To all my wonderful friends here, may you have a blessed and joyful holiday! If your sailor is with you, embrace those hugs, go with the flow of schedules and expectations. If you aren't able to have your sailor home, maybe you can plan for a special "face to face" time via your phone or internet options. Even just a phone call. My sailor is in a little different situation now that he is out in the fleet, and has own place, but some days he and his wife will call and we just leave the phone turned on, to listen to each other talk. They were playing a game the other night and just hearing the two of them banter back and forth, made it seem like they were just in the other room.
I have boots in the house also. I'm so thrilled my son is visiting from GC for a few days. His wife, unfortunately, was not able to join him. It's a rare treat to get him all to myself for more than a couple of hours. I'm loving every minute of it, and sending some of this love to all y'all who can't spend time with your sailor this month.
Lancertrackmom - Enjoy your special time with your son!!! Homecooked meals are the best!
PacNWmom - Oh how special!! I am so glad that he is able to be with you for a bit. This has been a long time coming, I know you are enjoying every minute of it.
Hi all - Happy Tuesday! I'm so excited ~ B&C made it to Sacramento yesterday - no flight issues! And they'll be home with us on Thursday ;-D I can hardly wait!!!
Hi all - Happy Friday! B&C made it here - flight was only delayed by 90 minutes which wasn't bad considering how many flights were completely cancelled. Of course we had to stop at In N Out on the way home too - it's a tradition. Now it's non-stop festivities for the next few days. But I'm happy ;-D
Good Morning and Happy Wednesday! I hope everyone had a wonderful Christmas. We had a great time with B&C and I finally get to share that I'm going to be a gramma! Baby Oliver coming in May!!!! We are so excited ;-D
B&C got stuck in all that Southwest fiasco with flights. Got up at 2:30am yesterday and found out that the 2nd leg of their flight (Midway to Detroit) was cancelled. They headed to Ontario airport and were able to talk to the ticket agent (nothing could be done online) and they told them that no new flights were being booked until 12/31. So they kept the flight to Midway and then scrambled to find a rental car which somehow they did! Then they drove from Midway to Detroit, got their car from the airport and then another hour home. So it was a long day but it could have been so much worse! The nice thing was the weather here in SoCal was beautiful while they were here - we were in the 80's on Christmas Day. We had a great time with family - got to finally announce to everyone (they wanted to tell all the family in person) that they were pregnant and we just had a lot of fun. It was a short trip but we sure packed a lot in to it. Now I can't wait to go to Michigan for the baby shower!
B'sNukeMom - Sorry they had such a crazy time returning home - it's been nuts for so many travelers - but glad they're home safe. And BIG congrats on the baby news! Go Pack! :)
B'sNukeMom - So happy to hear about the grandbaby, and also sorry to hear about the traveling issues.
I was actually at the airport today for another family member and I overheard one of the workers mentioning something about a group of people that had to get to Tennessee. There were about 13 of them, so they just all pitched in and rented a van and drove. It wasn't until later, that I wondered if it was a group of stranded travelers. Evidently, they all got to know each other and it worked out fine.
Could anyone help me out with this. My son is deployed and I sent him an email on Christmas and have not received a response. I have been emailing him every week or 2 since August and he always gets back with me that day or the next. Does the amount of emails the ship gets affect how long it takes for the sailor to get them? Or how long it takes for his response to be declassified?
NickSydmom - I checked with my source - and they said:
#1) Sailor's personal emailbox could be full. If it is too full of just ship messages, then they will not be able to receive more incoming emails nor will they be able to reply. There are several factors that affect how much email space a sailor has.
They need to delete past emails to open up space in their inbox.
#2) They could be doing drills, running silent, have VIP onboard that get more bandwidth.
#3) Nukes just get busy and tend to be the ones that don't check their email often or get them cleared.
#4) Weather can affect communication.
In the end, my source said, "No News is Good News" & if they can get email from the ship that is all that really matters, even if they can't get email from their spouse or their family.
