goldwingmom

Female

Bokchito, OK

United States Minor Outlying Islands

Profile Information:

A little about me:
I'm a "newbie" I need the support of mothers who have preceded me in this "letting go" process. Thank you for lettting me in your group!
I am here to support my
Son/Daughter
Stage of (Sailor’s) Navy career?
Waiting to leave for Boot Camp
When I heard “Navy,” I...
Needed to learn more about it

Comment Wall:

  • Navy for Moms Admin

    Welcome to NAVYForMoms!

    You will find this site very helpful and full of members who are eager to answer your questions. Browse around the site and check out the forums, groups, blogs, photos, videos, and even the other member profiles!

    If you haven’t already, please make sure that you review our
    Community Guidelines to learn the “Do’s and Don’ts” of the community. Also, check out this Internet OPSEC Safety Video and this Survival Guide for NavyForMoms Newbies that was created by one of our members.

    Enjoy your time here! I look forward (along with the community) to reading more about you! :)

    -Colleen

  • Terri

    Hi Gold Wing! Glad to see you reaching out for support. The first step of understanding is ASKING. I am excited to see a fellow Okie as well! My son John has been in for 13yrs. and is currently serving on the USS Eisenhower CVN69. I understand in a real way what it is like to send off a child to a situation that is beyond a parents control. You will experience the anxiety of separation and the JOY of reunion many times! I will certainly be happy to visit with you any time!
  • Storymom

    Thank you so much for your nice comments RE: the Blue Candle Group.  So excited for your son on entering Boot this fall. Treasure every moment with him now! My son has never regretted his decision to join the Navy...he is coming up on 5 years, and has seen the world and its been exciting. He advises during boot: don't bring attention to yourself, some guys will be annoying and bothersome (chuckle) and some of the best "jobs" to "volunteer" for:  mailman (gets ya out of the barracks), office assistant (gets ya out of the barracks) or dental assistant (gets ya out of the barracks) That's what my son was-kept health files corrected, and escorted booters to & from dentist appts especially wisdom-teeth pulling-everybody gets a 'job' in Boot.   Remind him it is just a brief moment in his Navy Life, and it makes 'em a cohesive team so things work well and jobs get done.  After Boot, he will eat fast (booters have to chow down quickly) and fold his clothes in the most amazing tiny packages, and he will be calm & confident deep down with an overwhelming sense of pride.  Congrats and Blessings to your young Recruit!

  • Eaglefan

    Thanks for reaching out to me! Feeling completely lost, which is not something I'm used to. We had our son's going away party last night and he leaves for BC in the morning. He swore in on April 30 th. it has all happened so quickly; my mind is still spinning. We are so proud and excited for him, but needless to say, there were many tears last night. Looking forward to staying in touch with you to share this experience!
  • Eaglefan

    We had our son's party at my parents' house. He was our first child and my parents' first grandchild, so he is just a little spoiled:). Many friends and family were their to see him off. I had made a DVD of his life that we all managed to watch with just a few tears. It was a special time. Thank you for your prayers. We know that our son is following God's will because we have prayed for his future his whole life. We know tomorrow will be a bittersweet day for us, but we wouldn't change it if we could. He is very ready to go. I'll let you know when he makes it to BC and any relevant information that will help you and your son with this process.
  • NavyWife2013

    Welcome to N4M's!! this site was the greatest thing I found when I was battling with my fiancé going though "A" school and also when I was going through the process of enlisting myself and going off to BC (bootcamp). you really are in the right place :) Congrats on your new sailor to be and I promise your son will be well cared for. my advice for him is to sleep as much as possible right before BC he will be up all day and all night and all day the following day, don't speak enless spoken to and step up immediately, the leaders get ranked up enless he is already E-3 I know they are sucky jobs but here are a few to get...yeoman, basically he is the secretary, if he isn't good with paperwork I don't recommend that and he has to have good recruit hand writing, which is all capital letters, head laundry P.O. does laundry and cleans laundry room, they will tell him how.  head P.O. (cleans the bathroom) those are just a few but those are the recommended ones I would do. good luck and the time flies im here if u need anything :)

     

    - sailormoon

  • swalker370

    Hi Jane.  I'm sorry I missed your comment on my wall.  You must be feeling the "pinch" now, as the day gets closer at hand.  I think I cried the entire month before my daughter left.  It has gone by quicker (most days) than I thought, and now I just have 8 days left!!!!  I'm so excited to see her next week.  I don't know you, but I'll be thinking of you as you send your son off on Tuesday.  May God bless you and keep you through this process.

  • Brandon's mom

    Thanks, goldwingmom, for making contact. Brandon is my oldest and this whole letting go thing is pretty rough. He'll be great, and I am proud of his decision. His dad was in the Navy also. We live in Bay City, south of Houston.

  • Tanya2tone

    Ship 003 div 022, it will be nice meeting you also, can't wait to see all these young men graduate! My son has not written yet, but he did say he wouldn't have much time to.. Are you wearing something with pink also? We haven't reserved our hotel yet, but probably today..