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Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit - America's Navy and also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

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Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:



**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  

Specific information on this policy change will be provided in the coming days and weeks.

We sincerely apologize for any inconvenience and appreciate your support.


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**UPDATE 8/25/2022 - MASK MANDATE IS LIFTED.  Vaccinations still required.


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Wendy commented on Unknown's group 'HM (Hospital Corps) "A" School in San Antonio'
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Wendy commented on Unknown's group 'HM (Hospital Corps) "A" School in San Antonio'
"Hi everyone!  My daughter just graduated 10/15 and is heading to HM "A" school.  Unfortunately she has not left RTC yet, but is anxiously awaiting!!!  Is this normal?  Still there after 4 days?  Any advise is…"
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Wendy commented on Anna's group 'Moms of Daughters 2'
"Thank you @shawnmom I will definitely keep trying!"
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Wendy commented on Anna's group 'Moms of Daughters 2'
"@oleander ❤️"
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Wendy commented on Anna's group 'Moms of Daughters 2'
"Thank you Anna, very helpful!"
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Wendy commented on Anna's group 'Moms of Daughters 2'
"Thank you everyone!"
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Wendy commented on Anna's group 'Moms of Daughters 2'
"Thank you! I did see the brochure, just wanted to know if there was any personal experience and / or opinions. Anything would be helpful. Thank you again."
Sep 16, 2021
Wendy commented on Anna's group 'Moms of Daughters 2'
"Hi everyone!  Well I finally got a letter and a phone call...AND a second letter today.  I just found out (haven't received a form letter yet) when graduation is.  I called the Lodge and they are already booked.  Any…"
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Easter shore 🦀 Mom of 3, very happily married, extremely proud of all my children. Two boys in high school and my oldest and only daughter started boot camp at the beginning of August (she just graduated HS in Jun). I miss my family being all together!
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At 8:34am on September 18, 2021, Chipmunk said…

Wendy, You are welcome!! Enjoy planning to see your new sailor soon!! She's got this!!!

At 8:19am on September 17, 2021, Chipmunk said…

Hi Wendy, just to make sure you see it, here is K⚓ 's post from BC mom. -  Comment by K⚓️ 1 hour ago

Upcoming PIR loved ones-I stayed at Springhill Suites Waukegan/Gurnee and had a great experience. Ask for military discount.  Location is 5-10 minutes to everything, lots of restaurants,  Gurnee Mall, NEX, RTC/Base. Rooms are clean & staff are  very customer service oriented. Complimentary breakfast has a good selection, eggs, meat, biscuits, gravy, waffles, standard cereal/oatmeal items & drinks. PIR is live streamed in a room next to lobby for those without tickets. Shuttle service to/from PIR is at 6:45am & 7:45am sharp! I used it & April is wonderful. Get on the list, which is at the front desk. Hope this is helpful. 

At 2:37pm on September 5, 2021, Anna said…


So sorry you haven't received any mail from your girl yet!!! I know mail can be really slow out of RTC but 5 weeks is a little long.  If you can still get in contact with her recruiter he/she should be able to access the information and get her ship/division information.  Then search that on the RTC website and you can get the full address.  Another thing you can try is to call RTC. They should have some phone numbers posted on their website.  I did that years ago when I never received my daughter's form letter and they were able to give me all the info I needed.  I hope this helps and I hope you get some letters soon!!!

At 7:53pm on September 2, 2021, Anna said…


I see you recently joined the Moms of Daughters 2 group and I want to welcome you!!  I'm glad you found us. So your daughter is in boot camp now? Come join the conversations on our group page, we are a friendly, caring group of moms who have daughters in all stages of Navy life - from newbies to those whose daughters have been in for several years - from officer to enlisted!!! We support all our sailor girls and each other as well. Not just during the Bootcamp days but the weeks and months following, as they go off to school, first duty station, or first deployment.  Let us support you when you're missing her, lend an ear when you need to vent, and celebrate with you when you want to brag!!  We look forward to getting to know you and your sailor!! Again, Welcome Aboard!!!!

