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Hello everyone, i know you hear this question so much but i could use your advice..my bf is leaving for bc soon and although im proud of him i cant help but think about our future..we live together and my mom tells me hes mentioned marriage to her...im in no rush to get married but if it happens ill be completely for it since weve been together for more than 3 years. pretty much my question is would i be wrong for having a talk with him about what happens when he graduates? And is it normal that I want to spend so much time with him since I know what's coming?

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As a girlfriend you really have no standing. When he gets his orders out of BC you can't go with him and you can't live with him. Even more so he has a higher chance of going to Japan or Spain not being married which would make it even harder on you. So yes talk get married if you love each other
No it's totally a good idea to talk about it all before he leaves for basic training. It's a rough road from there I won't lie to you. But it's definitely worth it all if that's what you guys want. Yes it makes it a hell of a lot harder if you don't get married but it's still doable. My boyfriend and I discussed pros and the cons and decided not to. Yes it means I won't get to live with him or even be privy to much information about him and what happens. His family and I are close and on good terms so I know I can get information freely from them when I need it. I am currently a travel nurse and working on my own career so for now it's a decision we are okay with. Yes it is difficult but not impossible. Yes we both realize he could get shipped over seas more readily but I also know he wants to travel and I have connections with family members who work for United and Delta so I know I can travel rather easily on my own and my job makes it easier for me to be more flexible. Don't let the pressure of military life make you rush things but if after discussing it it's what you both want go for it! Also it's absolutely normal to want to spend more time with him! 9 weeks is along time not to see someone you love so soak up all those moments take lots of pictures (you will want them later on those nights you misss him) focus on the now and just enjoy his presence while you can! Those memories willl hold you through the hard times! And if you ever need someone to talk to don't hesitate to reach out and message me!

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