Boot Camp Moms (and loved ones)

To everyone with a loved one at RTC or soon to be there, we say, "Welcome!"  To those who are sticking around after PIR to help those who are just beginning this awesome journey, we say, "Thank you!"

**BEGINNING OCTOBER 5, 2023, RECRUIT GRADUATIONS WILL BE CONDUCTED EVERY THURSDAY (NO LONGER ON FRIDAY), EXCEPT FOR THE WEEK OF THANKSGIVING, WHEN GRADUATION IS ON WEDNESDAY.

This is a place to talk, ask questions, and share stories. It is our desire that this Group will provide the information, encouragement, and support you need while your loved one is at RTC in Great Lakes. Enjoy your time here and feel free to Comment and join in the Discussions. Be sure to check out the "Pages" to the right, located under the pictures of the Members, especially OPSEC and PERSEC (Making Changes to Your Profile), (Click "View All" to see all of them.)

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  • rfin18

    ProudMama...just got my son's info. He is in Ship 2 Division 940 too! 

  • ldyastrid

    Cool ProudMama!  He's performing! 

  • lemonelephant

    You can meet up at the Meet and Greet at the Lakehurst Event Center in Waukegan the night before PIR (go to http://www.mynavytaxi.com/events.html to RSVP).

  • Christynavymom

    Hi everyone i receaved my form letter day my daughter is on ship2 div 940 it was great to get the letter i am missing her really bad today it is raining just a yucky day out her PIR is august 11 any mom with recruits the same as mine
  • jennifer

    Letter came...my daughter opened it and said ship 3 division 245. Same ship!!! I can't wait to get home and read it.
  • Christynavymom

    That cool
  • JRnukeMom

    My son is Ship 11 Division 220, anyone else?
  • MoMom

    @ShawnMom... I was able to find pictures of my son performing. So happy to see his face!
  • OtterBaby

    JRMom ~ our son is Ship 11 Division 220! getting closer to PIR!!
  • OtterBaby

    JRMom ~ there's also a July 14, 2017 PIR group ... join us, also!
  • MoparMom

    Still no letter, Feeling a little down... So many of you have received yours already! Daughter left on the 12th and called be early that night at 11:30. Hopefully it comes soon. I'm getting a little anxious, I know shes fine, I just want something. Miss her a lot and have a pile of letters and stuff to send as do many in my family. I haven't really dealt with her being at boot-camp again, I think the text messages asking if I have heard yet from friends and family might put me over the edge. :(

  • lemonelephant

    Here are the current PIR groups:

    PIR: June 23, 2017 TG 33 - 11 Divisions (193-202 & 933) 4 guests

    PIR: June 30, 2017 TG 34 - 7 Divisions (203-208 & 934) 4 guests

    PIR: July 7, 2017 TG 35 - 7 Divisions (209-214 & 935) 4 guests

    PIR: July 14, 2017 TG 36 - 9 Divisions (215-220, 815, 816 & 936) 4 guests

    PIR: July 21, 2017 TG 37 - 8 Divisions (221-226, 817 & 936) 4 guests

    PIR: July 28, 2017 TG 38 - 9 Divisions (227-234 & 938) 4 guests

    PIR: August 4, 2017 TG 39 - 11 Divisions (235-244 & 939) 4 guests

    PIR: August 11, 2017 TG 40 - 8 Divisions (245-250, 818 & 940 (Keep checking and join when it is up.)

    Click on the date of your recruit’s PIR and join the group to connect with others with loved ones training with your recruit.

  • NavyWildcat

    Moparmom, I'm in the same spot as you.  My daughter arrived at BC on 6/12 and I got her box this last Monday. Keep telling myself the letter is coming, and "No News is Good News".  I miss my baby girl so much!  Not only is she discovering how strong she is, us moms are discovering how strong we are.  Hopefully our letters will arrive soon.

  • CFLMama (ship 3 Div245)

    Ship 3 division 245 for my daughter also
  • Babybird98

    My son left for boot camp on May 21, I couldn't wait to get "the I arrived phone call" and the box and form letter.  Then all of sudden nothing for days and I was miserable. Then I got the call "Mom I'm in medical" it was the worst day for my SR, he was devastated, depressed and didn't want to be in the hospital, even pretended he was ok.   I prayed and willed ,this kid back to health over the phone. I put away my tears and helped him realize how strong he really was and that all the test would come back negative and he would get to return. 4 days later he returned to camp.  I say all this to say, YES we want a phone call, but I'm here to tell you NO phone call is better.