I hope this helps. You might try to send another email and just say, please check your mailbox, it may be too full, not receiving emails.
NickSydmom - I recall once when our ship was out for a shorter excursion, that they also had some coms issues and many of the wives were posting on the ombudsman group asking if anyone else had not heard from their husbands, when they were used to receiving something very regularly.
NickSydmom-My son has been on 2 deployments and I rarely received an email reply. Many times there is enough time to read emails and that’s about it. Or enough bandwidth to receive, but not send. I know that it is disappointing, but I would not say it is cause for worry. Think of it this way: any communication you receive during deployment is a special treat. Do not count on anything. I’m sure that your son is thinking of you and just as disappointed that he was not able to reach out on the holiday.
Happy New Year! My son went back to GC yesterday, and the "see you laters" are still difficult. Lord willing, he will graduate from Power School in a couple of months, but it was hard to see him go - even though it's for a short time. I don't know how y'all do it for long stints!!!
MomofJoseph - BNMHs!! Phone calls and just thinking about my kids helps me. It also helps when I have an idea of what they are working on, or their schedule.
Please be sure to read the ***NEW MEMBERS*** info at the top of the page. Lots of good info there. Also take a look at the Pages (20) to the right under the member profiles - be sure to hit "view all". And the discussion forum above has some good info too - be sure to read Chipmunks "Nuke A School Daily Schedule". And of course, feel free to ask any questions you may have.
Thank you for the warm welcome! I wish I had found this group weeks ago! My son graduates PIR in 2 weeks and I just found out so much info in a day that I could have used LOL
Miakodo5876 - We are glad you found us now! I posted a welcome on the BC Mom group page there as well. Be sure to ask any questions about PIR in that group.
Went to Pinnacle Peak for a nice steak this weekend. Been a long time since we've been "out". It was yummy! Hubby, youngest son and his fiance. It was a beautiful day in sunny SoCal!
3B'smom - our waitress told us that the chef has worked at this locations for 42 years! As a kid we would go to the one in Garden Grove, CA. Now there are only 2 left - Colton (which we went to) and San Dimas, CA. She said there is one in AZ but it's no relation - just the same name. I forgot how good a steak could be lol!
Chipmunk
momc - I am so happy for you and glad that you will be able to be together as a family this year!!
Q' Momma - So happy you get to have your sailor home with you!
Dec 18, 2022
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Dec 18, 2022
joe-mom
Q's Momma and momc - I'm so happy for both of you that you'll get to spend Christmas with your sailors! Have the BEST visits with them.
Dec 19, 2022
Chipmunk
Good Morning Everyone!!
Happy Hanukkah - Merry Christmas - Season's Greetings!!
To all my wonderful friends here, may you have a blessed and joyful holiday! If your sailor is with you, embrace those hugs, go with the flow of schedules and expectations. If you aren't able to have your sailor home, maybe you can plan for a special "face to face" time via your phone or internet options. Even just a phone call. My sailor is in a little different situation now that he is out in the fleet, and has own place, but some days he and his wife will call and we just leave the phone turned on, to listen to each other talk. They were playing a game the other night and just hearing the two of them banter back and forth, made it seem like they were just in the other room.
Dec 19, 2022
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Dec 19, 2022
Lancertrackmom
Boots in my house. He is so happy to be home he is willing to eat my cooking and hitch admittedly is pretty bad!
Dec 19, 2022
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Lancertrackmom - enjoy and be sure to get lots of hugs! And just keep feeding him lol!
Dec 19, 2022
PacNWmom
I have boots in the house also. I'm so thrilled my son is visiting from GC for a few days. His wife, unfortunately, was not able to join him. It's a rare treat to get him all to myself for more than a couple of hours. I'm loving every minute of it, and sending some of this love to all y'all who can't spend time with your sailor this month.
