Boot Camp Moms (and loved ones)

To everyone with a loved one at RTC or soon to be there, we say, "Welcome!"  To those who are sticking around after PIR to help those who are just beginning this awesome journey, we say, "Thank you!"

**BEGINNING OCTOBER 5, 2023, RECRUIT GRADUATIONS WILL BE CONDUCTED EVERY THURSDAY (NO LONGER ON FRIDAY), EXCEPT FOR THE WEEK OF THANKSGIVING, WHEN GRADUATION IS ON WEDNESDAY.

This is a place to talk, ask questions, and share stories. It is our desire that this Group will provide the information, encouragement, and support you need while your loved one is at RTC in Great Lakes. Enjoy your time here and feel free to Comment and join in the Discussions. Be sure to check out the "Pages" to the right, located under the pictures of the Members, especially OPSEC and PERSEC (Making Changes to Your Profile), (Click "View All" to see all of them.)

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  • AZ2OH2IL2UT

    Thank you for this information. My heart aches. Prayers are ongoing for everyone. 

  • ldyastrid

  • lemonelephant

    757NavyMom,The Form Letter arrives an average of ten days after the recruit's arrival at the RTC. Some will have it 7 days after arrival (a few earlier than that, but not many) and most will have it by 14 days after arrival. It will tell you your recruit's address and PIR date and other important information. Keep it in a safe place.

    Arrival and What Happens at the RTC will let you know what is happening and what to expect.

  • Kevsmom (ship4 div179)

    Proudnavygirlfriend my son's only job before bootcamp was to workout twice everyday for a year. And drop/pick up his sister from school. And he was busy, tired, studing, resting, and yes you would think it was just working out But he was also adjusting mentally. He was a mommas boy and the last two months he was distant. We were ok with it because we knew he needed to be ready mentally and physically for this big step
  • Antsmom

    My son was eliminated for medical reasons, unknown. He called his girlfriend this morning and said she should take his name off her contacts because he won't be contacting her anymore. I called RTC legal and they're going to try and contact him so he can call me. I'm extremely worried!

  • nikita0825

    My son left for Bootcamp on June 13th, we just received his box and our letter yesterday. Graduation for him is scheduled for 8/4/2017!!! We are so excited to let the countdown begin, also sent our first letter today!!

  • lemonelephant

    Here are the current PIR groups:

    PIR: June 23, 2017 TG 33 - 11 Divisions (193-202 & 933) 4 guests

    PIR: June 30, 2017 TG 34 - 7 Divisions (203-208 & 934) 4 guests

    PIR: July 7, 2017 TG 35 - 7 Divisions (209-214 & 935) 4 guests

    PIR: July 14, 2017 TG 36 - 9 Divisions (215-220, 815, 816 & 936) 4 guests

    PIR: July 21, 2017 TG 37 - 8 Divisions (221-226, 817 & 936) 4 guests

    PIR: July 28, 2017 TG 38 - 9 Divisions (227-234 & 938) 4 guests

    PIR: August 4, 2017 TG 39

    Click on the date of your recruit’s PIR and join the group to connect with others with loved ones training with your recruit.

  • ldyastrid

    @Antsmom - was your son was separated?  That's when they take him out of their division and put them somewhere else.  His gf was the only one he called?  I'm sure you are concerned!  I would be too!!! - I hope he calls you soon!

  • lemonelephant

    Separated is to be sent to SEPS to be sent home.

  • MoMom

    @Antsmom-
    Praying for your son, and for your family. It must be devastating news for him. He may just need some time.
  • Nicole

    Prayers for you @antsmom. You are in my thoughts!
  • ibeitz71

    I just received the call from bootcamp that my son arrived safely.  I send a second son tomorrow.  God give me strength.

  • NavyPumpkin

    My son left on June 15th.  Does anyone else in the group have a recruit who left on that day?

