This site is for mothers of kids in the U.S. Navy and for Moms who have questions about Navy life for their kids.

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FOLLOW THESE STEPS TO GET STARTED:

Choose your Username.  For the privacy and safety of you and/or your sailor, NO LAST NAMES ARE ALLOWED, even if your last name differs from that of your sailor (please make sure your URL address does not include your last name either).  Also, please do not include your email address in your user name. Go to "Settings" above to set your Username.  While there, complete your Profile so you can post and share photos and videos of your Sailor and share stories with other moms!

Make sure to read our Community Guidelines and this Navy Operations Security (OPSEC) checklist - loose lips sink ships!

Join groups!  Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself!  Start making friends that can last a lifetime.

Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit Navy.com - America's Navy and Navy.mil also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:

OPSEC GUIDELINES

Events

**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  

FOLLOW THIS LINK FOR UP TO DATE INFO:

RTC Graduation

**UPDATE 8/25/2022 - MASK MANDATE IS LIFTED.  Vaccinations still required.

**UPDATE 11/10/22 PIR - Vaccinations no longer required.

RESUMING LIVE PIR - 8/13/2021

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

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Navy.com Para Familias

Visite esta página para explorar en su idioma las oportunidades de educación y carreras para sus hijos en el Navy. Navy.com

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Keisha

Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors

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Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors

Hello my name is Keisha and i am the creator of this group. Thanks for joining and i hope that all the advice this group gives is helpful

Please, if you no longer want to be a part of N4M's consider NOT deleting your profile as everything you have ever posted will disappear when you delete it .  You can leave a group but don't permanently delete your profile!

Location: From Atlanta, GA all the way to Cali-forn-i-a now in Washington State
Members: 3875
Latest Activity: Feb 3

I'm a Navy Wife and I created this group back when I was a girlfriend and my now husband had gone to bootcamp. Its funny because i joined this website when they had under 50 members. This website has been sooooo helpful and I met so many people on here that gave great advice. I made this group so that we could all come together and give eachother advice and share ideas. I see that this group is growing more and more by the day, Im happy to see that because so many wives/fiances/and girlfriends are clueless when it comes the military lifestyle. Not knowing what to expect and not knowing about deployments, bootcamp, duty stations, etc. I want this to be the place you all recommend because so many people on this site are knowledgeable and very helpful. Once again thanks for joining my group and i hope you get all the information you need. I dont get to log on as much as i used to but i try my best to get on here. So if u have any questions feel free to make a discussion topic and Im positive that it will get answered if not, inbox me :-) Take Care ♥

Discussion Forum

Help needed!!

Started by Nia. Last reply by Nia Sep 7, 2022. 4 Replies

Hi everyone! My name is Nia, I’m new here. I just have a question that have been giving me anxiety lately. So my boyfriend has been emailing me every morning and sometimes night overseas, and then suddenly the flow has stopped out of no where. I’ve…Continue

advice!

Started by Mykenzie Apr 1, 2022. 0 Replies

Hi ladies!I just would love some advice on this current topic my significant other and i are having currently. without saying too much he’s enlisted in the navy and i am currently a university student. his work peers really value his work and his…Continue

Graduation coming up

Started by Kelly Jan 9, 2022. 0 Replies

Hi,Im new here and I am glad that I found a group that share my confusion during new path of couple life. My boyfriend is due to graduate on the 28th and I am so sad I can't make it to see him. Mainly cause he only had two invites and family comes…Continue

Hubby shipping off to BC June 24!

Started by TARA. Last reply by Kaylee Sep 29, 2020. 1 Reply

Hi Everyone,I am new to this group and would like to say how thankful I am for finding a community of Navy wives, fiancés and girlfriends who can lend support to each other.  A short background of our Navy journey - my guy wanted to sign up as EM…Continue

New here!

Started by Linda Jane. Last reply by Kaylee Sep 29, 2020. 4 Replies

Hi. I just joined last night. I wanted to introduce myself. I’m linda. My boyfriend is in Great Lakes now for basic training ship 02 Div 950. Then after graduation he immediately ships off to A school in SC. This is all extremely new to me and his…Continue

Fiancé Advice

Started by Lauren C. Last reply by astc Sep 26, 2019. 5 Replies

My fiance just joined the Navy and was sent off to bootcamp this week. We've been together for almost six years and we plan to get married after bootcamp is over.> I was hoping you could tell me if waiting until bootcamp is over was the smart…Continue

Good neighborhoods around Great Lakes IL??

