This site is for mothers of kids in the U.S. Navy and for Moms who have questions about Navy life for their kids.



Choose your Username.  For the privacy and safety of you and/or your sailor, NO LAST NAMES ARE ALLOWED, even if your last name differs from that of your sailor (please make sure your URL address does not include your last name either).  Also, please do not include your email address in your user name. Go to "Settings" above to set your Username.  While there, complete your Profile so you can post and share photos and videos of your Sailor and share stories with other moms!

Make sure to read our Community Guidelines and this Navy Operations Security (OPSEC) checklist - loose lips sink ships!

Join groups!  Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself!  Start making friends that can last a lifetime.

Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit - America's Navy and also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:



**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  Still limited to 2 guests maximum.

Specific information on this policy change will be provided in the coming days and weeks.

We sincerely apologize for any inconvenience and appreciate your support.


RTC Graduation

**UPDATE 7/16/2021**




**UPDATE - 2020**

Due to COVID there is no public PIR. The graduations are on Thursday, and the video of the graduation is posted on RTC's FaceBook on Friday at approx 3pm. Please keep in mind that a division may need to complete additional quarantine during training which will delay their graduation.

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

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Visite esta página para explorar en su idioma las oportunidades de educación y carreras para sus hijos en el Navy.



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"My daughter leaves Feb 5 for MEPS and flies out Feb 6 for BC  "

SoCal Ohana replied Jan 23, 2013 to 5 Stages of Boot Camp for Parents & Loved ones

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Reply by Heathysmom3

"Hi klmclean - is your daughter a new Sailor? My daughter is going to BC Feb 6 and A…"

SoCal Ohana replied Jan 19, 2013 to communication

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"Awesome - thanks for that!  "

SoCal Ohana replied Jan 9, 2013 to TIPS for Connecting up with N4M's with Smartphones, Tablets, and Other Devices

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"Thank you Thank you Thank you!!!! "

SoCal Ohana replied Dec 28, 2012 to Your recruit's final MEPS experience - an overview of their last hours as civilians

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"Oh good!! Umm GL? "

SoCal Ohana replied Dec 12, 2012 to Things to Do in the Last Month before Your Future Sailor Leaves for RTC

230 Aug 27, 2019
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"My SR went to MEPS for what I thought was just a physical, then she was supposed to…"

SoCal Ohana replied Dec 11, 2012 to Things to Do in the Last Month before Your Future Sailor Leaves for RTC

230 Aug 27, 2019
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"Thank you!! "

SoCal Ohana replied Nov 13, 2012 to Survival Guide for Navy For Moms Newbies

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"On the things to bring.....some lists say bring bras and panties, some say dont. Any…"

SoCal Ohana replied Nov 12, 2012 to Survival Guide for Navy For Moms Newbies

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"I am eternally grateful for this post - thank you so much! It helps TREMENDOUSLY!!!!…"

SoCal Ohana replied Nov 9, 2012 to Survival Guide for Navy For Moms Newbies

183 Feb 11
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"This is awesome- thank you so much. My daughter leaves for bootcamp Feb 6, 2013. Thi…"

SoCal Ohana replied Nov 8, 2012 to Things to Do in the Last Month before Your Future Sailor Leaves for RTC

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