Venting

[eehhhlieshhhaa]

So these past few days I'm not sure If I'm getting some kind of sign..But lately my boyfriend who's in the navy in japan right now, our relationship feels as if idk getting sour. Our emails seem as if we are attacking each other with emotions but both saying that we aren't. I don't know what to do...I love him, I feel that he loves me. I really need some input, I know every relationship is different i just feel like i need to hear out from people that are probably going through the same stuff my boyfriend and i are 21 I Know we are young but before he joined we did talk a little bit about our future together and in the beginning i did not want to rush through things but now that hes gone im the one talking about future plans like marriage and starting a family and so now hes the one saying we shouldnt rush i feel that we shouldnt rush but its just ideas and plans im coming up with. I just want to know what should I do I do not want us both hurt at the end but my gut feeling seems as if it is soon and i am not going to lie it is scarying me

[mom 56]

hi there what is his rank and rate and how long will he be there for .i think this is just all new to you both will take a while to calm down to find out what works for both of you. long distance is hard never mind differentt countries. i would make a plan of things you want to do in the future school work kids marriage travel etc.then stop talk to each other and take one day at a timehold on to what you have and really think about what would make you happy.good luck to you both hope you can go and see him really soon

[eehhhlieshhhaa]

mom 56 - he started as a e1 and I think he moved up just by being there for a few months, don't know exactly I think he told me e3 but not sure on that. but he's listed for four years.

Thanks to everyone else's feedback I'll take it in consideration and keep note to self. I really have a better understanding more just reading these, really appreciate it especially. As a girlfriend I want to have him feel that I do understand him, that is why i'm here supporting him every step of the way. Yeah I'm aware that beginning is pretty tough, just gotta stick it through. We totally are a match together - too much alike especially with morals and values. I love that boy! I am definitely going to pray more and more

[BunkerQB]

Sometimes, you have to let go to hold on.

[eehhhlieshhhaa]

i know I might be over reacting but usually we email each other everyday...it's been like a full day and I haven't gotten anything yet. I checked his facebook and he posted something on there but didn't have time to email me. am I going crazy or what :(