Boot Camp Moms (and loved ones)

To everyone with a loved one at RTC or soon to be there, we say, "Welcome!"  To those who are sticking around after PIR to help those who are just beginning this awesome journey, we say, "Thank you!"

**BEGINNING OCTOBER 5, 2023, RECRUIT GRADUATIONS WILL BE CONDUCTED EVERY THURSDAY (NO LONGER ON FRIDAY), EXCEPT FOR THE WEEK OF THANKSGIVING, WHEN GRADUATION IS ON WEDNESDAY.

This is a place to talk, ask questions, and share stories. It is our desire that this Group will provide the information, encouragement, and support you need while your loved one is at RTC in Great Lakes. Enjoy your time here and feel free to Comment and join in the Discussions. Be sure to check out the "Pages" to the right, located under the pictures of the Members, especially OPSEC and PERSEC (Making Changes to Your Profile), (Click "View All" to see all of them.)

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  • Phoenixmom

    MIssy32446 what Fantastic News! these days/weeks will go so Fast, before you know it you will be Hugging and Kissing Your loved One.

  • Jules

    Best day ever! So proud! I got to visit with him for about 15 minutes. Now I'm waiting for him to call after he gets moved over to A school so I can pick him up for liberty!

  • Jules

  • Pizanche

    Congrats Jules!!!  Awesome!!!

  • Chipmunk

    Jules - So happy for you!!  I am curious though, is that a picture of a picture or were they in their dress blues?  I expected they were in their dress whites. I did not have a chance to watch PIR. 

  • Phoenixmom

    Where is the Pic with you and him?  we need a pic of you and Him jules!

  • Chipmunk

    Phoenixmom - She may not want to post that on the BC Mom page since it is public. 

  • Phoenixmom

    Oh ok I did and it was fine. no names showed. but I get it.

  • Jules

    Thanks so much y'all. SO PROUD of him!

    Chipmunk The pic is a window in the building. I wanted to be careful not to post any pics of Sailors or families. 

    Phoenixmom I WANT TO SHOW y'all but...I decided it's best if I dont post a pic of us together. 

  • Chipmunk

    Jules - that is a good idea!! And that makes sense, I was just curious! It is a neat picture!! 

  • Phoenixmom

    I get it jules I Like the photo you posted!

  • mustangmom65

    Congrats to all the new sailors and their families!

    I am looking forward to seeing Son#2 on the 17th!

    I got a call from my daughter this morning. One of the people she put as a reference recently moved, and she needed updated information. They don't have a new address yet, so I was able to give her info for a different person, and that seemed to work. She forgot to get a phone number, so had to call back. The first call she sounded really stressed, but at the end of the second she said, with the determination I've come to expect from her, "I love you and I will see you at graduation."

  • Phoenixmom

    MustangMom65 that was a great reassurance call, Love It!

  • Chipmunk

    Mustangmom65 - I am glad that you had a call from your daughter, even if it was a "business" call.

  • Sandy

    Hi all I just recieved suspicious email on my personal email thru hear would someone please check into this person. Following email read A Maris added a comment to your profile on Navy For Moms

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    Good Day,
    How is everything with you, I picked interest on you after going through your short profile and deemed it necessary to write you immediately. I have something very vital to disclose to you, but I found it difficult to express myself here, since it's a public site.Could you please get back to me on:( officialaishacbd@gmail.com ) for the full details.
    Have a nice day
    Thanks God bless
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  • Northwoodsmom

    bellysmom I remember you posted about your daughter being in the performance division and just seen a pile of pictures of them on Navy Strong on Facebook. Not sure if your on that sit e but wanted you to have the opportunity to see your daughter if you could.

  • Pizanche

    Hi all. I got the same email as Sandy. 

  • K⚓️

    Sandy and Pizanche, that is very sketchy and I would not respond. Stay safe. 

  • Northwoodsmom

    Sandy and Pizanche, way to stay vigilant. This happened to a few ladies last year and the administration took care of it. Good job, if something or someone makes you feel uncomfortable go with your gut. So proud of you Ladies.

  • belovedbyHim

    Trey-- His “Week” can start any day, M-F but the final week will end on Friday with PIR.

    You count them as W(x)- TD(y) So If your SR had to quarantine then Week 1 Training Day 1 would have been July 29. (W1-TD1 = 29July), Week 2 would start on the following Thursday and so on, so Day 1 for each training week will be on Thursday. (He’s in the middle of week 6) 

    Dadyoftwins360 -- I can’t use my cell to answer here. That’s part of why I’m a few days behind! 

    Jules-- Congratulations!!! Enjoy every minute of your time with your sailor!!! When you get home let us know how it went and any changes that would be helpful for the other moms (and dads) awaiting their turn! Oh and be sure to get all the hugs for us too!!

    mustangmom65 -- He will learn to eat fast and then he will be able to eat more! My sailor can eat an entire Meal in under 10 minutes!! I tease him about if he even tasted it on the way down. His reply if if the Navy wanted them to taste their food they would order them to do so! (Gordanos Pizza is near GL and has really good Pizza. It will be crowded--- So you can plan!) I hope you thought to get her address!! Phone calls, even business calls are wonderful!

