I am still waiting on mine! My son left 12/14 and I have not heard his voice since. I did receive the "Box", however, still waiting on hearing his voice. I've read that some have received their form letter, who left the same time... But, I know the form letter gets sent to whomever, the recruit has addressed the letter to. I am divorced as well, and information is sent to whom the recruit(sailor) designates. I hope he will send to you first, as well! I'm with you all the way!
My son is ship 3 Div 080
Maybe you could give me some insight... being you were 2 weeks ahead of me