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**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  Still limited to 2 guests maximum.

Specific information on this policy change will be provided in the coming days and weeks.

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**UPDATE 7/16/2021**




**UPDATE - 2020**

Due to COVID there is no public PIR. The graduations are on Thursday, and the video of the graduation is posted on RTC's FaceBook on Friday at approx 3pm. Please keep in mind that a division may need to complete additional quarantine during training which will delay their graduation.

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My son is supposed to be graduating this Friday from boot camp and I haven’t heard from him in almost two weeks… I got to see a few pics that were posted on Facebook of him and his eyes… well they just looked so tired. I’m so nervous for him. I hope he is ok! He looks so different. I wish I could be at his graduation. I miss my boy and all I want to do is hug him and smell him again. I can’t wait to be able to send him packages. I’m so lost not being able to speak to him whenever I want or need to. Does anyone else’s child graduate this week? Has anyone got to speak to them?

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First off all congrats to your son for a long road and much bravery!!! I send this to you as well as the family serve in their journey and it truly is a hard thing to go through as a young man and family together. It has been a roller coaster ride for sure! So glad you were able to find those "eyes" among all the other recruits. I can tell you  my son sounds sooo tired and  monotone every time we speak and I try so hard to sound upbeat and happy, but my mom heart hurts so much. I feel your pain and all we can do is know "No news is good news" I think the last 2 weeks are very busy for them and having phone time is not a priority I guess. Us moms think it is, but in the RDC's world not so much. Their mission is to get the recruits ready to graduate. They are tired and all you can do is know in 2 short days probably by the weekend you will most likely get to hear his voice whenever you want (more flexible than bootcamp). Hang in there your journey of bootcamp as a family is about to end!!!


Hi Thora - be sure to join the May PIR group - here's the link:

PIR MAY 2021

And remember, they will have a video of the PIR posted tomorrow.

Hang in there!


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