Dec 19, 2022
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
PacNWmom - woohoo - enjoy! I know what you mean, it's kind of nice to have him all to yourself ;-D
Dec 19, 2022
Chipmunk
Lancertrackmom - Enjoy your special time with your son!!! Homecooked meals are the best!
PacNWmom - Oh how special!! I am so glad that he is able to be with you for a bit. This has been a long time coming, I know you are enjoying every minute of it.
Dec 20, 2022
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Dec 20, 2022
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Hi all - Happy Tuesday! I'm so excited ~ B&C made it to Sacramento yesterday - no flight issues! And they'll be home with us on Thursday ;-D I can hardly wait!!!
Dec 20, 2022
MomofJoseph
Big hugs to all of you whose sailors are away for Christmas. <3
Mine is home, and I'm treasuring this time, knowing that it might be my last for a while.
Big hugs to all of y'all!
Dec 20, 2022
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Dec 21, 2022
Chipmunk
B'sNukeMom & MomofJoseph - So happy for you!!
I also see you updated your profile name, B'sNukeMom!
Dec 21, 2022
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Dec 22, 2022
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Dec 23, 2022
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Hi all - Happy Friday! B&C made it here - flight was only delayed by 90 minutes which wasn't bad considering how many flights were completely cancelled. Of course we had to stop at In N Out on the way home too - it's a tradition. Now it's non-stop festivities for the next few days. But I'm happy ;-D
Dec 23, 2022
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Dec 23, 2022
Chipmunk
Mery Christmas Eve & Happy Holidays everyone!!
B'sNukeMom I am so happy that the kids made it!! I am glad you got your burgers, and you are enjoying your time together!
Dec 24, 2022
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Dec 28, 2022
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Good Morning and Happy Wednesday! I hope everyone had a wonderful Christmas. We had a great time with B&C and I finally get to share that I'm going to be a gramma! Baby Oliver coming in May!!!! We are so excited ;-D
Dec 28, 2022
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
B&C got stuck in all that Southwest fiasco with flights. Got up at 2:30am yesterday and found out that the 2nd leg of their flight (Midway to Detroit) was cancelled. They headed to Ontario airport and were able to talk to the ticket agent (nothing could be done online) and they told them that no new flights were being booked until 12/31. So they kept the flight to Midway and then scrambled to find a rental car which somehow they did! Then they drove from Midway to Detroit, got their car from the airport and then another hour home. So it was a long day but it could have been so much worse! The nice thing was the weather here in SoCal was beautiful while they were here - we were in the 80's on Christmas Day. We had a great time with family - got to finally announce to everyone (they wanted to tell all the family in person) that they were pregnant and we just had a lot of fun. It was a short trip but we sure packed a lot in to it. Now I can't wait to go to Michigan for the baby shower!
Dec 28, 2022
Pizanche
Congrats B'sNukeMOM!!! That's awesome news.
Dec 28, 2022
joe-mom
B'sNukeMom - Sorry they had such a crazy time returning home - it's been nuts for so many travelers - but glad they're home safe. And BIG congrats on the baby news! Go Pack! :)
Dec 28, 2022
Chipmunk
B'sNukeMom - So happy to hear about the grandbaby, and also sorry to hear about the traveling issues.
I was actually at the airport today for another family member and I overheard one of the workers mentioning something about a group of people that had to get to Tennessee. There were about 13 of them, so they just all pitched in and rented a van and drove. It wasn't until later, that I wondered if it was a group of stranded travelers. Evidently, they all got to know each other and it worked out fine.
Dec 28, 2022
NickSydmom
Could anyone help me out with this. My son is deployed and I sent him an email on Christmas and have not received a response. I have been emailing him every week or 2 since August and he always gets back with me that day or the next. Does the amount of emails the ship gets affect how long it takes for the sailor to get them? Or how long it takes for his response to be declassified?
Dec 28, 2022
Chipmunk
NickSydmom - I checked with my source - and they said:
#1) Sailor's personal emailbox could be full. If it is too full of just ship messages, then they will not be able to receive more incoming emails nor will they be able to reply. There are several factors that affect how much email space a sailor has.
