My husband just graduated BESS in Groton, CT Oct. 8th and still hasn't gotten orders. We need accompanied orders to move out there...he wants us to go ahead w/o orders but we have a 5 month old and I don't honestly think we can afford it, plus it seems like things would go a lot smoother if we waited on our orders. Although, we haven't seen each other for about 5 months now, he left for basic training when our son was 2 weeks old. Of course I want to go ASAP, but I won't risk getting there and being broke with a new baby...any advice? Does anyone know how long it usually takes to get orders after BESS? How does the whole navy moving thing work?