  • jennifer

    My son left in the 14th but didn't arrive until the 15th due to flight delays. I sort of think 13..14.15 arrivals maybe together...but what do I know!! I'm saying novenas for them everyday.
  • lemonelephant

    G'sCBMOM,it is a small percentage who are sent to SEPS for various reasons (medical, adjustment issues, social issues...). Each division starts with about 88 recruits. An average of 75 of those will make it to PIR as scheduled. Some of those 13 are separated and sent home. Some are ASMO'd to another division with a later PIR date. Some are ASMO'd to FIT and most of those do go on to be Sailors. Some are sent to the RCU and most of those will go on to be Sailors.

  • SailorsLIMom

    The sentiment is strongly echoed.  Lemon, you're a peach!

  • JRnukeMom

    My son left May 20th....anyone have a recruit who left for BC at that time?
  • April

    My son left May 24th ship 14/div 223
  • nise4295

    Mine left May 21st...division 221
  • Motherof5

    My son left may 18. Shop 6 Div. 217. He graduates July 14.
  • Math teacher

    My grandson originally had PIR date of June 30. A week ago his Mom got a call that he had been moved to another division. He was in the 207 and now is in 218. His graduation date was changed from June 30!to June 14. He was having trouble with the chain of command and had not made his bed properly. The mail we have received was prior to this change so we r worried about how he is doing. Any ideas
  • NicksMom

    My son left May 30th. Ship 03, Div230, PIR date of 7/28. Still no letters or phone call.
  • ibeitz71

    I leave in one hour to take the second son this week to the recruiter to go to boot camp. I am very proud but my heart is definitely heavy letting two go in one week.  I don't know how we do this as Moms.  I have always believed my job was to make them independent but it's hard letting them go.

  • ldyastrid

    ibeitz71 - are they both going into the Navy?  You aren't letting go - you're allowing them to spread their wings with confidence! 

  • ldyastrid

    Found this on another forum... it's GREAT!

  • NicksMom

    I agree! You want your kids to be independent, and when they are it still hurts.
  • Antsmom

    I heard from my son yesterday and he's in good spirits despite his impending medical discharge. We're both fighters so I'm going to ask him to consider appealing the decision. I think it's worth it, nothing to lose and more to gain. I wish all of you best wishes and prayers for your Sailor's success and health. Blessings.

  • herNavymom

    Antsmom - so sorry to hear of this. He really needs to push the envelope while he is there for an appeal.  If it is a matter of 'concrete' medical (eyes are worse than enlisted, scoliosis is more curved...etc) then it will be hard and those are normally not overturned.   If it is for other 'subjective' reasons, once he is discharged it will be an uphill battle. So if this is an egregious decision on the navy, then people he can contact while he is out to speak on his behalf may be worthy to get NOW before he leaves. hope this helps.

  • Carlsbad92009

    Math Teacher.....My daughter had an original graduation date of June 9th and was held back until the 23rd. She should be graduating this Friday we are waiting for the "I'm a Sailor" call today. She did Battle Stations last night. Being held back is not unusual, sometimes they just need a little extra time. My daughter also had trouble with making her bed. They are just making sure he is learning everything he needs to learn, it is harder for some, but I am sure he will do fine the important thing is that he is still there!

  • ibeitz71

    Yes both sons are entering the NAVY proud Mom of one Crypto Linguist and one NAVY Nuke.  

  • ibeitz71

    They were supposed to leave together on Sunday but the NUKE was delayed a couple of days due to his background check paperwork all cleared now.  Hopefully this gets them into the same graduating class leaving two days apart.

  • FLNavymom

    I got the form letter yesterday!  My son graduates 8/4.  He is in Div 238.  My oldest is deployed and just left his first port stop after a month at sea. One month down, two to go.  I'm so proud of my Sailors and miss them terribly.  

  • ldyastrid

    That's great ibeitz71!!!!  Maybe so!  That'd be awesome!  Where are you from?

  • nise4295

    Missing my boy terribly today...I guess because he sent his dad and grandfather letters last week, so I didn't get one. Anyone else have someone in div 221 and has heard from them?

  • ibeitz71

    Well second son is dropped off on his way to MEPS in Harrisburg PA then flying out tomorrow morning for boot camp.

