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Choose your Username.  For the privacy and safety of you and/or your sailor, NO LAST NAMES ARE ALLOWED, even if your last name differs from that of your sailor (please make sure your URL address does not include your last name either).  Also, please do not include your email address in your user name. Go to "Settings" above to set your Username.  While there, complete your Profile so you can post and share photos and videos of your Sailor and share stories with other moms!

Make sure to read our Community Guidelines and this Navy Operations Security (OPSEC) checklist - loose lips sink ships!

Join groups!  Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself!  Start making friends that can last a lifetime.

Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit Navy.com - America's Navy and Navy.mil also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:

OPSEC GUIDELINES

Events

**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  

FOLLOW THIS LINK FOR UP TO DATE INFO:

RTC Graduation

**UPDATE 8/25/2022 - MASK MANDATE IS LIFTED.  Vaccinations still required.

**UPDATE 11/10/22 PIR - Vaccinations no longer required.

RESUMING LIVE PIR - 8/13/2021

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

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Navy.com Para Familias

Visite esta página para explorar en su idioma las oportunidades de educación y carreras para sus hijos en el Navy. Navy.com

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EMPTYNESTERS

A place to come to for Navy Moms & Family Members who find themselves with an emptynest. A place to share our thoughts..comfort each other and give advice.

Members: 583
Latest Activity: yesterday

EMPTYNESTERS

Please, if you no longer want to be a part of N4M's consider NOT deleting your profile as everything you have ever posted will disappear when you delete it .  You can leave a group but don't permanently delete your profile!

A place to come to for Navy Moms & Family Members who find themselves with an emptynest. A place to share our thoughts..comfort each other and give advice.

RED CROSS CONTACT INFO:

In the event of an emergency within the sailor’s family, where you feel the sailor must be notified and considered for Emergency Leave, you must notify the American Red Cross through the national headquarters in Washington, DC (1-877-272-7337) or via their website www.redcross.org.

Discussion Forum

Our home officially became an empty nest on March 29th

Started by BlueMom11. Last reply by Tammy⚓️Girl Jul 27, 2021. 14 Replies

Depression of husband

Started by vivian (Ship 03, Div 021). Last reply by B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet) Oct 9, 2019. 14 Replies

Bursting with pride BUT.........

Started by LadyPendragon. Last reply by anasazigypsy Apr 17, 2019. 24 Replies

EMERGENCY MESSAGES VIA RED CROSS

Started by B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet) Jan 12, 2015. 0 Replies

Sending 2 off to Basic in less than 3 weeks between them

Started by k10mom (Ship 14, Division 146). Last reply by CO-TwinSalorsMom Nov 12, 2014. 8 Replies

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Comment by mn linda (nuke MM ELT Groton CT) on February 13, 2011 at 12:00am
the puppies are from the Buffalo, MN humane society - they go back to the shelter on Feb. 24 if they are big enough to spay/neuter.
Comment by Kimberly on February 12, 2011 at 11:50pm
@proudnavymom-- I think it is a good idea so many of us are or will be alone-- we could make a game military life or navy life like farmville donate some of the proceeds and then buy our town on the rest
Comment by Kimberly on February 12, 2011 at 11:45pm
@'mn linda OMG what cute little babies -- where are you all my daughter may want one @Daysleeper what is your culture? I think it would be so interesting to get back involved in cultural issues
Comment by mn linda (nuke MM ELT Groton CT) on February 12, 2011 at 4:36pm

this is how I keep myself busy -- I foster puppies and kittens from the humane society and I volunteer every other week at the shelter.  here are the newest fosters that I have -- just got them yesterday - three 7 weeks old rat terrier mix

 

Comment by Kimberly on February 12, 2011 at 4:01pm
Ok I have an idea for all navy moms who are alone now let's all move into a town. We will take care of each other in our old ages support each other only minimal alone time during the day(just like when the kids were home). Big family gTherins when anyones kids cane home and we would love each otter no matter whatjustlike when the kids were home-- I know like a real life farmville
Comment by Renick ET on February 11, 2011 at 11:07pm
It is too quiet in this house. I am watching Bourne Identify and thinking of seeing it years ago with my sons as a family. Now it's me and the dog watching it, it's still a good movie, but not quite the same!
Comment by Kimberly on February 11, 2011 at 5:17pm
@Blanche I remember when my daughter was born 32 years ago at birth it was finally right I was a mom college and every thing else was like good but not into my soul. I needed to be needed. When my son left I have an empty spot not in my soul but.... We need to be needed then we somehow have to learn to let them go so they csn be fulfilled and needed-- I guess there in lies the circle of life
Comment by Kimberly on February 11, 2011 at 5:12pm
@salsbor. My son was told in bc that he was going to be put back 2 weeks for graduation. This is how he tells the story-- I was waiting for a dental a ppt and was told to wait in my room. The next thing I know I woke up with the master Sargent leaning over me -- he said his next thought was oh sh-t. He said the master Sargent yelled and yelled at him then told him he was not going to grsduate until 2 weeks later if at all. Well we had bought our plane tickets and our sailor knew this. He said is there any other way because my parents will kill me (we had spent a good deal of money). Master sergeant said 2hours of intensive training . My sailor said strange thing I don't even want a nap anymore. Lol
Comment by Blanche on February 11, 2011 at 4:32pm
I finally got a video postcard from my sailor.  She's doing well I think but it almost looked like she was on the verge. of tears.  I got a phone call that lasted only about 2 minutes but it was so good to hear her voice.  She's out of communication while on deployment for extended periods of time.  I've been trying to stay busy by remodeling the house and we foster for lab rescue.  My most recent puppy just got adopted and I had to sit and have a good cry.  I think part of it is that as she's growing up, she doesn't need me as much.  I'm a mom.  I need someone to need me.  Fostering helps.  Maybe  others out there like me should consider their options in their community.  I also help older neighbors.  Even with all this activity and having our own business, I'm still having trouble sleeping.  I sometimes wake up with an anxious feeling and my first thought is Is she Ok?  Does time help this? 
Comment by mn linda (nuke MM ELT Groton CT) on February 11, 2011 at 12:32pm

salosbor, how long has your son been at bootcamp?  It is very typical that the first few weeks, the divisions have trouble working together and wouldn't be surprised that they are all threatened with you might not graduate on time if you don't shape up. 

I will pray for your son and his division along with the family that lost their son and the sailors that were with him - what a terrible accident.

 
 
 

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