Can I just rant for a minute?

[NavyWifeTrivette]

Ok, so normally I am not the type to rant, but I figured y'all would understand, and it could also be a heads up for something for y'all to watch out for. So my husband got a friend request on facebook the other day from some girl he didn't know, so he asked me if I knew her. I didn't know her either, but I told him to add her so we could see the info just in case we just didn't recognize the name, then he could always delete her after if we didn't know her. Well right after he accepted the friend request, she sent him a message. He asked if he knew her and she said no, she just likes to add military members so she can thank them and show her support. Ok thats fine, no big deal. Then she starts making small talk, still no big deal, and my husband is showing me all of it so I don't care. Then she says she saw his pics and she thinks he is really cute. He said, ok but I am married. She still keeps talking about how cute he is and even calling him hun. He said he had to go, but before he logged off she asked him to vote for her bikini picture in some modeling competition and in return she would send him some pictures of her. Seriously?!? Luckily I have an amazing husband who I can trust and he told me/showed me all of it. I just could not believe some chick would do that after he said he was married. I was in shock. I can't stand all these chicks who are just after a man in uniform and don't care if they are married or not. I am sorry but if you want to support our troops, being a slut and moving in on a married man is not the way to do it! Sorry for the rant, but that just bugged me!

[abuon18]

I wish I could say that was unbelievable but unfortunately it's not. Luckily you seem to have a great man who you can trust.

[Anti M]

I would have had hubby go vote fo someone else, then tell her he found a girl his wife thought was better looking.  

 

It is the internet, she could be anybody... some fat old guy with a twisted sense of humor.  

[cheylovesasailor]

I wish it was different too, they should respect that your husband's married. I have problems with other girls even after they know were married as mention above, and its just annoying I'm glad someone said something about it so we could all vent together!

[meagan5220]

ohhh girls... thats all I have to say abt them. lol they are so silly. Maybe tell them how much he really makes and they will leave lol jk (you would be surprised though how many girls I have heard say they want to marry into the military bc they make SUCH AMAZING MONEY!) lol Im like uhhhh tell me that when we are barely paying the bills this month lol ;) I like anti M's idea lol :) but honestly try not to let it get to ya too much just delete her and move on. There is always some trifling girl willing to take your man if she had half the chance

[NavyWifeTrivette]

yeah im not letting it get to me at all, I was just kinda in shock. Because my husband told me about it and even showed me the conversation, I didn't ming because I knew I could trust him. He hasn't talked to her at all since then, he put an end to it, so it is all over with. I just couldn't believe how someone could be like that. I mean, me as a woman, I could never live with myself if I ever did that to someone else, I could have no respect for myself at that point. But there really are girls out there who do that and it is just sick. I kinda got a laugh out of it though because of how pathetic she seemed, and my husband was even laughing at her over it. These girls think they are such hot shit and they will win a guy over, but in reality, most guys (married or single) find it a turn off when the girls are that slutty and all.

[meagan5220]

amen!! I so agree with ya!!! I just dont get girls and I could never do something like that. But there are girls that can and will. Glad it all worked out for you though!