At 7:26pm on August 30, 2021, belovedbyHim said…

 You are welcome.  I was there myself 8 years ago.  This upcoming weekend marks our 8 year PIRversary and yet I still remember that lost feeling.  We haven't lost a mom to boot camp yet, we won't start with you!!

At 12:22pm on August 30, 2021, B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN said…

Here's a timeline that BelovedbyHim put together.  It will give you an idea of what to expect:

Please read my blog to give you an idea of what the first few weeks may look like.. First Things First-- The Quarantine Edition Up and to the Left is a link to all the Navy Lingo! It is titled Navy Speak and you can find it here. We are here to get you through the “Great Silence” of the next 4 weeks (ish) and the 10 weeks of BC (ish). You will come to learn that No News Is GOOD News and everything is Needs of the Navy. You life will be Hurry Up and Wait and it’s ok to make plans but they are subject to change until after they have happened so it’s best to embrace the Motto: Semper Gumby!! (Always Flexible!!)

The Expected timeline will look like this
Day 0 -- Travel, Arrival and "I'm Here" scripted phone call

Week 1&2 Day 1-14 -- ROM (Restriction of Movement/ Quarantine-- Lots of studying and waiting) Unless they are Fully Vaccinated (2 weeks after final shot) in which case they skip straight to Week 3.

Week 3 Day 15-21 Arrive Onboard RTC and begin P-days (P-days- Initial Processing Days) including 2 days of P-hold (Weekend)
Day 21-- Complete P days. (Initial PFT & Run)

Week 4- First week of training Day 22-- Begin training and mail form letter out. Look for it to arrive around 1-2 weeks later

Week 5 -- First inspections and tests (Dental May be this week or next... Not Confirmed)(Form letter/ Personal letters usually arrive this week)

Week 6 -8 -- More training, Drilling (Flags and Marching), Fire Fighting training, Marlinspike (Line handling- How to tie up a Ship to the Pier) and weapons lessons, Confidence chamber( May or may not be happening yet, we don’t know for sure).. Warrior training in here somewhere.

Week 9 & 10 -- Stressful!! They have all their final inspections, PFA, Drills, BS21 and Tests. This is the lead up to the end!!
All of this is assuming no exposure to COVID with additional ROM
Training typically occurs Monday - Friday but we have heard rumors that Saturday’s are now training days as well.
Normal PIR will be 10 Fridays after departure from Home but it can be less by 1 but it can be extended by ???? (lots!!) It just depends on how many times they get caught in the “Ring of Fire” but do not get COVID. IF they get COVID, Once they are recovered they will not be removed from training again even if they are in the “Ring of Fire”. (so there is that small silver lining if kids get sick)
I Hope you’ll come and join us on the Main Boot Camp Moms page: You may have to scroll down a ways to reach the comments but we’d love to get to know you and answer any questions or concerns you may have or just be a support from others who “get it”. 

At 11:57am on August 30, 2021, B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN said…

Since you have a daughter joining you might also like to join this group:

Moms of Daughters 2

At 11:55am on August 30, 2021, B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN said…

Welcome to!   

Head to “Settings” on the main page right away to add a profile image (no last names visible, please) and complete your Profile. Then - and this is important! - read these Community Guidelines and this Operations Security (OPSEC) Checklist, for the safety and privacy of all our Sailors.

Then jump right in!  Browse around the site and check out the groups and the information in their Discussion Forums.

Join this group for boot camp moms, where you'll also find a group for your Pass in Review (graduation) date; and this one for PIR Reference Information.  

Get a head start during boot camp by joining groups for, and learning about, your Sailor's occupational specialty and "A" School; and later your Sailor's duty station and/or Navy ship and homeport. You can also join groups for your own state, region or home town and interests from getting ready for deployment to care package ideas!

Please say Hi when you join a group, and feel free to ask any and all questions - everyone was new once, and there is no "dumb" question.  This site was created by the U.S. Navy just for you, and we look forward to getting to know you and your Sailor.  Welcome to the NAVY family - we're so glad you're here!!

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