I said goodbye to my boyfriend last night. He swore in this morning and is waiting to get on a plane in a few hours. I am pretty upset, which from what I am reading is totally normal now. He is my best friend and this is the best (most positive) relationship I have ever been in. We are both 33 years old and have been living together. I am trying to figure out some sort of a new routine and figuring out what goals I would like to set for myself over the next 8 weeks. I am an artist and a runner and I am currently in my third week of training for a marathon at the end of may. I am really just looking for a voice in this - maybe some advice - whatever makes the most sense.