    MIssy32446-- Time is a fickle thing! It will feel like it’s taking forever for your next phone call but it will also fly by!! You should also be looking for a possible phone call soon unless you already got the “I’m still alive” call.

    Sandy & Pizanche -- I saw that same message posted on a new moms page. It is a scammer. DO NOT respond. Take a screenshot and report it to the Admins!!

  • LilDsmom

    Hi everyone, I received this same message too from A Maris and it made me nervous and I responded but haven’t heard back yet so interesting to hear that a lot of us got the same message , but you know you have to be careful .

  • belovedbyHim

    LilDsmom -- Did you respond through here or did you reply to the email address? 
    It looks like she may be selling CBD products based on the email address.  Either way this is not what we are about here and I'm sure Admins will be removing her shortly.  If she email's you back, Block her and don't engage.

  • ellen0502

    That person is suspended and all message should have been removed when I booted the person out.

    Never respond to those types of messages, but do let us know when they happen. Every effort is made to keep them out, but once and a while one sneaks in.

    Please let me know if you receive any more messages similar to that.

  • belovedbyHim

    ellen-- Thank you.

  • drc2873

    Thank you Ellen! It is gone from my page!

  • Chipmunk

    Good Evening everyone!! I saw a lot of messages come in but did not have a chance to check them. I am sorry that you experienced this issue with a scammer. It is important to remember not to respond if someone gives you their personal email or asks for you to contact them with personal information or seems to be soliciting something. 

    If you ever have issues, there is a place at the bottom of this screen (again why it is easier if you are on a computer, I think), in the grey ribbon at the bottom that says, Report an  Issue,  where you can click that and send a message to the Admins. Please give the admins the "name" of the member and don't delete posts until they can suspend that person from this site. 

  • JenningsMom

    Partyofseven— yes it does. Every letter I feel a piece of the puzzle is put together :-)

  • LilDsmom

    Hi, I put that email in and responded that way but I just said hey, but I'm not doing anything else thanks you guys.

  • partyofseven

    Jules- Whoo hoo great picture.

    Sandy and Pizanche-  Glad you didn't respond. Sometimes that happens. Our admins will boot them out and block them when they need to.

    ellen- Thanks again. 

    mustangmom65- Glad you got a phone call.   :)

    JenningsMom- Yes it does feel like that doesn't it?  :)

  • Pizanche

    Reported to Admin! Thanks

  • Pizanche

    So I woke up super stressed out. I am anxious to hear from my son.  I am done writing letters and now it's truly a waiting game.  We leave on Wednesday and I am really hopng and praying that call comes in before that.  For now - I will clean the car, clean the house, mow the lawn, pack and get ready to go! Anything to get my mind off of this - but it's always there!! I did bookmark this site on my phone and of course I get all the emails.  For you new ones - it does go by pretty fast (I can admit that) but it's a roller coaster - but hang in there you got this and so does your child!.

  • Trey

    Thanks for the 'week' info.. He didn't have to quarantine but did get about 4 days waiting for enough recruits to make a division. And his form letter finally showed up lol.. we would have died by now if we had had to wait for that.

  • partyofseven

    Good Morning Everyone and welcome to our group.

    I am up early this morning after finally getting a great night's sleep. Lol I survived my first week of school so I am happy!!!

    Pizanche- Hey and I swear sometimes it's like nesting. Lol We just play the waiting game until it's time to go. But remember you might not get the call until Thursday night and that is ok.

    I was saying in another post that a friend of mine kept saying should we go because we hadn't heard from him. And finally I had to say look if you don't wanna go then don't. But I am going. I was like you I was packed and ready to go with hotel reservations and plane tickets and a little bag for my son to go thru. Lol

    I know even after boot camp thinking about your loved one will always be in the back of your mind and that's ok. 

    Just keep that phone on you at all times and answer every call. You've got this!!!!

    Trey- Hey you made me smile at that comment. It truly is a waiting game and it is the Navy's way. You will see that as you go thru this journey with your loved one!!!

    But yay for the form letter!!! Whoo Hoo Now you can send those letters off right away and keep writing.   :)

    Jules- I hope you had a wonderful time last night. Enjoy enjoy enjoy!!!

    Please keep all of our troops at the Kabal airport and in Afghanistan in your prayers. 

    God Bless and have a great day!!

