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Make sure to read our Community Guidelines and this Navy Operations Security (OPSEC) checklist - loose lips sink ships!

Join groups!  Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself!  Start making friends that can last a lifetime.

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Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. There are now tickets issued, and there are no longer parking passes for PIR.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

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  • Female
  • Peoria, AZ
  • United States

Spyder013's Friends

  • melissaw
  • Maureen ( Ship 11 Div 172)
  • NavyMom2008
  • snoogeroo
  • Sarah's mom. Ship 07 DIV 077
  • joirenee
  • mamasan 4/809
  • Silverado
  • Chels's mom
  • Sparkle_Mary
  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom
  • Pat (MP)
  • Anna

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spyder013 commented on Anna's group 'Moms of Daughters 2'
Oct 12
spyder013 commented on Anna's group 'Moms of Daughters 2'
"Happy Birthday Jaydee! What a great surprise for you. And awesome news about your son Anna! Hope all is well with everyone!"
Oct 11
spyder013 commented on Anna's group 'Moms of Daughters 2'
"Youve got This! Way to go Anna!"
Oct 2
spyder013 commented on Anna's group 'Moms of Daughters 2'
"Prayers Anna, you've got this!"
Sep 25
spyder013 commented on Anna's group 'Moms of Daughters 2'
"Congratulations on her re-enlisting. Lots more adventures coming your way.:)"
Aug 31
spyder013 commented on Anna's group 'Moms of Daughters 2'
"The remote systems are awesome! I loved mine during summer and winter:). Car stays locked until you unlock it. Getting ready to have one installed at Christmas:)."
Aug 29
spyder013 commented on Anna's group 'Moms of Daughters 2'
"Oleander, yes, this is gorgeous weather. 73 right now with a low of 57. Dew on the grass this morning, and smoke from fires appear to be clearing out. As you say, everything is relative:)!"
Aug 23
spyder013 commented on Anna's group 'Moms of Daughters 2'
"Awesome news Anna! Definitely keep us informed. I am currently in Seattle area with my daughter, but it was 88 here yesterday and felt hotter than but compared to Phoenix, freezing. Today low 60s, yay! And welcome to all new mom's.…"
Aug 23
spyder013 commented on Anna's group 'Moms of Daughters 2'
"Awesome Anna! Safe travels to you both. Looking forward to hearing about your adventures!"
Jul 19
spyder013 commented on Anna's group 'Moms of Daughters 2'
"Jaydee is 100% correct! No worries, she will be fine and definitely over whatever upsets her when she's talking to you. WE worry and worry, nut they just had to vent and move on. They are clueless about how it affects us;(. This is the PERFECT…"
Jun 29
spyder013 commented on Anna's group 'Moms of Daughters 2'
"Yep, definitely;)"
Jun 20
spyder013 commented on Anna's group 'Moms of Daughters 2'
"Definitely a roller coaster! Just make sure to always have a phone on you, because you never know when they will call. Even more important when they are deployed. They can occasionally Skype or whatever:)."
Jun 20
spyder013 commented on Anna's group 'Moms of Daughters 2'
"Oleander, definitely beginning to melt, as I'm sure you are:). Thinking of moving to washinton where my daughter least for 6 months:). Welcome to all the new mom's, this is a great group! Anna, how are you doing with recovery? Stay…"
Jun 19
spyder013 commented on Anna's group 'Moms of Daughters 2'
"Congratulations Oleander! And wonderful surprise JayDee ! Happy after mothers day to all."
May 14
spyder013 commented on Anna's group 'Moms of Daughters 2'
"Welcome to the roller coaster of Navy life! Nothing is ever certain, seems to change minute by minute! God bless all of our kids!!!"
Apr 25
spyder013 commented on Anna's group 'Moms of Daughters 2'
"Happy Birthday to her...shes darling!"
Mar 27

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At 7:29pm on August 31, 2016, lemonelephant said…

Click on OPSEC and PERSEC (Making Changes to Your Profile) and the Page will open in a new window. Read the Page and follow the directions at the bottom to make change 3 (see the words in bold) so that this page is no longer visible to EVERYONE (Anyone) with access to the web. Don’t forget to click the “Save” button at the bottom.

There may be other changes you need to make as well, so read and consider each of the changes.

Another change that I recommend that is mentioned in change 1 is to change the ZIP Code to one that is not easily associated with you or your Sailor.

At 10:05am on March 28, 2014, Maureen ( Ship 11 Div 172) said…

Hi Spyder,

I just sent you an e-mail.

Lemoneleohant told me to change the my privacy settings and maybe I went a little overboard. One of the choices was having approval on comments left on my page. I should probably change that.


At 3:55pm on March 27, 2014, Maureen ( Ship 11 Div 172) said…

Hi Spyder,

How do I find the AZ group? Most people around look at me blankly when I say my daughter joined the Navy, as this is Air Force territory! However, I grew up in San Diego which is a huge Navy town and back then they still had NTC.

At 1:17pm on April 19, 2012, Anna said…


I see you recently joined the Moms of Daughters 2 group and I want to welcome you!!! We are a friendly caring group of moms and are always willing to listen, share and help each other whenever or wherever we can. Please feel free to join our chats, we love talking about everything from work, family, weather - whatever. Plus the joyful and anxiety filled journey of being a Navy Mom!!! I see you also belong to the WA/OR group.  I belong to that group because my daughter is out there.  There is another mom, Sarah's Mom, on that group that has a  daughter on the USS Shoup.  Maybe your daughters know each other!!  Looking forward to learning about you and your sailor!!!  Again, Welcome Aboard!!

At 10:46pm on December 14, 2011, Navy for Moms Admin said…

Welcome to Navy For Moms!

You will find this site very helpful and full of members who are eager to answer your questions.  Browse around the site and check out the forums, groups, blogs, photos, videos, and even the other member profiles!  

If you haven’t already, please make sure that you review our Community Guidelines to learn the “Do’s and Don’ts” of the community. Also, check out this Internet OPSEC Safety Video.

Enjoy your time here! I look forward (along with the community) to reading more about you! :) 



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