Started by Artfulmind. Last reply by WCK110658 Jul 9, 2019. 3 Replies

Hi everyone! Hubs, baby, and I will be stationed in Great Lakes soon was wondering if anyone new of some good safe family friendly neighborhoods to rent a place? We don't mind being a half hour or so away from base. Heard the surrounding…Continue

Tags: moving, chicago, illinois, Lakes, Great

Hello Everyone!

Started by mommasett. Last reply by Anti M Mar 27, 2019. 1 Reply

Happy Hump day to all!! I am new here and I am so glad that I have found this group! I am hoping it helps in my journey with my boyfriend and understanding his Navy Life a little better. Continue

POA to get a military i.d.

Started by Hafaadai. Last reply by Ib_vv_N Feb 23, 2019. 7 Replies

Hi! My SR left for BC on 28th of Nov. I received THE BOX on Dec. 6th. Still waiting on his form letter, personal letter and DEERS. He did not leave me a POA before he left because the recruiter said we won’t really need it until he gets out of BC.…Continue

sending photos

Started by lifesimplified Feb 20, 2019. 0 Replies

My boyfriend shipped out on 2/11/19.  I just received his box but no form letter yet.  As soon as I get his address, I will be writing him daily and sending many photos.  I read somewhere on this forum that the recruits must show all photos to the…Continue

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Comment by NavyWife2011 on March 17, 2016 at 8:27pm

Bronco14, oh I'm sorry I thought he wanted it in A school. We didn't have any problems at the first command. His car was in his father's name and listed as a driver. My car was in my name. I see what you're saying now, so listed as a driver should be fine. We were only married for 2 months to going to his first command, so of course insurance was still in our parents name. We were still under their policy.

Comment by Bronco14 on March 17, 2016 at 8:10pm
Ah thank you garden gal! That sounds exactly like our situation. It sounds like we will be good then if I just put him on my insurance. Thank you :)
Comment by garden gal on March 17, 2016 at 7:48pm

Sorry - with my son as a driver on the insurance and on the letter

Comment by garden gal on March 17, 2016 at 7:47pm

My son and his wife recently drove "her" car to his first permanent duty station.  The car is in her father's name, but it is insured under her name with him as a driver.  The Navy was OK with that.  They did get a notarized letter from her father stating that they had permission to drive the vehicle.  Not so much because the Navy required it, but in case they were stopped or had an accident since it would be in a different state than the registration.  They drove from Atlanta to WA state. They keep that letter in the glove box as well.

Comment by Bronco14 on March 17, 2016 at 7:27pm

Oh, I thought you had a problem that you wanted to drive your car to your husband's first command, but it had to be in his name? My sailor is finishing up Corpsman A school, not going to it :) My fiance and I were planning on taking my car (we'll be married by the time we leave San Antonio) to his next command. But he needs insurance, which he hasn't had since joining the Navy. I can put him under my parent's policy with me, but the car is not registered in his name. He was told that he won't need to show registration, just the insurance and his drivers license. Sorry if I am a bit confusing :)

Comment by NavyWife2011 on March 17, 2016 at 7:02pm

Bronco14, oh no we never had a problem with our cars. When, we got to our first duty station we provided the necessary paperwork for both vehicles and that was it. We got the stickers. I think after the first couple of years they did away with them. But we never had a problem, thank God! That's why I don't understand why they're making the process so hard for you guys. They accepted our vehicles. What about you guys getting your own policy? When, we first got married of course we were still under our parents, but I don't know how it works since he wants to have the car at A school. I see and I feel for you because you guys have bigger stuff to worry about. It will work out!

Comment by Bronco14 on March 17, 2016 at 5:49pm

It's weird to me that they wouldn't accept a vehicle registered in your name NavyWife2011, since you two are married. You would think that would be acceptable haha. We're going to Lejeune. Not sure about the sticker policy there? I am pretty sure we could get him on our insurance... I am still insured under my parent's policy... does the insurance have to be primarily in his name or could he be under someone's? This is such a pain...

Comment by Anti M on March 17, 2016 at 5:33pm

The AF base near us went to just ID too.  However, now and then the security threat level goes up and they do random vehicle checks, which includes R&I.  I have a friend give me a ride to base who was very casual about her car's paperwork.  Sigh, it was not a great day.

Comment by NavyWife2011 on March 17, 2016 at 2:04pm
They did away with stickers in Pensacola, Norfolk, and Jacksonville, FL. I'm not sure where you're going though. I've never been asked for registration or insurance other than when we first got to our new duty station. Now, it's just ID depending on where you are. We're Navy!
Comment by NavyWife2011 on March 17, 2016 at 2:01pm
You should qualify for some discounts through your insurance copy.
 

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