This site is for mothers of kids in the U.S. Navy and for Moms who have questions about Navy life for their kids.



Choose your Username.  For the privacy and safety of you and/or your sailor, NO LAST NAMES ARE ALLOWED, even if your last name differs from that of your sailor (please make sure your URL address does not include your last name either).  Also, please do not include your email address in your user name. Go to "Settings" above to set your Username.  While there, complete your Profile so you can post and share photos and videos of your Sailor and share stories with other moms!

Make sure to read our Community Guidelines and this Navy Operations Security (OPSEC) checklist - loose lips sink ships!

Join groups!  Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself!  Start making friends that can last a lifetime.

Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit - America's Navy and also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:



**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  


RTC Graduation

**UPDATE 8/25/2022 - MASK MANDATE IS LIFTED.  Vaccinations still required.

**UPDATE 11/10/22 PIR - Vaccinations no longer required.


Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

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Visite esta página para explorar en su idioma las oportunidades de educación y carreras para sus hijos en el Navy.


Chris from Missouri

Missouri Family and Friends


Missouri Family and Friends

A group for Navy Family and Friends from the state of Missouri with DEP or Active children

Members: 216
Latest Activity: Nov 26, 2021

Discussion Forum

Meet and Greet plus Packing Party

Started by carols_kitchen Aug 7, 2013. 0 Replies

St. Louis Cardinals game August 15, 2013, (Swearing in of Cardinal Company)

Started by PROUDMAMMAOF2SAILORSSHIP11DIV383. Last reply by carols_kitchen May 30, 2013. 1 Reply

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Comment by Lauriel on December 6, 2019 at 10:49am

Prayers for all the A school students and Navy personnel at Pensacola Naval base! Hopefully the shooter is the only casualty, but prayers for them and their family too.  

Comment by Lauriel on December 5, 2019 at 4:35pm

Hi MaggieMay!

I would love to tell you what he does, but he hits me with so many accronyms when we talk, I haven't a clue what his official title is. I know he calibrates machines, and also works on HazMat and Fire safety. So far he's been all over the place; working several months in one department and then several in another. He is planning to re-up this spring. 

He wanted to work on helicopters or computers, but so far he hasn't had much success at either. He wants to pick up a skill he can use for employment if he ever decides to get out of the Navy. 

Comment by MaggieMay on December 4, 2019 at 7:59pm

Hello Lauriel!  I was so happy to see you comment - I thought this group had went belly up LOL. My son is stationed in Jacksonville and will be there another year and a half.  He’s doing shore duty after spending 5 years on a carrier. Sounds like our sons have a little in common. May I ask what your son does?  Mines a Cal Tech (ATI)

Comment by Lauriel on December 4, 2019 at 6:34pm

My son is on the Teddy Roosevelt. But in May he'll be stationed in Jacksonville. He's excited to be land-based for a while. 

Comment by Candace on May 28, 2016 at 12:41am
I have a son on the Nimitz. Moving from Oklahoma BACK home to KC MO. I'm in a face book group for bevy mom's in Oklahoma but want to also join navy mom's in Missouri. Can someone direct me please
Comment by momofnm on November 25, 2015 at 4:34pm

Hello dawneee5.  My son also has PIR of 1/8/16.  We are from the St. Louis area.

Comment by dawneee5 on November 25, 2015 at 4:13pm

Hello ladies. I just joined N4M yesterday and found you today! Not sure where everyone is located but I would love to get to know others in my area going through the same thing I am. My son left for RTC on the 15th of this month. PIR is 1/8/16. Anyone else have loved ones near this time frame?

Comment by MaggieMay on November 22, 2015 at 9:04am
So happy to hear from you ladies!

Carol - enjoy that Florida sunshine and warm weather! It's turned cold here...snowing yesterday...miss it don't ya?!! LOL I'm sure not!

Sandy - best of luck to both your kids. You've got a lot to be proud of...sounds like both of them are on a great path in life. A huge thank you to your son for his service to our country and again I wish him & his wife much success in the civilian world. Wow it doesn't seem like our kids have been in 4 years already. I'm so glad I got to meet you and hope our paths cross again some day.

My son decided he wasn't ready to get out of the Navy and re-up'd for another 4. But these next 4 he'll be stateside...yay for me! His ship left Japan in the spring and is slowly making it's way to it's new home port in Virginia. The hubby & I are going to the Homecoming and I can't tell you how excited I am...I think I'm more excited for this than PIR! I finally get to see the ship he's called home for the past 3 years plus it gets better...he's coming home for the holidays!!! This will be his first Christmas home since joining the Navy. Yep life is good!

Take care everyone and have a Blessed and Happy Thanksgiving!
Comment by SandySea on November 21, 2015 at 12:18pm

Hello there Missouri Moms---especially the Carols!  How are you, your sailors, and your families? My sailor is finishing up his 4 years and will be moving to Indiana with his lovely wife.  Serving in aviation on a huge plane, he has never been on a ship even once!  He has been deployed for several months each to 3 different continents and been on training assignments for several weeks in two places in the States.  It has been the experience of a lifetime for sure, but he is ready to return to the midwest and pursue his education.  We got to visit him and his wife in the PNW last November and that was an absolutely beautiful trip even in November.  My daughter was acceepted into the nursing school at MSU.  She loves the clinicals but the classwork is very challenging and stressful.  One and a half years to go. How are you all doing????

Comment by carols_kitchen on November 20, 2015 at 3:06pm

Hi there. Sorry but the laptop was refusing to open N4M due to a virus. All cleaned up--but had to wait a while till our sailor was available to fix me up. However, we are doing the snow bird scene in FL right now. House still for sale in IL.


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