Boot Camp Moms (and loved ones)

To everyone with a loved one at RTC or soon to be there, we say, "Welcome!"  To those who are sticking around after PIR to help those who are just beginning this awesome journey, we say, "Thank you!"

**BEGINNING OCTOBER 5, 2023, RECRUIT GRADUATIONS WILL BE CONDUCTED EVERY THURSDAY (NO LONGER ON FRIDAY), EXCEPT FOR THE WEEK OF THANKSGIVING, WHEN GRADUATION IS ON WEDNESDAY.

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  • tutorlady

    Thanks Sam's mom.  I am coming down to the hard core planning.  I have RSVP'd to the Meet & Greet and downloaded the Survival Guide PDF there.  I may have more specific questions as the day draws closer.  Appreciate the community on this page so much!

  • hope4answers

    Depends on how hot or cold natured you are. So far as styles of clothing, I saw it all - from the very formal to shorts. I wore white dress pants, a blue 3/4 length sleeve T with red white & blue accessories. We stayed in Waukegan as the Navy Lodge was full so I am unfamiliar with their set up. How old is the brother? If adult, I'd say to allow experience of the campus, let him go to the chapel. Otherwise, it may be more convenient to just stay at the lodge. idk

  • tutorlady

    @hope4answers - it is an older brother - 34 years of age.  I was rather thinking of dressing in the way that you described.  I wasn't too keen on the thought of wearing a skirt while sitting on bleachers.  I have done it in the past, but don't love it.  Getting excited!!!!

  • hope4answers

    Just read somewhere that they may not be having the Chapel option. Not sure if it was for that week only or if discontinued all together. Sarge's Meet & Greet is a plus to get the latest answers and finally see in person some of the moms you have been chatting with in person!

  • Anti M

    It was posted on the RTC page and Navy for Dads the chapel option is being discontinued.  I think Navy Lodge shows the PIR on a big screen, I have heard they make a big deal of it for those who cannot go on base.

    The sailors will be wearing their dress whites.  This is the civilian equivalent of a suit.  I suggest business casual or "church nice".  Wear something which will look good in pictures, and will complement the dress whites.  Yes, wear flats.  While shorts and flipflops may sound great in the humid heat, they really are not dressy enough for a formal ceremony.  Slacks are just fine.  Jeans may be too hot.

    For the girlfriends and young wives, do not dress over the top sexy.  And if you're wearing a skirt, so a "skirt check" sitting down.  There are just some things you do not want to share with all your sailor's shipmates.

    The AC gets chilly, you might need a scarf over your shoulders.

  • lemonelephant

    Anti M, thank you for that.

  • Butterball

    Hi Sam's mom, where can I go to get the Survival Guide PDF to download? Thank you in advance. 

  • lemonelephant

    Here are the current PIR groups:

    PIR: July 14, 2017 TG 36 - 9 Divisions (215-220, 815, 816 & 936) 4 guests

    PIR: July 21, 2017 TG 37 - 8 Divisions (221-226, 817 & 937) 4 guests

    PIR: July 28, 2017 TG 38 - 9 Divisions (227-234 & 938) 4 guests

    PIR: August 4, 2017 TG 39 - 11 Divisions (235-244 & 939) 4 guests

    PIR: August 11, 2017 TG 40 - 8 Divisions (245-250, 818 & 940) 4 guests

    PIR: August 18, 2017 TG 41 - 7 Divisions (251-256 & 941) 4 guests

    PIR: August 25, 2017 TG 42 - 9 Divisions (257-264 & 942) 4 guests

    Click on the date of your recruit’s PIR and join the group to connect with others with loved ones training with your recruit.

  • lemonelephant

    butterball, Sarge's Boot Camp Family Survival Guide can be found at http://www.mynavytaxi.com/goodies.html.

  • Samray5

    Looking for more of ship 03 Div 240 with PIR 8-4.

    https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10213400532713490&set=g...

  • BigDRock98

    @kingsxbaby, I can't find the blood drive photos of our recruits, can you or anyone help?
  • Math teacher

    Would it be a good idea to take our new sailor a graduation gift and if so what? I'm know they have very little storage. Any ideas will be welcome!
  • Sam's mom

    I bought 2 challenge coins of the two ships he was in during boot camp. Pirgifts.com
  • NicksMom

    I made he m a 20-page 8x8 photo book with themed pages. Growing up (baby and childhood), Family, Mom and Dad, Grandparents, Aunts/Uncles/Cousins. Pets, Vacations, Scouts, Sports, Graduation, Swearing In. I figured it is small and will give him memories and a conversation piece.
  • soccermom19

    WOO HOO!!!  Thanks to informed delivery I know the letter will be delivered today.  Return address shows SHIP 14 DIV 261.  Any mom out there with SR having the same SHIP & DIV?  So excited!!!