    He told me the best time of day is mail call. He also told me that he really is too tired to write, All they want is our letters, it helps them cope.  So keep writing and praying and hope that you never get the MEDICAL call.

  • Sasysweet

    Hi all! I recieved my first letter from my SR today. I have not been able to stop crying... I am so proud of him and happy he seems to be doing well.  

    He said has been given the P.O job of Starboard Watch and makes the calls while marching.  What does this mean for him?  He also said that if he does well with this job and passes the tests he has taken he can get promoted to an E3 and possibly get a letter of recommendation to get promoted to an E4.  What does all of this mean??  where can I find out information on all of that?? 

  • NavyMomKW

    Thank you for that Babybird98!  I am glad that your guy is doing well minus the little scare.  You make a really good point about us wanting a call but do we really? LOL.  I hope that everyone continues to strive and make it to PIR :) 

  • TAT'sMom

    Hang tight Mopar, my son left June5 today I got my first letter from him! It's coming Mom. They are busy and tired and it takes a while for the mail. He wrote 6/11 I received it 6/22. Its hard to wait, just keep writing to him!
  • TAT'sMom

    Sassysweet go to main room chat ask ladies where to find info.
  • New Navy Mom 1

    @Sasysweet that's all good news. Most recruits go in as a E1. My son started at an E2 because he was in JROTC. So reaching E3/4 is fantastic. He's doing well. You should be very proud.
  • MoparMom

    oh i know the first letter from her will take awhile, but i haven't received the form letter yet. So still in the air for when PIR is and all that. I will be honest, getting letters from my daughter may not be something i get a whole lot of, but being able to get her letters from myself and family is what i want more then anything. Its hard watching everybody else getting their From letter and knowing when PIR is and just having to continue to wait. I'm not good for not having things in line, my OCD gets the best of me and panic sets in. I'm trying to stay calm and know that no call and no news is good news. It means shes kicking ass, but still hard...

    Fingers crossed for both of us NavyWildcat they they come tomorrow!!!

  • NavyMomKW

    I feel your pain MoparMom- I get super irritated when someone says "oh have you heard from your daugher?" Like NO- she is at boot camp lol.  The point is NOT to hear from them really expect for our form letters and FedEx boxes, letters when they can write, and their final "I am a Sailor" call.  Hang in there though you'll get her form letter and box soon!! 

  • SailorsLIMom

    Anna, do u know the medical issue? I'm not asking what it is, just sympathizing with you if, even after all this time, you still don't know it. Talk about driving a mom crazy… but the good news part does sound like good news.
  • ibeitz71

    10:14 pm I received the I am here call from the second son this week. Proud Mom of two Navy recruits nuke and crypto linguists. One arrived Tuesday one tonight. Pray they get the same PIR date.
  • Christynavymom

    2 at the same time i am about to go through that my daughter is in gl and my other daughter leave in july for army i hope they get the same PIR so it is easier for
  • ibeitz71

    I am an emotional roller coaster right now.
  • Christynavymom

    I can imagine i am with just when the other one leave i will be a mess start writing keep busy thats what all the moms have told me it does help
  • Navy2017

    Can someone please tell me what the 900 divisions mean? It seems to be a good thing. I am new to this. Thanks!

  • Christynavymom

    From what i was told they perform play a instrument-sing - flags my daughter is in 940
  • Anti M

    @Sassysweet ... your recruit has additional responsibilities as Starboard Watch.  Yes, the RDCs can advance a good performer to E-2, and potentially E-3.  E-3 is rare though.  While they can give him a good recruit evaluation and a recommendation for advancement, NO ONE makes E-4 out of boot camp.  That is simply because E-4 is petty officer level, and must be attached to a rating learned through an A school.  E-3 and below can be unrated.  RDCs may advance up to 10% of their division.  From E-1 to E-2, and for those who came in as an E-2, up to E-3.

    http://navyformoms.ning.com/group/bootcampmoms/page/e-1-e-2-or-e-3-...

  • Brite2017

    If your child did not graduate. What happens now?Will they have a chance with the upcoming PIR.
  • Sasysweet

    Anti M, thank you! I was scouring the blogs last night to try and find info. The E4 part makes sense now...which is where the letter of recommendation he mentioned would come in I guess. Thank you!
  • herNavymom

    Not sure if this has been posted yet but the website for Recruit Training Command is pretty informative. In the Family Guide, condensed and tailored for graduation.  Website explains companies and the 900 series, families dos/don'ts for graduation and the different airports.  Daughter's PIR is 4 August. Hope to see some of you.Cheers.  http://www.bootcamp.navy.mil/

  • nise4295

    Good morning ladies (and gents)!