  • ldyastrid

    Oh geeeeze ibeitz71 - I sure hope they have the same PIR - coming out 2 weekends in a row would be... difficult!  I'd be tempted to call Great Lakes and tell them to make sure both kids have the same PIR date!  hehe

  • ibeitz71

    I thought it would be easier knowing they are in the same place at the same time.  Turns out two sons in one week is just a little too much!  My oldest arrived yesterday, I got the scripted call at 2:04 pm and the next one will arrive tomorrow. I wish i could be a fly on the wall to know what he is experiencing today and how he is handling it.  They are working hard to ensure these two are in the same PIR so keep your fingers cross for me.

  • TAT'sMom

    Antsmom, prayers and Gods blessings! Truthfully, we or I am praying everyday something doesn't come up. So, we all are not out of the woods yet. Tell your son keep his spirit and determination, and good job,it's not easy where he is right now. Brighter days coming!
  • MamaB

    @ibeitz71 Praying for you! I can't even imagine what you are going through since it is both of your boys. Stay strong!
  • TAT'sMom

    Antsmom, prayers and Gods blessings! Truthfully, we or I am praying everyday something doesn't come up. So, we all are not out of the woods yet. Tell your son keep his spirit and determination, and good job,it's not easy where he is right now. Brighter days coming!
  • Math teacher

    Hoping you got your call carlsbad92009. I feel better after getting your input. Thanks. I thought there was about a weeks time between I am a sailor call and PIR. Guess that can vary too. Good wishes to your daughter and your family.
  • lemonelephant

    Here are the current PIR groups:

    PIR: June 23, 2017 TG 33 - 11 Divisions (193-202 & 933) 4 guests

    PIR: June 30, 2017 TG 34 - 7 Divisions (203-208 & 934) 4 guests

    PIR: July 7, 2017 TG 35 - 7 Divisions (209-214 & 935) 4 guests

    PIR: July 14, 2017 TG 36 - 9 Divisions (215-220, 815, 816 & 936) 4 guests

    PIR: July 21, 2017 TG 37 - 8 Divisions (221-226, 817 & 936) 4 guests

    PIR: July 28, 2017 TG 38 - 9 Divisions (227-234 & 938) 4 guests

    PIR: August 4, 2017 TG 39 - 11 Divisions (235-244 & 939) 4 guests

    PIR: August 11, 2017 TG 40 - 8 Divisions (245-250, 818 & 940 (Keep checking and join when it is up.)

    Click on the date of your recruit’s PIR and join the group to connect with others with loved ones training with your recruit.

  • lemonelephant

    Math teacher, the "I'm a Sailor!" call can come 7 (most common) to 9 days (it happens when there are holidays near the PIR date) ahead of PIR for the first divisions of the TG to just a day or so before PIR for the last divisions. See Battle Stations-21 (BST).

  • Sasysweet

    Lemon, is there a way to known what the division range is in our SRs TG?
  • Carlsbad92009

    Math teacher yes we got our call!!! We just landed in Chicago and are so excited to see her tomorrow. Good luck! All the stress is worth it in the end!!
  • SailorsLIMom

    I read the link, got it...what is "TG"? See u at the meet and greet! Div 195.
  • NavyCousinThisTime

    question from something in a letter. Our recruit just sent a letter. he was talking about being in the division he got moved to.  (beenin new division a week) He said the head RDC IT'd him so he knew who he was.  Not sure if he meant before or after he moved.  What does that mean?

    Thank you. Congrautations to all those that are graduating tomorrow and wishing a very happy day to everyone.

  • brynne21

    @NavyCousinThisTim, it means "intensive training." Basically they PT'd the heck out of him. The new RDC was making a point. It's ok. If he wrote the letter, he got through it fine. Most all of them go through that at one point or another. Good luck to your SR in his new division!
  • lemonelephant

    IT is intensive training. (things like extra push-ups)

    The Page, What does ??? mean? (A Guide to Navy Abbreviations and Terminology), will help you with many of the new terms you will come across.

  • FGGM

    My God son leaves for MEPS June 27, anyone else??? This is both families first military experience and we're hoping to connect with others that may be with him. With maybe a little more experience about what to expect. Emotions are getting pretty rough these days.