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April 30, 2012...my son leaves for Great Lakes
On January 9th, my son went to MEPS and texted me that he swore in! He is scheduled to leave to the Great Lakes on April 30, 2012. As my only child, Daniel has made me one proud mom....though I hate to admit I am on an emotional roller coaster! I can't think of anything....is this normal???? I know it's going to be a great adventure for him and for me as well.
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Welcome TenaciousDee! Oh yes that is VERY normal! Expect it to get worse actually! When April rolls around it will go by all too fast. The day he leaves from MEPS [ if it's near by you- go!] will only be the start of a whole new set of emotions. Pride, fear, love, and sadness. Your "little boy" will be leaving and become a "man" by the time he graduates. The same boy you know and love but a "better" one when you see him walk through the doors at PIR [ pass and review]. He will stand taller and be proud at what he has accomplished. He will look so handsome wearing his dress whites. The moms on NM are here for you. You will learn to let your emotions out on here and not to your son when you write to him. He needs you to be strong and encouraging. Let him know at every opportunity that you are proud of him and will be fine. It's time for your baby bird to soar!
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Thanks Lori, I needed to hear that. I realize it's going to get worse as the date approaches, I keep my chin up and a smile on my face. Daniel and I have great communication and I know it will continue when he's gone on this great adventure. I just wish sometimes that I could be there or at least in the background peaking in the window (Yes, I did this when he went to his first junior high dance!). I am so glad this site is here. I've read and re-read so much already. I feel that most people that know about Daniel joining the service seem hesitant...it's like they don't know what to say...and I have to explain this is a good thing. I come from a military family and this was just a given for him. I've explained to many already that I've raised him to be who he is today and he will learn so much and experience so much more in the next four years that I can't give him. Again thank you for listening...it's like a big hug and I needed it!
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TenaciousDee, I know you are there supporting him and that is the reason that he feels comfortable enough to do this. You have raised a young man that you can be so proud of. And he wants to make you prouder! And believe me if there was a way I could have packed myself in my sons bag I would have!!!! So I can understand the feelings of "peeking in the window!" That is so funny you did that! Did he know at the time?
One thing you might expect [ I didn't so it hit me hard] is when he is in bc and you've heard nothing from him for 3 weeks [ this is how long it will be] and someone says to you [ this from my mother] "oh it's just like they're college" - well I blew up at that and started crying and saying "it's NOTHING like that." [ first my son never went to college and second you can CALL them when they are]. I did not expect the strong reaction I had. I guess it the the anxiety and he is my "baby." This may not happen at all to you but if it does- be prepared.
Have your son take his cell with him and then the last call he can do will be on that and not waiting in line. He will only be able to say " I'm here, I'm fine, love you" and then the phone will go in the infamous "kid in a box" which I'm sure you've read about. Another story for another day! As it gets closer you will read suggestions and tips. All helpful from moms who have "been there, done that."
Dee- you've done a wonderful job of raising your son. You can be proud of yourself - and him. Any time you want to talk or ask questions let me know. I will send you a virtual hug! Lori
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I did peak in the window during his first dance and no he didn't know until I told him years later! I'm glad to know that what I am feeling is normal. I think this site has been very helpful and I'm sure I'll be on it more as each day goes by. I have been in a funk for the last few weeks and not wanting to do anything but spend as much time around him as I can...I had one person tell me to snap out of it and I had to bite my tongue as how could she possibly know how I feel?? I think right now I just need to keep informed of what's going to happen and read what other mothers have gone through. This time next year hopefully I can give advice to a mother that's going through what I feel right now. Thanks for listening Lori!
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