This site is for mothers of kids in the U.S. Navy and for Moms who have questions about Navy life for their kids.

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FOLLOW THESE STEPS TO GET STARTED:

Choose your Username.  For the privacy and safety of you and/or your sailor, NO LAST NAMES ARE ALLOWED, even if your last name differs from that of your sailor (please make sure your URL address does not include your last name either).  Also, please do not include your email address in your user name. Go to "Settings" above to set your Username.  While there, complete your Profile so you can post and share photos and videos of your Sailor and share stories with other moms!

Make sure to read our Community Guidelines and this Navy Operations Security (OPSEC) checklist - loose lips sink ships!

Join groups!  Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself!  Start making friends that can last a lifetime.

Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit Navy.com - America's Navy and Navy.mil also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:

OPSEC GUIDELINES

Events

**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  

FOLLOW THIS LINK FOR UP TO DATE INFO:

RTC Graduation

**UPDATE 8/25/2022 - MASK MANDATE IS LIFTED.  Vaccinations still required.

**UPDATE 11/10/22 PIR - Vaccinations no longer required.

RESUMING LIVE PIR - 8/13/2021

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

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Navy Speak

Click here to learn common Navy terms and acronyms!  (Hint:  When you can speak an entire sentence using only acronyms and one verb, you're truly a Navy mom.)

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Navy.com Para Familias

Visite esta página para explorar en su idioma las oportunidades de educación y carreras para sus hijos en el Navy. Navy.com

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I'll admit it. I forget. I forget way too easily.  I get caught up with everyday normal things. I hate my job. I'm looking for a new one. I hate my stupid school schedule that forces me to be on campus five days a week, even if tuesdays I only have to be there for an hour. I hate the way my mother nags. About my room. About moving out. About my sailor. 

Wait. I've got something to be thankful for. My sailor. :)

But he hardly ever talks to me. He has skype capabilites at Virginia Beach but we haven't in weeks. And the last time we did he pressured me to take things off...but even though that scares the hell out of me, still I'd kill to see his face.

We just im'd a little on facebook. He hadn't spoken to me since last thursday. This is what he said:

  • i got torn up and spit out and then given a 48 hour shift just to make them smile

  • fml

  • happy damned birthday

It is his birthday today. 22. 

Everything that I had been harboring in me for the last few days just melted. Gone. I couldn't even remember what I was upset/sad/frustrated with. All I wanted to do was tacklehug him. So I said, don't worry, it's all worth it already. <3  

"remember the rocking chairs and the wraparound porch?" "I do." :)

I think he definitely felt better after hearing that. I just feel so clueless about this whole thing. Everything. From what do I send him in the mail to what state is our relationship in?  Man, civilian relationships have it so easy. They don't even know.  All I do know is I just want to love him. Whatever that means. Today, that means meeting him where he's at and trying with super supportive words. It meant wiping away my tears and pretending they don't exist because I miss him a whole damn lot. And no one said it was going to be like this. 

What's next? Waiting. Waiting. Waiting. This summer will forever be known as "the summer I waited." Waiting for him to come around. Waiting for letters. Waiting for his PIR graduation. Waiting for the "safe and sound" in A school. Waiting for job interviews. Waiting to not hate my new job. Waiting for school to start. Waiting for his phonecalls. Waiting for the brownies to be done. Waiting for my next great DIY idea. Waiting for it to cool down so I can exercise outside without dying. And now waiting for his graduation from A school.

But tonight, I will say an extra long prayer for him. 

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