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Choose your Username.  For the privacy and safety of you and/or your sailor, NO LAST NAMES ARE ALLOWED, even if your last name differs from that of your sailor (please make sure your URL address does not include your last name either).  Also, please do not include your email address in your user name. Go to "Settings" above to set your Username.  While there, complete your Profile so you can post and share photos and videos of your Sailor and share stories with other moms!

Make sure to read our Community Guidelines and this Navy Operations Security (OPSEC) checklist - loose lips sink ships!

Join groups!  Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself!  Start making friends that can last a lifetime.

Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit Navy.com - America's Navy and Navy.mil also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:

OPSEC GUIDELINES

Events

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

FOLLOW THIS LINK FOR UP TO DATE INFO:

RTC Graduation

RESUMING LIVE PIR - 8/13/2021

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

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EMPTYNESTERS

A place to come to for Navy Moms & Family Members who find themselves with an emptynest. A place to share our thoughts..comfort each other and give advice.

Members: 583
Latest Activity: 17 hours ago

EMPTYNESTERS

Please, if you no longer want to be a part of N4M's consider NOT deleting your profile as everything you have ever posted will disappear when you delete it .  You can leave a group but don't permanently delete your profile!

A place to come to for Navy Moms & Family Members who find themselves with an emptynest. A place to share our thoughts..comfort each other and give advice.

RED CROSS CONTACT INFO:

In the event of an emergency within the sailor’s family, where you feel the sailor must be notified and considered for Emergency Leave, you must notify the American Red Cross through the national headquarters in Washington, DC (1-877-272-7337) or via their website www.redcross.org.

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Comment by Kimberly on February 21, 2011 at 9:36pm
My son is in sub school in Groton. He loves it. When we saw our son at PIR he looked like a different person--then after 2 mos at sub school he had grown up more! It is great to see but bitter-sweet
Comment by carols_kitchen on February 21, 2011 at 7:52pm

Welcome to Teresa43insc.

Yes, you will cry in the grocery store when you put back his special snack.  When you hear a patriotric song.  When you fix dinner and there's an empty seat.

But, it only prepares you for the BEST cry---when you get to see that recruit who has become a SAILOR!

We're here for you.

 

Comment by Teresa43insc on February 21, 2011 at 4:16pm
My son left on Valentine's Day the hardest thing I have ever had to do was let him go...I have cried so many tears, I received the box on Friday 2/18/2011 and more tears, I know there are more to come and its anytime day or night and there is no control of when it happens, He is my only child and it feels like my heart is being ripped out. I am so waiting to get his form letter and a letter from him....
Comment by mn linda (nuke MM ELT Groton CT) on February 20, 2011 at 6:59pm
I can't remember what type of sub he wants to request, but it's based in San Diego or Hawaii.  Which would be a wonderful vacation for us to go visit him.  Particularly today -- MInneapolis is in the middle of a winter storm -- expecting 12-20" by tomorrow afternoon.
Comment by carols_kitchen on February 20, 2011 at 6:47pm
Linda, a lot of the guys like subs, because they are part of a smaller group--like about 100 +/- compared to a carrier of up to 5,000. 
Comment by mn linda (nuke MM ELT Groton CT) on February 20, 2011 at 6:40pm
my son is in MM Power School and wants to go sub.  How does your son like being on a sub?
Comment by carols_kitchen on February 20, 2011 at 12:49pm
Welcome Sally
Comment by carols_kitchen on February 20, 2011 at 12:46pm

Thanks to a church youth conference, next weekend our house will sound like the "old normal."  Showers running in the basement, kids voices coming up through the radiator vents, feeding a crew of young men every morning.  To top it off, the person who gave us our group of 4 guys had no idea that when she told me where they are coming from, that it is a small town near where our sailor was born! 

Do you suppose I will sleep much with the chatter going on here Fri-Sun?  Or feel down when they leave?

Comment by nikosmom ( CVN 70, Seaman ) on February 20, 2011 at 11:48am

ProudNavyMom, you are not alone, my son is beginning week 6, I can tell you the first 4 weeks were brutal for me!!! I have never experienced anything like this.!!! getting divorced was nothing compared to the feelings I have had. I can not even imagine what it must be like for the Mother's of our sons and daughters over seas!!!

I just ask GOD to help me to be strong for my SR. God has answered my prayers", I AM STRONG"  and so are YOU!!!!!!

Comment by Tina - socalnavymom on February 19, 2011 at 9:21pm
Lee Ann / Carol - Thanks for the support.  I received the form letter in todays mail.  So excited that I cried again, I feel like I've cried a bizillion tears since he's left.  But anyways, I can't wait to get his letters out to him.  I really appreciate both of your input, this really helps. I now know there are people out there who have felt the same and who can understand how I am feeling and who understand the random moments that I just breakdown & cry.  Thanks again.  
 
 
 

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