They need to delete past emails to open up space in their inbox.
#2) They could be doing drills, running silent, have VIP onboard that get more bandwidth.
#3) Nukes just get busy and tend to be the ones that don't check their email often or get them cleared.
#4) Weather can affect communication.
In the end, my source said, "No News is Good News" & if they can get email from the ship that is all that really matters, even if they can't get email from their spouse or their family.
I hope this helps. You might try to send another email and just say, please check your mailbox, it may be too full, not receiving emails.
Dec 28, 2022
NickSydmom
Thank you so much Chipmunk, that helps. I will send another one.
Dec 28, 2022
Chipmunk
NickSydmom - I recall once when our ship was out for a shorter excursion, that they also had some coms issues and many of the wives were posting on the ombudsman group asking if anyone else had not heard from their husbands, when they were used to receiving something very regularly.
Dec 28, 2022
3B'smom
NickSydmom-My son has been on 2 deployments and I rarely received an email reply. Many times there is enough time to read emails and that’s about it. Or enough bandwidth to receive, but not send. I know that it is disappointing, but I would not say it is cause for worry. Think of it this way: any communication you receive during deployment is a special treat. Do not count on anything. I’m sure that your son is thinking of you and just as disappointed that he was not able to reach out on the holiday.
Dec 29, 2022
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Happy New Year's Eve Eve!
Dec 30, 2022
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Jan 2, 2023
Chipmunk
Happy New Year Everyone!!
Jan 2, 2023
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Jan 3, 2023
MomofJoseph
Happy New Year! My son went back to GC yesterday, and the "see you laters" are still difficult. Lord willing, he will graduate from Power School in a couple of months, but it was hard to see him go - even though it's for a short time. I don't know how y'all do it for long stints!!!
Jan 3, 2023
Chipmunk
MomofJoseph - BNMHs!! Phone calls and just thinking about my kids helps me. It also helps when I have an idea of what they are working on, or their schedule.
Jan 3, 2023
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Jan 4, 2023
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Jan 5, 2023
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Welcome to our newest member ~ Miakodo5876!
Please be sure to read the ***NEW MEMBERS*** info at the top of the page. Lots of good info there. Also take a look at the Pages (20) to the right under the member profiles - be sure to hit "view all". And the discussion forum above has some good info too - be sure to read Chipmunks "Nuke A School Daily Schedule". And of course, feel free to ask any questions you may have.
Jan 5, 2023
Miakoda.Nuke.MoM
Hi everyone!
Thank you for the warm welcome! I wish I had found this group weeks ago! My son graduates PIR in 2 weeks and I just found out so much info in a day that I could have used LOL
Jan 6, 2023
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Jan 6, 2023
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Jan 6, 2023
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Miakoda5876 - better late than never! Be sure to join the January PIR group - here's the link:
PIR JANUARY 2023
Jan 6, 2023
Chipmunk
Miakodo5876 - We are glad you found us now! I posted a welcome on the BC Mom group page there as well. Be sure to ask any questions about PIR in that group.
Jan 6, 2023
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Jan 9, 2023
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
Went to Pinnacle Peak for a nice steak this weekend. Been a long time since we've been "out". It was yummy! Hubby, youngest son and his fiance. It was a beautiful day in sunny SoCal!
Jan 9, 2023
3B'smom
Pinnacle Peak! I haven’t heard of that place in ages!
Jan 9, 2023
B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)
3B'smom - our waitress told us that the chef has worked at this locations for 42 years! As a kid we would go to the one in Garden Grove, CA. Now there are only 2 left - Colton (which we went to) and San Dimas, CA. She said there is one in AZ but it's no relation - just the same name. I forgot how good a steak could be lol!
Jan 9, 2023
3B'smom
The only one I ever went to was in Santee, CA. Do they still cut men’s ties off?
Jan 9, 2023