  • partyofseven

    Proverbs 3:6

  • Gigi

    Hello all,

    My SR niece called her mom yesterday just another scripted call for a few seconds reminding to BRING YOUR VAX CARD WITH YOU ON PIR and that’s it. So moms have your phone with you all the time even it’s just a few seconds we don’t wanna miss their voice. My sis said she sounded good. 
    Her 4th call btw - im here call, next she was set back (crying overload), 3rd was last Saturday she also called me was given a 30 mins and yesterday. So far so good, praying for her test on Tuesday and she’ll make it on the 24th and all of the SRs

    I am invited to her PIR and so stressed for my niece than during my son’s lol Have a great weekend all 

  • Chipmunk

    Pizanche - I was so nervous waiting for my son's "sailor" call that I had not gotten myself packed up ready to go, so we were an hour late leaving. We took two days to drive and so now I tell everyone be packed the day before. Because once they do call you, you want to talk.

    Gigi - So excited for you to get to attend PIR!!  Thanks for the reminder about the VAX card.

  • Chipmunk

    Trey - So happy for you! 

  • Gigi

    Thank you Chipmunk- really excited for her PIR and I volunteered myself to go LOL.  remember last year I didn’t experience this with my son.

    Oh wait did you all remember that I still went to Chicago not for the PIR (since we all know they don’t have one) but was just trying to catch my son at the airport to see him. Until he called (I’m a sailor call) and mentioned they’re not flying out thru commercial plane — urghh I think I was froze for a minute (this was just one of the many crying moment) I was a mess during my time and the veteran moms here were so patient and helpful with me. My son is my one and only and I think he brought my sanity with him when he left. Lolol 

    So new moms/dads welcome to this group, welcome to this roller coaster ride of emotions. I made it and y’all too!! Semper Gumby :) 

  • belly's mom 25

    Hi Northwoodsmom - Thanks so much for the tip about the performance divisions being on Facebook. I really appreciate it. I will check that out. Any chance to see her! :)

  • partyofseven

    Gigi- Yes you did go to the airport. I remember now. And look how far you've come. And now you get to go to PIR to see your niece. God always has a way doesn't he?

    I am so happy you got to talk to her to. Whoo hoo for phone calls!!! You will totally love it!!

    belly's mom 25- Hey and how are we doing? Hopefully you got to see your daughter.   :)

    Have a great day!!!

  • LilDsmom

    Hi everyone, ok that A Maris sent me an email you guys and I thought I heard the end of it when she got blocked but can I block her from my email? this is really weird, it one of those Dubai asking for money kind letters.

  • Chipmunk

    LilDsmom - depending on your email server, there should be a way for you to block a specific person, or just tell it that it is spam and to go to your spam folder. 

  • LilDsmom

    Thank you Chipmunk I'll try it

  • mustangmom65

    Got a phone call from Son #2!! We almost missed it (how many times have we been warned to keep our phones on us and the ringer up loud?), and ended up only having about 10 minutes, but they were 10 wonderful minutes! He started the call with, "Hi, this is your favorite son!" He sounds so happy and confident, which fills me with such joy. He ended the call with "I will see you on the 17th!" Oh, I can hardly wait!

  • Pizanche

    Yea!!! Mustangmom65!!!!

  • Chipmunk

    mustangmom65 - WooHoo!! So happy for you!!

    LilDsmom  - I hope that works, if not reach out to me and maybe we can figure something else out. 

  • belovedbyHim

    LilDsmom -- I’m so sorry that they now have your email address. Good luck with blocking her.

    mustangmom65 -- YEA!!! Phone calls are Awesome!! AND Yes Keep your phones handy and the ringers on loud!! You don’t want to miss those calls!!!

    Gigi-- I knew someone went but I didn’t remember who it was. I’m so sorry you were not able to see your Sailor but I’m excited for you to be able to see your Niece. It was so hard to watch what you moms were going through back then. It was truly heartbreaking because I know how much PIR meant to me.

    Pizanche -- Breathe!!! Repeat after me... No News is Good News, and again, and again.... I know you are at the second hardest point of Bootcamp but you will get through this!!! In next to no time you’ll be seeing your sailor!!! Your sailor never leaves your mind but working yourself into an anxious frenzy isn’t good either!! 

  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    LilDsmom - she shouldn't have your email address - members on here cannot see each others emails.  If someone sends you a personal message on here then it does show up in the email you used to sign up, but that person does not know the email address.  So since she is suspended now you shouldn't get any more emails from her.  If you do please let me know so we can figure this out.

  • Chipmunk

    Good Morning Everyone!!

    May you have a wonderful day today!

    Reminder: for those of you with a sailor now - Be sure to change their status on your My Page to Enlisted ! Also please come join us in the Beyond BC group. 

  • partyofseven

    Good Morning Everyone and welcome. We are glad that you are here.

    Jules- I can't wait to hear how it went. I know that you are having a wonderful time.

    LiLDsmom- You'll just have to delete her and unscribe if another email gets thru. But as B'sNukeMoM MMN said if you get any more on this page please let her know.

    mustangmom- Whoo Hoo You made me laugh with your phone comment. Now you know why I always say it!! Lol

    Yay for phone calls. So glad you got to talk to him. The 17th will be here before you know it.   :)

    God Bless and have a great Sonday!!!