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Choose your Username.  For the privacy and safety of you and/or your sailor, NO LAST NAMES ARE ALLOWED, even if your last name differs from that of your sailor (please make sure your URL address does not include your last name either).  Also, please do not include your email address in your user name. Go to "Settings" above to set your Username.  While there, complete your Profile so you can post and share photos and videos of your Sailor and share stories with other moms!

Make sure to read our Community Guidelines and this Navy Operations Security (OPSEC) checklist - loose lips sink ships!

Join groups!  Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself!  Start making friends that can last a lifetime.

Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit Navy.com - America's Navy and Navy.mil also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:

OPSEC GUIDELINES

Events

**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  

FOLLOW THIS LINK FOR UP TO DATE INFO:

RTC Graduation

**UPDATE 8/25/2022 - MASK MANDATE IS LIFTED.  Vaccinations still required.

**UPDATE 11/10/22 PIR - Vaccinations no longer required.

RESUMING LIVE PIR - 8/13/2021

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

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New Navy Mom and I don't know what to do.

Hello everyone. I am a new Navy mom and have no idea what to expect. This is a brand new adventure for me and my family as my son is the first family member to join any branch of the service. He is actually leaving today (or may be there already) for boot camp at Great Lakes, IL. Though he has been married for almost 6 months and not living under our roof, I miss him terribly. Any advice as to what to expect or how to adjust?

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Comment by TexasMomof2 on March 17, 2010 at 12:05pm
Ohhhh, get ready for a roller coaster ride! I see you joined "New Moms Stop Here." Also, search for Boot Camp Moms. You will eventually - on either of these groups - see other Moms/loved ones whose sons/daughters left when your's did and you guys can form a group. Also, on these two groups, you will see other information as to what to expect. What communication comes first, how often they can write, etc. Hang in there and keep reading and posting. This greatly helps!
Comment by jgsmom on March 17, 2010 at 12:34pm
Stay focused on the groups. Wait regularly to your son. Keep him encouraged, reminding him how proud you are. Know that you are not alone. Know that it will get better for him as the weeks go by. Know that he will grow in ways you cannot imagine. Know that we are all proud for you, and have shared your experiences and emotions. Tell him 'THANK YOU' for his service; I sincerely express this to him.
Comment by BunkerQB on March 17, 2010 at 3:57pm
Please go to MY PAGE on the above menu bar. A number of postings have been left for you on the comment wall. You will find links to groups to join. Get in the habit of checking you pages on a regular (daily) basis. Go luck. Welcome to N4M.
Comment by bella [mrs. ae2] on March 17, 2010 at 7:19pm
Your son will probably be graduating at the same time as my boyfriend. he left on the 15th so that is pretty close. The advice I have been getting is to keep busy and write him letters every day even though you don't have his address yet. And keep in touch with his wife because she is going to be able to get infromation much more easily then you since he is married. She should get his address within a week and she will get a phone call from him today saying that he is there and safe. When you send him letters tell him how proud you are and funny memories to keep him happy. I have been told by friends who have already gone through boot camp that letters are the best part of the day. ALSO you can send small pictures but NO care packages or anything. If it cannot fit in an envelope and shouldnt be seen or shared with others then do not send it. When he graduates and goes to A-school you can visit or send packages as much as you want.
ALSO: for your sake...we here at N4M are all going though or have been through what your going through. i have found so much support already from everyone on here. it really helps to talk to people on here. I am just a navy girlfriend, and have no idea what it is like to be a mom...but I do know what it is like to have a loved one so far away and not know what is going on...I am always here if you need to talk.Hope this helps. And good luck to you.

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