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Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit Navy.com - America's Navy and Navy.mil also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:

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Events

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

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Visite esta página para explorar en su idioma las oportunidades de educación y carreras para sus hijos en el Navy. Navy.com

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**N4M Admin Speaks Out About Feelings, & Abusing Deleting Powers.**

Hello Everyone:
I'm not going to lie. I felt horrified today when I read a blog (which I ended up deleting) from somebody made it a point to make members feel uncomfortable for how they may expresses things. This is my response:
It's utterly unacceptable!

Mother’s…. and non- mothers are dealing with this Navy experience differently. And they view life a little differently than you will...this isn’t going to change. In fact, this blog (that I deleted) not only alienated members but made them feel uncomfortable. *shakes head*

(And I will repeat it as many times as I need to: The rule is- everybody love everybody):

http://www.navyformoms.com/profiles/blog/show?id=1971797%3ABlogPost...

http://www.navyformoms.com/profiles/blog/show?id=1971797%3ABlogPost...

It says on our front page “Share genuine feelings, real answerers and proud moments”…
Some moms will keep their feelings, answers, and moments short and simple, some moms will not. They are expressing themselves and I think- we as a community should not judge them… but support them.
We come here because we need help.
We need know we are not alone.
We need advice.
There isn’t guidelines on how they have to approach the situation (other than to be civil while doing it).
We are mothers.
We are family.
We are here for a purpose.
And it’s not for threads like that. Please do NOT attack what other mothers share with us. If occurrences happen like this again, then threads/blogs/ and/or comments will be deleted… By me, your admin.

BUT- I was MORE horrified by the fact that when the community and I responded to this hateful blog- this person deleted the comments that didn’t reflect their own. When you start your own thread/blog… you are allowed to delete comments that people post. But it’s NOT to be abused. You can agree to disagree, but let’s be civil/adults/smart about it.
And when I, the admin, (and I don’t like to comment that much)- but when I do comment- don’t delete it. I am putting it there for a REASON. If it is deleted, it’s grounds for banning.

*sigh*
Sincerely, Your Admin, Catherine

Views: 44

Comment by Mary, Proud Mom of Nick on April 6, 2008 at 11:44pm
Thank you Catherine, I was caught between feeling appalled and p___ offed when I came across the site. Clearly everyone may handle their feelings different but I just want to say have some compassion. Glad you are on top of things.
Comment by Navy for Moms Admin on April 7, 2008 at 3:13pm
Thank you for sharing Deb! We are happy to have you here.
Comment by Navy for Moms Admin on April 7, 2008 at 6:50pm
Hey Vikki:
Thank you for your comment. : )
I felt the blog was offensive. And we BOTH know that if you want to debate something publicly, that you should be able to let BOTH sides talk it out and not take low blows in trying to prove a point. That was ignored by this person (even when I had PM’ed them).
My job is to create some type of peace amongst the boards and it was on a starting to get ugly. I am NOT here to get catty with people. I am here to help and lay some ground rules... And with that… some of these ground rules we have to find them along the way and lay them out… as they come to us.
Sincerely, Catherine
Comment by Mary, Proud Mom of Nick on April 7, 2008 at 7:01pm
well said Jeanine.
Comment by Navy for Moms Admin on April 9, 2008 at 12:44pm
Vikki:
Hmmm. We might have to agree to disagree on this one. I have reread the deleted post again before writing this- and I think she mentioned 3 groups (1 blanket term, a small group... and one mom where she didn't state the name... but I knew who she was talking about). So, not only was she attacking a person, but a small group, and X% of our community. Now I admit- I am on this site ALL the time maybe most of the members wouldn’t know who she was referring too… but I did. If the blogger would have been open to other opposing views and a good honest debate on her blog then she could have still been here today. But she wasn't. Moving forward, your thoughts are noted and always appreciated. Sincerely, Catherine
Comment by Navy for Moms Admin on April 9, 2008 at 1:06pm
:) Thank you Lisa.

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