday! Hubby and youngest son were in on it. It's been wonderful having them here and now they leave at o'dark early tomorrow. And youngest heads back to NE on Friday (after a month at home). We went by the Chapel where they will be holding their vow renewal and they've moved the date now to 5/22/22. Also took a walk along the beach which was beautiful. They are sure enjoying our CA weather. I'll be back on later....Happy New Year to All!
Jan 6, 2021
CSW
B'sNukeMom.
LOVE IT!
Jan 6, 2021
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Jan 6, 2021
JayDee659
B'sNukeMom that's awesome! Enjoy!
Jan 6, 2021
Chipmunk
B'sNuke Mom - Oh how fun!! I am glad you had a surprise visit!!
Hello everyone, it has been a busy day and still more. Just an interjection on the FB posts. - I agree, there is a lot posted that should not be and I am appalled when I see some things. Mostly, though, we recognize it, because we are reminded on here to watch OPSEC and PERSEC and not all military families are as informed. We help each other out here and we learn and grow here. I am thankful for this group!
Jan 6, 2021
Shortcake
I hope everyone had a wonderful Wednesday. I caught a snapshot of my kiddo during our FaceTime. So good to see his smiling face.
Jan 7, 2021
DsMom2020
Shortcake - handsome boy looks happy to be talking to his momma!! Bet your smile was even bigger!!
Jan 7, 2021
DsMom2020
BNukesMom - oh what a nice surprise!
Jan 7, 2021
Chipmunk
Good Morning Everyone!!
I hope your day is starting off well! Remember to check for messages in your Inbox (PM's) or comments on your profile page!
Jan 7, 2021
CSW
I know yesterday was a tough day for our nation, and I just want to let you all know that it's during tough times us mothers need to bond together to keep our families and our nation together. I pray that our sailors remain safe and unified and know we're behind them. God Bless America and God Bless our Navy.
Jan 7, 2021
4kidsforfun
B'sNukeMom - such a nice surprise for you - glad you got to have them home even for a short visit!
Northwoodsmom - Before covid they did put the new guys with more establish nukes but since my son got to GC in July they have slowly changed to only rooming with sailors in their immediate class. He thinks that over the stand-down things got a bit messed up with where they were assigning the new arrivals.
NancyJo - I completely agree with the danger of social media posts and that those breaking the rules so blatantly could affect future liberties. The ombudsman is part of the group so I don't know how they are so oblivious. My son said every SLPO had different rules and opinions regarding the stand down and trusted his class to do the right thing as they had come so far.
DsMom2020 & SuzyPWarrior - It wasn't the sailors talking and posting on facebook but their parents. My son was not completely surprised when I told him about it - he said he got the feeling that many sailors do not tell their parents "the rules" or stress the importance of following them. We have the added bonus of this group to teach us all that right out of the gate! I'm thankful for his recruiter to give me the Navy4Moms information before he left for bootcamp!
(and DsMom20020 we could go outdoors while he was here - he was just supposed to stay home and it is cold here in NH!)
JayDee - congrats and good luck on your new adventure! We may be doing the same soon - husband lost his job in November after they moved us to NH from NC just over a year ago. Fingers crossed something comes up soon now that the holidays are over.
Jan 7, 2021
Chipmunk
CSW- Thank you!
4kidsforfun - That is great that your son's recruiter even knew about Navy4Moms and recommended it to you as well. It would be great if more recruiters knew about the site. I agree, most of the postings I see on FB are from family members. Our ship FB is fairly strict but I have noticed that especially among the Nukes - the wives are fairly silent. They might imply something that if you are more "in the know" you can decipher, but they do not openly state - my husband is a specific Nuke on the ship. I have seen that more from other family members.
I am sorry to hear about your husband's job. Staying hopeful with you for new opportunities.
Jan 7, 2021
Shortcake
Hi everyone! Hope the day has been beautiful!
Northwoodsmom and D'smom - Thank you for sharing your experiences. Even if they differ, they give me an idea of what could be expected.
B'sNukemom - What a wonderful surprise and blessing!
JayDee - Good luck with the move. My husband and I are looking to possibly relocate in the next year or two. California has gotten pretty pricey.
4kidsforfun - Fingers crossed and positive vibes that the new year will bring great new opportunities.
Jan 7, 2021
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Jan 8, 2021
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Hi all - well my kids have all left - B&C returned to MI yesterday and N is in the air right now heading back to NE. It was sure nice having everyone home together.
JayDee - I can't believe you are moving to FL! Wow. Will you be anywhere near mommamac?
Jan 8, 2021
JayDee659
B'sNukeMom, yeah, Florida isn't really me, is it? We are 3 hours from her, across the state. Funny story, my husband bought a safe from someone in her town in November. We've been there and back but unfortunately didn't have time to spare or I'd have looked her up.
Jan 8, 2021
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
JayDee - how are you going to get your winter fix of skiing? Hopefully at some point you'll be able to meet up with her.
I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend!
Jan 8, 2021
Chipmunk
Nonna B. - I sent you a friend request.
Jan 8, 2021
JayDee659
B'sNukeMom, I saw my ortho today and it is time for a knee replacement so skiing is off the table for a while. Guess the Divine plan has stepped in. All things will work out as they should.
I do have a pool though and I live to swim.
Jan 9, 2021