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Join groups!  Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself!  Start making friends that can last a lifetime.

Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit Navy.com - America's Navy and Navy.mil also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:

OPSEC GUIDELINES

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**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

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RTC Graduation

RESUMING LIVE PIR - 8/13/2021

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

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Advice for new spouses

Hello, everyone my name is Amanda. Thank you for joining this group! I have recently went through the whole process of becoming a PROUD NAVY WIFE.  I am starting this group to help all the new spouses on your journey.  Ask me anything!!!!

Members: 148
Latest Activity: Mar 2, 2019

This is especially for wives, husbands, boyfriends, girlfriends, or fiances.

Everyone has a different experience throughout this whole process.  My husband started signing up in July of 2010 and did not leave for bootcamp until March 29th 2011, so we have pretty much been through a lot this last year and I would love to help everyone that I can understand things that I did not when we first started. He is now in the middle of A-school and I guess so are we.  It has not always been fun, but it is worth it in the end. I say this is especially for spouses becuase pay, and things like that are different for us, but mom, dads and anyone else is more than welcome to join.  I look forward to hearing from everyone, and hope that I can help you along the way.  This page is for newly married about to get married, or just being a new Navy spouse in general.  My husband and I have been together 6 years and married over 2 years now.  We have a 3 year old son.  Watching the children go through this is very difficult because they do not fully understand what is going on.  I am here to help!!!!  I have lots of ideas and experiences to share!!!!

Discussion Forum

Chicago PIR Weekend

Started by Meridith_21 Mar 10, 2014. 0 Replies

Hi Ladies, So my husband leaves for BC next week and I wanted to start getting a plan together for his PIR weekend in May. My in-laws and I plan on flying out Thursday night and staying through…Continue

BAH

Started by Meridith_21 Feb 12, 2014. 0 Replies

So, while my husband is in boot camp and A School will I be recieving half or all of BAH? We have been told both and just want to get an idea for budget purposes. I also read that after 30 days I…Continue

Children

Started by skell456 (AO wife). Last reply by Michelle Apr 24, 2013. 9 Replies

So as you probably already read my husband and I have a 3 year old son named Logan.  He is just a great kid, but this has been so hard on him.  We have moved from where he knows everyone to hear…Continue

moving to japan- help????

Started by ProudNavyWifeFresca. Last reply by abuon18 Nov 13, 2012. 1 Reply

just got married and husband went to japan, we are waiting a year untill i move there, what do i need to do, we didnt get married while he was in a school but got married while he was on leave b4…Continue

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Comment by Kac46047 on July 26, 2011 at 8:01pm

hahaha skell im mid freak out too. Though you have everything all over the U.S, thats stressfull i dunno how i'd deal with that! Plus we are both first time movers and dunno whats up, i feel like im bothing every person that i call. I just got off the phone with housing for norfolk and looks like we have a 1-3 month wait so that gives us a lil time to compose ourselves lol.

From what ive seen around the dite hard copies come out about a month before grad. Thats around when we got ours.

Comment by skell456 (AO wife) on July 26, 2011 at 7:41pm
Oh LOL It is really good information tho so I wanted to thank you anyway.  I wish we would get the hard copy for whatever reason they are waiting to hand them out here.  It's driving me crazy.  We have so little time I feel like its all moving so fast I just don't know what to do next.  We are in Florida, but all of our things are still in Michigan.  So, my son and I have to travel back to Michigan to release our things to the truck then make our way to Cali if that's where it's going to be meanwhile making sure we have a place......... I'm freakin out LOL  I hope everyone else has a smoother transition!!!!
Comment by Kac46047 on July 26, 2011 at 5:56pm
skell, illysha asked what verba orders were lol thats why i wrote that
Comment by skell456 (AO wife) on July 26, 2011 at 5:15pm

Welcome pink and illysha it's nice to have you here!!!!  Pink I know what you are going through.  We also moved in with our parents.  That was a hard pill to swallow, but it was the best thing we could have done at the time.  Saved a lot of money that is for sure.  We have a 3 year old that was having a hard time at first and even through out boot camp when he actually thought about it, but things have gotten easier over time.  You guys need to join this FB page it is a lifesaver.....

http://www.facebook.com/home.php#!/NavyRecruitTrainingCommand

 

It is the inside of Bootcamp.  They take random pics and I found my hubby in two of them.  It was awesome this is where they announce battlestations, captains cup, and winners!!!!!  Don't miss out on the info its amazing!!!!

 

Kac I understand all that.  Since he got his orders late due to some problems we ran into with clearence which is all fine now ours probably won't change they came from an email they recieved from Tennesse just haven't got the hard copy yet. But he graduates from here Aug. 8th so we need to get things movin LOL!!!   Thanks for the information tho it will def. help the others on here!!!!!!

Comment by Kac46047 on July 26, 2011 at 4:09pm
Verbal orders are orders that they recieve before getting formal ones. Like "You may go to Norfolk" Its not written in stone and can change. Hardcopy written orders are the ones that are written, and handed to your sailor say exactly where and when he is to report
Comment by illysha10(dylan'swife) on July 26, 2011 at 3:51pm
Hello! Thanks for inviting me to this group! My name is Illysha and my husband left for bootcamp on July 13. It's been rough but I'm just taking it day by day. We have a 5 month old son together and I'm sure he's noticed that Daddy's not around. I just got my form letter yesterday and I'm waiting for a real letter or at least a phone call. Just waiting around for the mail is a little upsetting. Reading and commenting on some of the discussions on N4M has really lifted my spirits. I love this website! Before I found it I felt so alone and confused. Thanks for all the support and answering all of my questions ladies! It's helped a lot more than you know. I can't wait for us to move and start our new lives! Just a quick question. What are verbal orders?
Comment by Lvemyabej on July 25, 2011 at 6:19pm
Wow only 3 weeks left I have about 8 cause he is barely going to class up
Comment by skell456 (AO wife) on July 22, 2011 at 1:16am
Yeah I always say that too but he is done in less than 3 weeks so I kinda need to do something ya know and just pray they don't change LOL
Comment by Kac46047 on July 21, 2011 at 6:07pm
Next step- DONT PLAN! lol our verbal orders changed about 3 times before we got those hard copies
Comment by skell456 (AO wife) on July 21, 2011 at 5:46pm
OMG!!!!  Got our verbal orders today and I am freaking out!!!!!!  I feel so confused and just don't know what the next step is.....Looks like for now if it does not change we are going to California.  Any advice or next steps would be helpful.  Thanks Ladies!!!!!
 

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