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Choose your Username.  For the privacy and safety of you and/or your sailor, NO LAST NAMES ARE ALLOWED, even if your last name differs from that of your sailor (please make sure your URL address does not include your last name either).  Also, please do not include your email address in your user name. Go to "Settings" above to set your Username.  While there, complete your Profile so you can post and share photos and videos of your Sailor and share stories with other moms!

Make sure to read our Community Guidelines and this Navy Operations Security (OPSEC) checklist - loose lips sink ships!

Join groups!  Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself!  Start making friends that can last a lifetime.

Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit Navy.com - America's Navy and Navy.mil also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:

OPSEC GUIDELINES

Events

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

FOLLOW THIS LINK FOR UP TO DATE INFO:

RTC Graduation

RESUMING LIVE PIR - 8/13/2021

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

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Visite esta página para explorar en su idioma las oportunidades de educación y carreras para sus hijos en el Navy. Navy.com

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EMPTYNESTERS

A place to come to for Navy Moms & Family Members who find themselves with an emptynest. A place to share our thoughts..comfort each other and give advice.

Members: 582
Latest Activity: on Tuesday

EMPTYNESTERS

Please, if you no longer want to be a part of N4M's consider NOT deleting your profile as everything you have ever posted will disappear when you delete it .  You can leave a group but don't permanently delete your profile!

A place to come to for Navy Moms & Family Members who find themselves with an emptynest. A place to share our thoughts..comfort each other and give advice.

RED CROSS CONTACT INFO:

In the event of an emergency within the sailor’s family, where you feel the sailor must be notified and considered for Emergency Leave, you must notify the American Red Cross through the national headquarters in Washington, DC (1-877-272-7337) or via their website www.redcross.org.

Discussion Forum

Our home officially became an empty nest on March 29th

Started by BlueMom11. Last reply by Tammy⚓️Girl Jul 27, 2021. 14 Replies

Depression of husband

Started by vivian (Ship 03, Div 021). Last reply by B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet) Oct 9, 2019. 14 Replies

Bursting with pride BUT.........

Started by LadyPendragon. Last reply by anasazigypsy Apr 17, 2019. 24 Replies

EMERGENCY MESSAGES VIA RED CROSS

Started by B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet) Jan 12, 2015. 0 Replies

Sending 2 off to Basic in less than 3 weeks between them

Started by k10mom (Ship 14, Division 146). Last reply by CO-TwinSalorsMom Nov 12, 2014. 8 Replies

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Comment by Karen (KC's mom) on November 25, 2008 at 8:16pm
Comment by abbyblue on November 19, 2008 at 9:49am
bring that boy home where he belongs,sing a song for the road is long sing a song for that boy sailing along a way from my lonely song i sing and pray the sea brings that boy to me from the longing sea,i miss mine so much be strong the words above are just something comes out of head when i get lonely
Comment by kim ann on November 9, 2008 at 1:18am
SOOoooo true! And we thought just being a mother was tough work! (Which of COURSE it is!) :0}
Comment by carols_kitchen on November 1, 2008 at 11:15pm
Just want to thank 2 new friends I met through this site. We had lunch together today--you would have never known we had just met outside the restaurant door! We laughed, we cried, then we laughed some more. This is my second experience of meeting a Navy Mom--and it is outstanding!!!
Still have an empty nest, but it feels much more full with new friends. Thank you NavyforMoms.
Comment by Paulette,Rob's Mom on October 31, 2008 at 11:38am
Debbie-stress-eater anonymous sounds like a good idea. Rob called last night, and he will not be able to get away for Thanksgiving. He has duty on that Friday. He is in Groton at BESS and had hoped to meet us in Pittsburgh for turkey day but no luck. He will get to be home for Christmas which will be great. But this is the first holiday that we al;l wont be together and I know what you mean about missing the one that is not there. I am trying to look at this a a dry run for when he is deployed for long periods of time but boy do you ever get use to it. Usually I am running around trying to make sure everything is decorated and spotless and I don't care if anything gets done. Hopefully I can get moving before Christmas, which I know I will and be driving everyone else nuts to get it just right for when he does come home.
Does anyone know waht the bases do if anything for the sailors that can't or don't get home for the holidays. I have visions of Rob eating turkey TV dinner for Thanksgiving. or just pb&j sandwiches. Can you send food in dry ice by fed-ex. Boy am I getting bad. Oh well back to work.
Comment by Melissa (Tucson) on October 31, 2008 at 12:21am
A young man wrote his mom and told her about a boy that gets no mail AT ALL in bootcamp. On top of that, the guys make fun of him.

Thought you guys might want to know...

SR Rodriquez, D.
DIV 020 Ship 09
Recruit Training Command
3415 Sailor Drive
Great Lakes, IL 60088

Thank you!
Comment by carols_kitchen on October 27, 2008 at 10:41pm
DMax's Mom-
same problem here--have a 77page book to read and pass on--I haven't finished it in almost 3 weeks--and did I mention it's on 77 pages long?!
I, too am a stress eater, plus practicing new recipes for my shows. I try to keep my fruits and yogurts stocked up. Doesn't help that at school we serve pretty high calorie stuff for the kids, too.
No fun cooking for 2, but then I have to thank God I still have my hubby--so 2 is a good number.
Christmas should be good, and we will see our Sailor at Thanksgiving, too. That's my focus.
Comment by carols_kitchen on October 24, 2008 at 9:59am
Yesterday was one of those days I really missed our son. Fortunately, I caught him on IM last night, and he was chatty. Our "conversations" are so much more fun now that he has become a working adult. lol.
Counting the days until Thanksgiving when we get to see him at A school.
Comment by carols_kitchen on September 30, 2008 at 7:43pm
I was just on line with one of our sailor's former class mates. It was so strange not to be cleaning up the chili dinner dishes from all his friends.
He is happy, too, at Goose Creek. This week I have been fortunate to see many of his former teachers--going back to Kindergarten. What fun memories. My favorite was picking him up after school, when he had so much to talk about.
Miss being able to call him at any time due to the demands of the classes. However, I treasure these times, too, knowing one day he will be out of communication for months at a time.
Comment by carols_kitchen on September 7, 2008 at 9:28pm
Marie & Becky
We are here for you. God made us Navy Moms for a reason. (Some days we don't know why, but we make it through another 24 hours.)
Bc was tough for me, and A school is easier. Today I just called and asked if he were having a good day and to call Dad while I am out of town. I treasure these moments and am counting days until Christmas when we will be together.
Love N4M!!!
 
 
 

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