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Frustrating Parents
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Permalink Reply by BunkerQB on
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Have your parents explain why they are against your joining?
You could ask them to join this site and talk to some of of the parents.They are welcome to join in this discussion.
Being a member of the US Navy (or any branch, for that matter) is not always easy. Besides the physical aspect, the separation from loved ones is probably the single most difficult aspect of being a part of the military.
What would joining the Navy do for your path? Will you go back to being a firefighter?
If you have graduated from college, please consider the Officer Candidate School route.
With your physical abilities, are you thinking of applying to be a SEAL? If so, I am sure that would explain your parents' reluctance to support your decision. All parents have bouts of worry regarding their sons/daughters. It's almost part of the DNA. It's especially true in regards to how a mother would feel about her son/daughter going to war.
On recruiters, there are good ones and there are not so good ones. Fine one you feel comfortable with.
Let us know how we can help.
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Permalink Reply by MidwestMom on
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I know you can do it too! And, I also know that your parents only want the best for you and if they have no experience with the military, or only have heard negative experiences, they will have real concerns. My suggestion is for you to fully research your options. Find the rate or rates that you have a passion for. Find out the schooling required and whether they are undermanned (so you have a chance of signing for them). Then, talk to your parents like the adult you want them to see. It is your passion that will sway them. Do the work, research the rates and talk with your recruiter. Your recruiter is also trained at dealing with parents--my son's sent me to this site, lol! This site will also answer many of their concerns, but first they have to see the drive and desire in your eyes and voice. Until they see that, they'll continue to think they can keep you out by being difficult. In the end...you are an adult. But, be respectful! :) Good luck. I didn't kill my son, they probably won't kill you.
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Permalink Reply by ChrisAmo on
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My son worked 2 summers as a US Forest Service firefighter. He also is a very strong swimmer so he decided to become an Aviation Rescue Swimmer. He flies in helicopters and deploys aboard an aircraft carrier. He's been in the Navy for 3 years and has traveled to 5 different countries already. He has a college degree and could have gone in as an officer but rescue swimming is only open to enlisted personnel so that's the route he took. He did consider trying out for SEAL but so few make it he thought he'd have a better chance at rescue swimming (even though that's almost as hard as SEAL training).
How old are you? You can't be under age if you're a firefighter. If you're over 18 then you need to take charge of your life and do what you want to do. Your parents are obviously concerned about your safety but go to a recruiter and get some info. Take the ASVAB test and see what you're suited for. Sometimes we parents are too protective and it's hard to let go.
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