  • Mammagoose

    How do you sign up for informed delivery?
  • Marchella

    That's awesome !!! Hopefully mine will come today as well!!
  • Marchella

    Yeah love I informed delivery ! Form letter is in the mail today!
  • soccermom19

    Mammagoose  - go to www.usps.com and check if available for your zip code.  if it is, create an account and then sign up for that service.  Easy Peazy!!!

  • lemonelephant

    Here are the current PIR groups:

    PIR: July 14, 2017 TG 36 - 9 Divisions (215-220, 815, 816 & 936) 4 guests

    PIR: July 21, 2017 TG 37 - 8 Divisions (221-226, 817 & 937) 4 guests

    PIR: July 28, 2017 TG 38 - 9 Divisions (227-234 & 938) 4 guests

    PIR: August 4, 2017 TG 39 - 11 Divisions (235-244 & 939) 4 guests

    PIR: August 11, 2017 TG 40 - 8 Divisions (245-250, 818 & 940) 4 guests

    PIR: August 18, 2017 TG 41 - 7 Divisions (251-256 & 941) 4 guests

    PIR: August 25, 2017 TG 42 - 9 Divisions (257-264 & 942) 4 guests

    Click on the date of your recruit’s PIR and join the group to connect with others with loved ones training with your recruit.

  • lemonelephant

    Check out https://www.facebook.com/NavyRecruitTrainingCommand. The PAO posts random photos randomly. There is no guarantee that your recruit will be photoed, but it is fun to look at the photos and get an idea of what is happening at the RTC. They do not have pages that follow a particular division.

    https://www.facebook.com/ASBPGreatLakes has pics of some of the recruits who give blood while at the RTC. Those donations occur about 2 weeks (10 to 16 days depending on the division) before PIR.

  • lemonelephant

    Math teacher, the best gift is your presence, but there are ideas in Gift Ideas for PIR.

  • Math teacher

    Thank you lemon elephant..you are always a big help. I will be there!
  • Soccer Mom

    Suggestions on what to do.  My husband just recently had partial knee replacement (May) on both legs.  He has also had three back surgeries and getting ready to have a fourth.  He is not classified as disabled, but cannot sit without a back.  Any suggestions?

  • Wisconsinmom

    SoccerMom, have your son/daughter request a wheelchair for your husband. My mom can't walk that much either so my son requested one for her. I don't know how it works once you get to the base for one but at least they will have a chair instead of a bleacher. 

  • lemonelephant

    Soccer Mom. he can use a wheelchair to get into the Drill Hall, if needed, and sit in the handicapped seating area. No one will ask to see verification of the need.

  • Soccer Mom

    Thank you everyone.  

  • OtterBaby

    Hope4answers - Thanks for the PIR info. Is there a way for us to know where each Division will stand? Are the Division numbers posted as we stream into the bleachers so we can place ourselves appropriately? Thanks!
  • Mar3n1

    The division numbers are set up so you can sit right where your Graduate will eventually stand.
  • OtterBaby

    Excellent. Thanks for the tips :)
  • Yellowbutterfly

    Anyone here from Ship 02 Div 937? Just curious if any of you have a heads up on phone privileges for today?
  • Yellowbutterfly

    Getting close to the 21st and I was hoping for a little more info, but it's not coming? I'm so nervous. I don't have refundable tickets
  • Erin

    Hello I was wondering what amount of a calling card do the sailors go to boot camp with?
  • New Navy Mom 1

    @ Yellowbutterfly, just received my first call from my son a moment ago.He's on Ship 02 Div 940. Hope you will get yours soon.
  • tina0327

    Erin,

    I sent mine with a 25.00 calling card, probably more than needed.

  • jennifer

    A good resource for me was the recruit magazine that they are given to study. There is a page in there with what to bring. It was helpful.
  • NavyWildcat

    Got my phone call today from my daughter. Ship 02 DIV 940. Felt so good hearing her voice. A little homesick, and tired, but she's doing well otherwise.
  • Babybird98

    Yellowbutterfly. In the letter my sr stated he didn't think they would get to make a phone call.
    He wasn't certain, so I was wishing for a call as well.
  • DragonMom

    Super happy for those that have gotten. Calls and letters, still about 2.5 weeks before I can hope for that. 

