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Comment by AF Airman on May 5, 2010 at 9:36pm

WOW Focusing on the Future. Your story is VERY unique. That is so cute though. Only you know how you feel dont let anyone tell you any different. The moment i met my bf i knew he was special. It only took two weeks for us to fall in love and 3 months later he left for boot camp. Write to him alot and make sure to give him words of encouragement and support. Wish you the best!!

Comment by Cat on May 5, 2010 at 7:58pm

Celina Osborn
there is a discussion called "Anybody sailors stationed in Cali if so where?" in this group that can help you =)

Comment by Focusing on the Future on May 5, 2010 at 7:34pm

Thank you Ari :-)

Yes, Hoppi. We knew each other for 10 days before he left for Boot. We spoke online, did the whole cam thing, spent hours on the phone, etc. Neither one of us were looking for anything serious, him for obvious reasons. But we started talking and it felt like we had known each other for years. I know it sounds crazy, but I can't explain it.

Just looking for a place where I can turn for support, because even if it's crazy, it's still true. We have plans to meet when he gets to A school.

Comment by Focusing on the Future on May 5, 2010 at 7:03pm

First of all, I want to thank all of you for your posts because you have kept me smiling over the past few days while I was waiting on approval to join the site.

My story is a unique one. I met this wonderful guy online and we talked for a couple of hours. We had this instant connection and immediately we both felt like we had known each other for years. He had spoken non-stop until, all of the sudden, he was quiet. He told me there was something he had to tell me. Well, knowing men, I thought the worst. He then informed me that he was leaving for Navy bootcamp in 10 days. At first, my heart sank, because I knew that meant he would be gone, however, being a double army brat, I also knew the opportunities that awaited him. Over the next 10 days we spent as much time as possible talking online, on the phone, emails, texts, etc. He even sent me a lil teddy bear so that I wouldn't forget how much he loved me while he was away.

He called me on 4/20 around 4pm to tell me that it was the last time he would talk to me for awhile. As the tears welled up in my eyes, I mustered enough of a smile to tell him that I loved him and wish him all the best and I demanded that he stay safe. We hung up and I quickly grabbed the tissues. While away from my phone he called back. When I returned and saw the missed call I tried frantically to call him back, only to get his voicemail. I cried harder knowing that I had missed something he wanted to tell me, until, the voicemail arrived. He left me a very loving, caring voicemail that I listen to everyday.

I came to this site in hopes of having someone to talk to that doesn't think I'm crazy for sticking around for a guy I just met. His family thinks that I am only after him for the "military perks", so I came here.

You guys are all awesome. Again, thank you so much for the smiles and such that you have already given me. I look forward to getting to know you over the next few weeks.

Comment by ariel042109 on May 5, 2010 at 11:00am

Jason, I would just stay on this site and ask away. I think it is cool that there are moms, girlfriends, wives, boyfriends, husbands, people serving, have served. It's not limited. I volunteer with COMPASS (www.gocompass.org) and there is also a man who volunteers with COMPASS and talks about his life being a "navy wfie". I think it is great and really inspiring/up lifting to all Navy Spouses.

Comment by Amanduh on May 5, 2010 at 10:52am

On the road...driving to our new duty station to look at apartments!!! Hopefully wecan find a place and move in next week. My husband took one of those 7 hour energy shots and now won't shut his mouth lol.

Comment by PumpkinHead on May 5, 2010 at 5:57am

My boyfriend just got to phase 2 yesterday after passing his third test and he is a corpsman. He moved to a-school around April 13th so thats roughly 3-4 weeks for him to get to phase 2. We are spending the weekend together!!! Im so excited to just be together and not have to say goodbye every night for a day or two :)

Congrats Melissa!!!!!!!!!!

Comment by redpanda320 Ship 07 Div 205 on May 5, 2010 at 12:06am

Congrats Melissa!!

Comment by Jess on May 4, 2010 at 9:22pm

I love reading all of this its so informative and a little depressing.We have always agreed that we would never get married out of convenience but it just seems that they want that title to acknowledge you as a member of the family.He will not be happy when he hears this but by now he probably already knows.I am moving to Wisconsin in July.Does anyone know if he will be able to see us or the kids while in A school living in barracks?

Comment by Jess on May 4, 2010 at 3:34pm

Ok so 3 weeks and no call i am a little bummed but from what i have learned on here no one from our division has gotten a call.He is section leader.I hope all is ok..........I just want to hear his voice

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