    Received my second letter from my son yesterday (div 221) and he sounded absolutely fantastic. It has been so wonderful to be able to "see" the change in him! He also had his wisdom teeth pulled last week, he's doing very well in PT (put on about 15-20lbs already!), got his E2 promotion, got 3rd class swimmer and Weapons P/O - zero idea what most of this means (if someone could enlighten me, that would be super!), but I'm very happy/proud with the tone of his letter. Hang in there mamas, there's light at the end of that tunnel!!

  • jennifer

    Nise4295...that all sounds good.I don't know what it means either. But glad it is a comfort to you for sure. I took my son for his wisdom teeth removal once I knew he signed up. Hope he healed quickly. Glad to hear they gain weight! Thanks for sharing. I hope a get a letter with good news too. Take care.
  • NavyWildcat

    Finally got my daughters letter! Shes in Ship 02, Div. 940. She got the music division..yea so proud of her. Grad date 8/11.
  • Lea (SHIP 11 DIV 242)

    Nise4295
    What date did your son arrive at bc?
  • Prudence

    My son also had all 4 wisdom teeth pulled a few weeks ago, too. He's never been on pain meds so his first phone call home he let me know and said he passed out in line for food (empty stomach) and face planted, needing 2 stitches on his chin - luckily no broken nose. Our first stitches. Hearing that made me flush, sweaty and feeling like I was going to pass out!! Great first call !! --reading everyone's stories and pics have helped so much and I've cried tears of joy and sorrow for many. I appreciate your sharing more than you know!!
  • Tnmom99

    Thank You for sharing. All of this info has been very helpful. My son went to basic on June 15th, Miss Him already. Trying to take one day at a time.
  • NavyWildcat

    BayouBudMom, thank you.  She heard about the division and wasn't sure if she would try, but I sure am glad she did.  She plays piccolo/flute.  

  • Christynavymom

    My daughter is on ship 2 div 940 she did color guard in high school
  • ProudNavyGirlfriend

    Hi all. Anybody's sailor leaving on July 6th?

  • Prudence

    @NavyWildcat - Yay for her! That's what I played! So happy for you and your daughter !!! A superb achievement!
  • lemonelephant

    Here are the current PIR groups:

    PIR: June 30, 2017 TG 34 - 7 Divisions (203-208 & 934) 4 guests

    PIR: July 7, 2017 TG 35 - 7 Divisions (209-214 & 935) 4 guests

    PIR: July 14, 2017 TG 36 - 9 Divisions (215-220, 815, 816 & 936) 4 guests

    PIR: July 21, 2017 TG 37 - 8 Divisions (221-226, 817 & 936) 4 guests

    PIR: July 28, 2017 TG 38 - 9 Divisions (227-234 & 938) 4 guests

    PIR: August 4, 2017 TG 39 - 11 Divisions (235-244 & 939) 4 guests

    PIR: August 11, 2017 TG 40 - 8 Divisions (245-250, 818 & 940 (Keep checking and join when it is up.)

    Click on the date of your recruit’s PIR and join the group to connect with others with loved ones training with your recruit.

  • lemonelephant

    The Page, 800 and 900 Divisions, has info on the 800 and 900 divisions for those who are unfamiliar with them.

  • nise4295

    Lea...May 22nd
  • Pooter527

    3 weeks down. Counting the days until graduation.
  • Lea (SHIP 11 DIV 242)

    Thank you, nise4295.
    It is reassuring to hear that your son is and sounds great.
    Thats encouraging to hear.
    Thanks for sharing.
    Lea
  • Mom1997

    My son is on ship 11 div 232. Can't wait to see him. I am still awaiting letter or call. I have sent him letter. I am praying all is well. Bless all our boys and girl ❤️
  • Sasysweet

    Ladybug, I got a phone call this morning too!! My son is ship 12 Div 236. We only got 18 minutes... That wasn't nearly long enough. There was so much more I wanted to ask and share with him. Guess it will go in the next letter! Lol I'm so happy to hear that he sounded so good though.. I coukd hear the smile in his voice. Glad yours is doing great!