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Comment by Cp7 on March 13, 2010 at 6:32pm

LIZZIE, please please please do not be jealous! Dont spend your time worrying about other woman. There is no place in a marriage for trust issues. Bootcamp and the military lifestyle in general is hard, but I honestly believe it is a true blessing! If you are ble to be the couples that stick it out, you will see your relationship blossom into a wonderful, loving, strong and unbreakable union! My husband are stronger after every time we are apart. He writes me the most romantic emails and letters. I feel lucky to have a bond that a lot of civilian marriages lack. Trust your man and find help on this site. We all have our moments of weakness and sadness, but let them be about you missing your man, not worrying about stupid chicks!

Comment by Mrs. STS <3 on March 13, 2010 at 12:46pm

Thanks heather. :) i hate posting stuff on here bc i used to all the time and a bunch of people take it the wrong way.. But... i dont really care anymore people take things as they will.... im just being hoest about it in what ive found with all my experiences :)

Comment by mama2005 on March 13, 2010 at 12:36pm

I've been with my hubby for 6 yrs and we have 2 children, I feels weird not having him here, but i understand what he's doing and why,

Comment by Mrs. STS <3 on March 13, 2010 at 10:50am

Treys- you HAVE been spoiled lol... my Fiance is on deployment right now hes in submarines.. i am lucky if i get an email from him a day (no phone calls hevnt talked to him in WELL over a month other than email)... just last week was the first time i had heard from him for 3 weeks straight to the day. it sucked... but honestly its not as hard if you are supportive, understand whats going on, why they are there what they are doing and keep yourself very very busy then it goes by pretty quick.. i have a 3 1/2 yr old and im working full time including weekends and my son goes to school and trying to do everything with us moving with him when he's back in between so i'm a very VERY busy person haha it is still hard to be away from him and to not hear from him... however don't get into a rut... it's not fun..... I understand loving your sailor, but u also have to love yourself.. to give yourself to them so much that u depend on them for any and everything and u can't go a day without tlaking to them is when in my eyes someone is wayyyyy to dependant on someone... which being an ex navy wife and a navy fiance right now.. i can tell u that being INdepenant is how you need to be.. they need you to be home sticking it out living the day by day as if they are still there.. they need you to hold down the fort or else there is going to be more stress on them while doing what they need to do and it could potentially cause proiblems for them if they dont know how to handle their stresses they already have plus having to worry about you at home being miserable without them... i understand tho when my ex husband went to bootcamp i got into a biggg rut, we have our son and then havent ever been seperated in the 2 1/2 yrs we had been together when he joined... married less than 6 months... yeah it was rough to say the least.. but it was because i was so dependant on him, i learned real real quick once i started livnig with him at his A school that i can't be that way at ALL i have too many responsibilities on myself and he had enough on him and adding mine to his bc i had to do everything with him or for him it wasn't right or working out... obviously things didnt work out between us... thats not the reason... theres a LOT to it which is not anyones business on here.... however i can tell u this my fiance' :) I love him more than anything (other than my son that is) and i miss him terrible, however i know he loves me he knows i love him.. going 3 weeks without hearing a THING about him or hearing from him sucks.. i cried a few days... but i try not to think about it.. i talk about him all the time i mean ALL the time at my job and when i go to the post office, or wherever around town but alwys about good things.. when i get talking about his patrol that hes on thats when it gets rough.. then i get myself busy again so that i am not mierable haha

anywayssssss not trying to be all u have to be like this, bc i understand it IS hard (remember i went thru it) lol just tryin to say it gets easier and a lot better when u push thru it and find what works for you to get thru when u cant talk to him. :)

Comment by mama2005 on March 13, 2010 at 2:14am

i have been writing every day, every day feels longer then the last

Comment by megbab on March 13, 2010 at 2:06am

I know...It gets better when you start receiving letters. Make sure to write to him all the time too. They love getting letters!

Comment by mama2005 on March 13, 2010 at 2:00am

My hubby just left for boot camp, its a lot harder then i thought it would be,

Comment by megbab on March 13, 2010 at 1:47am

Anyone have any suggestions on how they planned their wedding without setting a date? My fiance is starting BUD/s and we are "planning" our wedding for his 2 week leave after training.

Comment by Treys Navy Wife on March 12, 2010 at 11:50pm

I think I've been spoiled. He's been able to call me everyday, but today had watches, and he hasn't called yet. I am buggin. I know I need to get used to this, but it is harder than I thought.

Comment by Mrs. STS <3 on March 12, 2010 at 10:48pm

where in upstate?!?! :) maybe your close! :) haha

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