  • lemonelephant

    Here are the current PIR groups:

    PIR: July 14, 2017 TG 36 - 9 Divisions (215-220, 815, 816 & 936) 4 guests

    PIR: July 21, 2017 TG 37 - 8 Divisions (221-226, 817 & 937) 4 guests

    PIR: July 28, 2017 TG 38 - 9 Divisions (227-234 & 938) 4 guests

    PIR: August 4, 2017 TG 39 - 11 Divisions (235-244 & 939) 4 guests

    PIR: August 11, 2017 TG 40 - 8 Divisions (245-250, 818 & 940) 4 guests

    PIR: August 18, 2017 TG 41 - 7 Divisions (251-256 & 941) 4 guests

    PIR: August 25, 2017 TG 42 - 9 Divisions (257-264 & 942) 4 guests

    Click on the date of your recruit’s PIR and join the group to connect with others with loved ones training with your recruit.

  • tutorlady

    We are planning to drive to PIR.  Has anyone heard anything - favorable or otherwise - about the FastToll Illinois app to use rather than paying the tolls at each booth?  

  • KiddGreen1978

    Good Afternoon! I'm back! I've just sent my 2nd SR off to Boot Camp! The other one is already at his 1st Duty Station and I'm just waiting for my 2nd SR's PIR date! 

    @lemonelephant - any word on the new PIR dates for someone who just arrived late last week?

    Hi to all of the new moms going thru this for the first time. It's an emotional roller coaster until you hear from your SR the first time after they told you it would be 2-3 weeks before you heard from them again, but be strong and hold on! And start writing your letters!!! My SR loved receiving letters when he was there. My mother, their sibling (the new SR in my life) and I would write letters almost every other day so that he'd always have mail! Not to mention I would send a calling card so that when they could call they would be able to call. 

    Go NAVY!!

  • tutorlady

    @ Cj - Google FastToll Illinois and it should pop right up.  There are links for installing on both iphones and Android phones. I haven't read through everything yet, but the way I THINK it works is that you pay the tolls online up to a week AFTER passing through the toll gates.  I haven't read through all of it or installed it yet.  It seems to work better on the iphone.  (I have both).  

  • lemonelephant

    KiddGreen1978, welcome back. By counting 9 Fridays, PIR will most likely be 09/01/2017. It is possible for some who arrive on the same date to have PIR a week apart. Wait on The Form Letter to know the PIR date for sure. Arrival and What Happens at the RTC will let you know what to expect.

  • Proud_Navy_Granny

    Brand new here and need a question answered, if someone knows. My Grandson will be sworn in Wednesday (tomorrow) morning and he doesn't know what time, nor do we. It's a two hour drive, so we need some kind of an idea. Does anyone know what time they usually begin?

  • Michele75

    @Proud_Navy_Granny - My son was sworn in last week.  The MEPS opened at 8:30 and the oath was at 9:15.  You can try calling the recruiter but I would plan on being there when they open.  They get the folks leaving out of the way so they can handle the folks testing, etc. for the day.

  • tutorlady

    @Proud_Navy_Granny - I don't know where your MEPS location is, but definitely get there as soon as they open.  Our experience  was that those who shipped out were sworn in first.  You will be in my prayers as your family and your recruit start this new path in life!!!!

  • fingerprintchick

    Just wanted to give a shout out to all those people that provideso much amazingly accurate info here!  Our son left early yesterday afternoon for RTC. We got our call around 10:30. It was exactly as expected thanks to you all.  Because I knew what it was going to be, I was actually able to turn on the speaker so that my husband was a part of it, and we were able to tell him we were proud of him and we loved him.  I could hear the smile in the voice as he said Love you guys too.  It was AWESOME.

  • paigec

    Sounds like our SR's are doing some swabbing of the decks this morning. Bad flooding situation at Naval Station and all through Chicagoland. I saw a Facebook post about the Naval Station delayed opening because of it. My husband looked on the radar...huge storm there right now. 

  • tutorlady

    @paigec. I saw the delayed opening on the Great Lakes Facebook page. ( Hope it doesn't delay anything that will affect upcoming PIR's? ). I figured the recruits would get some deck swabbing time today.